Having a conversation and keeping it going can be a daunting task. I found early on that it played a large part in my Approach Anxiety. It's like I'd nail it with this sweet observational opener, she'd give me a positive response, turn her body language towards and look at me with those big puppy dog eyes that beg "Woo me." And I'm just like Ummmm... Now what?

As I continued talking to women I slowly started to learn to act on impulses, some of them sucked but these are ones are the good ones that have helped take me from the awkward class clown to a happy go lucky natural conversationalist.

1) Rule one, You can't control how other people react to and think about you. Stop trying to, stop even thinking about it, you have no control over it so it is an excercise in futility. You can only control how you react and feel about things. Always always always remember this. Slowly internalize it. It's a large part of the alpha frame.

I'd like to expand on this since there seems to be some confusion, however I've all ready a very wordy text going on here. Suffice it then to say, that if you believe you've ever manipulated a woman into sleeping with you, you're wrong. Women sleep with you because they wanted to. This can be for one hundred reasons, but this frame of mind is an almost never fail. I hate to be an arrogant son of a bitch, but I drive girls wild.

2) Hand gestures and facial expressions are study proven to make you a more memorable speaker.

3) Here is how to talk to girls. (Works with other people too.) If she:

A) Makes a statement that you:

Agree with; validate her opinion and give her your thoughts.

Disagree with; Tease her about it and give her your thoughts. If you can't think of anything clever keep it simple. An "are you kidding me" will pass any day of the week. A real life example;

"My roommate is a hardcore patriot, he got me in on it now too. Fuck yeah America!!"

"Are you serious Girl? My patriotism is at an all time low right now. It's all reddit's fault though."

B) Asks you a question, answer it with your first gut response. Never doubt your first gut response. Conversations happen in real time and it's how two people get to know each other. Show her your honest first reaction thoughts and you'll seem like "You're just not like the other guys."

C) If she shares something about herself, inquire into it. Another real life example (In her car) "I hate going down hills, I'm so scared on all the turns." "Nooice! How do you handle roller coasters?" This rule should always be followed UNLESS

D) She shares something about herself you can relate to, share how you two relate. Usually best done in form of a story.

C) If ANYTHING she says is relevant to an awesome story you have, jump at the opportunity. Don't worry about statistics, she doesn't really care if it happened four months ago or 3. Your friends don't have names, they are all "My buddy." Mate. Friend. Whatever works for you. I do not accept "My boy." Be sure you're into the story, that's what makes it exciting.

D) If you don't have any awesome stories, spin a yarn. If you aren't down to straight up lie, (I'm generally not), make up a rediculous story about you and her. How you're going to be partners in crime on the high seas or some shit.

E) ALWAYS CHANGE THE SUBJECT AS OFTEN AS IS NATURAL. I'm not talking about throwing out or biting onto every random subject as it comes up. Explore a line thought of thought for a while, but let the conversation run where it naturally builds up to. This has many purposes, for one it will never allow the conservation to run dry. If you feel the conservation running out it's often too late, the best remedy is kino like tickling or poking or an observation. If the only observations around you suck, act hella excited about them anyway. This will also give the impression that you two have talked SO much about EVERYTHING. The example of me in her car is a perfect example of this as well, we're tlaking about her fear in cars and then suddenly two seconds later we're talking about theme parks and how she can handle kiddy rides. Notice I didn't switch straight from "how do you handle roller coasters?" to "I can never take you go-carting huh?" Follow the new line of thought for a while, explore the subject of theme parks and then move on when it becomes natural or more interesting. When you can be excited or genuinely curious about a subject you're conversation will translate across well.

Notice also that I didn't stay on the subject of roller coasters, there is always a broader subject that you're working under (In this case theme parks) that goes without mention (We talked about it for like five minutes but never once used the words "Theme Park" or anything related.) Since both of your minds are all ready naturally on theme parks, throwing out random things like "You'd do well at Disney Land prolly." don't seem out of crazy left field. It's all related, the conversation naturally builds to there. Then perhaps now, you're talking about disney land the over head theme becomes "Disney Land" and anything related. Possible segways to Walt Disney's frozen head which is a segway to futurama, can happen in thirty seconds but seems completely natural. Another great Disney related segway is to Disney Movies. Bitches love mother fucking Disney Movies. Almost guaranteed nostalgia, which means she'll want to talk about it and now loves you for bringing it up. Hopefully this helps clear up any confusion on what I mean by this, I apologize for not having a more zen wording of these concepts.

This is how you change the subject (notice the recurring theme of "your attention." All good conversation is based on where your attention to the subjects naturally wanders. Let it happen.)

1) Something she said that sparks your interest in another subject. It happens naturally in your brain, don't be afraid to ask her about Roller coasters even if it seems out of left field.

2) Make an observation that caught your attention. "Why'd you do that?" "Did you see that?" "That cat is fucking that baby in the MOUTH!!"

3) She will change the subject as her attention takes HER there. Let it happen, you can tell the story you were about to blow her mind with some other time. A change in the conservation is always welcome and keeps things impulsive and fun. Don't stifle her because you're afraid you're not being "Alpha."

Remember rule one? As long as your in total control of your insides and have a fuck what they're feeling on the insides attitude (Because remember, you can't control that anyway) you are being alpha as fuck. It has nothing to do with semantics like who's driving who, who lead the conservation in that quick second. Simply remember you don't have to let it go where it's no fun for you. You aren't obligated to do anything that doesn't click with the only thing that you are in control of; how you feel about things and react to them.

A) **WHEN ALL ELSE FAILS YOU, TEASE HER. Mind you this isn't a neg, it's all in the spirit of fun.

A thanks to PUAFundamentals for bringing up this article which should be read by anybody interested in a very strong post on the same topic.

tldr; read the first sentence of each bullet and the rest of the paragraph.

EDIT1: Changed

ALWAYS CHANGE THE SUBJECT AS OFTEN AS IS POSSIBLE AND ABOVE ALL ELSE IS NATURAL

to

AS OFTEN AS IS NATURAL

and expanded to avoid miscommunication. Nowhere in this great wall of text am I talking about thirty seconds or five minutes of conversation. You spend hours with girls, you need to be able to hold an interesting for that length of time.

EDIT2: Added a bit on 1, perhaps this belongs in it's own thread with a large expansion on why I've chosen this frame of all frames. To me it is the heart of seduction and I have experience great success with it, I believe it is the truth behind being Alpha. These are however only MY rules of conservation, feel free to pick and choose what you can apply for your own game. I have experienced great success with all of this, talking is natural for me, this is everything I do when I'm on top of my game with the bits that don't work every time weeded out.

Edit3: A thanks to PUAFundamentals for bringing up this article which should be read by anybody interested in a very strong post on the same topic.]