Seddit, what are your personal moral rules?

cee9dub · 2010-08-04T08:25:57+00:00

"Leave her better than you found her" is a philosophy I adopted, regardless of the duration or quality of the relationship.

As far as picking up new girls: Marriages shouldn't be dicked around with -- I respect marriages, this is the belief I was raised with.

boyfriend-girlfriend relationships are fair game -- if the girl is not a typical slut, has been with the guy for a while, doesn't make it apparent that she already has a boyfriend, and/or doesn't reject your advances, she is probably looking to get into a better relationship (or is hungry for the thrills of another man).

Besides, she's an independent person and can decide for herself whether or not she wants you instead of/in addition to her boyfriend. Go for it!

677faggers · 2010-08-04T08:37:52+00:00

I won't fuck anything that weighs more than me.

Other than that... not much. If something doesn't feel right I usually trust my gut instinct and break it off smooth.

takatori · 2010-08-04T14:45:35+00:00

Don't let my wife find out.
See rule 1.

mturnernz · 2010-08-04T03:56:43+00:00

That's a problem for future mturnernz to worry about. Remember, just because there is a goalie, doesn't mean you can't score a goal.

westsan · 2010-08-04T05:52:28+00:00

I don't F with my dawgs girl (unless its a swap)
I don't hit on her if I know "the other guy"
Don't cum inside them unless there is an "understanding"
Cut it off if it is no longer fun

Box-Monkey · 2010-08-04T07:17:17+00:00

There's something about us being manipulative sociopaths? Sweet. I assume this has to do with what we won't do with regards to pickup.

I will *not*:

-lie or make excuses because I have nothing to be embarrassed about

-go for a girl who's got a boyfriend, fiance, or husband if I have previous knowledge, though sometimes it's tempting.

-stay if I think I'm doing damage to them in some way, or they're doing it to me

-If I F-close, I leave the option open for them to contact me and I'm fine with it, but I'm not going to go out of my way to contact them.

-initiate the relationship talk

-Will answer questions that I feel she needs to know with full honesty (i.e. if she asks if we're going to be going somewhere, relationship-wise, before sex and I don't think it is, I'll tell her no. Obv try to frame it in a way where "fun" is still perfectly acceptable)

-I won't take a girls virginity for a one night stand.

-Have sex with a random, condomless

-Have sex without a condom and cum inside her, unless there's an understanding

That's all for now. I'll think about this a bit more.

Edit: formatting

thefugue · 2010-08-04T05:01:34+00:00

Nothing I can't live with.

IANAPUA_Yet · 2010-08-04T05:01:53+00:00

Is it ok to game a girl with a boyfriend? Fiancé? Husband?

This one isn't necessarily a matter of principle, but I won't go there because I don't want that kind of drama in my life. I am absolutely not getting getting laid often, but last year I had 8 in my room, literally all over me, and I literally wrestled her off of me because she was in some sort of fucked up relationship and I wasn't desperate enough to stick my dick in crazy that night. Almost, but I stayed strong. :-)

Would you lie if it's about something completely inconsequential to her?

White lies? Sure. I tell my mom the occasional white lie, so yeah, random girls are going to get some of them too.

If you F close, do you have rules about calling her the next day?

No, but I'm not going to lead her on beforehand, either. If I tell her I intend to extend the relationship, it's because I intend to extend the relationship. If I'm only looking for NSA sex and she's not comfortable with that, I'll eject. It's not worth hurting people.

DogIsAJD · 2010-08-04T15:04:59+00:00

I won't lie to people.

It's hugely important that people I seduce are not just conquests for me, not just a means to get laid, but people whose feelings I don't want to hurt.

I try to give her at least as much fun as I'm having.

I will not deceive a person. I'll answer questions honestly if I'm asked, and if it's clear to me a person has different expectations (about a relationship with me, etc) I'll tell them before sleeping with them. This has cost me a few lays, but not as many as I had feared.

I'll always use a rubber unless there has been clear communication otherwise.

I usually assume people can make their own decisions. If a girl wants to cheat on her boyfriend with me, its her decision and not my concern. If she's a real asshole about it, it'll turn me off though.

Ledatru · 2010-08-04T15:20:30+00:00

Id never purposely lead a girl on. If she wants a relationship and i dont, ill make that very clear. I think at that point if you deceive her for sex, you are a jerk. Its supposed to be fun for both people

takatori · 2010-08-04T14:32:00+00:00

I will not lie to get laid.

alexryane · 2010-08-04T15:47:45+00:00

Honesty: I've lost track of the number of times I've lied, completely and unabashedly to someone's face, so that's out. I'm not sure what the limits of my dishonesty are, but I think I have fairly good intentions.
Cheating: is something I never used to do, but now I seem to forget I'm even doing it. If I don't consider it cheating is it even cheating? Actually I do follow the do-unto-others ethic, so I probably wouldn't cheat on someone if I didn't want them to cheat on me.
Leading someone on: I'm allot more careful about this now. I'll break the two-days-a-week rule but at least I've stopped saying yes to everything. I won't chase someone im not really interested in. I will keep a relationship going if its good sex and I have nothing else going on.
Abuse: I've never really hit anyone, I don't like the idea.
Drugs: I'll try most things once. I draw a line at Crack, Heroin and Meth but that's about it. I don't have a problem with people who do/have tried any drug as long as they're decent people and their habit still allows them to be decent people I don't care. I even accept smokers!
Blasphemy: I've lied to girls about religious beliefs in order to make it easier for them to sleep with me. I've also told a girl I would marry her although I half intended to. I wouldn't do that again, but I'll tell a girl I'm Christian/Muslim/Jewish/whatever when its a deal-breaker.
Adultery: not been in a position to try this yet!
Abortion: I'm totally for abortion within the first 16 weeks of pregnancy because it is universally agreed in religion and medicine that consciousness and life doesn't start before then. I would always want a girl to abort and I would probably do anything in my power to avoid having to pay for / look after a child.
Unprotected Sex: I've done this with 3 different girls and two were long term relationships in which we both got tested (although afterwards!). The other was a stupid idea. I wouldn't do this without us both getting tested.
Married/Taken Girls: I would only do this if the relationship is obviously broken and there's no way he will find out. I don't want to fuck up anything beautiful. I've definitely made a conscious decision never to do this with anyone I know but how well that would hold up in the heat of the moment hasn't been tested!
Younger Girls: If she's legal, hot and up for it then whats the problem? The legal age here is 16, I don't really find many 16 year-olds attractive but it could happen.
Drunk Girls: Obviously if you 'trick' a drunk person into doing something that is wrong. However if they seem willing it's not really taking advantage. Alcohol removes your inhibitions and amplifies natural tendencies. It doesn't make you do anything you don't want to.

Title	Seddit, what are your personal moral rules?
Author	mynewname
Upvotes	6
Comments	30
Date	August 4, 2010 3:48 AM UTC (16 years ago)
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