Small dick

Robotra · 2012-03-27T13:23:51+00:00

Everyone has a small dick.

mrlogjam · 2012-03-27T13:24:43+00:00

The problem comes down to confidence. You're afraid a girl is going to judge you when she grabs your stuff. We all have our challenges with confidence, and it's probably the single most important thing to game, life and the universe.

The single biggest thing that helped me (and a lot of guys on here) with my confidence in general was a regular gym schedule. I go three times a week. I haven't been able to go the past week due to a bad cold ("From making out with too many chicks" - to quote my roommate) and it's amazing how much my game and general confidence has dropped in that week.

So my best advice for you is to hit the gym, get on a good lifting program and keep up with it. Even if you don't get jacked it will do wonders for your confidence.

You're still going to have anxiety about your junk until a chick goes to town on you without a second though. Get her turned on like crazy and she isn't going to give a flying fuck about your size.

TL;DR: You're the only one that cares about how big you are.

sillymallard · 2012-03-27T15:03:34+00:00

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PUAprotege · 2012-03-27T13:25:21+00:00

A. Go for petite girls. It will make you look bigger in their eyes.
B. Shave all or most of your pubic hair. It will make you look bigger in your eyes.
C. Learn how blow a girls mind when you go down on her. She'll likely not care/notice after you've rocked her world with your tongue.

Other than surgery, this is all I can think of to do. Maybe google it for more solutions?

fruchle · 2012-03-27T15:56:14+00:00

You're an idiot. Here is why:

1: more girls will be able to lick your balls when they go all the way down on you. This is usually considered "pleasurable".

2: more women will be open to experimenting with anal sex with you. This is usually considered "winning".

(okay, I joke a little here, but I hope my point stands.)

SeekingAlpha · 2012-03-27T15:58:46+00:00

What, do you not have a mouth?

2012-03-27T17:47:02+00:00

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EggLampBasket · 2012-03-27T13:43:36+00:00

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masterbaterer · 2012-03-27T16:10:37+00:00

this is in your head and has nothing to do with your appendage.

mackstarmagic · 2012-03-27T17:26:27+00:00

Good sex isn't all about physical attributes or confidence. Confidence will get you in the situation to get laid. After that it is mostly experience and personal atraction. If I was in your shoes I would focus less on hooking up with some strange, and instead try to date the artsy girl with the lip ring in your physcology class. Dating someone will give you confidence and will be an easier way for you to gain experience as well. If a girl truely likes YOU, she wont care be caring about all the penises she is missing out on.

psyocal · 2012-03-27T17:27:33+00:00

I don't know if you're a troll but I'll answer your question assuming you're not. In a survey I think there was a 60/40 split between women who didn't care about dick size as opposed to women who did.

As for the vagina, I think it's around 3-4 inches until all of the nerve endings are gone. This means that most women only need 3-4 inches to be satisfied. That being said there are large vaginas and small vaginas. The large vaginas probably want the large dicks while the small ones prefer the small (the large cocks can be unpleasant).

How do you know you will be judged when you haven't even been with a woman?

Forget surgery, forget 95% of the advice you've seen here. Work on your confidence. You're probably thinking: "That's the stupidest and most generic advice" < - - - that's because you DON'T have confidence. Once you get REAL confidence you'll think back and realize that's all it took.

fromfocomofo · 2012-03-27T18:58:14+00:00

Learn to eat pussy like a fucking boss.

ferodactyl · 2012-03-27T20:11:56+00:00

I know a dude who supposedly used that to get girls... he would even exaggerate it and slip "by the way I have a 3mm dick" into conversations. He claimed that girls would be curious and attracted to his straight forwardness. He was also a terrible human being though... he used to 'baaa' at girls when they were climaxing and pull out and just fucking leave so sex would be ruined for the rest of their lives. But yeah its all about inner game man, just roll with it... be proud of your short dick... exaggerate it even but most importantly, be confident.

LuperFlipino · 2012-03-27T21:55:49+00:00

You better be good with your tongue and fingers.

quittteerr · 2012-03-28T00:20:34+00:00

I'm well hung, haven't been been with a girl, and I'm 24...

ARealSocialIdiot · 2012-03-27T19:43:07+00:00

Okay, here's the thing.

4.7 inches? You are smack dab right in the middle of average with that. There is nothing at all wrong with average—most women prefer average. It's comfortable.

I do not think that there is a woman out there who would get into bed with you and have a problem with your size. Most of them will have never been with a larger guy and wouldn't know the difference anyway: average-sized guys make up 98% of the population.

slackwaresupport · 2012-03-27T13:13:06+00:00

every guy pretty much goes through it. there is always someone bigger.. even with a 7 inch dick.. you worry about someone with 9 inches.. you can have surgery..

SimpleRy · 2012-03-27T15:46:42+00:00

The penis is only one of many ways to make a woman cum. Go to r/sex and check out the sidebar. You will learn how to make a girl cum regardless of penis size.

Besides, 5 inches isn't that bad. Especially if it's average or more thickness.

Trust me dude, it really will be good for her.

Level_75_Zapdos · 2012-03-28T01:12:56+00:00

If you are really THAT concerned, there are ways to increase length/girth/erection quality. Look up "jelqing" and do some research on PE forums. However, before you do anything, DO YOUR RESEARCH. Just like lifting weights incorrectly can result in injury, so can PE techniques when used improperly.

Just be thankful you are not too big, since 99.9% of girls do not enjoy overly large penises (the women you see in porn are actors, and you will notice that the well-endowed male performers are not able to go balls deep without discomfort to the woman). There is a reason why the average penis size is what it is: because it is more pleasurable to both the man and woman, and it actually fits into the vagina comfortably. Most of the nerves are concentrated near the entrance of the vagina anyway.

heckz · 2012-03-28T23:34:20+00:00

Girls with big boobs are fun, but girls with smaller boobs are fun too aren't they?

heckz · 2012-03-28T23:36:51+00:00

If your doing things right by the time the pants cone off none of that will matter.

2012-03-27T15:19:04+00:00

Similar problem here, but I despise how women grab my dick and talk about how "big" it is. Its 5" shut up hoe

xpictoc114 · 2012-03-27T13:39:47+00:00

You could look into jelqing if you're really insecure about it. Haven't done it myself though. Google pegym and thundersplace.

DiddyDD · 2012-03-27T14:34:19+00:00

just get a penis pump dude.

Title	Small dick
Author	smallguy5
Upvotes	9
Comments	66
Date	March 27, 2012 1:10 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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Comments

1: more girls will be able to lick your balls when they go all the way down on you. This is usually considered "pleasurable".

2: more women will be open to experimenting with anal sex with you. This is usually considered "winning".