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[–]Archangel_White_Rose 285 points286 points287 points 7 years ago (25 children) | Copy Link
Think less. Wait less. Make eye contact. Dont you fucking dare look away first.
[–]crimsonsky5 40 points41 points42 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This guy knows the drill
[–]brutusdidnothinwrong 26 points27 points28 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I might add, smile if you feel like it. An honest neutral might resonate better than a plastic smile
[–]intercitty 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Too much smile to my direction is creepy and Im a guy
[–]dailymanup 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
Amazing points. Body language is critical to attracting the hottest girls. Check out these videos for how to incorporate body language with your other pick up skills and start crushing it with girls.
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[–]Owamelleh 16 points17 points18 points 7 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
What if it gets super awkward and no one looks away?
[–]SundaySermon 51 points52 points53 points 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Go for the kiss.
[–]zackline 7 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Instructions unclear kissed my mate
[–]TheHalfMonty 39 points40 points41 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
And now they're married. Another success, boys.
[–]zackline12 points 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I learned from the best
[–]SmallHouseDog 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
r/suddenlygay
[–]brutusdidnothinwrong 6 points7 points8 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
"no homo"
[–]Archangel_White_Rose 5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Find a way to make it more awkward.
"Why are you looking at me like that? Do you want to harvest my organs for the black market?"
[–]Archangel_White_Rose 8 points9 points10 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thats how you know she's the one.
[–]pollutics 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Get a judge cos that’s a staring game
[–]Archangel_White_Rose 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wink at her like you're really smooth.
[–]Phoenx2480 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I had a problem with not thinking when I speak. Then I had a problem with thinking too much of what I speak. So thinking less it better
[–]Trolleus 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Good advice but "don't look away first" is complete bullshit. You don't want to be the creep who holds eye contact way too long.
[–]Archangel_White_Rose -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Try it.
[–]Trolleus 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I did. It makes you seem like a creep who holds eye contact way too long. Maybe this is different in other cultures, I'm German
[+]Archangel_White_Rose -6 points-5 points-4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Maybe you are a creep. Or autistic.
[–]Aeon199 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What magically is supposed to happen, if I "don't look away first"?
[–]Archangel_White_Rose 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You dont look like an insecure little beta cuck.
[–]GroovyDuckc 62 points63 points64 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You should think less bro. If you think too much you will get more anxious and self conscious.
[–]ShunuJ[S] 16 points17 points18 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I know, and I don't mean think a lot but I do believe talking slightly slower and letting a bit of gravity to your thoughts just makes you a more enjoyable conversationalist, plus lets you guide the conversation wherever you want as another commenter here said. And I don't mean really slow, but like just not talking so fast that the girl has to process everything you say, you see what i mean?
[–]alik331 point 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Depends on what topics. If you say think less, you mist know in what directions you have to think less. If you think less in some situatiobs, you will represent yourself as a dumb anti social guy.
[–]bugxter 18 points19 points20 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Pro tip: Don't try to do ALL of these at once (if you're just not used to it), work on one of these at a time, otherwise you'll be checking your behavior every 5 minutes and your awkwardness will show.
[–]Sketchy19 35 points36 points37 points 7 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Dude this is actually almost exactly what I'm working on... I used to be shy andv talk very little, so i got a job bar tending and learned to respond quickly to almost anything, the problem now is that i auto respond before i think about it, so only after I've already said something do i think of something witty that i should of said instead, or at least to push the convo in a direction that i wanted. I've been consciously pausing after i get a response to give my mind a sec to process but the habit of responding instantly is proving hard to break.
[–]ShunuJ[S] 14 points15 points16 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Same! A while ago I was super shy and had a ton of anxiety but recently I've just been spewing everything out of my mouth without even thinking which has mostly worked, but on slight reflection I would realize how much better it could've been!
[–]followdamntrainCJ 7 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
I have a dark sense of humor so I guess I'm afraid I'll offend someone.
But I spew out shit all the time to ppl I know.
[–]Sketchy19 5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Thais a quality problem lol. Most girls i know like random humor like that, beats being boring lol, and if they get offended at least they're getting emotionally invested right
[–]Galahead 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hahah thats exactly how I've been; it feels good to be in a place where I'm (we're) comfortable talking and don't have much anxiety over it. Just need to tone it back a bit and get back some of qualities we used to have with listening more and taking things slower
[–]UnsungArchitect 8 points9 points10 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't forget LISTEN MORE (unless that's what you meant by empathize). I imagine you have this posted on a wall in the bathroom or mirror XD
[–]tennenpama 5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Talk less, smile more
[–]Onehothalpino 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I see what you did there. Burrly missed it
[–]ShunuJ[S] 9 points10 points11 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Talk slower* sorry.
[–]iFunnyPrince 13 points14 points15 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I was gonna say, talk sloweyr? Haha
[–]grayRayne -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
It's a small post it...
Couldn't have rewritten it on a new page?
[–]ShunuJ[S] 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
no
[–]47monkeysAndADog 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Talk less. Smile more. Don't let them know what you're against or what you're for.
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[–]47monkeysAndADog 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's from the Hamilton Broadway musical
[–]tgod1811 7 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Think LESS. Worst thing to do when socializing is be in your head and not present
[–]ImJustSo 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Think LESS about yourself. Worst thing to do when socializing is be in your head and not present
[–]weallwantsomethink 7 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
When I am enjoying myself I still sometimes forget the other points.
[–]ShunuJ[S] 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And that's totally fine
[–]Rubbish27 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Hi, I am upvoter #1000 and it is my birthday! I've found that talking slower, and less often make you come across as more mysterious, intelligent, and masculine and really makes girls, and guys want to be with you more.
[–]ShunuJ[S] 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Happy Birthday! Thanks for getting this post to the 1k mark!! And, I agree with what you said. For the most part being spontaneous and genuine works best but if you just add a bit of sophisticatedness to it, oooh baby. Once again, happy birthday, have fun!
[–]lord_syphilis 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
think more and then you will wait more, there won’t be any better moment
[–]Hakasauars 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
More loneliness for me :')
[–]Ant-729 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So simple, yet so effective.
[–]ParmeetSidhu0 points 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Smile less, you don’t wanna look retarded
[–][deleted] -2 points-1 points0 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
how can I talk slowler? can someone pls help
[+]CoolMcDude -8 points-7 points-6 points 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Talk Slowl福r? What does talk slowlyer mean?
[–]Missionfortruth 8 points9 points10 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Not cool mcdude
[–]ferrari666 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Looks like it was "slowly" oryginally
[–][deleted] -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Boom boom shake shake the room better
[–]panthus1 -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Do not think at all.
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