This literally increased my level in the dating game

RedditsOlderBrah · 2022-09-26T13:31:37+00:00

this is big dick energy shit. i love it. admitting a 'weakness' bold and upfront is something that if you don't respect, well than your opinion doesn't matter.

delancey85 · 2022-09-26T13:20:18+00:00

Many guys on here think that you always have to be this alpha muscle moron to get with cute girls, but truth is that different women like different kinds of guys. The fact that you were honest while also trying to improve yourself means that you are a man of character and strong for wanting to overcome a self perceived weakness of yours.

Happy for you.

turbdodon · 2022-09-26T20:42:05+00:00

Good Job m8. Start small, grow big.

And please, for crying out loud put at least a dot at the end of your sentence.

cormacru999 · 2022-09-27T01:00:39+00:00

I'm glad that it seemed to have a positive effect, but you should understand that many women feel like men see them as tools for their self improvement, as opposed to people, real, human people, with lives, dreams, hopes.

And let's be honest guys, if you found out that women that approached you to chat, said "Oh, no, I'm not actually interested in you, I'm just practicing being a person," you'd be furious.

JaytheSunGuru · 2022-09-26T17:53:18+00:00

I mess around and do something similar if im not feelin the mojo. I just say im working on my social anxiety and they eat it up and are happy to talk to me. They always say i cant tell! Haha

Adept_Geologist_9536 · 2022-09-27T01:11:19+00:00

I am really amazed by this interaction. Thank you. This motivates me to do more. Sorry for the grammatical errors or this way of phrasing.

Outrageous_Fill3231 · 2022-09-26T21:11:29+00:00

Awhile back I asked my sister for her opinion on me approaching girls honestly and stating my intentions (I want to practice communication with women) and she said the idea was creepy, so I dropped it.

I think I’ll give it a try

dannyh55 · 2022-09-26T22:45:21+00:00

This is how you stay in the friend zone never do this. Generally people don’t want to hear your problems, you might think they’re interested but in reality you’re the only one talking and they have no way of connecting or communicating with you.

HamsterSashimi · 2022-09-26T18:02:29+00:00

How about learning English next

zapadz · 2022-09-26T14:44:23+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZwtfDsZHY2g

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lxGR-htV6Uw

BornQuarter9279 · 2022-09-27T01:34:03+00:00

I have a flaw. Martyrdom. And I’m strong when I’m vulnerable.

Neo-Rio · 2022-09-27T05:04:09+00:00

Punctuation is a thing

ShinzoBinzo · 2022-09-27T16:12:08+00:00

This is NOT at the OP because he wasn't 'vulnerable' when asking the girl out. This is towards the guys who thinks being "vulnerable" works. There will be times were girls will date jerks or breakup with a jerk and believe dating the "nice guy" is her best option. Well that shit is going to reverse on you real quick because you want to be soft and cuddly and she will lose attraction.
Also, this idea of really fit guys being paired as being a moron - there are all sizes and shapes of guys who are morons. This is equivalent of wealthy people being "evil" and poor people are seen as "good" this is all stupid think.

What I've noticed with the seduction community is an infiltration of simp behavior. The simp behavior didn't work - you are not getting pussy and now you are bringing that energy here. Instead of learning (they are imposing the same views that literally brought them here) This is why there are negative statements "towards" Alpha males.

I've lived in Japan for many years - majority are taught to be vulnerable and nice (passive aggressive) - when you move eastern Asians men to the USA they have the HARDEST time converting dates. So keep thinking emulating these "vulnerability traits" will lead you to success - Korea and Japan the women are not fucking the dudes in mass. While its more complex than that - men from other countries come in and have no problem converting these women into dates. Its simply female nature

Title	This literally increased my level in the dating game
Author	Adept_Geologist_9536
Upvotes	140
Comments	41
Date	September 26, 2022 12:52 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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