Hey guys, I just wanted to share my recent experiences with you.

I met a girl about three months ago, we dated x times but I weren't escalating enough, because i didnt want to do any mistakes, so she lost interest and told me, it isn't working out and we should just be friends. This whole situation was a lesson for me and I used it to do it better next time.

So there is this other girl from Tinder. She's pretty cute but not exactly my type. A bit overweight. We matched and we chatted for maybe four days. I tried to get the important informations first, because I'm not a fan of just mindless fucks, so I asked her about her goals on tinder - if she's looking for a boyfriend or just pleasure. She told me she's lonely, her last relationship was about a year ago, and that she's pretty unlucky with the dudes on tinder. Most dates were awkward and there was never a follow-up. After hearing her out, I thought she have to be a crazy one, but I had nothing else to do and I asked her out. We went for a coffee and it was awkward. We couldn't find any subject to talk about, so there was this bad silence. In my mind I was done with her, and asked her if she's always so silent around new people, and told her that I'm not wondering why her dates never worked out. It triggered something in her, she started talking and it turned out to be a nice chat. We went to play some Pool after the coffee and spent the whole evening there. While we were playing I touched her hands while giving her the cue, high-fived her when she landed a nice shot and let her push me away when I taunted her a little. Just some touching to get her closer. The chemistry startet to get better. When I had to go to catch my last train home, we went to the station and I told her, if we forget the beginning, the date turned out pretty nice and I would like a follow-up. She laughed because she didn't believe me, so I tried to show her I'm serious and I told her I would like to kiss her. "Do it" was her response, so I did and left immediately to catch my train. Two minutes later I got a message from her. She wrote she would love to meet again and she can't believe what just happened.

We met again and went all the way together by now.

At first, I didn't even think about kissing her, I just wanted to get this date over. No expectations. Just have fun or go home. But it turned out nice. Good luck guys!