What's the biggest seduction/self-improvement success story you've seen?

Evilpickle7 · 2018-09-11T20:00:24+00:00

Took vyvanse “basically Adderall” and it gave me a shit ton of confidence & made me a social butterfly. I thought i was an ugly mother fucker, but after that night I learned every chick at my job thought I was attractive. Moral of the story is low self-esteem is the only thing holding you back. I know it’s not what you asked for but I felt like adding my 1£

ImJustSo · 2018-09-11T14:54:47+00:00

I'd say they're all mostly success stories! I know I feel like I've succeeded. I used to struggle with talking to women (romantically), now it seems first nature to me. My self improvement started by going to college later in life (25yo), then a couple years later I started losing weight. I weighed 330lbs when I started my weight loss, but I was fat my entire life. I ended up losing about 110lbs in a year. Started learning how to talk to women, be seductive, be attractive, etc. That was about 8 years ago.

Now I'm married and date women with my wife. I've kept the weight off, stay active, do volunteer work, help others, etc. My life is just way better.

My interest in seduction started by reading The Game at a buddy's house whenever I was kicking it at his place. Then I saw a lot of parallels with my interest in language. I studied linguistics in college, so seduction really gained traction in my mind as something I'd like to pursue.

It was messy at first. I fumbled around like an idiot in conversations with women. My insecurities glaringly obvious and transparent in my words. Everything I felt my entire life always influenced the things that came out of my mouth. I had to make that change, so I did.

Changed the way I speak, the clothes I wear, my interests changed drastically. My grooming is borderline obsessive nowadays. I take a lot of care with my looks, since that's a preparation I can make before meeting anyone. When the time comes to use my words, I've spoken to so many women, that I just have faith that the things I'm going to say will typically be attractive.

So, I just move forward now, always. I always keep trying to be better, do better, look better, treat better. I ain't perfect, never will be, but I'll always try to be better than yesterday.

chasethompson98 · 2018-09-11T18:13:17+00:00

Myself. Worked at a bar this summer and when you feel pressured to constantly make a sale (IE offering people shots and shit, and getting really pushy with it), the fear of rejection quickly diminishes. That, in combination with advice from this sub has made me dramatically smoother. As a matter of fact, LOTS of tactics in sales spill over into sed

frogma · 2018-09-11T21:24:32+00:00

Not sure about guys who literally turned their lives around, but there are plenty of guys (like TofuTofu, who used to mod the sub) who aren't conventionally attractive, but have had tons of experience with women. He's overweight and I wouldn't call him handsome, but he and his wife have an open relationship, and he has plenty of success with women. Also, I seem to remember that he might've been terrible with women before discovering the seduction community (can't quite recall, though).

If you google him, or just look at his posts/comments here, you'll glean plenty of great info and tips.

I guess I'll go ahead and mention myself too -- I've always been decently attractive, and generally had moderate success with women, but my social anxiety has always been crazy-high, so I could've been much more successful in the past. I also used to mod here. My social anxiety is still generally pretty high, but I've been able to sort of "mask" it, in a sense. Most people who meet me would say I'm very personable, even though I don't think of myself that way.

Title	What's the biggest seduction/self-improvement success story you've seen?
Author	PM_ME_YOUR_GOOD_DOGS
Upvotes	89
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Date	September 11, 2018 12:40 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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