Which seduction method programs or systems have you followed and gotten laid with?

drewster23 · 2025-10-22T23:12:56+00:00

The going outside and talking to women system

cappaido · 2025-10-23T00:45:11+00:00

The close Reddit and touch the grass system

doubleup___ · 2025-10-22T23:23:08+00:00

The mutual friend system

becomesharp · 2025-10-22T23:37:40+00:00

It depends on what you're struggling with, but overall i would not suggest trying to find a system in order to "get laid." Focusing on the outcome is going to make you needy and sloppy. If you focus on GETTING BETTER, the sex will come automatically. But focusing on getting laid is just going to telegraph to women that you're desperate.

Here are some examples in other areas:

Q: If you're trying to get better at a FPS, do you focus on skill building or getting a good KDR?
A: Skill, because focusing on KDR encourages you to cheat, take shortcuts, and play inferior players

Q: If you're trying to get good at basketball, do you focus on skill building or scoring the most points in pickup games?
A: Skill, because scoring the most points encourages you to take sloppy shots, play inferior teams, and hog the ball

Q: If you're trying to build a car business, do you focus on creating a good car or making money?
A: Good car, because focusing on making money encourages you to increase profits by creating a shitty quality car and trying to sell it for as much money as possible, which ruins your long term brand

Also, if youre just trying to get laid, the best, most efficient systems are:

* Pay hookers

* Sell or give her drugs (especially cocaine)

* Become a sugardaddy

Disclaimer: this is hypothetical to prove a point, i do not condone these things

I'm going to guess that those aren't options you particularly like. That's because what you REALLY want is not just guaranteed sex but a woman to have sex with you because she likes YOU, not your money or drugs.

What you should be focusing on then is a system designed to improve YOUR skill set. And your skill set is going to depend on your current sticking points and difficulties.

A 40 year old virgin who is 500lbs and 5'1" needs a different system than a 6'2" good looking guy who just wants more attractive women.

newnameenoch · 2025-10-23T06:56:07+00:00

The numbers game system

Silly_Randy · 2025-10-23T08:16:39+00:00

Slow down. Stop being needy. Talk to women as women. Not as a friend, sister or mother.

Talk to women normally, playful jokes. Compliment then tease. "You have pretty hair...but I'm not sure about those wolverine nails". That's push and pull. Pull being the compliment, push being the tease.

But remember to also talk about normal, everyday, life things. But while you're talking about normal things...think about her giving you the best blowjob in the world. She'll feel the vibe. But you're talking about the weather.

Then escalate. Go for drinks or lunch.

Excellent-Archer-238 · 2025-10-23T04:02:32+00:00

start with the Mystery method

WebNew9978 · 2025-10-23T02:26:26+00:00

None

shubhidoobi · 2025-10-23T04:39:05+00:00

Kino escalation ladder.

Accomplished-Pen7695 · 2025-10-23T02:54:05+00:00

You’re over thinking it stop while you’re ahead. Just go outside be normal be yourself

ActiveOstrich3083 · 2025-10-23T07:37:16+00:00

I strictly followed Simba’s Guide to Rizz.

First, I got betrayed by family (builds character). Then I disappeared for a few years, hung out with two homeless philosophers who taught me the art of not giving a fuck. Came back shredded, emotionally damaged, and with a purpose. That’s when women start calling you mysterious instead of unemployed or homeless

From that day til now, i found the love of my life - Nala. You can find Simba's rizz guide on D+

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-10-23T14:55:36+00:00

None. The PUA type systems operate under false pretenses as the ones like Mystery Method and their ilk are based around deception and performance through crafting a cocky persona, not genuine character building.

New_Banana3858 · 2025-10-22T23:49:41+00:00

collaborative mindset.
content is just an excuse.
Energy matters more then words. Somewhat, it can't be totally unrelatable...

but you could go up too a woman and talk about how boring your day was as you looked at a wall for 12 hours. you're talking with great energy and conviction behind your words.. She'll listen for hours and hours.

create fun roleplay of narrative's... Yes Women are pulled to this AF, it's like they can't resist it.
you have to sell yourself into believing whatever you talk about is the coolest shit out there and people are missing out!

Yes this in a way means.
Be unapologetically, yourself.
This means more or less, don't give a F what other people think about you.

Fit_Wolverine_7043 · 2025-10-23T04:12:14+00:00

Seduction mastermind

Ok-Estimate1501 · 2025-10-23T07:36:30+00:00

If you haven't figured it out already then you're not fit to be sexually selected. There's your answer, you are simply chaff not fit for consumption.

Magnusrob · 2025-10-23T08:47:13+00:00

The one Date system by Chase Amante

Bullbythehorns25 · 2025-10-23T10:15:12+00:00

Kristian Kasanova is the best

TarantulaWhisperer · 2025-10-23T15:58:19+00:00

I used to be wildly in passion with a man that most women probably wouldn't find attractive. He had a rare birth anomaly. I didn't care about it at all. I was enthralled with his mind and his smile. He is wicked smart and he flirted with me in the nerdiest way which I find to he profoundly arousing. He once wrote me a "wanna Fck flirt using functions. I never dropped my panties faster. The point is women are aroused in our minds first, orgasms happen inside the brain. Just focus on that. He was the hottest sex of my life and I still think of him fondly.

warlockflame69 · 2025-10-23T16:32:48+00:00

Paying the chick on the street corner $100/hr

Matter_Still · 2025-10-23T19:05:16+00:00

This method will not work generically; you need a runaway case of “oneitis”. I’ve used it numerous times.

Follow Ovid’s advice from Ars Amatoria. First, find the woman that drives you wild; no half measures. Simply wanting to get laid isn’t enough.

“While you’re still free, and can roam with loose reign, pick one to whom you could say: ‘You alone please me… never hesitate in hoping for any woman: there’s hardly one among them who’ll deny you.” *

Be Patient: “Stick to your plan. In time stubborn oxen come to the plough, in time the horse learns to suffer the bridle: constant use wears away an iron ring… . What’s harder than stone, softer than water? Yet soft water carves the hardest stone. Once steadfast you’ll conquer Penelope herself in time: you’ll see Troy captive, though it’s captured late. She reads your missives and won’t reply? Don’t press her: just let her keep on reading your flattery.
Be Bold. “Gaze in her eyes with eyes confessing fire: secretly surprise her mind with flatteries. You must approach first: speak the words of entreaty: To win her, ask her: she only wants to be asked: give her the cause and the beginning of your longing.”
Be flexible. There’s diversity in women’s hearts: a thousand minds require a thousand method One mode won’t suit you for all.

You won’t often go wrong operating under the assumption the woman who has mesmerized you wants to know she has sex appeal, even if she doesn’t believe it. Women go to infinite lengths to be desirable. Just walk into a Sephora. They will deprive themselves of food to acquire desirability; submit to painful surgery and the potential horrors of waxing to remove body hair.

And many are told, “Don’t compliment them on the result of their efforts.”

Right.

wheatnathan · 2025-10-23T20:32:40+00:00

it's all about finding the girls who are attracted to you

It's a waste of time trying to use pushpull etc on a girl if you're not her type

CatInTheHatDog · 2025-10-26T02:00:59+00:00

Kezia Noble and James Marshall. YouTube them.

Big-Date8342 · 2025-10-23T08:23:12+00:00

Mystery method 70% win ratio for me.

OpportunityBrief6854 · 2025-10-23T00:14:58+00:00

Hii I'm 18yo femboy looking for something to talk to dm are open for soft boys and femboys

Title	Which seduction method programs or systems have you followed and gotten laid with?
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Date	October 22, 2025 11:07 PM UTC (9 months ago)
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