which will be a better thing to do ?

CigarFrog · 2022-09-06T18:51:44+00:00

Women will never approach(99%) you, because they don't have to. My Wingman and I had this theory we called the Bearded Lady. Which goes like this: At 2:30am Bar Time, The Bearded Lady with the Peg leg will go home with whomever she wants to Fuck, but the Tall Good-looking Rich Guy will go home to Jerk off alone!

ZenMachine

j314314 · 2022-09-06T14:14:05+00:00

Do both.

Btw, if sometimes you get success and sometimes not it’s completely normal. Actually, that’s how game is.

Most important of all is: are you having fun ?

CigarFrog · 2022-09-06T18:53:58+00:00

Also don't "Work on Yourself just to get laid!" Work on yourself to better yourself. I promise once you do, everything else will fall into place!

ZenMachine

corrupting-minds · 2022-09-06T12:09:58+00:00

I’ll forget about women aproaching you. You should go because that’s a way of saying to yourself that you are choosing what life are you living. Reassuring yourself in your path.

If you feel like you can improve (body, haircut, beard, clothes, parfums…) and you want because you want to be the very best version then do it but expect to have 0 impact in women.

Probably it will have impact because you will be a different person, not the same person with different appereance.

earsurgery9 · 2022-09-06T11:02:35+00:00

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Psemna · 2022-09-06T12:14:18+00:00

Best would be both :) But feeling better in your own skin might help with getting out there as well

ikeepon · 2022-09-07T00:29:43+00:00

Work on your appearance. Hit the gym, bro! Then the ladies will be more receptive and more likely to ‘invite’ you to approach or will approach you.

strangebuttru · 2022-09-07T00:54:54+00:00

This is a flawed line of thinking. Work out sure, but with your health/appearance in mind for you. If you look better, your confidence might go up as well.

Women tend to like confidence and personality. That will be your best option.

thestanimal86 · 2022-09-07T03:48:04+00:00

You should always be on a path of self improvement. That should include working on your personal appearance, flirting with women, and earning more money. If you have body image and self esteem issues; you shouldn't looking for a girlfriend. You should be working on becoming more interesting, attractive, and valuable. Give yourself at least a year to improve and learn to overcome / and expect rejection. Even the dudes in the best shape get turned down. How you react to it matters

Tl/dr Even if you had a chiseled gorilla suit bod and women did approach you, would you know how to keep them around if that's all you changed? What if you dressed like a scrub and worked at a gas station? It ALL matters.

spgh0st90 · 2022-09-07T04:17:56+00:00

Work on your appearance and work on your cold approach.

Women rarely approach men so don't start working out with one of your goals being so women come up to you. Once you reach your physical fitness goal, you still will need to put in work. Your job is to attain the girl, remember that and you will be successful.

Aggressive_Soil_5134 · 2022-09-07T09:45:48+00:00

Maybe try and not be fat for yourself and your own health and stop doing everything for women

FranciscotheBull · 2022-09-07T16:43:27+00:00

Well, you are getting some success so you are on the right track in terms of some social skills. If I was in your shoes, I would get in shape, but still approach women. I don't know you, but based on the post, it looks like you have some success. I would just work on getting in shape and probably sharpen up the social skills more. Not saying you don't have any, but I am only speaking since I don't know fully and again, you stated you have some success and not sure what you are saying. (Just an unknown factor)

romann6090 · 2022-09-06T11:19:29+00:00

Ok thanks a lot ... Also i want to know if a women starts talking with me, how would one know that she is just taking as she is good in nature and friendly or is she talking because she wants something more

dump_fool · 2022-09-06T10:35:12+00:00

Focus on your appearance & let the women approach you.

zapadz · 2022-09-06T22:06:40+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JPCU03Dp8Zw

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ddfiZXyLM2Q

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ovS27WQU5-g

Title	which will be a better thing to do ?
Author	romann6090
Upvotes	6
Comments	29
Date	September 6, 2022 10:26 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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