Talking to a woman is probably the most frightening thing for many males. It's irrational and yet even knowing that it is, we still manage to weasel away from talking to them. We make up excuses, or we "freeze" in the moment. We have issues from our beliefs, but that's another topic.

I'm here to tell you to just go for it, regardless of what happens. Why? Because you become more attractive to women after doing so. How? Well you and I both know that women want confidence in a man, this is fact, internalize this. Most women will not even go for a man who has 'less' confidence than she has, as this won't be beneficial to her. Now here's the beautiful part. The mere act of approaching her takes confidence, so this makes you more attractive in her eyes, but even if she's not interested, it doesn't matter, because you leave the interaction as a more confident (attractive) male. This is it. The more you do it, the better you become, the more attractive you become. Confidence my friend. Become it. Live it. Breathe it.

The next time you feel that nervous feeling, those "butterflies", that anxiety, realize that it's your body telling you that the thing you're about to do takes confidence, and it's your choice to either seize the opportunity or leave it. Do yourself a favor ... and go.