If a man doesn't splurge on you, he doesn't care enough. When a man finds a woman he really values, he will spend every last penny trying to win her over. How many times have you heard of men barely paying for their wife and kids while buying expensive gifts for their Mistresses?

Men LIKE to spend money on women. There's whole fetish communities around this. Only if a man feels you aren't a good investment will he be reluctant to spend on you. Income isn't a factor either. Even poor men will spend on women.

Don't be caught up with a cheap guy, nor a guy who thinks money is everything (it's a minimum requirement really). I used to think money didn't matter but it ain't true.

Edit: just because a man spends on you, doesn't mean he's HVM. That's the difference between us and so called gold diggers.