Hello fellow high value ladies (and HVM if you’re out there). I’m meeting with my ex of 3.5 years in a week. We broke up 2 months ago and since then, I’ve leveled up, started dating with FDS tactics, and really feel like a boss ass bitch now.

I was essentially a pickmeisha in the relationship, allowed him to be constantly stingy with his money, time, commitment, etc. He had a history of breaking off an engagement with an ex and he couldn’t commit to me either. I was putting in 99% of the relationship, gave him sex whenever he wanted, and tolerated his indifference toward me, hoping some day he’d love me back.

He wants to meet to exchange personal items (he has my tennis racquets, which cannot be mailed) and I have his spare apartment keys. He also said he wants to talk??? About what, your lack of effort???? Lol

I’m looking for support/advice on how to be confident when meeting with him, and if I should say anything about him being LVM or just take the racquets and go my separate way without a word.