It’s been around 6 months and I’ve realised he is not the man for me.
On Thursday he texted saying he would call me on Saturday to “hang out” and do something “chilled” on Sunday.
He hasn’t directly acknowledged or contacted me today (Friday) for Valentines Day even though he is well aware of the occasion due to his line of work. I’m hurt and disappointed, hence at a loss for what to say to him.
I’ve never dated someone that didn’t spoil me on VD and I’m not going to start now. I’d rather be single and living my life for me, than giving myself to someone that doesn’t show any appreciation for me.
So, when he calls me tomorrow I want to dump him swiftly without any emotion or room for debate. Or maybe I should just text him later tonight (match his level of effort, save myself the effort of talking to him in the morning)?
What is the most ruthless and efficient way to dump him? What should I say?
EDIT TO UPDATE:
I was just starting to get excited about doing the deed (breaking up with him) when the flower delivery arrived 🙄😂
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