what's the female version of a creep?

lazlounderhill · 2014-03-03T20:35:26+00:00

a creep.

aussietoads · 2014-03-03T23:04:41+00:00

A creep. Most woman seem to hate being called the same names they reserve for men and it seems to confuse the hell out of them.

kragshot · 2014-03-04T06:29:53+00:00

I would submit that the female version of creep would be "crazy bitch" if it were to connote all of the traditional things that "creep" connote in men, especially the "dangerous" aspect of it.

rottingchrist · 2014-03-04T04:37:33+00:00

I don't have a term for it, but you know those women who suddenly act all nice in such an unconvincing way and it's obvious they want something. Their voice goes up in pitch, and that baby talk-ish manner of speech comes out.

That.

2014-03-04T09:13:59+00:00

Creep is usually just a synonym of ugly and/or awkward. Women like to use it because it doesn't make them seem as superficial as if they would just say "he's ugly/awkward". Instead, women push themselves into a victim-role to some extent, since they imply they're frightened of the "creep".

ThePigmanAgain · 2014-03-03T23:30:35+00:00

The female equivalent of the word "creep" is "sexually assertive."

evil-doer · 2014-03-04T19:32:39+00:00

there is no term because a creep is a suitor who is prejudged as unsuitable from their appearance.

suitors are male. women leave it up to men to make the first move. (all the hard stuff). all they need to do is choose.

it is yet another part of life thats much harder for males.

making the first move/letting your intentions be known to a woman has always been difficult, because for some reason most women dont even like to give off hints that they are interested in the man. women also find confidence attractive so they want a guy to take charge, but only men they find attractive in other ways too. so you are always risking sexual assault nowadays just trying to play this stupid game.

Mappornstar · 2014-03-03T22:49:37+00:00

A Feminist.

autourbanbot · 2014-03-04T01:58:30+00:00

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llcoolche · 2014-03-04T12:45:59+00:00

I thought of the sort of women who are always gossiping, always trying to put others down, they have little to no respect for others. Small minded, opportunistic.

I'd call her a cunt.

rhettdu · 2014-03-03T23:47:49+00:00

Isn't it a "slut"?

Someone whose sexual advances or attention becomes suspicious, odious or tiresome.

baskandpurr · 2014-03-03T21:12:54+00:00

When I was there before, you couldn't look me in the eye.

I'm just like an angel, my skin makes you cry.

I float like a feather, in a beautiful world.

I wish you were special, I'm so fucking special.

DaveDodo007 · 2014-03-04T02:34:31+00:00

Bunny boiler?

solaria_mra · 2014-03-04T03:10:09+00:00

It's entirely possible that I'm going to be alone on this one, but I personally think "slut" would be the roughly equivalent term.

Both are words describing people who operate outside of the accepted modes of behavior in the "male: pursuer, female: pursued" dynamic inherent in western conventions.

TrouserTorpedo · 2014-03-04T12:48:32+00:00

A woman.

Just because she makes me uncomfortable, doesn't mean I have justification to smear her reputation.

I don't think there's really a parallel, anyway. We insult women with different terms.

TheCameraLady · 2014-03-04T14:07:18+00:00

Creep is actually a gender neutral term - it may affect men more, and more women may use it against men (both fairly and unfairly, but the debate of creepshaming vs slutshaming is another topic), but the word IS gender neutral and there ARE female creeps.

It's time to start calling creepy women what they are - creepers.

mean0dean0 · 2014-03-04T18:37:22+00:00

OAG (overly attached girlfriend). Though most people think that sort of behavior is "cute" on the internet, it's terrifying when it happens in real life, to a person you previously thought was not at all crazy.

EDIT: for reference:

http://knowyourmeme.com/memes/overly-attached-girlfriend

theozoph · 2014-03-04T00:32:41+00:00

A slut.

YogiBarelyThere · 2014-03-03T20:55:23+00:00

A woman who you consider not attractive enough, that is showing interest.

Or, a women being being inappropriate and / or covert with sexual boundaries.

TrouserTorpedo · 2014-03-03T21:47:30+00:00

The usage of the word "creep" depends mostly on the person getting the creeps or being creeped out, and far less on the person being seen as responsible for the creeps.
In this sense creep is a feminine word and there ought not to be a masculine pen dant, because mastering your feelings is an essential part of masculinity.

supercold1 · 2014-03-04T01:52:07+00:00

A fat horny feminist who keeps rubbing herself against you and gets bitchy, entitled, and accusatory when you reject her.

Eurydemus · 2014-03-04T03:11:01+00:00

Call the girl a "Snake". That's just about it..

ghebert001 · 2014-03-03T20:35:32+00:00

It takes a lot for a female to be considered so repulsive to elicit such disgust from a man to have zero interest in her. Most gus I know are willing to give any woman the benefit of doubt. The word feminist comes.to mind.

YogiBarelyThere · 2014-03-03T20:56:48+00:00

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Funcuz · 2014-03-03T23:07:15+00:00

Well look , the simple fact is that men and women are different and as such there isn't really a female equivalent to the word.

This question goes a lot deeper than most of us can realize. To truly appreciate what it means you have to recognize that you've swallowed a fair bit of programming designed to make you believe things that simply aren't true.

The first thing is that men and women are equal. We're not. It doesn't matter how many times you've heard that message or how genuinely you believe it but the truth (which is and has always been plain as day) is that women have strengths and men have strengths. This isn't simply in reference to physical attributes but also includes our inherent psychology. Certainly there are outliers and a million degrees of difference but they exist nonetheless.

Secondly , once you de-program yourself from the brainwashing you've been exposed to all your life you have to question what fundamental beliefs you hold that simply aren't in accordance with reality. One of those beliefs is that (since we're "equal") that there must be an equivalence of terminology. In many cases there simply can't be one.

Now we get to the whole point of this : There is no female equivalent to "creep" as used in the current vernacular. There can be no equivalent because psychologically men don't fear being raped by women. Whether they should or not is beside the point. The fact of the matter is that the vast majority of men have no reason to fear the possibility of being raped by a woman. Even those who could conceivably have such a fear tend to remain blissfully unaware of it.

When a young woman complains about a creepy , fat , old , dirty man , the 'creepy' part is actually the least telling of what it is that she is repulsed by. In other words she simply finds the man very unattractive (no secret) and senses his lust for her. Perhaps she simply believes he lusts for her when he , in fact , doesn't but the net result is the same.

Now ask yourself how many fat , old , ugly and beastly women you're afraid will rape you. You control whether or not any sexual intercourse takes place and it's highly unlikely that she has the ability to somehow arouse you against your will without the use of mind-altering drugs.

Of course a lot of MRAs are going to take umbrage with this post because it goes against some of the beliefs that people around here hold. They're not so much beliefs but rather rationalizations for which many of us desperately seek in order to draw equivalences. They want that "See ! I told you they did it too !" moment. It's a false equivalence. Women , by and large , can't rape men. Yes , it can , has , and will continue to happen in the future but it is otherwise extremely unlikely. Sexual assault by women against men is far less rare but rape is at the extreme end of the spectrum.

What we're doing here is trying to hammer a square peg into a round hole simply so that we can play the victim card. How many people here actually believe that men get called sluts or thought of nearly as poorly as do women when they engage in sex with multitudes of men ? I'm not trying to play concern troll , I'm simply pointing out that if you want the truth you've got to get past the brainwashing pushed on you by feminists while also keeping yourself from the self-delusion that everything you read around here is any less damaging.

TL:DR - No problem. There is no equivalent , there can't be , and you're better off reading why to understand why anybody would make such a black-and-white statement.

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2014-03-03T22:24:44+00:00

a succubus. There are a lot of them out there.

2014-03-03T22:30:01+00:00

Thirsty.

themaskedugly · 2014-03-03T23:21:11+00:00

Crazy is the equivalent, in that it completely dehumanises them and any opinion they can hold. In fact, I've described 'creepy' to girls before as being the male equivalent of crazy. They seemed to understand.

unexpecteditem · 2014-03-04T01:23:23+00:00

A princess.

2014-03-03T21:04:12+00:00

I worked with a woman-child single mother who was constantly affirmed and protected by her extended family who did in fact initiate a sexually explicit invitation with a fellow male employee at work, above her status and below her age.

xNOM · 2014-03-04T00:14:06+00:00

A woman who asks you what you're thinking is a creep.

Title	what's the female version of a creep?
Author	YogiBarelyThere
Upvotes	17
Comments	66
Date	March 3, 2014 8:18 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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