Honestly feel like 90% of the male problems in this subreddit would be fixed by working in the service industry.

Everyone is fucking everyone no one cares, you go out once after work and are introduced to all the people at every bar your coworkers have ever worked at, you could even cheat the system and just befriend a bartender and start hanging out with them.

Obviously there are different types of people and "just make a friend" is bad advice my point is more that different industries and job types have different social norms that are more conducive to getting into relationships, not that many of these relationships last or are healthy just that its an industry that does lend itself to making social circles.

Dont actually think this an easy fix more just giving my own probably biased perspective.