What is the female equivalent to Wizardchan, ForeverAlone, and other incel sites?

SpaceWhiskey · 2015-04-24T21:38:31+00:00

Definitely Tumblr, to second what someone else said. I had a blog for art there for a while, and the vast majority of users I encountered were nerdy, lonely women. Lots of sad posts about wanting a relationship/intimacy. Not just teenagers either, lots of college aged women and beyond. One woman in particular had kids and was going through divorce.

fiat_lux_ · 2015-04-24T16:47:47+00:00

Tumblr ,behind all of SJW craziness and pretend activism, is probably full of lonely teen girls who just want to be accepted. I think Uboachan NEET boards has a lot of hikki chicks too.

Just don't go there trying to pick-up, or I will look like a jerk.

rulenumber303 · 2015-04-24T23:15:52+00:00

My question is: Where are these women?

They just don't whine in public so much or demand to find identity through discussion of their situation. They know what they are and tend to only go through a few months of realising oh shit that's what they are before simmering down and getting on with just existing.

I've encountered many of them during my time online. I can't tell you all of the places they hang out but I can tell you some of the places they hang out alongside other women who aren't forever alone.

Try fanfic writing communities, takes a while to integrate into the communities and end up on their facebooks or their livejournals and even longer to cotton on to the fact that some women are foreveralone, but once you're there they are a wealth of women who spend regard highly romantic nights as the chance to settle in with a bottle of wine and their computer writing and reading NC17 SMUT.

Try crafting communities. If anything foreveralone women tend to become more physically productive than they were before they gave up on men in all practical terms. Felting, crochet, knitting, they are there, seamlessly integrated.

Try pet communities. Foreveralone women tend to be active in such places.

They aren't going to bitch to you until you know them very very well. For the most part their tears are between them and their pillow.

ECoast_Man · 2015-04-25T01:02:36+00:00

It doesn't exist.

Women control access to sex, so even landwhales can get laid if they act desperate enough.

Problematiqu · 2015-04-24T21:27:21+00:00

Maybe women generally bitch about being alone to friends and family, rather than anonymously on the internet. I also think there is a larger taboo of a younger woman being unable to find someone, largely due to the idea that women have it so much easier in the dating market. Therefor, a perpetually single younger woman who has been looking in vain will feel too ashamed to go to "support" places about it and instead just quietly deal with the loneliness.

wombatinaburrow · 2015-04-25T06:36:04+00:00

Fanfic sites, book clubs, animal welfare groups and fora, theatre and classical music societies and fora, gardening groups, weight management groups, body image groups, Les Mills and 12WBT groups and craft groups. Very few men, very few non singles.

sudpae · 2015-04-24T18:24:28+00:00

When men are rejected, they blame women; when women get rejected, they blame themselves.

FAers love to commiserate together and bitch about the people who don't want them to no end. They reinforce these ideas, anger and bitterness builds, etc.

exit_sandman · 2015-04-24T16:50:47+00:00

Red Pillers say that women can easily find a relationship.

Eh, yes and no. Women can easily find sex, but men are the gatekeepers of commitment. Male FA conflate sex with relationships because they're desperate for both.

Aspiring_Hobo · 2015-04-24T18:51:27+00:00

I'm sure there are women who have difficulty finding a relationship due to obesity or some other problem

Even pretty women have problems finding relationships. They have problems getting relationships because they have problems getting guys to like them. It's easy to love a woman, but hard to like her so that you commit to her. That's where the whole "Men are the gatekeepers of relationship" comes from. Because ultimately, it's not up to a woman whether I like her or if she loves me. That's what all women want from men, love. But they don't have a clue in how to get it so they fuck guys in hopes that one will love them and then in turn, like them enough to stay faithful as well.

VermiciousKnidzz · 2015-04-24T18:39:19+00:00

I think that society teaches men that they're more entitled to sex than women, and thus more men are rejected and more men take rejection harder, making men ultimately more likely to get stuck in forever alone mentalities. Women also experience rejection, obviously, and go through the same things, but because men feel more entitled it happens more to the male sex.

That being said, i go on tumblr pretty frequently, but not as much as reddit recently. Tumblr is often more entertaining, and I think everyone here realizes it has great content, but still everyone makes fun of it because it's mostly female. If there is any "forever alone" space for women, it could be tumblr, but most people on tumblr are militantly against the nice guy/forever alone attitudes.

nemma88 · 2015-04-24T20:24:53+00:00

They are crazy cat ladies...

Internet is not their natural habitat.

Carkudo · 2015-04-25T09:36:36+00:00

There are actually none, OP, because most women are not forever alone or incel and for the few that are, the reasons are too specific and unusual to make for an identity.

I'll tell you about one place I've seen though. It's a Japanese message board for forever alone women. Some there are in their 50s with no sexual or dating experience, and it all doesn't sound at all like a troll circlejerk.

Still... stories of true FA are rare there (as opposed to completely nonexistent on the English-speaking web and in my country, mind you). Most FA women there are pretty open about being unattractive, unkempt, fat and, most importantly, about hating men who aren't handsome and rich. Most are also severely mentally ill. Some are complete shut-ins. One success story involved a hoarder in her 30s who had her crush visit her, see the shithole that her apartment was and... ask her out.

Yet some women there actually sound like they're just very unlucky. The sexual marketplace is a little harsher on women in Japan than it is in the rest of the civilized world, so some women who aren't attractive and too shy and inexperienced to be proactive, can find themselves excluded from it.

[deleted] · 2015-04-26T13:35:12+00:00

Tumblr, 2xc on reddit, xojane, feministing and jezebel

wazzup987 · 2015-04-24T17:59:30+00:00

Ever read an article bemoaning why won't men get married?

or tumblr.... a more wretched hive scum and villainy i have yet to see.

or a bar to get sloppy drunk and go home with the first guy to say yes know that it not what they really want but shitty simulacrum, same probably goes for the guy.

Title	What is the female equivalent to Wizardchan, ForeverAlone, and other incel sites?
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