Think about it. A generation or two of feminine men created by 60's flower power mothers are struggling to find their missing masculinity and handle relationships. So when they reach the end of their wits they go to find out if anybody out there has the answer. The anti-feminists claim they do so the hop on board in a last ditch attempt to secure some kind of ability to fit their gender role and keep attraction from a woman. The feminists created this confused state of affairs where they say one thing "equality, equality, equality" but then reject men not displaying traditionally masculine traits that entail a personality very different from their own. Of course that would turn out to create resentment and bitterness. Why would anybody be surprised.