Whats does "I never loved you mean"?

coffeefrog92 · 2023-03-17T23:33:35+00:00

Women will literally re-write their personal history to justify a decision.

If it makes you feel better, she probably did love you. But the fact is that now it's over. The light switch effect has been activated.

And you shouldn't have hugged her, bro. I'd advise against doing that again.

Look up and read the Divorce 180.

Tyred_Biggums · 2023-03-16T22:11:06+00:00

“I never loved you and I’m not in love with you”

Sounds a lot worse than ILYBINILWY

InChargeMan · 2023-03-17T20:26:27+00:00

Did you try giving her back rubs?

mabden · 2023-03-17T21:54:42+00:00

Does it really matter. She is on her way out of the marriage. You need to show her the way out the door.

Hire a lawyer and serve her divorce papers. In the meantime, look up Grey Rock and The Healing Heart - the 180.

Focus on yourself and the kids. Get your financials in order, get tested for STDs and DNA the kids.

PutABabyInThat · 2023-03-18T19:04:38+00:00

I never loved you right now

NoMoreMrNiceJay · 2023-03-17T22:41:14+00:00

I'd interpret it as:

"You are not the man I want to be with, our relationship was a mistake."

What are you gonna do about it?

MrTippy · 2023-03-18T20:58:14+00:00

"Right now, I feel like" I never loved you.

anm767 · 2023-03-19T22:54:44+00:00

It means you have let yourself go so much that you are not a desirable partner anymore.

Kevlar__Soul · 2023-03-19T00:56:02+00:00

Means she is getting ready to leave you. Best thing for you to do is get prepared for that event. As you get ready you need to read the side bar and hit the gym. There is a saying here that the stay plan is the same as the go plan. STFU, get your diet locked in and hit the gym hard.

Figure out what you want to walk away with and call a few of the best divorce lawyers in your areas and do the free consultation. Then follow their instructions to the letter if you decide to file. Many lawyer will say being the one who files has its advantages. Before you meeting have all your income and financial information ready and what your idea outcome will look like. They will give you best and worst case so you have a idea what’s going to happen.

Then just focus on getting as much quality time with the kids as possible.

Remington-Holmes · 2023-03-20T12:55:52+00:00

What was said above, and maybe also "I think you're a weak guy with no options. You're dependent upon me, and lower value. I'm telling you this as a shit test, so that I can see those words hurt you, and confirm that I'm right from seeing how you react"

Whambrain43 · 2023-03-21T18:31:48+00:00

I'd tell her that if she's so into her affair partner that she truly thinks she never loved me then best of luck with him.

J-VV-R · 2023-03-17T22:17:29+00:00

I'm new to MRP.

Same story for the rest of us that came here originally...

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Jhadiro · 2023-03-20T03:57:42+00:00

She likes you on paper but the idea of sleeping with you makes her physically ill.

ChokingDownRP · 2023-03-23T01:55:02+00:00

Why do you care what it means... Either it's true, or she's spinning it in her head that it's true to justify her actions.

You should be focused on you and your children, and dngaf what she's thinking. You need to figure out a living arrangement... if you're going to be living in the same house for the time being, you're not hugging her and your conversations are nothing more than logistics. She doesn't get anything more from you.

Talk to a lawyer ASAP and stop holding out hope that you can save your marriage.

FantumStrangr · 2023-03-24T03:04:59+00:00

Better beta divorce guide. Your turn is up and it’s time to move on. Or it’s not. Either way it doesn’t change anything (YOUR actions don’t change). Be ok with either outcome.

nikfury69 · 2023-03-21T20:52:06+00:00

It means you're supporting somebody else's woman.

Mighty nice of you.

Now whatcha gonna do?

nikfury69 · 2023-04-02T13:15:25+00:00

16 days later... (in a Sponge Bob Frenchy voice).

Give an update please. Keep in mind, more than a few of us have been/are in a similar state. So the advice is real.

Meanwhile, what can you do to benefit yourself?

Regardless of the outcome, how can you better yourself for either the "she's gone or stayed" scenario?

Eat better. Get more sleep. Exercise (move metal). Be prepared (lawyer, save cash).

Remember - your kids need their dad.

This is called "the stay plan is the same as the go plan".

Title	Whats does "I never loved you mean"?
Author	Anyoldname23
Upvotes	6
Comments	22
Date	March 16, 2023 10:01 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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