I see how Seddit gives people advice; i see how that advice translates to confidence when approaching women. But, every man, woman, and situation is unique, and deserving of real time breaks and shifts in communication in order to achieve synchronicity with other people.

When given certain social cues, the most genuine response would be innate and instantaneous. There is no time to search the brain for cheesy lines or other backwards strategies. The most important thing is to regularly approach women until you become comfortable with the way you interact. Not all women will like you. This is normal, because you shouldn't like all women.

Practice, find your own style, be unique and listen to your sexual instincts. If you are interested in what your saying, the woman you are speaking to most likely will be, also.

Don't mask the way you talk, don't deviate toward something you can't keep up with. Just talk to them. Get out there and fail miserably. Experience counts.

EDIT: the title of this post relates to the seducer's internal dialogue, and how it can spiral toward an unhelpful direction when frantically stimulated.

Browsing seddit, this writer is overwhelmed with pages of advice, and wants every one to know that seddit is not the open tabernacle of seduction advice, but rather a few guidelines that may mildly change the course of action while seducing. The bulk of a seducer's internal dialogue should read as follows: "I am worthy to talk to this girl, and I am completely capable of seducing her."

People may read this and think, "I KNOW THAT, YOU FUCKING IDIOT!" To those people i say congratulations, because you know something that took this writer about three years to figure out.