Escalating during movie

Mc_Dickles · 2026-08-13T00:23:36+00:00

The key is to put on a bullshit ass movie you're not really trying to focus on

Love__Train__ · 2026-08-13T03:37:03+00:00

Just take your hand and place it on her leg, the rest should take care of itself.

Another move is to squeeze her hand in a way that says "I want you" and see if she squeezes back. Things should escalate naturally from then on out

No-Forever-7283 · 2026-08-13T02:33:13+00:00

I had one date where the tv was on the longitudinal side of the bed back in uni. So to be comfortable me and the girl had to be laying down and cuddling to watch the movie. From there mid movie I just kissed her cheek and she turn around and we started making out. Hopefully that story helps 🤷🏽‍♂️

burncushlikewood · 2026-08-13T00:24:45+00:00

See

DiCarlo escalation ladder

Holiday-Chair-42 · 2026-08-13T04:08:58+00:00

here’s what you do
you need to take a take a tub of popcorn
you cut out a hole in the bottom of it

thatsafuckingoat · 2026-08-13T02:00:23+00:00

Maybe don't put transformers on or something

Kylearean · 2026-08-13T03:53:23+00:00

Put on "The Fall" (2006) thank me later. That movie got me laid sooo many times.

becomesharp · 2026-08-13T04:01:20+00:00

Sit close. Put on a boring-ish movie. Horror movie can work if she likes it. Do NOT put on a depressing movie or movie with a rape scene in it. Kills the mood so, so fast. Fuck you, Blindness movie.
Cuddle under blanket (to make sure she's comfortable being close to you.)

3A. If youre spooning (hopefully youre big spoon): Start running your hand on the outside of her thigh and assess to make sure shes comfortable. If she's comfortable with you touching her waist, her thigh, her side, etc., keep escalating but go slowly and assess at each step because if you move too quickly or get excited and start groping, you'll make her uncomfortable. You want her to beg for more, not beg you to stop. Eventually, she'll turn over and start kissing you because the sexual tension will be so high.

3B: If youre just sitting down next to each other on a couch with your feet up (with blanket over you), hold her hand first. If she's comfortable with that, put your arm around her. Hopefully she leans into you. At a certain point, look over at her. She'll sense you looking and look back at you. Reach up with your hand (the hand furthest from her) and touch her opposite side cheek or chin. Turn her face gently towards you and kiss her. If she doesnt want to kiss you, you'll feel the resistance or she'll squirm when you touch her face and then you can diffuse with humor ("damn my breath is that bad huh? I knew I shouldnt have ordered garlic bread").

Luckyluke23 · 2026-08-13T03:20:23+00:00

Easy, my dude.

You have her head resting on your shoulder. ( the cuddling part) You take your hand gently place it under her chin. lift her head to meet her gaze, and you kiss her deeply.

bitches love it man.

PrinceDestin · 2026-08-13T03:33:49+00:00

Just put your hand around her chin and kiss her then continue watching the movie for a lil bit, then go for it again and make out

norwegiandoggo · 2026-08-13T07:11:04+00:00

Question: Have you tried to make out?

Just like when you approach someone, you gotta risk rejection. So unless she's rejecting you, it's only your inaction that is a problem.

letoiv · 2026-08-13T04:13:24+00:00

Tell her you like it when your woman wears skirts. Then get the energy dialed up ahead of time, take her to the theater and finger her there. Bitches go wild over this, take her home to finish the job, best sex of your life. No man has truly lived without at least one theater sex experience

Severe-Doughnut4065 · 2026-08-13T00:19:21+00:00

Hand on leg and at some point just go for it and if you’re very nervous just ask her if you can kiss her. Kiss-makeout-touching-ask for bj-sexxy time!!

ImpossibleWaiting · 2026-08-13T01:27:57+00:00

Better to talk rather than watch movies. Then you just take her, pull her in and she gives in. If she stops you, stop as well, try again a few minutes later. Two steps forward, one step back is the basic escalation rule to follow here. Simply go ahead and make a move. If you're sitting close, bodies hugging each other she'll already be sexually tense. Then you release the tension by making the move. Let the tension build for like 20 minutes as you talk and then start making out. Then escalate touch by moving your hands all over her body from public to more intimate places of her body.

PlaneRoyal2687 · 2026-08-13T06:17:52+00:00

Of she accepted to go over to your place to "watch a movie" is because she is already down to fuck. Girls are not naive. All you have to do is to make the first step

MyUsername0_0 · 2026-08-13T00:26:29+00:00

what have you tried?

random_question4123 · 2026-08-13T04:02:06+00:00

The key is to start off close to each other, maybe under a blanket or w.e, but you should already be cuddling. Then from there, just keep fondling under the pretext that you're watching the movie. She'll know what you're doing (it'll be obvious) and assuming she doesn't do or say anything about it, then she's interested. Continue to escalate and you'll get her horny over time. Eventually she'll look at you and then you'll kiss her and go at it

Title	Escalating during movie
Author	thedtherapy
Upvotes	82
Comments	38
Date	August 13, 2026 12:15 AM UTC (1 week ago)
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