So just a general comment.
I'm 25, and I had only slept with 2 past girlfriends (both lasted a year) until I slept with 2 last week.
My ex and I split about 4 months ago. The last thing I wanted was another relationship. I went NoFap (no porn/masturbation) and I'm now up to day 94.
I've always been able to talk with women, and open any female very well. I fail because convince myself the girls aren't interested because I'm ugly/short/not worthy.
I finally got over that, and stopped caring.
Concentrating my thoughts to the soles of my feet and 'going with it' was absolutely crucial- natural. Only real difference in my 'game' is that I talk about sex a lot.
I had sex with two girls last week (both girls I didn't know).
I don't know what I was expecting, but it didn't make me feel any better about myself or anything. I didn't really enjoy the sex- having it with a stranger I had a remote physical attraction to.
Now I'm in a weird limbo. I genuinely feel I can sleep with women, BUT I'm getting attached to these random girls I've slept with. Wanting to call them, sleep with them again. I'm getting upset when they don't reply. It's pathetic and I hate these feelings.
I need to give less of a shit after getting laid. Any tips?
My other issue is when I sleep with them I just want to shower them with compliments about them (their body etc.). I feel like this would be a turn off too?
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