FIRST APPROACH EVEEEER!!

mcflurrynuggets · 2019-08-05T10:42:26+00:00

idk man. Approaching a girl and telling her “she’s hot” right off the bat would scare lots of girls. I’d try complimenting her shoes or something first.

And, it’s nice you took the shot though. Hopefully a learning experience for you. Good luck.

1RapaciousMF · 2019-08-05T13:14:09+00:00

Way to go!

A+ for balls!!!!

Unless you're a 10/10 this will probably need to be improved in time. Just being honest.

But, you can evolve that over time. Keep it up.

mistermeanmistermean · 2019-08-05T14:09:54+00:00

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Funkimonkey · 2019-08-05T10:51:45+00:00

Good work man. Now do it again

angry_voices · 2019-08-05T13:49:51+00:00

Take my upvote and my congratulations. Starting is often the hardest part.

AtticusWarhol · 2019-08-05T13:56:19+00:00

Go for the number or nothing. Avoid social media at all cost because you'll be put into an application with the rest of the guys wanting her attention.

Gotta stand out in your communication efforts.

planisking · 2019-08-05T12:21:13+00:00

That could be seen as catcalling or whatever. Just be aware of that.

RedPillAlphaBigCock · 2019-08-05T13:13:28+00:00

read day game by rooshv - great job doing it - courage is Everything but that method is garbage. You have the most important thing - the balls to do it - now just do it properly

BlueRibbon998 · 2019-08-05T15:48:51+00:00

Not the best way to go about approaching a woman in public. Next time, try giving them a compliment. It'll come off as more genuine and sound less creepy than you just telling her right off the bat she's hot. I'd even recommend throwing in a pickup line (smooth, not corny) for good measure. If she's receptive to you, THEN ask for a Snapchat or Instagram

planisking · 2019-08-05T16:14:20+00:00

Good job! I’m surprised you’re only 17 btw (if I understood that Swedish exchange right)

pman1013000 · 2019-08-05T19:16:26+00:00

Congrats! Do 2000 more!

erZoption · 2019-08-05T13:09:33+00:00

GOOD FUCKING SHIT LIVE LIFE FUCK HOES

Niceguy456 · 2019-08-05T14:47:13+00:00

Tja mannen! Du ska va stolt, inte många vågar daygamea, speciellt inte här i Sverige hahahh. Tur för oss som håller på med detta för med rätt strategi så sticker man ut bland alla andra killar och tjejen kommer se dig som en modig kille med mycket confidence.

Ett tips är att istället gå från opener > close så är det mer optimalt med opener > "små prat" > close och sen lite till prat, för att planera va ni ska göra på dejten.

Det är även väldigt bra att säga något i stil med "ursäkta, detta är lite random men..." innan uttrycker vad man såg i henne.

Exempel: "Ursäkta, detta är lite random, jag va påväg att träffa min kompis o såg dig o va ba tvungen att säga hej. Jag heter ..."

Va också beredd på att carya samtalet i början tills det att hon vant sig vid dig.

Och sist men inte minst och enligt mig det viktigaste av allt är att ändra din syn på det hela med "daygame". Istället för att gå fram och snacka med en tjej för att se om hon gillar dig så vill du se om hon lever upp till dina standarder. Är hon smart, äventyrlig, rolig o.s.v. Är hon en party tjej eller en "nice" girl. Snusar hon eller röker hon eller inget alls. Vilka är hennes intressen? Detta kommer göra så att hon tror att du är intresserad av henne än mer än bara utseendet och du kommer bli lite mer av en utmaning, istället för en typisk needy boy som gör och håller med allt som tjejen säger/gillar.

Det allra sista jag har o säga är att glöm inte att släppa lös o inte va så stel/seriös. Va lite rolig, dra något skämt, så kommer både du o tjejen ha en rolig upplevelse.

Med mer erfarenhet kommer du eventuellt lyckas, så de ba o kämpa på!

Peace

walter3white · 2019-08-05T15:01:07+00:00

Great! You tried, that´s what counts...

Mastergame1113 · 2019-08-05T16:22:28+00:00

I think you did the right thing, you need more practice in order to have more calibration

MarrMarr02 · 2019-08-05T16:36:42+00:00

It's small steps that help you to move forward and advance. Congrats! Welcome to the tribe!

Crixusgannicus · 2019-08-05T16:38:44+00:00

You learn to do it right by doing it wrong. Guess which one you did?

Still you've started so just keep moving forward. You'll get it. In every sense of the word.

Spirit_mert · 2019-08-05T17:03:06+00:00

Hell yeah man you are on fire ! Good job, next one will surely be yours. Keep going on a streak. Never skip a possible chance.

2019-08-05T17:54:10+00:00

Yeah bro! Let the games begin.

Reaver_ · 2019-08-05T18:33:15+00:00

Good for you for putting yourself out there! That's literally the hardest part is just approaching.

And there's nothing wrong with being direct and making your intent clear. I'm positive one of the major reasons for getting turned down, other than the boyfriend which could have been a lie, is that no connection or comfort was established before asking for the number. Maybe you were in a hurry or just didn't think to do this, but try to talk to her for a bit before a number close because otherwise you come off as just being into her purely for her looks.

Otherwise, as far as just approach practice goes, nice work and keep it up

barrister19 · 2019-08-05T18:35:53+00:00

This is the first step, my friend. The fact that she was a 9, in your opinion, makes it even better. Keep going and soon anything less than a 10 won't be worth it for you. Have a great day and happy hunting!!

micahu21 · 2019-08-05T19:23:14+00:00

Congratulations on letting the balls drop homie. Vodka shots to that

hellowurld9 · 2019-08-05T19:42:50+00:00

hahahha dude hayahhah ur so funny hayja

John-lovestosposh · 2019-08-05T20:21:31+00:00

Good job 👏

Aim for a thousand in a year.

You’d be surprised how quickly you make.

2019-08-05T20:53:43+00:00

I think I should unsub from this subreddit, because I was accused of sexual harassment without even hitting on her, and I am trying to stay away from women for... I'd say another year or two. Hopefully, that'll be enough time for me to get what I need to improve myself.

ImAAllrightGuy · 2019-08-05T21:10:13+00:00

Good job. Keep snapping with her, and sharing your interesting life with your friends w/e.

Guess who she will contact when they break up if you do that ?
Guess who is going to try to introduce you to their hot friends if you do that ?

😏

Zipdox · 2019-08-05T22:12:55+00:00

She probably lied lol

piropanther · 2019-08-06T00:11:48+00:00

Sometimes girls use the “I have a boyfriend” line just to fend off guys they’re uninterested in

dromance · 2019-08-06T00:37:25+00:00

good job next time you will tap that ass

ChrisDarmount · 2019-08-06T01:25:02+00:00

I think all this talk from people about what you did wrong or could improve is not helpful. I think you 100% did the right thing as your first approach. It took a lot of balls and you kept it simple. For now, you probably just need to get to where you do them more often. Then later you can worry about all this other shit.

organicNeuralNet · 2019-08-06T03:21:20+00:00

It's awesome that you did the first move! Especially to 9-10 girls. You did most of the guys are too afraid to do and it's a huge step forward. I've been procrastinating to work on my cold approach but you motivate me

hallcyon11 · 2019-08-06T03:36:31+00:00

Hey you’re hot. Okay bye!

shinn497 · 2019-08-06T09:15:52+00:00

lpt. If you compliment a girl, be specific, and don't necessarily go for her looks. Compliment her in a way that makes her feel empowered and accomplished. Some easy areas to go for are.

- Hair style.

- Fashion

- Accessories.

- Makeup

- Books she's carrying

- Any clues to her hobbies or likes. Such as organizations she is apart of, games or movies she might have a logo for, or sports she is interesting in.

- Context. Is she going anywhere interesting? Is she doing anything notable?

Compliment her to make her feel good or gas her up. Just saying she is hot is vague. Also women can be weird and take compliments the wrong way if they are not super specific.

mxxxz · 2019-08-06T23:47:12+00:00

Ignore advices that is based on excuses to approach and talk to a woman. It's the same as when a seller begins to talk about the weather, events and random shit just for at the end trying to sell you a product. Keep it simple with your opener and don't over compliment. Let her feel or know why you approached her. It is specially important in day game!

Booster93 · 2019-08-05T13:09:22+00:00

Bro , approach a girl in a place where it’s appropriate like a bar or a social event.

AModernLover · 2019-08-05T15:09:57+00:00

As a women I absolutely hate when guys do this and there’s no way you would get my number doing that. There’s ways of approaching people and asking for their phone number right off the bat is not one of them. Maybe try starting a conversation before (asking for directions for example) and read the situation from there. This being said, it’s nice that you felt brave and are trying.

joman2004 · 2019-08-05T12:21:13+00:00

Good job.

jbiroliro · 2019-08-05T18:08:26+00:00

This subreddit is not about seduction, but damn losers.

indian_booty · 2019-08-05T16:06:36+00:00

This is cringey as hell. Sorry, I don't mean to burst your bubble but this was the worst and such a movie-like way to talk to anyone, apart from asking directions.

You should have done that - started by asking a place and carried on the convo from there.

treatsndentalsticks · 2019-08-05T16:28:15+00:00

Ask for the time then tell her she has a nice phone or watch. ( obviously ask what kind of phone or watch it is) .

Title	FIRST APPROACH EVEEEER!!
Author	planisking
Upvotes	396
Comments	113
Date	August 5, 2019 10:35 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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