Your Personal Daygame Method?

30vanquish · 2012-06-28T00:07:22+00:00

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AlwaysLeaveANote · 2012-06-28T02:49:08+00:00

I think daygame has the potential to be better than night game, simply because of the spontaneity and the unexpected nature of it (nightgame has the infused context of potential sexual relationships).

I think the same tenets apply, at least for me. I find that conversation is easier, but having a sexual frame is harder (again probably because of the context).

What I would recommend is to do whatever you do with nightgame but be a little more conscious of sexualizing the interaction, doesn't have to be over-the-top, but you want your intentions to be known.

What works for me is clothing. My view is that it is deeply reflective of how a girl feels about herself, how she views herself in a social context, what she finds aesthetically attractive, what frame she is imposing on others (when you think about it that's what clothing really is). So I would try to transition her sense of style to her sense of self, and all the while I would just improvise something that felt natural for me to say at the time, and good things usually happen.

Best of luck.

FoodNinja · 2012-06-28T07:10:46+00:00

Women in the city look at your value and other things more closely.

I think this is mostly in your head. Being a confident, funny, attractive guy will work for you regardless of where you're meeting women. In fact, altering your game because you think "city" women will respond differently than "college" women is the wrong way to think about your situation (and possibly a sign that you're putting the "city" women on a bit of a pedestal). You should focus on being your best self and communicating your best qualities all the time, no matter who you're talking to.

You can do small-talky stuff, but keep it interesting. It helped me to make a list of traits that I respect/value in people and pepper the conversation with them, like "Do you like to travel? Are you a music lover? Are you the adventurous type?" Remember, she's supposed to be impressing YOU. One thing I like to do when the conversation sort of lulls is to just pause for a moment, look into her eyes, smile and say "I'm just going to get lost in your eyes for a sec. Hope that's ok", then hold flirty eye contact. It turns the awkward silence into something with a bit of sexual tension.

When the moment's right, you can go for the insta-date ("There's a great little coffee shop around the corner, let's check it out"), or set up a date for later, or just get her number. The best advice is to just do some approaches and see what works and what doesn't.

SpinMyRiki · 2012-06-28T09:48:00+00:00

I successfully applied this on a walking woman with earbuds (quite the challenge) I wanted to approach:

I noticed her first so I had time to foresee her walking path and position myself so that she would walk right past me, without looking like a creep.

When she came closer I waited for a sign of her to have acknowledged me, which she did by eye contact. Reading her eyes I knew she was attracted so I let her PASS me.

I immediately then go after her, therefore pretending me approaching her was an act of spontaneity. I walked slightly faster than her, passing her just a little bit, then turned around smiled and said hi and we had a nice long conversation.

Point is: Approaching walking women during the day is a bit tricky but if you're willing to put a bit more into it, absolutely doable. Don't approach from behind (like tapping her shoulder), make her notice you first so the approach seems less overwhelming for her.

Manny_Rize · 2012-06-29T03:46:31+00:00

(direct opener) hey i just saw you walking past me right now, and i just had to come say hi, you are super cute. (re-state)I just believe that if you see someone you like you should just go up and talk to them, you never know what could happen. (introduction/handshake) Im Manny_Rize (transition into thumb wars) best 2 out of 3 So what are you up to today? - just shopping. You seem like the type of girl who shops all day but never really buys anything (could also be a question) -I dont really like shopping So what do you like? (thread)

Some daygame topics could be:

So what do you do for fun? What type of music are you into? Seen any good movies lately? Read any good books lately? What are your plans for this summer? hey i just moved here, what are some cool things to do around here? Anything exciting happen in your life lately? What did you want to be when you were a kid?

Thats just off the top of my head, There's countless more, some of those are even qualifiers.

30vanquish · 2012-06-28T01:44:38+00:00

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CokedUpArmenian · 2012-06-28T05:38:15+00:00

If the woman finds you attractive, she's going to pick up the conversation quickly(unless she's just walking on the street, yea that's going to need some more assertive stuff); and if she doesn't pick it up, you just tease her, they way she's acting, what she's wearing, maybe a cold read. Now that you have a job, if you have an ID tag or something, wear that, I volunteer at my local food pantry, every time after I finish I go out to do some errands and women will open up on me asking about it.

lawwl · 2012-06-28T10:04:55+00:00

After the opener I like transitioning to "What you've been up to?" or observe anything around your environment and start with that i.e. she's wearing a classy dress or shirt "You look like you love wearing Express/Banana Republic clothing..." Since women love talking about clothes, you can take the conversation from there. One last thing, I saw a video by David Wygant, what he says is that it's key to create a moment. So if you mentally stimulate her mind and have a great interaction she'll respond to you more.

P3psi · 2012-06-28T15:08:30+00:00

I rarely do day game because of where I am, country where English isnt their first language, so it happens rarely. But when I do day game, just straight up, "Hi, I thought you were cute so I wanted to come get to know ya. Hi, Im P3psi." Simplepickup vids helped alot.

Daniel_Vercetti · 2012-06-28T03:26:28+00:00

Transitioning after the opener is where a lot of guys get stuck in daygame because they mustered up the courage to give a sincere compliment and expect the women to lead the conversation afterwards. If you're having trouble transitioning into normal conversation after the opener, this link should give you some good tips.

http://www.theattractionforums.com/nick-hoss/149732-transitioning-direct-openers.html

enzo32ferrari · 2012-06-28T17:12:50+00:00

I run direct day and night game. Indirect game for me doesn't work cause I'm not the most attractive guy out there so from my observations when running indirect game, I get friendzoned often. Whereas with direct game I have better success.

In my experiences, Running direct game you need a certain amount of "structure" or "scripted lines" to get a natural conversation rolling. Think of it as a flatlined patient in the emergency room and your scripted lines are the defibrillator.

For example, since I work with direct game, an open would go something like this:

ME: "Excuse me, please don't take this the wrong way but I think you're gorgeous." HB-X: "Thank you." ME: "Are you a model?" scripted

From here, she could say no, she could say yes; just branch the conversation out:

HB-X: "No I'm not." YOU: "Well you should be. What's your name?" or Begin indirect game if you want

The objective is to get her talking about herself so you can start conversation branching

sukka113 · 2012-06-28T03:48:37+00:00

www.daygame.com

soapjackal · 2012-06-28T04:54:36+00:00

my tip:

make your intentions as clear as possible as soon as possible, because small talk is death. my fav openers are usually

we should hook up
hey stud
you look fucking delicious

she may act incredulous but unless she directly rejects you whats the worse that could happen, you get a bj?

Title	Your Personal Daygame Method?
Author	30vanquish
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Date	June 27, 2012 11:17 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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