Dealing with other men

KGBraddock · 2022-09-25T22:50:05+00:00

It's rarely talked about. Not just here, but everywhere. Because most of the time it's women slandering men in some stupid bratty 'i dont need a man' way. Which gets disregarded.

But yes. A huuuuge chunk of men are bitches, not bringing good vibes, etc. Just ignore them and keep searching for solid bros.

SharpAd3703 · 2022-09-25T23:47:21+00:00

Its Jealously plain and simple, your doing something they dont have the balls to do. I've experienced what your talking about many many times through out the years. There's Always some guy thats jealous. I learned long time ago not to talk about or demonstrate Approaches in front of certain people because I know they wont react well from it. They just cant handle it. It fucks with their reality; they get pisst and take it out on you. I just keep it to myself and absolutely no boasting. Back in the day this stuff use to be a secret and that was for a reason. Some people or I should say society doesn't like it. The Matrix as it were. Some people dont want to be unplugged. Just Keep doing what your doing Ma'man and you'll be a superstar. Trust

NinetailsDestruction · 2022-09-26T02:03:07+00:00

Don’t talk about girls with your guy friends. That’s like talking about getting a lot of money. It’ll generate envy. Just shh

Majestic_Meal_5655 · 2022-09-25T20:39:38+00:00

Very few people will like you, only good friends celebrate your victories. Yeah even family members can be haters. Unless you are a woman, you can only depend on yourself. So do what you want and fuck everyone else.

RastaPilot737 · 2022-09-25T21:28:32+00:00

Yeah, weak and insecure men tend to overcompensate with over masculine behavior or try to appear more "alpha" and try to emasculate other men.

Just ignore them, they'll dig their own grave.

What I've seen is they try harder to get some chicks attention. Never works. Done this myself, not proud, but when you're on scarcity is kinda natural behavior.

One of my close friend's xbf had these behaviors, often rejected interaction with other men, always had this overprotective attitude like a guard dog. Like there was someone always trying to snatch her. Oc she ended dumping him after 6 months. But it was cringy while it lasted.

modidlee · 2022-09-26T00:04:41+00:00

If you’re in mixed groups with both men and women and the women seem to like you other men pick up on that and may not like it. Get used to it

KGBraddock · 2022-09-25T19:52:47+00:00

I don’t get it are you bringing it up?

No one likes the guy that brags about stuff, and you’re mistaken if dudes are going to be praising g you.

SgtSplacker · 2022-09-26T03:11:29+00:00

I swear when someone acts that way with me i'm just so glad they showed their true colors so quickly.

RideTheRim · 2022-09-25T21:17:00+00:00

It’s normal

mabden · 2022-09-26T00:27:46+00:00

Look into AMOG tactics. Most of the time agree and amplify will diffuse most situations. Show em their bullshit won't bother you.

2022-09-26T06:38:41+00:00

When I went out to meet women, I mostly went out alone - and if I did go with another friend, we would go together and touch base once in a while. Other than that we wouldn't get in each other's way when picking up women. If both of us struck out then at least we could go to the bar and chat about it.

But honestly, I was much more effective working alone.

Now... when by myself and other guys show up to be annoying - that's when it's just a case of saying "Let's go over here for a while" to the girl and leading her away. If that's not working - or she has guy orbiters - then the guys get a masterclass in capturing and leading a woman's imagination from me. Although given what I'm saying sounds stupid to them and not to women - they usually get bored and go away.

CanUnusual8729 · 2022-09-26T17:02:05+00:00

Yeah this is something less talked about simply because so much of our energy is focused on just getting into a position that other men would envy. I remember when it first hit me I was at the renaissance festival with one of the prettiest girls Ive ever dated. We’re standing in like at one of the vendor stands and this obviously drunk guy just appeared of nowhere and made some ridiculously rude comment like “ditch the zero get with the hero” type of thing. It was that bad. Fortunately she laughed and pulled me away, because frankly I was completely caught off guard. There was no build up to it whatsoever and I couldn’t understand what his angle was. I eventually just came to the understanding that this dude was just generally pissed off that a guy he didn’t think was worthy should be able to pull this girl that he couldn’t pull. Dudes will have an idea in their mind of why girls should want them, because they’ve got you beat in some physical realm usually. It’s usually the guys who think being taller or having bigger arms makes up for having an obnoxious personality or being socially tone deaf. Or in some cases, they may actually be more attractive to women in general so they assume that entitles them to pull a complete stranger away from her boyfriend that she is emotionally invested in. And it genuinely pisses them off that someone who they feel is less of whatever they strive to be is having more success than them. Almost as if you stole something from them. It’s a weird thing and I even find myself being a bit of a hater when Im not the one with the girl on my arm. Just comes with the territory I guess. You have to remember that any girl you want is probably being pursued by other guys for the same reasons.

staggerlee718nyc · 2022-09-25T22:20:20+00:00

Honestly, it has never happened to me in my 41 years in this earth that other men would challenge me or give me hard time. Never. You must be a special kind of weirdo to elicit this reaction. Do you wear a top hat and do card tricks?

Snoo-50214 · 2022-09-26T01:48:15+00:00

Some will be down with you while you’re at the bottom, then change up once you come up. Others will be with you while you’re up, then drop you off you fall back down.

Sad truth but the bright side is that it reveals the real ones.

zapadz · 2022-09-25T21:14:05+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I7FRKhhQ9PA

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8P5FZyYrP9s

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KgyRjAnHIAU

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hGYSPuER7-U

KGBraddock · 2022-09-26T01:37:25+00:00

Most men don’t challenge me because I’m withdrawn and my resting killer face wards off people. But I see envy in some dudes. Intimidation and respect in other mixture of all these etc etc. i ignore them idgaf really. It means you have sex appeal you’re attractive to women and men see it as a threat ofc there are some grounded men that don’t care at all or just don’t see it. Actually at the gym this guy purposely kicked down my water bottle but I let it slide. Indifference is better than hate or however that shit goes. Most guys want a reaction out of you because they are alreays insecure and feel insignificant but if you don’t give in. They’ll Seeth with envy and anger and ultimately leave you alone when they see you won’t budge.

learnbyrepetition · 2022-09-26T00:28:46+00:00

100% natural, men feel threatened by stronger men all the time, if anything it’s proof that you’re doing things right. Only advice I’d give is to not take it personally

ShameAffectionate15 · 2022-09-25T23:01:06+00:00

in ur head but...just in the case its not in ur head. Dont pay them any attention. its not like these guys are your friends. Likely you will nvr see them ever again.

TheVelvetyPermission · 2022-09-25T23:39:32+00:00

Try to look out for the success of your buddies as much as you are your own

RedditsOlderBrah · 2022-09-25T21:41:17+00:00

i've told dipshits running 'game' to take their bullshit elsewhere if they are making a nuisance of themselves. if you are going to embarrass yourselves by doing that shit i won't stop you as long as you don't try and push past being asked politely to go away.

ciaobellapgh · 2022-09-25T23:40:53+00:00

Get rid of those friends

aviator122 · 2022-09-26T01:16:43+00:00

Can you give some examples of men bringing you down? Seems sorta odd maybe you let some of it in your head

UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2022-09-26T05:26:26+00:00

Gotta rethink about ur friendship. More of - brotherhood

The more u level up, the less true homies will stay w ya. Keep in mind.

2022-09-26T07:01:51+00:00

Well, you should not approve sabotaging or diminishing your success, but try not to boast too much about it when your friends struggle.

TacoRockapella · 2022-09-26T14:25:35+00:00

Bad friends. Red flag. Red flag. Red flag. These guys pinky want you around to make them feel better about themselves.

That’s why when something good happens to you they challenge you because they don’t like you being happy or successful.

2022-09-26T17:53:50+00:00

do you know what i did? I kicked them away.

zed-ekuos · 2022-09-27T13:12:26+00:00

Maybe your behavior changed afterwards and that's why they act the way they do. The group dynamics is also another thing to consider. But it's better to be optimistic. They might be under stress and weren't thinking clearly. Be the bigger person.

Classic-Arachnid-649 · 2022-09-30T09:33:09+00:00

Ye ik what u mean I’m off grid but when I’m out or with friends some are call and some get jealous when receiving attention, but the bois ain’t the issue I get this from men who are significantly older , I’m 20 and men in the late 20s and 30s be challenging me in weird insecure ways , when u ignore them or j be like whatever they realise how dumb they acting are , especially when they do it in front of there others , like I was in Budapest recently and went into a shop and the shop has a turnstile and this bloke was with his missus and they were obviously a attractive high value couple , when I enter going through the door the guy turns around and stands at the turnstile like a security guard or bouncer trying to be intimidating , when I j ignored and walked passed him and his girl could tell he acting dumb especially how he is almost 30 probably and acting like that , most people won’t be overly dickish if u ignore them and low it , they are j threatend if it’s your friends it probably low self esteem and jealousy , I’ve received a lil but from the bois but they end up stopping anyway so your best bet it too ignore , if people weren’t low key hating that would be bad as it would mean u ain’t doing anything worth while and are just plainly mundane and average

Title	Dealing with other men
Author	KGBraddock
Upvotes	68
Comments	56
Date	September 25, 2022 7:16 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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