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| 0 | I am scared that Andrew Tate will make the RP mindset mainstreamWhat’s this channel? | /r/ExRedPill | 10/08/22 03:03 AM |
| 6 | I am scared that Andrew Tate will make the RP mindset mainstreamHustlers University is basically an MLM designed to make Tate a crap ton of money. Part of that Uni is affiliate marketing codes which are given to promote Tates content. Tate makes a lot of money/traffic on social media which means he is more promoted on these sites regardless if it’s him or not as it makes the company money and big companies only care about money because big companies are run by a collective of investors not an actual independent person like Tate. If you think technocracies ar… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/08/22 03:00 AM |
| 2 | Is what Redpillers say about Female nature true?Change women to broken attached people and people with personality disorders and yes this is quite accurate. Rp attracts three main types of women. Insecure attached (who they want their women to be) Disorganized and avoidant attached women (whom they view women to be, whom the women who hurt them are, and whom they view to be at war with) Yet even this generalization is not true as attachment styles (the lens we see and interact with others based on our past experiences) is very fluid; contextu… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/08/22 04:14 PM |
| 2 | The second step in getting your ex/family back from someone who actually did it after divorce court.Glad you enjoyed my writing. Any feedback means a lot. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/08/22 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Still afraid of womenMonkey branching/hypergamy to me is simply one’s innate need to find someone else to fill the needs there partner is giving and the needs they are neglecting. The rp monkey/branch hypergamy forgets that women do not start by trading up. They start by bringing their partner up with them. Only when their partner has failed to the point of no return do they then move on from them but by that time they have done most of the work of grieving healing from the relationship. The only time women do what … | /r/ExRedPill | 07/08/22 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Social awkwardness keeps me in a bitter RP mindset.Ok I am going to tell you the truth here I used to be very socially awkward. Then I became very much the opposite. Yet my behaviour rarely changed. The perception of my behaviour from myself and others and it’s intentions did. Before I used to perceive social awkwardness as bad a flaw etc. Today I own my social awkwardness and I see it as uniqueness and a deep part of my true authentic un social conditioned self. When people say I’m socially awkward (now very rare) I tell them thanks for the com… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/08/22 12:50 AM |
| 8 | To the men: Do you see women as humans?Yes. Flaws s as d all. And I love and accept everyone on this planet for who they truly are, apart of the divine circle of life. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/08/22 10:03 PM |
| 2 | After Leaving A Good Man, Do Women Typically Find Better?Women don’t leave good men unless it’s because they feel they don’t deserve him thus in a way they set them free. Women leave men whom leave her severely depleted in one or more of her needs. In fact all people do this though for some reason men tend to let themselves go but stay robotic operational while women tend to do the same until they had enough and then they move on and tend to move on fast because they have already done most of the grieving healing while being in the relationship unless… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 06:15 PM |
| 27 | Women are property now?Some women don’t see themselves is people. Some women also believe they deserve to be abused. Also some men do the same. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/08/22 06:22 AM |
| 5 | I'm in a dark placeHave you looked into what attachment style you have and what attachment style you attract. Also how was your relationship with your mother growing up? Mine was very mixed due to her borderline nature and reactionary psychopathy. As a result I attracted mostly heavily dark triad trained women, while pushing away other styles because I felt unworthy. Once I healed my attachment I was able to find more stable partners. If your social and family circle has a ton of extreme women chances are there is… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/08/22 05:06 AM |
| 3 | Adam Smith Gives his Opinions on The Red Pill MovementBe careful this type of thinking leads to echo chamber realities. I listen to all kinds of people I disagree with as that’s how you see reality the most as reality is subjective. Even science is bias and subjective to some extent. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/07/22 10:50 PM |
| 2 | The RP/Manosphere is making the Beta Bucks an endangered species and many women are going to be screwed.It’s not alpha bucks beta fucks It’s short term luxury novelty exoticness (Aka looks money status) and long term family building bonding and strengthening. This is evident by the two scientifically backed dual mating strategies of the sexes. Switch (think of like an actual mating preferences switch that turns on short term or on long term or vice versa) and dual mating theory which i described above. Yet what those theories fails to discuss is that women will gravitate towards taking a man in th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 05:22 PM |
| 5 | How the fuck do TRPers spin plates?Just be open and honest with your intentions. I tell women all the time I have a life partner but we can have fun on the side. My life partner is cool with it as she can do the same. Yet ironically by being this open we rarely feel the need for others though we do love to play at parties or in groups. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/07/22 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Why is there a significant rise in red pill/black pill content?There was a very famous psychology study done way before ethics were around were they did some unethical ways to measure just how much the human brain gravitates towards negativity. One way included cutting open the head and mapping which part of the brain participants would activate most often, which ended up being parts associating the brain to negativity. In almost all participants the negative choices were repeatedly chosen more often then the positive choices. Negativity like sex sells and … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/07/22 12:59 PM |
| 1 | “When men sleep around no one cares, in fact, it’s almost applauded. Yet when women sleep around, she’s considered promiscuous and shamed for it.” Sorry ladies, it’s not the same thing, no matter how much you want it to beUnderstanding women is not hard. Treat them like living human beings with flaws; don’t put up with what you view is behaviour negative to your health, vet out the insecure avoidant and disorganized ones until they fix their attachment, be clear with your intentions and be good at sex. All the women who value the crap you say women want are not women who feel they can truly be loved for who they are but rather what they can provide. Thus they expect men to do the same thinking love is transaction… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 11:02 AM |
| 2 | Final slightly altered question from before - How would you explain the BLUE pill to someone in one paragraph?You can say that applies to everyone not just women. In fact you can summarize all that by saying. Don’t look at what person says but look at what a person does and how those actions make you feel for emotion is the compass of the soul and what it wants to experience. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/22 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Final slightly altered question from before - How would you explain the BLUE pill to someone in one paragraph?The blue pill ideal to me is this.. A perception you perceived about something until one or more perception altering events you experienced in life caused you to see it differently. An example for me was that post secondary was needed to make 6 figures. Yet having been in post secondary and seeing my friends who were not make way more than me in fields of high demand and high skill, I realized high paying in demand skills is the key yo six figures not post secondary. The red pill ideal to me is … | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/22 09:59 AM |
| 3 | How do I get rid of all this bigoted baggage? It's exhausting to carry and it's ruining my fucking lifeI don’t think your jealous. I think you are envious which comes once Jealousy is unchecked and is the gateway to rage; hatred and eventually abuse and violence. That said, let me give you the biggest advice that will help. How you perceive is how you receive and how you receive is dictates a high probability of how you react. Or as Henry Ford put it. Wether you think you can or think you can’t you are always right. If you perceive yourself as unattractive everything you do think feel act will co… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/22 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Book recommendationsDating essentials for men by the same dr who wrote no more mr nice guy. Slaying your fear by Adam lane smith The tactical guide to women by dr Sean t smith | /r/ExRedPill | 27/07/22 02:40 AM |
| 1 | I don’t like being a man.We’ll rest easy because you are not a man. Like everyone else you are a G.O.D in training. G.O.D meaning generator of desires. Being human and made of matter in motion or what we call energy, at our source, you are exactly that. Yet, what you currently desire is to attract suffering; pain etc into your life because you allow others who are suffering and blaming you for it, effect your own reality and how you perceive yourself to be in reality in relation to that. Try to stop worrying about how o… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/07/22 11:46 PM |
| 8 | Rich COOPER DESTROYED MY MARRIAGE. I HATE HIM AND I HATE ALPHA MALES/RED PILLI don’t think you hate your husband. I think you hate what your husband has become. The same way my former ex fiancé and now life partner hate what I became when I let myself go and allowed my personality disorder that I put in remission to wreck havoc on my family, leading to much of the reason for our separation. Yet I was able to turn it around but not before hitting rock bottom and realizing much of what I loathed from my life partner at the time of rock bottom came because of what I had bec… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/07/22 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Is it actually common that women date guys they've been friends with a long time?Well, I hooked up with my best friend in uni after she graduated. I thought it was only going to be a one time thing as she did not message me for 3 days after accept she had a really good time. I met and hooked up with another friend after the third day of not hearing from her, whom I started to see for about a few months than date for a year. Things went well until she tried to get me to move with her to her home town but I wanted to go to my dream school. I think she felt I was abandoning her… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/07/22 03:42 AM |
| 2 | What would be anyone's advice on communicating with women?It depends on what types of communication styles you are dealing with A direct person tends to want direct no bs communication. A covert person tends to want the opposite. Also communication is contextual on what you are communicating. And lastly it’s not so much about what you say but how you say it. I highly recommend anyone struggling with how communication works take an acting class as we communicate only 30% through words, rest is tonality and body language | /r/ExRedPill | 26/07/22 03:13 AM |
| 2 | Should I stop talking to him over Andrew Tate?I still watch to content from time to time as part of my business revolves around using my extensive psychology background to help at risk lost or struggling fathers find their centre in the home, so you always have to look at what other “men mentors, groups, etc” are doing. My life partner saw this and knows this and had no issues. I also have strong views opinions of things, though my views opinions are extremely open and accommodating to almost all views opinions of life. The most important t… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/07/22 03:06 AM |
| 1 | I was wrong about nice guys “tm”Attachment styles are fluid and contextually based with the context being the thing you are attached to influences the type of attachment you have with that thing. They are not set in stone. I understand it’s for the most part a subconscious learned response but the end result is very similar to that of the conscious behaviour found in anti social and other avoid attachment style personality disorders thus it feels very similar to the one experiencing. I know this first hand via my own mother an… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/07/22 01:42 AM |
| 2 | I was wrong about nice guys “tm”So I looked into this and the main part that is “debunked” is that attachment styles are set in stone and happen early on. The actual attachment styles themself are more fluid; are able to change, and depending on who you interact with are different. Thus attachment is more based on how others conditioned you to view and treat them then your parents. Though your views and behaviours towards your parents still have a high chance to bleed into other relationships. Yet the behaviour traits and patt… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/07/22 01:05 PM |
| 2 | I was wrong about nice guys “tm”No it’s not nonsense. Yes it’s malleable like all behaviour is but the theory and the styles are very much real and each one correlates highly to specific personality disorders in its extremes. When attachment itself occurs might be disputable but the styles are as real and reproduced as personality disorders and other mental health disorders. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/07/22 02:10 AM |
| 4 | I was wrong about nice guys “tm”You are going to have to show me the actual studies that have debunked adult attachment theory which is a much newer concept that has been expanded from child attachment theory. Not to mention attachment theory is the most replicable psychological theory that has ever existed in the history of psychology. It is the most studied and the most reproduced study. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/07/22 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Despite post wall women being exaggerated by RP dont they exist?You sniff a lot of coke; down a lot of bottles of jack and eat soo many burgers and fries your stomach essentially is a grease pit you too will hit a wall and quite possibly a tombstone faster than most. It’s really about how you take care of yourself and it relates to anyone. What you put in your body mind and soul gets processed and projected back out. Some just take longer than cracks to show than others. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/22 03:38 PM |
| 34 | Do women say they don’t care about dick size and things like that to be nice? As in, would you say the same thing to a partner who’s small as a partner whos bigger?Most women don’t climax with penetration. They do however climax to the moon and back with various forms of foreplay, which if you then penetrate them afterwards, tends to drastically increase your odds of climaxing. You like many men are focusing way too much on how women view your tools as oppose to how to actually use your tools to please her which is what women truly want. Once you figure out what works and make memorable experiences in the bedroom the size shape etc of your penis will be of… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/07/22 08:07 AM |
| 1 | I am a reformed asshole/bad boy. Ask me anything.Well that’s your perspective on life. Not everyone’s and certainly not mine. But you are free to think mentally I’ll people are losers all you want. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/07/22 02:08 PM |
| 1 | I am a reformed asshole/bad boy. Ask me anything.Not anymore. Many of them are advocating for psychopathy narcism etc not actually what you said above. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/07/22 12:28 PM |
| 1 | I am a reformed asshole/bad boy. Ask me anything.That’s not what the rp says is a bad boy. I am talking about the rp definition here. I know what the trope is. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/07/22 10:03 AM |
| 1 | I am a reformed asshole/bad boy. Ask me anything.I am quite good looking. I guess that should factor in somewhere. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/07/22 10:01 AM |
| 5 | I am a reformed asshole/bad boy. Ask me anything.Well it depends of what your version of red pill is as well as if I was in a negative splitting mood (Splitting meaning viewing someone as all bad all good) If it is believing women are the bane of mens existence; feminism is out to get men, and thus women or feminist allies are our enemy as well as other rp us against them mentalities? Then only when I felt very negative emotion relating to feelings of abandonment resentment injustice etc would I then think and sometimes believe that. But once … | /r/ExRedPill | 16/07/22 10:11 AM |
| 3 | I am a reformed asshole/bad boy. Ask me anything.So what is your version of an asshole/bad boy if not someone who is abusive manipulative and has many dark triad traits? | /r/ExRedPill | 16/07/22 10:06 AM |
| 4 | I am a reformed asshole/bad boy. Ask me anything.Anything can be “sexy” to someone provided it relates on what makes that person feel attraction. Attraction like all behaviour automatic or not is fuelled 4 main factors. Physiology. Societal familial conditioning Environment and environmental conditioning One’s perception and philosophy of themselves in relation to others, specifically what they feel they deserve in a partner. Dark Triad gives off the illusion of attractive ness because dark triad people are highly skilled at understanding what… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/07/22 10:05 AM |
| 3 | I am a reformed asshole/bad boy. Ask me anything.Absolutely. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/07/22 09:52 AM |
| 6 | I am a reformed asshole/bad boy. Ask me anything.No. It’s the term used to describe three main highly negative personality disorders. Narcacism; psychopathy and Machiavellianism. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/07/22 04:07 AM |
| 11 | I am a reformed asshole/bad boy. Ask me anything.They tend to be a mixture of insecure anxious heavily abused themselves or highly toxic dark triad themselves sometimes to the point they try and overthrow the partner.Most healthy secure attached funds for the hills when they see a toxic person unless the people have bonded prior. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/07/22 02:24 AM |
| 3 | I am a reformed asshole/bad boy. Ask me anything.Well I have dark triad traits especially when I perceive myself as the one being abused. Min fact I am very much I’ll love you till you hate me borderline then I’ll hate you for about the extent of which my emotions occur until I then live you again and if I act out in anger other negative emotions I’ll beat myself up for it. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/07/22 02:21 AM |
| 9 | I am a reformed asshole/bad boy. Ask me anything.People don’t love toxic people IMO. They think they do and in some level they do but not to the level of being in live. What feels like live is actually the trauma bond or what I call emotional stick Holme syndrome that has been created by one or both parties abuse. Yes when you abuse others even as a reaction or as an automatic response you do end up abusing yourself. That said usually the relationship you have is a reflection of the level of love you have in yourself which sadly is why many hi… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/07/22 02:18 AM |
| 3 | I am a reformed asshole/bad boy. Ask me anything.Well I had to realize that much of the toxicity came from my partner as a result of my actions. I had to be accountable for my sex porn addiction and do my version of twelve steps. I had to find the behaviour patterns and change those patterns. I had to start seeing things through my kids. Me my partners perspective. And I could and still can never ever ever get angry to the level I did prior. I still suffer with the brainwashing effects my mother and father (though more of reactionary) put me t… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/07/22 02:14 AM |
| 5 | I am a reformed asshole/bad boy. Ask me anything.It was hell. My mother said she’d love me but at the same time punish me for loving my father and step mother. She would constantly threaten to kill me one minute then apologize and support me the next. When I would go to her and show high distress lack of self worth she would gas light and pretend she had no clue what I was talking about. She made my fathers life (the healthy one) look Like the worst way to live. And her street life the next. At school I did not fare much better until my high s… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/07/22 02:10 AM |
| 3 | I am a reformed asshole/bad boy. Ask me anything.I don’t. I thought it be a good topic to discuss and would help Others. I believe many people including mental health pros do not fully understand dark triad people because it scares the crap out of them and what they may truly find would shock them and their idea that their are people who are heavily positive and heavily negative not both. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/07/22 02:04 AM |
| 10 | I am a reformed asshole/bad boy. Ask me anything.Well with the mental health disorder I have it was very black and white. When times were good it was easily smooth sailing. When times were bad was when I started to decline and times were always the most chaotic around my borderline heavily dark triad mother. Much of my life I put my efforts into acting which became very therapeutic for me until i tried to make it a career and was heavily abused in theatre school. The wake up call came when right before I attempted suicide I envisioned my daugh… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/07/22 02:00 AM |
| 25 | I am a reformed asshole/bad boy. Ask me anything.I let myself go in all the ways you can think possible after huge financial set back caused me to lose everything. I stopped exercising. I slept most days. When I was up I was heavily miserable angry and violent towards a animate objects and my poor dog. I distanced myself from my children and even saw them as holding me back or a burden. I got heavily back into porn and sex addiction. I viewed my partner as trying to be abusive manipulative and out to get me a as d essentially projecting all th… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/22 11:59 PM |
| 3 | What do you guys think of sexual market value?Personally IMO It’s sexual market value if you only view romantic relationships as purely sexual Otherwise it is more about relationship market value in relation to the type of relation you want. Each type has specific values which are not universal but contextual to everyone else. Yet we all play into and are apart of this market even when we are married as you can always lose your partner in many ways this sending you back looking for another one once you are ready. , | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/22 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Does the alpha/beta male classification actually have any validity to it or is it just BS?You can also check out Huberman labs February 14 2022 lecture on YouTube which goes deep into the three key components on love desire and attachment. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/07/22 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Does the alpha/beta male classification actually have any validity to it or is it just BS?http://labs.psychology.illinois.edu/~rcfraley/attachment.htm | /r/ExRedPill | 13/07/22 05:39 PM |
| 13 | Does the alpha/beta male classification actually have any validity to it or is it just BS?Beta male=a poor way to theorize insecure attachment. Alpha male=a poor way to theorize avoidant attachment. Disorganized attachment is a combination of those two. The above 3 attachment styles are found in roughly over 1/2 people. The rest of people are securely attached which means people who are secure in themselves regardless of how others view them while also viewing others as capable of being able to receive and reciprocate love and attachment. Insecure people are not secure in themselves … | /r/ExRedPill | 12/07/22 07:52 PM |
| 1 | I feel like my prime will end, how to get over redpill brainwashing?Why would you want to forget learning about toxic people when that knowledge has armed you with a road map for vetting the guys you do not want to get a guy you do. Also be careful with this “new guy” as when I hear what you describe of him in partners I have interest in some red flags do come to Mind. Wanting a partner to change is not a bad thing provided they want it. You should encourage partners to grow. I would even be weary of 100% trust. It may be true now but life could drastically chan… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/07/22 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Hypergamy has my mind all messed up. How much of a battle really are you in with other men to get women?It depends on the women’s or anyones attachment style really. Secure attached women your have very little to worry about as they are secure in their relationships and tend to see them as innately valuable and worth keeping. Avoidant attachment you have a lot to worry about because avoidant attachment is basically I don’t need no sexes you are attracted to here thus I deserve insert all my preferences here. These people tend to view relationships as transactional regarding what you or others can … | /r/ExRedPill | 12/07/22 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Why is all of this stuff gaining traction?Have scrolled all the way into your feed? It could be in the deep deep feed. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/07/22 03:09 PM |
| 3 | Why is all of this stuff gaining traction?The algorithm picks up on you being here though. Unless this is the only Manosphere group you are in. Though it does make me wonder how far into your feed you’d have to go to get to It, I’d assume rp stuff would show up at some point. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/07/22 12:42 PM |
| 3 | Why is all of this stuff gaining traction?It’s called algorithms. You can’t truly erase your history. You can only erase it from yourself. Companies still own it and then use it to give you what you think you want to see based on prior history. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/07/22 12:37 PM |
| 1 | I don't want just fuck hot women anymore, I want to pair bond.No it’s actual science. A great neuro scientist covered all of this. Look up Andrew Huberman in YouTube specifically search love desire and attachment. I also used the above principles to get my life partner back whom I had 4 kids with after my bpd symptoms really screwed things up. And this includes after going to court. Stuff as is real as it gets. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/07/22 12:32 PM |
| 2 | How RP affects my relationship, as a womanThere are two layers of relationship. The first is what some call surface level and is feelings; the doings, other events, etc. The second is the accumulative processing of how you perceive all of the first and is truly what decides if your relationship flourishes or burns out. You are focussing a lot on the surface level which by all means if you feel it will help do. But if the foundation is not strong no amount of actions worrying change etc is going to make it last. Focus on these three thin… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/07/22 02:02 AM |
| 9 | Is the typical male approach to getting a girlfriend all wrong?If you are looking for broken attached partners yes. If you are looking for secure attached no. Secure attached relationships are very straight forward and actually laid back. Secure attached people communicate interest without the need for manipulation. We don’t play little games of proving our desire live. We may make things playful but our intent is up front. As secure attached we don’t get the most results but we do do by choice because we tend to not want avoidant disorganized and insecure … | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/22 03:13 AM |
| 1 | I don't want just fuck hot women anymore, I want to pair bond.If you are man you pair bond through vasopressin mostly which comes from doing things/solving problems and light stress (hence solving problems) If you are women it’s through emotional and physical connection and not just sexually physical. To know a partners soul and to love it unconditionally while encouraging them to move to her ideal destination in all areas in life is how you truly create a rock solid foundation in a relationship. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/07/22 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Why do women seem to care so much about height? And how can I get over it?I think the main theory on this is… Height and muscle are protector features. An assailant is less likely to attach a tall muscular man than a man who appears weak. Thus the women feels safer and more at ease with Simone who looks like they can defend themselves against any threat. And I am not just speaking human but animal as well. People forget we are apart of and cohabitating with the animal Kingdom thus on some level we are designed to assess not only human threats but animal ones. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/07/22 12:43 PM |
| 2 | Why redpill’s whole idea about men being attractive to younger women because they’re “fertile”is bullshit…Yes people with pedophelia ocd also suffer greatly with this phenomenon. Also many people do not understand that most child molestation does not come from pedophelia (someone who has sexual attraction to children) So society keeps vilifying people who have done nothing wrong because they fail to understand that being sexually attracted to something no matter how messed up it is is not a crime. Acting or fuelling their attraction/desire in anyway however is and they would at that point be conside… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/07/22 12:31 PM |
| 10 | Here’s why red pill destroys livesYou are taking weak too literally. Weak can mean many things. In your case it could mean worn down and too tired etc to stand their ground to protect themselves or their family which obviously war prod could easily do. Try not to view weak as a bad thing but rather thing that can have negative consequences. Negative things aren’t bad because if you learn from them you can ensure they never happen again and grow as a person. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/07/22 12:13 PM |
| 3 | Here’s why red pill destroys livesI had a feeling it was you Adam. I love you work by the way and as a future psychologist (currently in 3rd year undergrad which my teachers said I should be in masters) I am thinking of working more with adult attachment style. Any advice on how to learn more or what studies to look at etc? Also what are your thoughts on people with bpd having a high mixture of both anxious (I love you/don’t leave me) and avoidant (I hate you) attachment styles. I am asking as I had bpd but overcame most of it w… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/07/22 12:08 PM |
| 1 | What are you and why? (Also why are you here?)34M Attachment Pill (I believe when it comes to relationships all men and women fall into one or a hybrid of one of four attachment styles) Secure, Avoidant, Disorganized, Insecure) My experience in life has proven this to be true. I have with great accuracy been able to point out peoples personalities based on their attachment styles and have even been given the nickname Charles Xavier by some close friends. I’m here studying various dating groups as one of my businesses involves men reconcilin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 08:31 PM |
| 3 | You read a lot, online especially, about these so called ''Damaged'' women who chase ''bad'' guys or whatever. I'm curious if there's a term for the opposite of this kind of woman. For example, is there a term describing a self-sufficient woman with no time for BS/a career, etc?Secure attached. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/22 08:20 PM |
| 1 | “Women peak at 18, men peak at 50” does anyone else find this extremely creepy, delusional, and hypocritical?The fertility window for women is quite short if you think about it. That said, I have read many pieces of literature that theorize we actually have child raising wrong as the young are meant to procreate and the old are meant to raise those that are procreated. When you look at how we treat elders in modern society it also makes me think perhaps this theory has some validity to it. Not saying older people can’t enjoy or have sex. Just looking at the way we are designed biologically. I should al… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/22 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Pro Life Vs Pro Choice.How can we move to the future if we can’t think about it now. Also imagine how much progress you’d make if instead of vilifying they other side, you empathized with it, offered to start looking into ways to preserve life while also showing great examples why you need choice. A great motto here or any issue would be from writing and it’s called show don’t tell. Same with you get more flies with honey. Unless you want to keep fighting this war you have to change and look at different strategies. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/22 08:15 AM |
| -1 | What are some hard truths you have accepted about life?This world is not meant to be perfect because nothing is thus imperfection is perfection here. I have yet to meet a human who if given the proper circumstances would not commit the most socially deemed heinous acts on earth which is one of the reasons we vilify and try to eliminate evil which is really just the essence of the human condition. If you sit and empathize with a person long enough, they will not only show you their cracks but allow you to fix them provided you don’t judge condemn or … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/22 08:10 AM |
| 2 | Are you basically undateable if you're obese?No but you may not be alive long enough to fully enjoy all you can of it. And sex will be very limiting and exhausting to say the least. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Pro Life Vs Pro Choice.You said no one, so I showed you someone. And if I could dig deeper I could find more. Extremist people are the strongest but are the most memorable because of how our memory remembers the most stimulating things which extremist in this case stimulate fear etc so it makes sense they are remembered more than regular people. That’s what I mean by loudest. It’s like that in any movement. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Pro Life Vs Pro Choice.What else do you think is misinformation? Would you like to see the video of a women getting pregnant to film their abortion or the one where a women takes an abortion pill on a live news broadcast? There was also the shout your abortion campaign whom many took to quite the extreme. It’s one thing if you want to have choice which I agree everyone should have. But It’s another and downright delusional in my opinion if you think that choice does not entail ending a potential future human life rega… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Pro Life Vs Pro Choice.https://slate.com/technology/2012/03/after-birth-abortion-the-pro-choice-case-for-infanticide.html | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 12:21 PM |
| -4 | Pro Life Vs Pro Choice.Who is forcing a solution on anyone here other than they would have to agree to at least attempt to preserve the life in their right to choice procedures. Sure you can make that part optional if you wanted but then you’ll always have the war for the options that don’t preserve life until you either prove reincarnation exists or the soul exists and is instilled in the baby at the moment of birth and first breath. I just do not see a world we’re 100% of people or even most people are not going to … | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 02:44 AM |
| 3 | Why did you leave redpill?Why do you care soo much for others to have different views? Why do you feel a deep need for your view to be right and absolute law? You seem to think believe your view is better when in reality it is simply one way to do things. There is no perfect way to anything. There is merely various ways to do things which in relation to a specific context may be more effective than others at getting what you want. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/06/22 09:51 AM |
| 2 | Being told that people like charisma doesn't helpIt’s not narcissistic to have love and see yourself valuable. It’s more narcissistic to see the above but think you are valuable more than others. Yet my lines talking about how everyone has value proves I am not saying to view others less than you or yourself as the one and only. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/06/22 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Would 'The notebook' count as an example of redpill literature?I think it is a reverse of what usually happens in military police cia etc type service. Simply putting yourself in a military wife’s shoes while also deeply understanding the human condition can make you understand why. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/06/22 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Why women with families divorce men.Yes and all these things cited relate to high risk to raising healthy children in the home. The growing apart category is a reflection on not just the wife growing apart, but also the children as the men fail to bond with their children. Almost all marriage and family therapists I have researched have said when they got down to the bottom of all the above reasons the main reason for separation is the mother saw the father as a huge risk to their children because of his inability or failure to bo… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/22 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Am I a loser if can't get girls?You are only a loser if you think you are a loser because how you think about a thing is how you feel about a thing and how you feel is a strong indication of how you will act. And this process repeats and repeats over and over again. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/22 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Why women with families divorce men.I have looked at the studies. I am in psychology currently training to become one of these exact people you speak of. All I do is research look at studies and look at the data and expand or debunk it using the scientific method. It is what I do and will be doing for a living. These people are also well known people in the scientific community. And the science they speak is common knowledge at this point. It fascinates me how vicious people can be in this community with people actually trying to … | /r/ExRedPill | 12/06/22 01:44 AM |
| 0 | Why women with families divorce men.I am citing YouTube which discusses a myriad of studies etc. Huberman is very deliberate at talking about the studies his findings come from. Also YouTube is a credible source according to APA. I use it all the time in my papers. Have not gotten lower than a 95 yet. It’s 2022. Get with the times. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/22 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Why women with families divorce men.Watch this video for the scientific proof https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=gMRph_BvHB4&t=3821s Watch this video for how the science matches what both men and Adam are saying is happening here. https://m.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLXZS21cOTrwoSibTNJEQDSCbw3HdZvWOY | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/22 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Why women with families divorce men.Sources. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=gMRph_BvHB4&t=3821s https://m.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLXZS21cOTrwoSibTNJEQDSCbw3HdZvWOY Watch the first video to get the science. Watch the second to get how it relates to pair bonding; attachment and families. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/22 05:14 PM |
| 0 | Why women with families divorce men.I am simply relating what I learned from credible sources. https://m.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLXZS21cOTrwoSibTNJEQDSCbw3HdZvWOY https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=gMRph_BvHB4&t=3821s You still have to do the research. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Why women with families divorce men.That’s evo psych which is descriptive science. If you watch these two sources you can understand what I am talking about. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=gMRph_BvHB4&t=3821s the science perspective. The marriage and family therapist perspective from an adult attachment specialist. https://m.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLXZS21cOTrwoSibTNJEQDSCbw3HdZvWOY Adams work matches what physiology; biology, and neuroscience says love desire and attachment is. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/22 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Female looking to help my brother who started watching redpill content recently.Tell your brother to watch this video https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=gMRph_BvHB4 Or read the video notes by Juan. This video gives everything you need to know about understanding the true physiological and biological science of selling; finding, keeping and losing partners. If he’s open to it I could talk to him as well. I was never red pulled but has reactionary dark triad traits because of borderline personality disorder. I also lost my family because of these traits. But did recovered reversed… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/22 07:52 AM |
| -1 | Why women with families divorce men.The red pill tends to say 3. The answer is 4. Most if not all women file for divorce because the father fails to bond on one or more levels with the children causing the mother’s biological and physiological processes to detach and detach from the father. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/22 07:28 AM |
| -5 | Why women with families divorce men.That has not been the case I found in the myriad of research I have done through watching various family therapists, looking at various divorce proceedings and understanding the neurological; biological and physiological processes that cause people to build desire; love and attachment. Furthermore both parties sign papers in divorce. Not just one. The answer is 4. The fathers in some way stop or fail to bond with their children on one or more levels which then causes the mothers biological and p… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/06/22 07:25 AM |
| 2 | Provide a service to help incels?Well that’s a complex answer because I viewed women dating etc very different than incels do because I understood that though my psych issues were not my problem; not fully getting help with them where. And I felt I could not get help because I did not understand the borderline ocd brain. Which then led me into the field of psychology which then allowed me to mentally reverse how I think which is the main issue for ocd. Then that allowed me to work on my borderline which is the opposite of ocd. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/22 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Provide a service to help incels?I used to be a psychological incel before the term was used by men. Now I have 4 kids and a life partner in a happy loving relationship. Pm anytime. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/06/22 03:57 PM |
| 4 | Why do manipulation tactics work on female sexuality?Manipulation works on anyone. There is famous quote by an operant condition psychologist that goes along the lines of “Give me your child at the age of infancy and when I am done with him he can be a sinner or a saint) This is very true and evident by the most replicated set and stone psychological theory on the planet. Attachment theory. Depending on the attachment style of the person many attachment styles correlate to gravitating towards more manipulative abusive partners. Dark Triad for exam… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/22 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Being told that people like charisma doesn't help🤔🤔 You spent a great deal saying how uncharismatic you are. No wonder you are not charismatic. The essence of charisma is not some learned trait. It is believing undoubtedly that you and everything you is magnetic. The essence of attraction itself because you are value itself. And you are valuable because everyone on this planet has unlimited value, even if they don’t think so. This is the essence of charisma. Everywhere you go. Everything you experience you bring those experiences to you as oth… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/22 02:30 AM |
| 1 | IMO this video should be added to the RP detox list as it is purely scientific based evidence on what attracts us; binds us, and keeps us bonded.The video also has great notes from a comment or named Juan. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/06/22 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Hey Everyone!Becoming one is a very subjective abstract concept. But many psychologists believed in merging the positive with the negative. For me it was about making peace and understanding what I did then finding someone purpose driven reason for justifying why I chose what I chose as I believe, on some level prior to coming here we choose everything we can experience then run the simulation. My disorder is borderline e personality disorder with high intrusive ocd traits and I have ADHD. My journey was ard… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/06/22 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Hey Everyone!Change is not an all or nothing response. Look up the stages of change and the change model to see this reality. Change is gradual and relapse is the goal not the thing to avoid because through relapse you learn how your brain is currently wired neuro chemically so that you can adopt the necessary changes needed to implement long lasting change in behaviour. Also when you try and reject apart of yourself you actually make the journey harder to relapse thus making change more painful because rela… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/06/22 06:20 PM |
| 1 | TRP is a lie,beta bux is the best giftIt’s not alpha fucks beta bucks. It is however novelty luxury exoticness short term, family strengthening and bonding long term. Here’s how it works. Books to read on this further below. From the age of teen to around 25-30 (longer if insecure attachment is present) women tend to be short term mating oriented like which means they look for more shallow fun based traits that are found in looks status and money via lifestyle. Once they have found a partner they like(hopefully through short term ma… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/06/22 06:21 AM |
| 1 | Hey Everyone!Is this satire? If so it is well written. If not, I am curious as to why you have soo much immediacy and fear in yourself. Do you not understand that you are human? That by nature you and every other human (including myself) are inherently flawed and will never be perfect? Personally the best way to get over the internalized qualities you don’t like is to make peace with them and live them as much of the parts of you you do like. Take it from someone who has made peace with what many would consi… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/06/22 05:23 AM |
| 1 | men and women are 98% similar but that 2% makes our differences very strongYes because the 2% relates to character traits. So if one person has one trait and another has a different trait, they will be drastically different people. However on some hypothetical if we all learned the same traits or were conditioned too we would all be quite similar, yet we’d still be quite different due to the velocity frequency and level of traits we have. This is one of the keys on why the mind is complex. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/06/22 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Sexism and political opinionsYou can be for both. In fact in the future once government moves out of the way and pulls their head out of their ass will have the tech to both end a pregnancy and save a future life. Then trans and other women who can’t have kids can and even see them develop in the artificial wombs. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/06/22 10:29 PM |
| 6 | I have a fear I’ll be missing out on dating women.Fuck what others think Make paper and invest and money will do the rest. I’d rather be wealthy and free then poor but everyone loves me. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/05/22 02:37 AM |
| 6 | I have a fear I’ll be missing out on dating women.Bro you work in a job that has constant demand. I would learn all you can as a janitor. Figure what you can do better if you ran your own cleaning service and do that. Software engineer is great too. But on your way there I say capitalize on that opportunity. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/05/22 12:38 AM |
| 3 | I stand with Johnny but…Should be empathy for both Weinstein and her or any “evil person” in my opinion. But alas humanity wants to keep going on and on in circles while screaming “Why are we not progressing as a species” But maybe I have too much unconditional positive regard for all of humanity, including the people who abused (including sexually) me. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/22 11:26 PM |
| 1 | I have trouble accepting a womans sexual pastWomen continue to hookup with guys because either they are broken attached and can’t have a healthy long term relationship, or the guys lie and say they want something long term but really are just using the spray and play or other player mating strategies. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/22 04:07 PM |
| 1 | I have trouble accepting a womans sexual pastMens short term dating strategy tends to be pray and spray. That is men spray there seed as much as they can then pray very little of it gets fertilized. Some studies have actually shown that the association areas related to tool use actually fires off when men see attractive women, especially very scantily clad attractive women. One source: https://api.nationalgeographic.com/distribution/public/amp/science/article/bikinis-women-men-objects-science | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/22 04:05 PM |
| 1 | I have trouble accepting a womans sexual pastIf you are a man this matches how men pair bond via doing things for people which releases vasopressin the male pair bond hormone. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/22 03:47 PM |
| 2 | I stand with Johnny but…I agree 100 with what you are saying. I hope she does get what her actions have showed her she deserves. And Johnny gets Justice. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/22 12:50 PM |
| 3 | I stand with Johnny but…I’m not on anyones side. I actually hope they throw the book at Amber as it’s part of being accountable and taking responsibility for her actions. But once someone has done the above I believe in a society that offers the ability to redeem themselves not crucify, esp vitally if the person has learned from their ways. . | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/22 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Should a parent warn their daughter that how they dress in certain environments may attract more predators?I’m going to teach them to dress however the way they want and fuck what others think but be mindful of the pros and cons of doing so in relation to what they want out of life. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/22 12:33 PM |
| 2 | I have trouble accepting a womans sexual pastNeuroscience has proven you wrong, especially wants kids are involved. Simply google relationships and nervous system synchronization And Families and pair bonding. Only broken attached people tend to have difficulty with pair bonding. Also pair bonding has little to do with sex and more with intimacy. See the video by Dr. Andrew Huberman on Yt on Valentine’s Day of all days for more on this. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/22 05:19 AM |
| 3 | I have trouble accepting a womans sexual pastBro the chances of a women being sexually satisfied from a hookup 100% is very small. It is a possibility but women tend to find the sex gets better as the intimacy increases all round. For women this means more of an emotional and bonding connection. And if he does not know or even use foreplay you are essentially going to be a star quarterback compared to them. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/22 05:15 AM |
| 3 | Is porn actually that bad?I nearly lost my life partner and 4 kids because of porn addiction. Yes it can be that bad. The clinical definition of an addiction is a relative behaviour that you cannot stop doing and leads your life to ruin. Aka the dose makes the poison. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/22 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Should a parent warn their daughter that how they dress in certain environments may attract more predators?No mention of sexy clothing. The logic behind the post is simple. How you dress does in fact correlate to how others see you. If you dress more insecurely (as the data shows for both men and women via study I put up in comments earlier) you have a higher chance of being in the cross air of a predator than if you wear clothes that make you confident. The theory behind this is predators look more for vulnerability in relation to what they are preying on then confidence which you would need a high … | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/22 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Should a parent warn their daughter that how they dress in certain environments may attract more predators?I said should a parent warn their daughter about how they dress in CERTAIN ENVIRONMENTS may attract more Predators. No mention of clothing, and I kept predator vague to include more than just sexual predators. This post was actually a little observational experiment I was trying out with wording and it seemed to have the effect I wanted it to have. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/22 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Petal Seven... purpose.Emotion does not a good action make, unless instinct and quick response is actually needed and not based on an emotional delusion. These words were told to me in a bpd group therapy session and looking back on mine and others lives and actions during high emotional states it is very much true. Yet not acting on your emotions IS NOT the same as feeling and moving through them. (Going from emotional to logical) For that there is this saying. You either manage the negative physiological signals and… | /r/ExRedPill | 17/05/22 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Should a parent warn their daughter that how they dress in certain environments may attract more predators?Re read the question and description. I said nothing about sexy clothes | /r/ExRedPill | 17/05/22 03:53 AM |
| 4 | Becoming more likable and friendlyA great book is how to win friends and influence people. Don’t let the title fool you as it’s mostly about being empathetic and always seeing interactions from the ones you are interacting with. Surprisingly if you read it side by side of 48 laws of power you get a great foundation for understanding both sides of human nature. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/05/22 12:36 AM |
| -7 | My ex-girlfriend confuses me!!She clearly likes to play games. Drop her off at chuck e cheese and call It a day. 🤣🤣 Jokes aside she seems very insecure ie unsure what she wants and people like that tend to go by how they feel in the moment as opposed to what is good for them long term. Plus depending on the type of insecure attachment you may have in fact dodged a bullet. If she’s not playing games and has a man, she probably tried to make him jealous he found out and is now telling her to shut it down which some women like … | /r/ExRedPill | 16/05/22 12:17 AM |
| 3 | The Truth about Red Pill's TruthsI’m interested. I love science. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/05/22 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Befriending women has made me less misogynistic but more red/blackpilled.It depends on age really. Young attractive people tend to value vanity; status, aesthetics more than older people as they have recently gotten out of 18+ years of that type of social hierarchy via school. As people mature people tend to wake up and flip their perspective. Women tend to mature faster than men but both men and women young adults are much less mature than their older selves. Irregardless follow this motto in life, especially now. You’ll never run out of women chasing money but you’… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/05/22 04:18 PM |
| 1 | On the subject of Pro Life vs Pro ChoiceI mean government wants to control every body not just women. And it’s not just the left. They want to control women’s uteruses on the conservative republican side and control mens wallets on both sides. And then the liberal democrats want to control you by convincing women that working a job science says they will eventually tolerate and make another person rich and the government more wealthy is one of the most empowering things a women can do and even better than spending a lifetime at home w… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/05/22 10:28 AM |
| 1 | On the subject of Pro Life vs Pro ChoiceWe need a libertarian system. Government is the most gluttons greedy and incompetent organization on the planet. I know cause work for it 🤣🤣🤦♂️🤦♂️ They care more about creating problems then solving them as they get to print more money then make more money and fit tax payers for the bill. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/05/22 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Do women really trade sex for money, security, and safety?Bruh if I go on vacation I want as much sex as I can get. Fuck in the room. Fuck in the hallway. Pool. By the palm trees On the beach. Catching a wave. In the local community church; community cemetery. Pretty much any place on vacation is a place to fornicate. Bonus if you find another couple on vacation, or even bang the locals. As Mrs. Frizzle always says. I only go to Bangkok to bang cocks. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/05/22 05:51 AM |
| 1 | Kevin Samuels' message (and the larger black "manosphere") validated the abuse imparted on me by my ex.Well I was clearly wrong. You definitely do have the things I mentioned to work on. ☺️ I was a victim of deep abuse too but from mostly women. Though a man did sexually abuse me at age 8, I did not think much about that as I had too much other stuff to deal with. Though it did spark my pure ocd. But that event among others, actually sent me on my path to studying the darker side of psychology at a very young age. Much of the darker disorders in life are really a product of abusers becoming abuse… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/05/22 04:51 AM |
| 2 | should I get an escort? I feel like my lack of experience is what's holding me backGet an atomically correct and reactive sex doll (Yes they exist) treat that doll the way you would treat a women you love, and you could get all the practice you need. Back when I was an adult virgin I did this (but with a flashlight) as well as studied female; anatomy, erogenous zones and how each type of orgasm works; how women physiologically get turned on (big hint, comfort in the form of safety; openness and emotional connection is key) and I had no complaints. Lastly pay attention when a w… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/05/22 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Kevin Samuels' message (and the larger black "manosphere") validated the abuse imparted on me by my ex.If you want to pass your clinical studies exams and future studies in psychology, I highly recommend you heal from your own trauma relating to dark triad people and develop unconditional positive self regard; empathy and an unbiased approach to assessing; diagnosing, treating and viewing these people you will most likely be working a lot with, especially in high paying career clinical setting. This is especially true if you are going to have anything to do with helping men, especially dark triad… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/05/22 02:09 AM |
| 3 | If the reason women are more sexually selective on dating apps and in public is because of stranger threat, why do they find way fewer people sexually attractive even among people they feel very comfortable with (ie. male friends) than men?It’s operant conditioning. The dating app matches and the ability to choose condition women to choose high quality in dating apps and project their dating app success and attractiveness onto the real world. Anyone who has enough people liking them and giving then attention and they can choose they will choose the best quality partner every time. If the roles were reversed men would do the same, though some would probably still sleep with ones they have no attraction to, but women don’t do this f… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/05/22 11:59 AM |
| 2 | That didn't go well for Frest & Fit...Link the whole video? | /r/ExRedPill | 01/05/22 12:40 PM |
| 2 | New Book Debunking Red PillI write as part of my living (can provide you proof of my writings) would love to help. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/22 05:28 AM |
| 1 | If you are just looking for sex and sexual release…I hope you are seeing a therapist as it is very clear you have had a tremendously negative experience and were probably not ready or fully informed of what this alternative dating lifestyle is like and picked a wrong couple who I am guessing was highly manipulative secretive etc. Hopefully you are seeing a therapist to recover from this. . But we are not all the same. We also did not create the term unicorn, the alternative lifestyle as a collective did. Personally I and my partner use the term … | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/22 05:44 AM |
| 1 | Stop looking up "research, studies and statistics"Many people in the rp market themselves as self help gurus so they give off the overconfidence idea that they know what they are talking about, until they get a real scientist and even students like myself who dispute their claims and run circles around their ideas without even trying. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 11:34 PM |
| 2 | The Wall is a jokeThe wall is not a joke. It is a very hard structure usually designed to protect those inside a building such as a women or cat. Joking aside, the concept of the wall is a joke in terms of it relating only to women. However the concept of the wall relating to everyone (not just women) is very much real. The body is extremely absorbent and can withstand much actions of what the brain considers abuse. This is especially true the younger we are. Yet as we age unless we work at it we lose this resili… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Hate how much emphasis people put on 'personality'Your personality is about as moldable as any other part of your body (100%) Though we have not unlocked actual body modification, through epigenetics/psycho surgery we do know that the entire brain is moldable in our entirety of life. Myers 2020. Through the discovery of our nervous system that connects our entire body to our brain, we now know our body is an extension of our brain which is divided into 3 main sections/functions. Stem, limbic, cortex. Myers 2020. We also know that behaviour and … | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 11:11 PM |
| 0 | Masculine men.In the west: Younger girls correlate more to this but as they mature they tend to prefer the opposite. In other countries it differs widely depending on the country sbd what they view as masculine men. Take the K pop star craze in eastern countries as example. At end of day we are bio-psycho-SOCIAL creatures and our sociality plays a huge role to the context of how we choose mates as much as biology and psychology which is a combination of the two or nature/nurture. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/22 10:55 PM |
| 2 | Coach Red Pill is Missing in Ukraine, rumoured to have been murdered by Ukranian Nazis due to his anti-Zelinsky opinions :|I’m very happy to see positive comments on this as I thought for sure this sub Reddit would crucify him. That said, I always wondered why he left film making? To me making art is the highest achievement you could do. If I could I’d own a theatre and a movie studio and just make art all day. I don’t understand the catalyst for why he joined rp either. I disagreed heavily with his views but find was really intrigued by just artistic past. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/04/22 12:27 PM |
| 26 | I can’t enjoy women anymore 😞Porn addiction matches exactly what you are going through. There are great series and resources on YouTube that cover this. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/04/22 01:24 AM |
| 5 | Red pill gave me the fear of wasting my time with womenIf you want to do something and it’s not because you have to do something or feel obligated to, then it’s not wasting time. Most people who feel women waste time are either not up front with women with what they want and put with too much things they don’t want to put up with. I’m very straight up with people. I tell them the likelihood of me spending time with them is dependant on how they treat me and how they treat themselves. I rarely associate with people whose lives are in shambles unless … | /r/ExRedPill | 18/04/22 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Is it a turn off to women if a man lives with roommates?Shit I would love to live with roommates again. This time round I’d pool my money with my roommates and start investing in rental units. With 200k down payment (50k each) we could probably get a 20 unit complex for under 2 million fixed mortgage for 35 years. Shave off 6 unit income for taxes mortgage/repairs. Divide rest of the 16 rental income by 4 and your left with a little under 60k a year (assuming each unit went for 1200 a month) not including rising net worth of your property and depreci… | /r/ExRedPill | 18/04/22 05:05 AM |
| 1 | If you are just looking for sex and sexual release…It depends what type you are looking for. There is the bdsm community. Swinging Cuckoldry/bull riding Poly But what it seems you are looking for is a unicorn in the unicorn communities which you can find via google or sites like fet life. These are people who are attracted to all partners in a relationship and act as a second lover for both but it’s different for every relationship. Also there actual clubs that you can pay where you can do any of the above and more. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/04/22 04:56 AM |
| 1 | The Sex Starvation Hypothesis.Thanks for the input. I do believe much of the human experience is illusionary. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 11:35 PM |
| 1 | The Sex Starvation Hypothesis.No that’s not what I am saying. What I am saying is the social part of the bio-psycho-social model has to deal with social conditioning which is contextual and individually based but which also has a significant impact on how we think; feel and behave. It is why make and female preferences in the west differ from the east. Essentially everything we sense and perceive influences is greatly depending how much value we place that thing. When it comes to needs even psychological ones we tend to plac… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 10:27 PM |
| 1 | The Sex Starvation Hypothesis.Ok so psychology is biology though because we are bio psycho-social creatures. That is the golden rule of psychology that everything biological is psychological and vice versa. The fields of neuroscience and epigenetics backs this up by confirming our experiences in life transform our neuro pathways and behaviour. So when you say it’s purely psychological you are trying to break the fundamental law all psychology lies in. Also because you are not in the west, correlated to another fact that you … | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 06:25 PM |
| 2 | From Feminism to Red Pill: Let’s stop the cycle and reach true equality which comes not from a movement but from mathematics.It can. Humanities stupidity as a whole (mostly because we are a young species governed by a young god/creative energy) makes us unable to do so. The essence of a human is we are self destructing beings inside self regulating and self improving wanting bodies. Thus we switch from self destruct to self improve mode at the dime of a hat which then gets fed back to us via society and the law of cause and effect. The world I envision to you may be childish but to me it’s paradise and something that … | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 06:22 PM |
| 1 | From Feminism to Red Pill: Let’s stop the cycle and reach true equality which comes not from a movement but from mathematics.Umm no it’s with anything that is designed to not maintain equality. Fem does not maintain equality. Capitalize can but does not at the moment. Anything that is not purely equal is to me simply making us go in circles and I am tired of humanity circle jerking itself in all areas of life. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 06:16 PM |
| 3 | From Feminism to Red Pill: Let’s stop the cycle and reach true equality which comes not from a movement but from mathematics.Personally I’d rather spend all my time around those I love and creating things I want then doing bs things I have to do to ensure I can maintain a healthy internal and external balance. Most people who aspire and our financially free feel the same way. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 06:14 PM |
| 3 | From Feminism to Red Pill: Let’s stop the cycle and reach true equality which comes not from a movement but from mathematics.In the beginning you were able to have the ability acquire yourself own food and shelter. It was done as a means of survival. Today it is done as a means of servitude because we have enough food and enough planet to go around for everyone. And even then what if I believe as many do that what humanity did in the past (I.e: work) is not something we are designed to do but made to go back in those times snd that there is a much better and even more prosperous way. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 06:12 PM |
| 2 | From Feminism to Red Pill: Let’s stop the cycle and reach true equality which comes not from a movement but from mathematics.Both sexes experience that. Not just women. The areas in which men and women suffer inequality/equity is what is different for the most part. But a person who is not equal is a person who is not equal. And you could argue that some men have it all but really what you are arguing there is that very small outliers(smallest of all) controls everything while everyone else is played to believe it’s the opposite sex they are born with fault. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 06:09 PM |
| 1 | The Sex Starvation Hypothesis.A need is a need and all needs follow the same response to being deprived which essentially is one’s entire focus revolve around the need. Though I agree sexual needs are more dynamic and multi factored than say eating. Also when making comparisons it’s better not to use yourself as you may be an outlier in this situation. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 05:41 PM |
| 2 | From Feminism to Red Pill: Let’s stop the cycle and reach true equality which comes not from a movement but from mathematics.I would not consider any of those things in Canada the gold standard of serving a person, though some are ok. Until you factor in our money is so useless, the minute I buy something in another country over 25% of its value is gone. How’s that for a real wage gap. The cost of food and housing is so ridiculously high that it’s priced out most people who make 50/60k a year out of its market. Don’t get me wrong Canada is great, but it’s nowhere near what the planet could and should be achieving in a… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 05:36 PM |
| 3 | From Feminism to Red Pill: Let’s stop the cycle and reach true equality which comes not from a movement but from mathematics.If you stop working do you have the things you have now and can do the things you do now? No. You have to work to have them, or understand how the money game works and plan your exit strategy out of the rat race. Anyone who has to work for a living is a slave. You could love being a slave, but you are still a slave. True freedom comes when we are able to do what we want when we want in terms of how to live our lives not do what we want when we want provided we have the means to thrive. Until the… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 05:22 PM |
| 0 | From Feminism to Red Pill: Let’s stop the cycle and reach true equality which comes not from a movement but from mathematics.My points exactly. It’s for women but disguised as equality for all. Yet equality is equality and equality is math. And math is what you do to one side you do to another. Otherwise you have an imbalance and in relation to society and our deep need to belong a potential to tear down through the creation of an opposing movement which has the exact same glaring issues the movement they are opposing does. Then you attach that to a system designed to oppress and keep you a slave and wonder why we as … | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 05:17 PM |
| 2 | The Sex Starvation Hypothesis.Not talking just about women. I am talking also about men. Men play just as much of a role in this if not more. Personally I think everyone should stay in their own bedroom and mind their own genitals. As long as it’s consensual, you want to have sex have sex. You want to stick your dick in a chicken a pie or a car? Have at it. You want to build or buy an artificial women why not. If someone looks at you in a negative light, fuck em as who cares what others think no matter how out there your act… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 04:08 PM |
| 4 | From Feminism to Red Pill: Let’s stop the cycle and reach true equality which comes not from a movement but from mathematics.I’m curious as to how your Canadian gov has served you? If giving you below the bare minimum to survive is serving, then you may want to look at what I am saying here. I also have a great Canadian documentary you can watch on this very topic. Canadian gov in my opinion is more corrupt than us gov because it gives an even bigger illusion of freedom then the us. But slavery is slavery no matter how pretty you try and sugar coat it. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 03:57 PM |
| 1 | From Feminism to Red Pill: Let’s stop the cycle and reach true equality which comes not from a movement but from mathematics.You seem to think I am for the red pill? I am not. I am for equality which is basic math. What you do for one you do for another. Feminism has not done this for men, and aside from the west it has not done this for women. If you can prove otherwise, I’m open to listen. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 03:55 PM |
| 2 | The Sex Starvation Hypothesis.Well of course how else can dating coaches and red pill men make money off you if they don’t shame the competitors of what they are selling which is a gateway drug into sociopathy which sadly in a sociopathic run planet equates to some success in various areas provided you sell your first born and your soul. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 03:46 PM |
| 1 | From Feminism to Red Pill: Let’s stop the cycle and reach true equality which comes not from a movement but from mathematics.Lastly imo the time when a movement dies is when it gets in bed with gov. Any gov. Because the gov system is the most vile and gluttonous system on the planet as it essentially tells the banks and federal reserve, here are all our problems give us money, to which they do as a debt to which gets divided and pinned on everyone, is the source of inflation and 99.9% of problems in the world. And I should know because I and some close friends of mine work in the sector that makes it all function. Peo… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 03:40 PM |
| 1 | From Feminism to Red Pill: Let’s stop the cycle and reach true equality which comes not from a movement but from mathematics.Backlash is not so much nonsensical nonsense rather than an identification of real problems but taking them to extremes and putting blame on the wrong people/institutions. Regardless of a movement, you will have extremes. In the Manosphere the extreme is most of the sphere itself sadly. Though more balanced people are coming in. As the creation of the sphere is in fact a result of decades long issues men thought feminism would help them with (seeing OG fem was about equality and not equality to … | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 03:30 PM |
| 2 | The Sex Starvation Hypothesis.I also thought about what you are saying here too. I did not know about that fact on the creation of vibrators but that makes sense. I really like the way you put this. You are essentially saying that lack of social connection drives us to the negative aspects of the self which studies show isolation and loneliness has a high correlation with mental illness and early death. Also those who have an abundance of sex for the most part, (unless it’s who they are and what they want) still report feeli… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 01:46 PM |
| -7 | From Feminism to Red Pill: Let’s stop the cycle and reach true equality which comes not from a movement but from mathematics.It does go in different directions but the main point can’t be argued. A creation of any movement tends to become warped in the end and leads to the creation of a counter movement which does the same. It’s the universal law of anything good tends to eventually be turned into evil. Examples, modern transportation; internet, social media, democracy, capitalism. Whether you disagree or not, the fact remains, we would not have the Manosphere we have today if mens glaring real problems were taken int… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 12:36 PM |
| -3 | From Feminism to Red Pill: Let’s stop the cycle and reach true equality which comes not from a movement but from mathematics.I did because I talked quite a bit about it and I cite everything. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 12:27 PM |
| -7 | From Feminism to Red Pill: Let’s stop the cycle and reach true equality which comes not from a movement but from mathematics.It was a thought I had and wanted others opinions on. Clearly this thought post upset you. Not sure why as it was simply explaining how the short comings of one movement leads to the creation of another and the extremes that come with it. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 12:25 PM |
| 2 | The Sex Starvation Hypothesis.I was speaking mainly of single men who choose not to partake in dating or feel they can’t. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 12:22 PM |
| 1 | How can men recover from domestic violence, and how can I recover from a narcissistic partner?It’s not that narc never love you or deliberately manipulate/use you (unless they are comorbidity with Machiavellian/socio/psychopathic traits) It’s that they love to the best of their ability which sadly is not much because they don’t even love themselves though they put in act like they do. But secretly most narc unless extremely spoiled, entitled, put on pedestal, have a deep seething resentment of themselves because… The through line of a narc is everywhere I went I tried to get my needs met… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/04/22 03:18 AM |
| 2 | Women aren't attracted to 'nice'Securely attached people view niceness as a built in trait. Broken attached people also view niceness this way but many feel they do not deserve nice partners as they feel unworthy or unloveable hence the term broken in their attachment style. This is especially true with insecure and disorganized attachment which is rampant in high school especially in the highly sought after partners. Genuinely nice people (not nice tm) tend to correlate high with dating or pursuing broken attached people beca… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Has social media and dating apps ruined dating?It’s ruined not just dating but modern society from a communication standpoint as it correlates high to the following. Tech addiction. Lower attention span Dopamine addiction Dopamine tolerance Lack of motivation. Increase in depression. Increase in suicidal ideation especially in relation to teenage women and beauty standards via apps like Instagram. Loss of social and written communication skills. Increase in a false sense of worth in relation to others. Increase in narcissistic traits and van… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/04/22 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Scared of the fact my gf started a new jobYou cannot control what others do. But trying to control what others do will statistically lead you to having what you don’t want happen happen and usually in worse cases. As someone who has borderline personality disorder which centred on fear of abandonment of everyone, but whose condition is in remission as I no longer meet the criteria, I can tell you that radical acceptance and letting go of the things you cannot control is the only true way out of suffering with abandonment. Look into thos… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/04/22 04:16 AM |
| 12 | What is your opinion on Fresh&Fit and similar showsA poorly modern version of Jerry Springer hosted by two black men with the combined social intelligence of one former Springer guest. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/22 02:27 AM |
| 7 | Feel like she deserves a bigger penis, that's my main insecurity on size.Most guys measure from the side not the pubic bone 🤣🤣 Porn did the same until articles came out saying they were doing it wrong. Do they had to exaggerate penis measurement in other ways. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/04/22 03:16 PM |
| 11 | Feel like she deserves a bigger penis, that's my main insecurity on size.First, you can increase your penis size to any length; shape, vibration, and even squirting volume. It’s called wearing a strap on. Or getting an implant called a penuma but that will only increase you both ways 1-3inches. Second, not all women are into deep stimulation and deep spot play. The deep spot or A spot as it’s called is quite sensitive and can be painful. Third: Also during arousal that spot actually comes down and you can hit it with your fingers. Meaning you don’t need a huge penis … | /r/ExRedPill | 10/04/22 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Any info or additional videos on this guy?Penguinz0 YouTube has more of him. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/04/22 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Mother and Sons.I don’t see it as taking it out on me at all. ☺️ Listening to people tell me their struggles is a big part of my job as a future psychologist. There was a time where I hurt as much of you if not more to be honest. I lost count how many times I was depressed and suicidal. I lost count how many times I cried in my room because I felt like nobody loved me or I was never good enough. I can’t count how many times I self sabotaged myself because of the above two things and my bpd and ocd. And I lost c… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/04/22 06:03 PM |
| 0 | Is living with parents one of the most repulsive traits to have?Live with your parents. Save the money you would get paying rent for a future rental property (Perferably a fourplex) which you will live in one of the units and capitalize on first property taxes, low interest rate for first home etc. Find a great tenant. Don’t view your tenant as a paycheque rather an family employee whom you care for dearly. Though you pay up front to have a healthy happy tenant, it’s free in the long run as you can write off literally everything (and I do mean everything) yo… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/04/22 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Mother and Sons.I’m sorry to hear you had similar experiences like mine. I can also tell you are still very much hurting from your mothers abuse. I will say if you want children much of the research on genetics have drastically proven that like the brain they are not set in stone. In fact our thoughts; emotions and behavioural patterns actually shape our genetics just like they shape our personality, etc. Thus with a lot of effort knowledge and practice you could shape your children into being anything they wan… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/04/22 01:10 PM |
| 10 | Does being involuntary single and getting rejected mess with your overall wellbeing?Only if you revolve your self esteem around the validation of others. And only if a big part of your psyche is family or community focused. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/04/22 10:04 PM |
| 1 | How much do you care about sex ?Penetration does little for most women, especially if not aroused. However penetration while adding clitoral stimulation that gradually builds on the other hand. Well it makes you larp as Moses as he parted the Red Sea. Then there is the deep spot, which depending on the women could literally bring the second coming. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/22 11:24 PM |
| 1 | What are the differences between a 'friendship personality' and a 'sexually/romantically attractive personality' to women?It depends on what the man abd women’s current sex love and attachment styles are. A women who uses sex and pleasing men as validation for being loveable (a sad but real after effect of abuse by men) will desire and act drastically different from the above. While a securely attached women who wants a life partner may value much more the traits that make a good life partner than say looks or status. The reality is attraction is subjective and contextual in relation to the person whom attraction i… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/22 11:17 PM |
| 14 | If I was handsome or cute, wouldn't my life experiences be different?How you feel on the inside gets projected on the outside and no amount of looks can fix that projection, especially if negative. I believe this is part of the law of homeostasis which is that our body internally (and is argue externally) is always trying to achieve a balance. Yet personally I believe the balance it strives to achieve is based on how someone perceives themselves. Point here is fix your perception and internal issues and you will instantly become more attractive. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/22 11:06 PM |
| 2 | Did anyone else screw up a relationship because of trp?Hey thanks for the response. Glad you found some inspiration. I personally believe anyone can change provided they believe and provided they do the work to do so. It’s never too late and you are never too far gone. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/22 11:02 PM |
| 5 | Did anyone else screw up a relationship because of trp?Well, I temporarily lost my life partner not through trp but through bpd which has trp behaviour built into it during the I hate you devalue phase and don’t leave me fear phase. In fact, Bpd people are quite similar to trp people only the cause of bpd trp behaviour is intense emotional responses and fear of abandonment reactions where trp seems more intentional deliberate snd sociopathic in nature. But actions are actions and any abuse is not ok and should not be tolerated and sadly bpd people a… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/03/22 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Should a parent warn their daughter that how they dress in certain environments may attract more predators?This also goes for my son too as clothing really does play a part to one’s personality as it is a form of identification of beliefs; values imo. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/03/22 01:37 PM |
| 0 | Should a parent warn their daughter that how they dress in certain environments may attract more predators?Exactly. I would never tell my kid not to wear something when they are of age but I would educate them on the pros and cons and cause and effect of wearing something. Predators are everywhere and the word implies a sort of defile and animalistic essence to them which is quite true as these types of people do not have fully functioning top brain. They are very stem and limbic based like an animal. The cortex is either severely impaired or completely cut off and only seems to come on with force. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/03/22 01:36 PM |
| 0 | Should a parent warn their daughter that how they dress in certain environments may attract more predators?But that is a fantasy not a reality. Psychopaths sociopaths and narcs who have no remorse or sympathy snd are high in Machiavellian traits do not care about your feelings or your wants. They will manipulate you; abuse you and throw you out with next weeks trash. They are literally the essence of objectification. They don’t see people as people but rather objects. It be great if this was not the case but the planet would need a drastic shift in 26 if not more traits for this to be the case. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/03/22 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Should a parent warn their daughter that how they dress in certain environments may attract more predators?1: I am looking specifically at apex predators and not commonalities with sexual assault. The apex predators are serial rapists, sexually charged serial killers sex traffickers s as me child molestors. You could add puas who believe in lmr as well. Some studies and interviews of these specific predators including women do have some preferences for looks or parts of a look to which clothing can play a sexual memoric role. People tell more about themselves through what they wear then they do with … | /r/ExRedPill | 29/03/22 12:12 PM |
| 1 | The Female Mating Strategy Curve. (Theory)Evo psych as prefaced by every major evo psychologist should be looked at more as a descriptive science then a prescriptive or cause and effect one. In many ways it is in fact mating history as well as science as we are bio-psycho-social creatures, which is a fancy term for saying we are influenced and shaped by our biology; psychology and environment/sociology. Yet the rp heavily twists evo psych ideas or leaves out the most important info. Like beta bucks alpha fucks though may seem sound at f… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 01:05 PM |
| 0 | The Female Mating Strategy Curve. (Theory)Well those studies they are talking about are referring to various studies where attraction chemicals where measured and the theory behind it along with the other biological theories OP mentions is actually proving more and more closer to the fact that when it comes to children the body does the rest of the work to keep the family together if it is healthy or apart if it is not. And the Smith reference though is a YouTube channel is actually someone who is known as one of the best adult attachme… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/22 12:51 PM |
| 2 | Blackpill explains my life and it’s painful, how do I get out of it?There is a few things here that leads me to believe you suffer from body dysmorphia. Also you say things that contradict your reality. Things like I have had girlfriends then later nobody wants me. Lastly, though lookism is a thing a hyper visualized and lust based hyper sexualized society you can use the power of epigenetics to make yourself more attractive then you are by doing specific actions and following an epigenetic based diet to maximize the genes that correlate to becoming an aesthetic… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 01:33 PM |
| -1 | THIS Rollo Theory is the absolute truth.I was not blaming suicide on divorce. I was saying what Rollo said and what a major factor of suicide for men is. The word factor can be viewed as a data point. A large one but one point none the less. It’s also a multi factor data point because along with divorce comes potential homelessness, loss of spouse; children, finances, possessions. It is an upside down world turner which is why many people say guck it and leave because the pain is too much to bear. Also a divorce is not a one sided cho… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Question about being ex red pillHypothetically speaking yes but you’d have to do some highly messed up stuff in relation to your views. Even psychopaths and sociopaths can get the help needed to climb out of the rabbit hole they dug up and redeem themselves. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 01:30 AM |
| 2 | To those struggling with detoxing from Red Pill, remember that your brain is fighting nearly perfectly honed in algorithms that are literally designed to keep you stuck. If you want to detox, you must fight back and reclaim your brain.Great video on this topic. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 01:28 AM |
| -1 | THIS Rollo Theory is the absolute truth.Someone whom kills themselves because they cannot go through the heartache of divorce which is one of the highest suicide factors in married men. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/03/22 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Sitting on the fence 49 yo male living in a very leftist city & state, starting to dislike wokeness & political correctness, tell me why the red pill is wrong & bad for me ??Nothing wrong with opposing the things you mentioned that are deeply present in your city, especially if you don’t believe it or your experience has shown you otherwise. Personally if you look at my life I check all the minority boxes you could have, but I don’t subscribe to that mindset and set of beliefs because from my experience it’s nothing but a victim mindset trap. Everyone is going to have privileges and disadvantages in life, especially in the west. The real inequalities that I think sh… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/03/22 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Evolutionary Psychology is pseudoscience.If you can use the scientific method to gather, group, classify, measure and test you can make science of it. Literally everything is science because everything is philosophy and philosophy gave birth to science because it needed a field to measure and test philosophical beliefs. You can argue it’s not the greatest science but neuroscience is starting align very closely with many evo psych theories as neuroscience can now measure brain chemical release performing certain tasks and actions. Simpl… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/03/22 01:07 PM |
| 3 | How do I get rid of the toxic and hypocritical mentality that women are less valuable because of their sexual history?In psychology there is a popular saying that the dose of the action makes the poison. Yet for sexual activity it is more the reason for said sexual activity makes the position. If someone say uses sex as a recreational sport because it’s pleasurable and they love it and have no shame or guilt for doing so as it’s who they truly are… They will act think feel and behave much differently than someone whom only sees their worth via the level of sex they give another which is sadly a common trait aro… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/03/22 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Building interpersonal relationship skills part 1.Some interesting things you have shared here. Friction is bound to happen yet we also have a deep need to belong which may be why people tend to try out relationships more than once, especially if they don’t feel the love and belonging in themselves. Regardless in both instances interpersonal relationship skills is key. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/03/22 12:52 AM |
| -6 | Does evolution keep tabs on society? And if so is it an act of God simply adjusting and adapting us based on what he sees?For evolution to do that the generator of evolution has to keep tabs on everything. Every time period relies on a different set of skills and innate traits to survive. One of the arguments for our emotion centre of our brain not changing is that we are about as evolved as our technology allows us to be and our only a few major natural disasters away from going back to the Stone Age. And because this is always a chance of happening the evolutionary part of life keeps our limbic system as active a… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/03/22 02:34 PM |
| -2 | Does evolution keep tabs on society? And if so is it an act of God simply adjusting and adapting us based on what he sees?Well we are bio-psycho-social creatures. And a big part of evolution is adapting to one’s environment. I believe it has a lot to do with cause and effect which is a universal law found in everything. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/03/22 02:30 PM |
| 1 | What are relationships really like?Well unconditional love is very much conditional. It is based on the condition that despite any other aspect temptation tribulation of the world coming your way you will love each other no matter what. It is the toughest and sometimes harshest condition to have of love because life is simply a series of joys mixed with effort where while you are dealing with the effort you have tons of monkeys trying to throw shit on your face and knock you off track. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/03/22 01:30 PM |
| 4 | So either way you’re paying for it whether you marry a woman or using an escort?Everything in life costs one resource and one resource only… TIME. You exchange time for everything. You exchange it for money unless you make money work for you. You exchange it for relationships. Family. Education Mental balance. Everything you do costs TIME and TIME can be money. I have a life partner. The TIME it takes to maintain having a life partner and our four children is far more than the time it takes to make 250 and have a pro come over. But the benefits of having a loving relationsh… | /r/ExRedPill | 20/03/22 03:19 AM |
| 37 | What does "women don't like pushovers" even mean?Do not revolve your life and your character around her. A partner is meant to compliment and enhance our lives not revolve fully around them. Same goes for women too. IMO the women I dated had to be intelligent had to have a purpose had to work on self improvement and had to have character otherwise I’d suggest being friends. I say had as I have my life partner now whom I have a great relationship with and 4 kids together. | /r/ExRedPill | 18/03/22 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Building interpersonal relationship skills part 1.Very true. That said, do you find the most amount of exhaustion comes from miscommunication or outside factors or an even mixture of both. Example of outside factor is your yearly income. Example of inside factor is both individuals temperament and behavioural patterns. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/03/22 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Coach Red Pill (Gonzalo Lira) is still spreading disgusting pro-Russia propaganda from within Ukraine bypassing bans on Russian media channels. Contact Youtube and lets get him banned from the platform.Where are your sources for this? It better not be mainstream media. You don’t just suddenly wake up one day and say oh let me wage war and take over a country. You plan plan and plan some more. Just cause negative things happen does not mean he did not plan for them. You ever here the saying called playing possum? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/03/22 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Coach Red Pill (Gonzalo Lira) is still spreading disgusting pro-Russia propaganda from within Ukraine bypassing bans on Russian media channels. Contact Youtube and lets get him banned from the platform.Well the problem with sanctions is that they already saw that coming and Putin is not a moron and already prepared for those. From a war strategical standpoint the way Putin handled this invasion is textbook war tactics that have been highly effective for centuries. Wait until the countries that have more power than you have been devastated by some pandemic, economic crisis or in our case both, then side with a more powerful country (If you don’t think China will take Taiwan in exchange for thei… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/22 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Appreciation Letter for Men Who Seek WithinWhy equality has not worked yet. Humans are innately self centred and selfish and this increases the more needs we don’t have met. (Myers’s, 2020) This fact to humanity correlates well with the fact that a person and or population that is not valued in society or worse, devalued in society will eventually come to see society and it’s contributors as the problem and begin to revolt and create opposing movements. (Myers’s, 2020) The above fact is proven in the creation of feminism which at its con… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/22 05:21 AM |
| 2 | Suggest some Ex Red Pill &/or healthy dating advice Content / BooksWatch Andrew Huberman love attachment desire episode from 02/14/2022. One of his greatest ones yet as he talks about things many don’t talk about such as nervous system synchronization; the role empathy plays in attachment, among other things. Anything with Dr. David Buss and Adam lane Smith is also great. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/03/22 05:06 AM |
| 2 | If someone made you an ex redpill program that was clinically backed by professionals.Hmm I agree with a lot of what you said. So I am actually working on and proposing a model for a case for pseudo disorders if you will. One of the fundamental rules in becoming a clinical psychologist is to remember that from a physical point mental health does not exist as it is not an tangible physical thing that can be removed. Yes the effects the chemical neurological responses memory etc exists but to say oh look there is bpd or ocd let’s take it out the way you would a disease is not true.… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 11:35 PM |
| 1 | If someone made you an ex redpill program that was clinically backed by professionals.Because they are not fully the same thing. A great example is Joe phobias and ocd are very similar but the treatments have to be different. If cult research would work already there would not be an increase in actual mental health professionals coming in and helping the space. We go where the unresolved riding problems are. And also for programs to be effective they have to have clients interested: willing and wanting to do them which very few want to do cult based programs. Though it is a great… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 11:14 PM |
| 1 | I’m insecure and don’t trust my girlfriendA few weeks is not a long time. Is lack of trust and automatic pattern for you? How do you feel if say a women or even a good friend where to leave you? Do you have a hard time dealing with loss of people? It’s important to understand not trusting someone especially a new person is not a bad thing When it becomes a bad thing so to speak I’d when you deny evidence someone deserves trust because you believe the prior fears you created in your mind. If say you tell a women you fear she will leave y… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/03/22 10:21 PM |
| 18 | I’m envious of athletes.Bruh you think athletes have time to date constantly like you say? Try putting in 12 hour days at least 6 days a week. You got practices; games, team building exercises, workouts, strict diets, meetings, commercials, tv appearances. Even if you are injured it’s not a vacation as you have mountains of physio and recovery plans snd recovery diet plans. And if you are the top athletes you are thinking about sports sport strategy team building everything all day long. Athletes rarely become athletes… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/03/22 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on showing affection?Give examples of what affection is to you. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/03/22 02:55 PM |
| 2 | is my therapist right that women do like feminine looking men?Womens physical preferences in mate selection tend to switch off from traditional masculine to more masculine feminine as they bond further with you and or want or have produced children as this is a way of getting masculine men more in line to being effective fathers as the worst thing a child to experience is aggression hyper discipline and dominance of a parental figure hence entire creation of a field called triple p parenting which is scientifically proven to be the parenting gold standard … | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/22 10:39 PM |
| 1 | How do I avoid the bad women out there?Pm me. I lived with a narc/borderline/bpd/nutcase (her words not mine as she revels in this fact and believes it makes her powerful) for 25+ years in the form of my mother. I could write a book on each of these subjects as I have seen every negative trait in humanity performed by her. To answer your question it really comes down to attachment; active listening, etc. I have yet to meet a securely attached women who was toxic. Toxic people tend to have broken attachment I healed trauma and an nega… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/22 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Would it be more accurate to say women want men who talk about their emotions rather than express them?Some great insights here. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/03/22 10:22 PM |
| 5 | What if I don’t want a “traditional woman”?Saving is great. Investing is where you save all your money because simply saving in a bank loses you a ton of money. A really solid investing vehicle (probably the best one) is real estate as you can yield high returns that overcome the race of inflation and tax hikes. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/03/22 10:18 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of sh*ttesting?Your perception creates your reality. If you perceive shit tests to be real and a great deal then when actions that are considered by others as shit tests come up you are going to see it as that and it’s going to be a big deal. For me, I simply see it as women having fun trying to open up and share with you a little of the different aspects of her personality. If a women is doing this it does mean she some interest in you. The question is it to exploit or to grow. Exploit means it’s to manipulat… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/03/22 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Dating is a rigged game.IMO Before you start dating you must ask yourself these pivotal questions to set you up for success. 1: Do you know what you want in a partner? List your top ten traits, Preferably things one can work on and control. 2: Do you know what that partner who has those traits wants in a partner? Usually it is similar (Want fitness and looks be fit and look as best as you can not fat and feel the gym is hell on earth) Modern dating has become this two sided selfish thing we’re people want want want but… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/03/22 02:40 PM |
| 5 | How the hell do you meet people?If you are caring for an elderly person in your family, first I applaud you for doing that. That’s really awesome, especially at doing it at a young age. Very rare to see this. Second now would be a great time to take you and said loved one and give them a life experience like no other and travel the world. You can do this by going on nonstop cruises. I myself looked into having my Mom put on an endless cruise instead of living in a retirement home. It is actually a common thing and you can meet… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/03/22 07:54 PM |
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