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The funny thing is, sometimes you don't even have to "change up" that much as long as you take the rejection well. For instance, at a house party in college I chatted with this girl and got her number. I called her the next day to set up a hang out, but she didn't answer so I left a voicemail. She never called or texted back, so I simply moved along, no follow ups, and just lived my life as usual. About six months later a mutual friend of ours tells me she likes me and wants to meet up.
/r/seduction18/07/26 05:20 PM
3

Considering you got all the way to the bedroom, that seems more like a playful test than real resistance. You could have just countered with a grin and said something like "rules are meant to be broken".
/r/seduction17/05/26 04:03 AM
1

How often does he actually hit on women? How often is he even around women to hit on? (surgeons tend to work a lot) I'm not trying to blame it all on him, but I've noticed a lot otherwise great guys simply aren't proactive enough to get good results. This usually comes down to either personal issues (like low confidence) or a non-social lifestyle (work, gym, tv, sleep, repeat). You can be a 9/10 man, but if you want to date a 9/10 women, you have to put yourself out there and make moves.
/r/seduction08/05/26 05:44 PM
7

That its because you already have an image of yourself as an attractive guy and shooting your shot naturally threatens that image. Good insight.
/r/seduction27/04/26 04:58 PM
3

Agreed and to simplify what you're saying, game is for "maybe" girls, not "no" girls.
/r/seduction18/01/26 10:59 PM
7

Exactly. Your mentality will always manifest in your behavior to some degree. The more you think you're a creep, the more you'll seem like one.
/r/seduction18/12/25 04:19 PM
1

You don't need to read classic novels to achieve this lol. It's not that hard to inject your emotions into your conversations. "I was so excited to... It made me nervous when... I felt amazing after..." etc.
/r/seduction28/09/25 06:11 PM
2

Is this not obvious? If you look "alternative", you generally won't attract "normal" people. Whether or not you think that's it worth it to change your appearance is up to you. Personally I've never understood why people think they have to to style themselves based on their interests. I'm a fan of lots of things that aren't stereotypically "white" or "mainstream", but I still look/dress like a normal white dude, which I am lol.
/r/seduction25/09/25 08:52 PM
1

Don't overthink it. Just start with something simple like, "Hey, this is random but I thought you were cute so I wanted to say hello". Then follow up with "What are you up to today?" and let the conversation flow naturally from there.
/r/seduction06/09/25 07:39 PM
3

Come home, wind down with some videogames or something. And then repeat. So get out of the house and find venues and activities where there's women. There's no mystery here, you're simply not taking any action. I used to watch my big brother sneak in really hot girls all the time. Ask him for advice. An experienced older brother is an amazing resource many guys don't have. Use it.
/r/seduction05/09/25 03:58 PM
5

If the girl was matching OP drink for drink, sure. But she was clearly overstepping in this instance, and even flaunting it with her "I don't pay" stories. With that audacity, she can pay for herself.
/r/seduction05/08/25 08:57 PM
1

And why do you believe that one person? Do they get lots of women? That's an extreme conclusion and sounds like nonsense to me. The "I don't feel a spark" thing is just a generic rejection. Lots of people on this sub will tell you it just means something about your behavior wasn't attractive. The vibe should be upbeat, playful, and flirty.
/r/seduction20/07/25 06:02 PM
1

Sure, but I doubt that's the issue here. You're responses in this thread show a serious lack of self confidence and pessimistic attitude towards dating. I'd assume you're vibe and behavior on the date was not attractive.
/r/seduction20/07/25 05:51 PM
1

How am I supposed to know? I have no idea who you are or who the woman is. But if she went on date with you, than your looks aren't the problem. Woman don't match with and go on dates with men they find repulsive.
/r/seduction20/07/25 05:47 PM
1

You've made a baseless assumption, she never said you're "repulsive". Women will reject men for reasons other than looks.
/r/seduction20/07/25 05:42 PM
1

A single woman politely rejected you and you jumped to conclusion you're unlovable? Get a grip man. You need to work on your self confidence. There's millions of woman to date, one rejection means nothing.
/r/seduction20/07/25 05:25 PM
31

The problem with the high effort mentality it that to women this effort is viewed as "unearned". Why are willing do all this stuff for a woman you barely know? It comes across as desperate, pathetic, creepy, manipulative, or all the above. It shows that you see her as "better" than you, which isn't attractive. Women want an equal, not a servant.
/r/seduction30/06/25 06:14 PM
6

Yeah, but not within just 3 years. More like within 5-10 years.
/r/seduction26/06/25 04:30 PM
15

Women tend to be a lot pickier on dating apps. Most women only want to match with men who check most of the boxes on their "perfect man" list. But look around in the real world and it's clear that other factors can make a big difference.
/r/seduction26/06/25 04:05 PM
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At some point, I casually said, “Yeah, I do daygame. You’ll notice I don’t use typical “pickup” lingo. LOL
/r/seduction19/06/25 08:21 PM
14

scan the room like a delta operator top-tier sexual assassin So here I am. Retired. Decorated. Haunted. Lmao nice gravy seals fanfic bro
/r/seduction06/05/25 06:54 PM
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They're either staged, or they're only showing their successes. Keep in mind that getting numbers is no guarantee of things going anywhere beyond that. And for a reality check, here's a video of an attractive guy getting a bunch of rejections.
/r/seduction18/03/25 05:41 PM
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That’s only if you don’t pee between ejaculations. Pre-cum itself contains no sperm, but it can carry residual sperm.
/r/seduction16/03/25 11:46 PM
21

There are no magic words, it all depends on the situation. And really, you don't have to say anything. Wait for a good pause with some eye contact and just go for it.
/r/seduction14/03/25 08:43 PM
0

It's not that simple. I've had plenty of girls decline a 2nd date despite no harsh shit tests.
/r/seduction12/02/25 07:45 AM
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Fun test, but I can't say I've ever encountered anything like these on a date. I must be either getting subtler shit tests or I'm just picking chiller girls lol.
/r/seduction11/02/25 07:15 AM
2

The point is fear mongering guys into checking out his "other articles". Typical sales funnel tactics.
/r/seduction07/02/25 05:37 PM
3

You stop being jealous by realizing it does nothing for you, except make you feel bad. There will always be a guy who's more handsome, more rich, more smart, etc. out there. And that has no impact on your life. You can only play the cards you're dealt. Comparison is the thief of joy.
/r/seduction30/01/25 04:08 PM
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It wouldn't be neither. If they weren't young lovers, than the guy had the right charisma to attract the girl.
/r/seduction17/01/25 05:37 PM
1

If an average looking guy is dating a hot girl and there's no obvious reason, than he either has a charismatic personality or he's been dating the girl since they were much younger (high school sweethearts scenario).
/r/seduction17/01/25 02:41 AM
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That's too broad of a question to give some universal answer. But here's an example of it being done.
/r/seduction05/01/25 03:26 PM
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Keep it simple; cute, pretty, or hot is all you need. Most girls don't take it seriously when you say slick lines or wordy compliments. A simple "you look cute" is casual enough that it comes across as authentic. And as always, use compliments sparingly. You're banter builds the attraction, the compliment just shows your intent.
/r/seduction04/01/25 10:18 PM
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I try more kindo directly while drinking. Most I try to hold hands and if their reaction is not good, I back off but if they seem to be chill, I try to hold more longer. This is awkward IMO. Going from nothing to holding hands is bit of a jump escalation wise. Also doing it seated at a bar is pretty awkward on a first date. That's something I'd only expect an actual couple to do. So I get the impression you might have an escalation issue. Here's a basic playbook: You need to start escalating at …
/r/seduction16/11/24 05:24 PM
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Normal as in common? No, most guys don't do it. It is appropriate to do? Yes, as long as you act chill and polite.
/r/seduction08/09/24 03:39 PM
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Because a hookup is just short term physical activity. They're not concerned about your job, personality, etc. because they're not staying with you long term.
/r/seduction05/09/24 08:39 PM
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Holy shit, take her off the pedestal dude. You're never going to get her with that mindset. If you treat her like a celebrity, she'll treat you like fan. Remember she shits in the toilet just like everyone else.
/r/seduction29/08/24 02:17 AM
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As a man you should at least want to pay for basic stuff like stylish clothing, haircuts, gym memberships, etc. because not only does this attract women, it's good for your life in general. Being an out shape slob will hurt you professionally and socially. You are seen as a more overall competent person when your appearance is on point. This is a known psychological phenomenon called the Halo Effect. Now do you have to go all out and do fancy restaurants dates and pay for professional photo shoo…
/r/seduction15/07/24 06:54 PM
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“hey, I don’t mean to bother you guys but I was just sitting at the bar and I saw you(looking at her) and I would have probably kicked myself if I didn’t come say hi”. I then just blurted “are you from nyc ?” I see a few problems here. Don't imply you're "bothering" them, or anything negative like that. Instead say something like, "Hey this is kind of random..." because it shows you're self aware of the situation, making it less awkward. You weren't really direct with your words. Why would you k…
/r/seduction13/07/24 07:21 PM
1

Reread my last sentence. Here's some examples.
/r/seduction06/07/24 07:49 PM
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Just as I suspected, you're failing at the basics. You're asking for the number way too quickly, it's that simple. Think about it, most women are not going to just give their number to a total stranger just because he have them a compliment. You need to have at least a few minutes of fun/flirty conversation to make her comfortable and interested in you enough so that she actually wants to give it to you.
/r/seduction06/07/24 06:39 PM
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Looks are important, but they aren't everything. What you say and how you say it is also important. I'd guess that your approach technique is sub par. Provide us a typical example of how you open and have a conversation. Also looking at your post history, that astrology stuff is a bunch of nonsense. The stars are not preventing you from getting women lol. The fact that you're jumping to that line of thinking is telling me that you're not really analyzing your problems accurately.
/r/seduction06/07/24 05:06 PM
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Never reject yourself for anything, let her decide. She might not care about your money, or even like being a sugar mommy lol. You never know, shoot your shot.
/r/seduction05/07/24 06:49 AM
3

Listen to this OP. Blurting out random compliments is not how start an engaging conversation.
/r/seduction27/06/24 08:55 PM
2

Depends. If you don't want to potentially waste a bunch of time, just get it over with and ask her now.
/r/seduction27/06/24 03:17 AM
1

"Hey do you want to go on a date?". It's not complicated lol
/r/seduction26/06/24 10:27 PM
4

This is basically a non-issue if you had at a least few minutes of decent conversation beforehand. Asking for her number is just the natural conclusion of a good chat, it shouldn't feel like "putting her on the spot". If you're not sure of the vibe, you can gave her your number instead, but that's most likely just saving yourself from a face to face rejection. Plus it's more confident to ask her, which never hurts your chances.
/r/seduction16/06/24 04:00 PM
8

Watch stand up comedy or witty tv shows. Over time you'll absorb and naturally integrate some of it into your conversations.
/r/seduction12/06/24 03:28 AM
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Sounds like you're moving too fast. "A few lines back and forth" is not enough for most women to be assured that you're a normal (safe) person who's worth meeting. They're ghosting and flaking because you're still a total stranger. You have to engage in a little conversation to get familiar with each other first. You should do this for your own benefit too, to avoid the boring and crazy ones.
/r/seduction25/05/24 11:04 PM
0

Since you self described as "slightly nerdy" and "socially stunted", your social skills are probably the issue. Start talking to women platonically and just focus on having a good conversation. See if you can make her laugh and make her invest in the conversation (i.e. she starts asking you questions). Don't even worry about getting numbers and dates until you can do that. If you need detailed guidance on specific social skills, check out Charisma on Command.
/r/seduction19/05/24 07:53 PM
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There is only ONE way to pass the test. DO NOT DO WHAT SHE EXPECTS (trying in some way to keep her favour) AND INSTEAD JUST REMOVE YOUR ATTENTION. Disagree. A cocky aloof attitude also can work, and will sometimes have a more immediate effect. She teases you: "That's cute" or "You're funny" She insults you: "You're cute when your angry" or "Is that all?" She flirts with other guys: "So when's the wedding?" Keep in mind these are said with dry sarcasm and a smirk. The vibe is to be unaffected and…
/r/seduction29/04/24 07:27 PM
1

"You're funny" said with a smirk, then walk off. Basically, dismiss the test with a cocky aloofness. Although IMO Harlow still handled it decently. He made it to work with sheer confidence.
/r/seduction29/04/24 07:05 PM
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Maybe, but that's closer to a tease than a neg.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/24 06:42 PM
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Does no one understand what negging is anymore? Jesus Christ. It's not an insult, passive aggressive comment, or backhanded compliment. It's a soft disqualifying statement. For example: "Wow you're so short you're like a midget" — Wrong "I'm usually not into shorter girls" — Right The idea is to subtly make her think she's not your ideal woman. This makes her want to chase your validation and be the "special" girl who won you over.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/24 04:22 PM
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Seriously. It's like a checklist of the typical try hard douchebag. What's next? Drive a loud car, only eat meat, and wear UFC shirts? Lmao
/r/TheRedPill19/01/24 05:44 AM
9

Being "authentic" or "yourself" is probably the most misunderstood advice in dating. It doesn't mean being an open book, being brutally honest, or pouring your heart out. That's your mistake OP. A date is not a therapy session. It means acting how you would normally act among friends. This includes not overthinking every word or action, cracking jokes, playfullying teasing, discussing fun/interesting topics, and giving your real opinion on things.
/r/seduction08/10/23 10:01 PM
10

It does more than your generic aluminium/plastic smartwatch that every other person has nowadays. You don't need to break the bank either, I've gotten compliments on dates wearing this modest Seiko.
/r/seduction06/10/23 08:44 PM
37

Good posture, relaxed body language, fresh breath, combed/styled hair, trimmed body hair, white teeth, clean nails, unwrinkled clothes, analog watch, subtle jewelry, clean sneakers, leather boots
/r/seduction06/10/23 05:18 PM
1

Yeah I tend to think of seduction strategy as "guidelines" myself. There's a methodology of how things are generally done, but what "feels right/natural" in any specific situation will overrule the guidelines when there's a contradiction.
/r/seduction06/09/23 07:24 PM
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Confident guys don’t “approach” or “open”, they just talk to women that they think are hot. Yep. And I'll add that thinking in "seduction/pua" terms is actually detrimental to your success because it makes it a bigger deal in your head than it really is. Ultimately you are just "talking" to women, it's a normal and natural thing.
/r/seduction06/09/23 04:26 PM
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This video explains it well I think: The Alt-Right Playbook: How to Radicalize a Normie TL;DW: Many young boys are susceptible, for various reasons, to right wing internet propaganda.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/08/23 06:10 AM
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I don't think this is a frame issue. I wouldn't say that asking her to stay over was a big deal. We fuck pleasantly but unceremoniously as she had to leave soon to catch the last train. The cold truth is you probably didn't fuck her well enough. I mean, you yourself described it as "unceremonious" lol. Does that sound like a good time? If she's really a baddie, than she's not cutting you any slack when there's a line of guys ready to step up to the plate. It's one strike and you're out. Sucks, b…
/r/TheRedPill16/05/23 11:06 PM
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It is the less masculine men, IE. "soyboys", effete, often gay/bi or trans, who seem to not empathize with men's issues AT ALL. They don't view "masculinity" as a whole in a neutral or positive way, only negative. They don't fit the mold of a "traditionally masculine" man and this offends their sense of male identity.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/23 12:06 AM
7

I don't like the implication that masculinity isn't positive by default. By contrast, you don't see femininity framed as "positive femininity" very often. It's simply "femininity", and isn't further defined. While I don't disagree with the concept of "positive masculinity", I'm skeptical of the term due to the existing double standard of its use.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/23 05:23 PM
5

You and your friends know how to take a rejection, but unfortunately a lot of guys don't. A few bad rejections is all it takes for a girl to stop being direct. It sucks, but it is what it is.
/r/seduction21/09/22 05:20 PM
1

Nope, there's no hoping. The mentality is that whether she returns or not, it's cool either way. Maybe you can't operate like that, but others can.
/r/seduction30/08/22 03:59 PM
1

You’re not “hoping” for her to come back. You move on with your life, but you leave the door open for the off chance that she returns.
/r/seduction29/08/22 08:49 PM
2

Why wait months for one girl when I can get two or three girls in that time? You're thinking about it wrong. You're not actually "waiting" for the girl, you just live your life and pursue other girls. If she happens to reach out again, cool. If not, cool, you already moved on.
/r/seduction29/08/22 03:09 PM
2

If you're following them on social media, just unfollow them lol. Idk why people are so block-happy, there's no benefit and you just look butt hurt.
/r/seduction29/08/22 03:02 PM
2

If a woman gives you a mean response like that for no apparent reason, she's probably not worth dating anyway. Whenever this happens, just mentally thank her for saving your time and effort.
/r/seduction12/08/22 07:40 PM
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Similarly, "nice" doesn't count for much if that's all you're capable of. A strong man (physically and mentally) is respected for being nice, because he chooses kindness over violence. A weak man is not respected for being nice, because he has to be nice, he's not capable of violence.
/r/seduction12/08/22 03:20 AM
40

He's a yoga teacher, where do you think? lol
/r/seduction21/07/22 03:52 AM
1

That is the general experience. Your results will be fairly random, unless you live in a conservative area that's against interracial dating.
/r/seduction23/06/22 03:37 PM
4

Some girls won't care, some will. You won't really know until you try. Just go for it.
/r/seduction23/06/22 02:35 PM
1

Partly disagree. Jerk behavior itself is not attractive. Jerks usually just have enough good qualities (eg. confidence) that outweigh their negative qualities (eg. abusive).
/r/seduction17/06/22 01:59 AM
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The female perspective of the dating market makes a lot more sense when you realize that everything they say has the prerequisite of the man being attractive. "Where's all the good [attractive] men?" "All the [attractive] men I've dated are jerks." "[Attractive] Men just want sex." And so on. This confuses the average Joe because he only hears "men" and thinks that includes him, but it doesn't.
/r/seduction16/06/22 10:05 PM
1

In addition to your explanation, it's also because attractive men tend to be more promiscuous and uncaring about a specific woman, because they have options and can easily replace her.
/r/seduction16/06/22 09:42 PM
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Yep. Similarly, “You can be sweetest peach on the tree, but some people just don’t like peaches.”
/r/TheRedPill15/06/22 08:17 PM
2

Most men like the "traditional" female style: Shoulder-length hair or longer (natural color) Makeup, but not too obvious Female clothing: dresses, skirts, short shorts, heels, etc. Moderate cleavage Tight pants
/r/seduction27/05/22 11:25 PM
1

Young women will almost never directly flirt with men unless they're drunk or you're model-tier handsome. Don't worry about it, it's not you.
/r/seduction22/05/22 03:20 AM
7

That 2nd image is still "too big" by most women's standards. Chris Hemsworth in Thor is roughly the maximum for most women.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/22 10:16 PM
5

These events are basically just Tinder IRL except that you're forced to talk to everyone for 5 minutes. Skip these events, and just use apps or approach IRL.
/r/seduction28/04/22 07:59 PM
1

It's similar to the 80/20 rule where 20% of men are dating 80% of the women. You're a little off here. The top 20% of men are not "dating" 80% of the women, rather it's that they have "access" to them. Meaning they could date them if the wanted to. However, in reality the top 20% are only dating the top 40%. Said another way, an 8 rated man generally isn't dating lower than a 6 rated woman.
/r/seduction28/04/22 07:52 PM
1

Not overly clingy, jealous, emotional, obsessive, etc. Basically "not crazy" lol.
/r/seduction27/04/22 09:32 PM
1

If a girl has fully optimized herself, and a man still has better/other options, then it's out of her control. There is no "game" for that. Either her max level isn't high enough, or the man is a player who won't commit anyway.
/r/seduction27/04/22 08:11 PM
2

That falls under point 5.
/r/seduction27/04/22 07:58 PM
18

Female "game" for getting a relationship is simple. Behave feminine (don't walk and talk like a guy) Act normal / have a generally pleasant personality Hold a conversation / ask him questions
/r/seduction27/04/22 06:44 PM
2

Points 2–4 actually address securing commitment. Most men won't commit to a hot woman who acts masculine, crazy, and difficult to converse with.
/r/seduction27/04/22 06:17 PM
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If such a sub exists, or existed, it wouldn't be to the same level as male oriented subs. This is because female "game" is very simple: Optimize your body / style (in a traditionally feminine way) Behave feminine (don't walk and talk like a guy) Act normal / have a generally pleasant personality Hold a conversation / ask him questions Put yourself out there (bars, public spaces, apps, etc.) The above points solve 99% of women's dating issues. Edit: bullets changed to numbers
/r/seduction27/04/22 05:31 PM
3

I've lifted weights on and off for a couple years and I haven't noticed any of the benefits There's your problem. You have to be consistent enough for optimal results. I'm more muscular than before, it's not enough for others to really notice That's no surprise when you just said you lift weights "on and off". You don't have any significant gains because you're fucking around too much. hard to be motivated to go to the gym when I knew I needed to work on squats and deadlifts You need to find the…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/22 02:09 PM
12

You guys like to think the best years of your lives are ahead of you. It is if you keep improving yourself AND you take action. This. Men don't magically become attractive in their 30's and beyond. That only happens if you do ALL of the following beforehand: Build and maintain an athletic physique (not skinny fat or dad bod) Improve your career/salary Actively pursuing women, thereby improving your game
/r/seduction15/04/22 05:28 PM
2

You should measure your girth and search here for condoms that match it. Brand wise, I prefer "Skyn" condoms.
/r/seduction14/04/22 06:24 PM
1

Try using different condoms, the fit is important. You want it to feel snug, not tight, otherwise your dick will lose sensation. A well fitting condom almost feels as good as raw.
/r/seduction14/04/22 01:45 PM
4

My man, why are fucking raw on the first time? Imagine if you got this crazy women pregnant. Always wear a condom until you know the woman is normal and clean. Think with your bigger head next time. Also, this women doesn’t sound like she’s worth the hassle. Next her.
/r/seduction14/04/22 02:18 AM
2

Yes, you have a "chance". Any kind of physical trait that's viewed negatively (short, bald, etc) doesn't mean NO ONE will be interested. The world is not that black and white, so don't think that way. Generally speaking, a negative physical trait will reduce your options, but you can still find someone who doesn't care about it. Not to mention you can compensate for it in other ways. If you're shorter than average, you should focus on improving your body and style.
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:38 PM
1

what really sets my game below optimal is, that i want to skip it ASAP, because i don't really like the whole dynamic of controlling the flow of info, being aware of body language all the time, constantly reading and writing information into someone else This is because you're new to these concepts. With enough time and practice you won't think very much about it, it will be automatic and natural. It's like learning any other skill. You probably don't think much about driving a car or riding a b…
/r/seduction11/04/22 08:56 PM
3

Because sex is an activity, not a beauty contest. "Good sex" means "good performance". If a hot girl just lays there silently, it's a bad performance, and therefore bad sex.
/r/seduction11/04/22 04:10 PM
3

Women date "bad boys" because their attractive qualities (e.g. confidence) outweigh their unattractive qualities (e.g. abusive). Women don't date "nice guys" because their unattractive qualities (e.g. neediness) outweigh their attractive qualities (e.g. friendly). Also, perspective is important. What nice guys deem as "jerk" behavior is often over exaggerated, because they tend to think that any man who gets into a conflict (verbally) with a women is a jerk.
/r/seduction08/04/22 03:15 PM
0

You fucked up on the texting part, however, texting can actually be a useful tool when done correctly. How you should have texted after she left: Y: Hey I had a great time last night :) H: Me too, I had fun Y: Let's do it again sometime H: Ok, sounds good The exact wording isn't important, but the point is you want to establish that the situation was consensual and a positive experience.
/r/seduction08/04/22 02:37 PM
9

"That guy has a girlfriend and I don't? What's wrong with the world?". The truth is that guy probably didn't do anything special, EXCEPT that he makes moves on girls (getting numbers, asking for dates, etc). If you fall into the "nice guy" category, chances are you're not making enough moves on girls because you're afraid of rejection or being a creep. This is a nice guy mentality. You're more worried about the girl's feelings and your image rather than getting what you want. So yes, read the bo…
/r/seduction06/04/22 05:38 PM
8

Nothing of value comes easy, it takes effort. A high paying job will require you to perform well. A good physique will require you to go to the gym. You can do what you want, but don't expect to have good results by doing little or nothing.
/r/seduction05/04/22 07:07 PM
20

I get that, but you intellectual guys need understand that you're more susceptible to information overload and analysis paralysis. You'll be better off drilling a couple key concepts into your head rather than reading about all the little details. That's an easy trap to fall into in the manosphere unfortunately.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/22 01:20 AM
25

"Get off social media" says the guy writing vapid novels on social media lmao
/r/TheRedPill04/04/22 12:49 AM
126

This didn't need to be a dozen paragraphs. TL;DR: Women care about feelings and how you make them feel. Nerds that only engage in logical/factual conversations don't attract women.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/22 09:32 PM
3

Because 99% of women have no "game". Women just have to 1) show up 2) look good 3) act normal 4) let the man lead The dating world doesn't work that way for men.
/r/seduction01/04/22 09:58 PM
1

Do what you want. But don't expect to have good results for doing nothing.
/r/seduction30/03/22 03:56 PM
5

So is anything that's worthwhile. A high paying job will require you to perform well. A good physique will require you to go to the gym. Nothing of value comes easy, it takes effort.
/r/seduction28/03/22 03:41 PM
59

Ever heard the phrase "killed the mood"? That's what happened to you. It's perfectly normal.
/r/seduction24/03/22 05:51 PM
5

I can agree with that now that you’ve clarified it’s for beyond 3rd dates.
/r/seduction22/03/22 08:02 PM
12

you ask her out and where she wants to go "I don't care" You should pick the location and time. Most women expect the man to take the lead. That's why they give you the "I don't know/care" answers, they're not comfortable leading.
/r/seduction22/03/22 04:54 PM
2

Yeah he's not rockstar status, but he's made lots of appearances in the media. He may be a C-List celebrity, but relative to his no-name wife, that does count for something.
/r/seduction21/03/22 06:58 PM
13

no one would ever describe his looks as Chad-like but google his wife. To be fair, he married his wife after he became a famous author. I'm sure Strauss has some skills, but the fame factor shouldn't be overlooked either.
/r/seduction21/03/22 04:53 PM
5

Woke culture tends to be toxic because it's basically built on a "victim olympics" mentality. It becomes a game of who is "more oppressed". This naturally leads to the "less oppressed" people getting ignored and exiled until you're left with the extremists who look like wackos to everyone else. Ultimately they just end up destroying their own credibility, because they become more concerned with scoring "victim points" rather than actual activism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/03/22 03:49 PM
76

Be really good at sports, be swole, be a good musician. Be something. But if you stay average or worse than average, you will constantly be looked over. That's actually good advice for all men, not just short men.
/r/seduction15/03/22 01:41 PM
1

I'd guess that even though you're doing self improvement, you're not doing it primarily for yourself, and that's why it feels unsatisfying. You may be subconsciously hoping that there will be a "payoff" of some kind, like impressing your friends and bedding women. And that's ok to want those things, but if it's the primary motivator then the whole process is going to feel like a chore, not a satisfying journey.
/r/seduction13/03/22 01:21 AM
6

The better question is why don't you care about "fun" conversation? Do you actually enjoy just exchanging info like it's an interview? Probably not. Now obviously you have to exchange info to some degree, but if the conversation is <50% of that, then it's going to feel boring. That's usually why women say they don't feel a "spark" with some men.
/r/seduction12/03/22 08:18 PM
38

Sleeping with some unattractive girls isn't really damaging your SMV, that's all in your head. It's generally considered "good" for men to have sexual experience, regardless of the quality. Just view it as "practice" for your bedroom skills. Plus it sounds like you're in a new city, so no one knows about your past anyway. Stop worrying and get out there.
/r/seduction11/03/22 03:18 PM
2

You keep emotions in check by limiting your time and behavior. Only meet up 1-2 times per week Time spent together is limited, no all-day hang outs Texting/calling is reserved for logistics, not random chit chat Sleepovers are rare occasions, not a regular thing Basically, do not act like you're in an actual relationship.
/r/seduction10/03/22 09:11 PM
1

When women do direct sexy stuff like this, yes, they want sex lol. It's usually best to respond with something that implies a future meet up. Examples: • Wow, I'd say what I'm thinking, but I'd rather show you in person • Mmm naughty girl, you're getting a spanking next time I see you The idea here is that you're giving her an easy layup to make plans. She will likely respond with a "when/where/what time" type of answer.
/r/seduction10/03/22 04:39 PM
1

even during “downtime” she would always laugh at my jokes while touching me and likes to cuddle after sex, to the point of ask to spoon. She's just giving you the "girlfriend experience", that's normal for good quality escorts. said we should go out to eat sushi And she's probably expecting you to pay for it. Honestly, none of her behavior you mentioned is "special", she's just a good escort. That said, you can still try it, there's nothing to lose. I'd bet she'd give you free sex once in a whil…
/r/seduction08/03/22 10:46 PM
1

If a woman "requires" a restaurant for a first date, then she most likely has low interest in you. Basically she doesn't think you're worth a date unless a free meal is involved. Think about it, if her "ideal man" asked her to just grab a drink at a bar, she'd do it no questions asked. And if women are sending you restaurants lists, or surprising you with restaurant reservations, chuckle and walk away. You'll go farther having some self respect rather than jumping through hoops for dates.
/r/seduction07/03/22 10:35 PM
1

I always thought there is a slow progress from a date to banging. I think this is one of bigger epiphanies men have when they start learning seduction. So many men are caught up in the "nice guy" mindset that dating is a long process and that women want to wait weeks/months for sex. That illusion quickly shatters once you start banging women within 3 dates, or just straight off of Tinder lol.
/r/seduction05/03/22 05:16 PM
1

She wouldn’t offer a fwb if she wasn’t actually interested in it. It’s not some test. So she said she enjoys taking it slow, and yet she still rejected a relationship? Lol. Watch what she does, not what she says.
/r/seduction05/03/22 02:43 AM
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A FWB situation is actually your best chance at turning this girl into your girlfriend. If you two get along well and the sex is good, she'll probably want a relationship eventually. It often happens that way. And even if she doesn't, at least you had some fun with a girl you liked. Just accept the offer and setup a time to hang out. If you really don't want to do FWB then just decline her offer and move on. Do not waste your time and effort trying to "get to know each other". She already offere…
/r/seduction04/03/22 10:12 PM
5

Decent strategy, but I'd bet it's more effective if you flip it around. "Hey I’m not on here much. What's your number? I'll text you" Girls prefer guys to take the lead.
/r/seduction01/03/22 10:48 PM
1

If you are a dude sitting at home wondering what you are doing wrong, it is most likely that you just aren't getting in the right situations. This should be the actual title of your post. Yes, male friends are important, but they're not as "key" as going out to the right venues.
/r/seduction01/03/22 05:14 PM
2

I'm just going to point out some things I see. 4 months is not a long time. No one gets "good" at anything that quickly. Are you only going after certain types of girls? (ethnicity, figure, style) What girls do you have the best results with? You workout, but do you actually look muscular? I see no mention of your clothing. Have you tried to improve that? Have women ever complimented your outfits? Food for thought.
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:51 AM
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It’s important to remember that you may talk a woman who is already interested in you out of sleeping with you, by having shit game. Huge point. I had to highlight it for everyone here.
/r/seduction01/03/22 12:45 AM
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women will keep asking me to do stuff for them (switch seats,buy something for them, leave a seat for their friend) and they always use a patronizing tone You need some more self respect. Tell them to ask you nicely if their tone is patronizing or just say no if you genuinely don't want to. Hold your ground if they don't comply. You have to "walk the walk" to be respected. The world isn't going to end if some women get mad.
/r/seduction28/02/22 12:18 AM
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Agreed. "Work on yourself" is generally good advice, but you do need to actually practice your seduction skills (in addition to self improvement) for optimal results. You don't get good at something by not doing it. That's just common sense.
/r/seduction22/02/22 10:27 PM
17

Well there’s your answer. He’s a good looking guy with enough game to pull younger girls.
/r/seduction21/02/22 11:46 PM
13

Is he at a high level in the company? Is he also decent looking? If so, that's why.
/r/seduction21/02/22 09:09 PM
2

I've said every generic hookup pickup line in the book, it's worked about once. I do what all the "guides" say and comment about their photos, blah blah blah, nothing seems to work. For me, the best strategy is avoiding all the high effort stuff. The dating apps are mostly a numbers game, and you'll burn out if you give every woman high effort. I usually open with something simple like "Hey [name] how's your week going?". If a woman doesn't respond to something like that, or gives a 1-2 word ans…
/r/seduction21/02/22 08:40 PM
1

If she doesn't give a direct "yes" to being free, that weeds her out just the same. The exact question/phrasing doesn't matter.
/r/seduction21/02/22 06:19 PM
2

Women actually do want men to "open up", BUT the unsaid caveat is that they DO NOT want to hear your negative feelings. Your hopes and dreams? Cool. Your struggles and traumas? Nope. Why? Because most women want their man to be "the rock", and when you show her your "cracks" in the rock, she loses her sense of security with you, and thus loses attraction.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/22 04:52 PM
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Agreed. Even if that guy’s story is true, he just got lucky. It’s one of those “right time, right place” situations. 99% of guys aren’t going replicate his success, because it’s all luck and no method. Your time is better spent improving your attractiveness versus hoping that you win the lottery.
/r/seduction19/02/22 09:06 PM
1

I already explained that in my original comment.
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:37 PM
1

So what? That doesn't mean they're not attracted to bad boys too.
/r/seduction18/02/22 03:22 PM
2

Let me rephrase. The celebrity women he's dating don't need his wealth/fame, they have their own, so it's not really attractive, it's just a bare minimum requirement to date them. What's actually attractive to them is his bad boy persona.
/r/seduction18/02/22 05:12 AM
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All the comments here about him being rich and famous are dumb. He’s dating rich and famous women, so that’s not a factor here. What really makes him attractive is his IDGAF attitude. He makes lots of edgy jokes and comments. He’s honest about his health problems, but not in a pathetic way. Plus, it helps that Ariana Grande said he has a big dick. In short, he has a bad boy persona.
/r/seduction17/02/22 11:02 PM
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Do not say that corny flirting line as an opener. You're not even sure this girl likes you, so start with a basic convo to gauge her interest. Just use a situational opener. "How many miles are you running today?" then follow up with other questions about her workout routine. If she's acting warm and chatty, then you can start flirting.
/r/seduction17/02/22 08:05 PM
1

Reread my third sentence.
/r/seduction17/02/22 05:13 AM
1

What you've stumbled upon is known as "outcome independence". It's a classic seduction concept. As you saw, it's an effective mindset because it removes thirsty, insecure, and needy behavior from your interactions. When you don't care about the outcome, you tend to naturally act more attractive.
/r/seduction16/02/22 10:22 PM
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her body language came off as distant and cold — like she wasn’t trying to get to close to me, but still sat close by me on the couch. I didn’t make a move as I’m not sure if she’s still uncomfortable or whatnot. These are the situations were you just have to go for it. Some women just don't give out strong signals, for whatever reason. Let her stop you, it's no big deal. She wouldn't be at home alone with you if she wasn't open to sexual advances. If you get rejected, fine, at least you know wh…
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:06 PM
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This is typical girl behavior. She's interested now because you paid her no mind for weeks after the rejection. You demonstrated you're not a thirsty loser who chases after girls. Now, just do what you want. Hit her up, or don't. Your choice.
/r/seduction16/02/22 03:36 PM
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I’ve been trying to text her but no answer. But me thinking I can convince her, I texted her the next day I was checking out her facebook page You sound way too invested in a woman you haven't even gone on a date with. That's "weirdo" behavior. Move on dude, she's clearly not interested. Women don't flake multiple times on men they're attracted to.
/r/seduction09/02/22 06:03 PM
1

Generally speaking, this strategy sounds inefficient and ineffective. Most women aren't going to be so highly attracted to you that they'll wait around for 10 dates. And if they do wait, what if the sex ends up not being good? You're wasting a lot of time on one woman. Unless this is meant to be a bluff and you actually plan on having sex sooner, I wouldn't recommend it.
/r/seduction09/02/22 05:22 PM
1

As long as she's meeting up and it's a good time, I see no problem. If she was flaking or acting difficult that's another story. Just plan accordingly if you expect her to move the time.
/r/seduction08/02/22 11:16 PM
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Not necessarily. Sex with a new partner tends to be a little awkward the first few times, regardless of your experience. You simply don't know what eachother likes yet. That's just the nature of it. Practice makes perfect.
/r/seduction08/02/22 06:09 PM
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If you’re going too fast, they’ll probably tell you. If you go too slow, they’ll think you’re not interested. This is the key advice. Just make the move. If she stops you, respect it and play it cool. Then try again on the next date. Simple as that.
/r/seduction08/02/22 05:56 PM
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Last I checked most women like men who are stylish and clean lol. OP may have certain preferences, but her overall point is true. You're going to have trouble flirting with women if you look unstylish and dirty. It's not rocket science.
/r/seduction31/01/22 09:04 PM
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Open with light and fun banter. Keep the conversation brief, avoid dozens of back and forth messages. If she's receptive and giving good responses, suggest grabbing a drink and ask for her number. Then get off the app and setup the date via text.
/r/seduction31/01/22 02:42 PM
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To elaborate on OP's point, excessive texting is bad because: It looks needy or desperate It seems like you have nothing else going on in your life Higher potential for miscommunication No mystery > no curiosity > boring > unattractive In the initial dating phase, texting should only be used for setting up dates.
/r/seduction28/01/22 04:58 PM
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I’m a notorious flirt; according to how often I’m told this, probably even my dog thinks so. It’s just my nature.With men I’m not attracted to, it’s super easy since idc what they think. When I say "directly flirt", I mean you seriously intend to hook up or date them. Idk how you flirt, but I'm guessing you don't ask them for their number or ask to go on a date; because as you said, you're not actually attracted to them. Compliments, teasing, etc. are not what I'm referring to in my original pos…
/r/seduction28/01/22 04:18 PM
3

Look up exercise tutorials on youtube, there's tons of info. Also, no ones cares what you're doing in the gym. Everyone is focused on themselves. Just go for it dude.
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:31 PM
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Generally, women only directly flirt with men who they think are "better" than them. So that means you're above their level in their eyes. Furthermore, women who are around your level will generally not make the first move, even if they find you attractive. So keep that in mind, don't sit back and hope that attractive women will hit on you, shoot your shot.
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:17 PM
3

somehow inherently gaining value "Inherently" is the key word here. Any man who thinks it's "inherent" is misinformed. TRP says that men have "greater potential" as they age. It's not automatic, as evidenced by the abundance of George Costanza look alikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:57 PM
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It's not a problem for me at least. Hate the game, not the players. My only concern is identifying who is who, what they want, and to act accordingly based on that information.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 05:27 PM
5

First off, different men want different things. Second, this is a false dichotomy. You can want sex quickly with someone who you view as relationship material. TRP generally promotes having sex sooner than later to filter out low interest women who will waste a man's time. But that doesn't mean you need to fuck on the first date. It just means you shouldn't let the dating process get too lengthy without sex. How long that is exactly, is different for every man.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 04:33 PM
5

MGTOW on a societal level (not full monk mode) would make women start being much better towards men I think what would be even more effective is men just developing self respect. The majority of men let women get away with too much bad behavior. If a girl is making it difficult to meet up, tell her you've lost interest and move on. If a girl is constantly on her phone during a date, stand up and leave. The list goes on... If most men did that stuff, women would either shape up or remain single.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/22 07:43 PM
4

It sounds like you discovered you were under the influence of the Spotlight effect, which is the phenomenon in which people tend to believe they are being noticed more than they really are. FilthyFrank's antics showed you that no one really cares that much.
/r/seduction22/01/22 05:49 PM
3

While that 70% statistic is true, on the other end of the spectrum there are more “super fit” people now too. Both ends of the spectrum have increased, just not proportionally.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/22 10:38 PM
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even in parties we just dance have fun but nothing really exciting ever happens. That's because YOU have to make it happen. Most people will just follow the herd, the cool people MAKE the excitement happen. Get creative and take the lead.
/r/seduction21/01/22 09:45 PM
14

Wow. This is quite the example of "covert contracts" and bad Nice Guy® logic. "I'll give her mother my kidney to show her how much I really care! She'll love me forever for my sacrifice!" We all see how that went...
/r/TheRedPill19/01/22 07:06 PM
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I’m very selective with the girls I go on dates with and rarely meet upwith them straight away, I normally wait a month before suggesting it. Well you're not helping yourself then. Be a little less picky and setup a date within 1-2 weeks of getting a girl's number. To some degree, dating is a numbers game, and you need enough volume. I’m embarrassed to say that I went on 5+ dates with some girls and endedup in their beds with no intimacy, whilst hanging out watching a movie. Movies are bad idea …
/r/seduction18/01/22 07:27 PM
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Dude what’s going on in your edit? You bought her flowers and chocolate on the first date? Lol that’s way too serious dude. It’s not the 1950s, don’t do that. You’ll scare away the decent girls and waste money on the wackos, as you already did.
/r/seduction17/01/22 10:46 PM
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While I agree with your points, I want to offer another perspective. Dating apps can be useful as "training wheels" to gain experience. For men that have issues talking and approaching, the apps are a low pressure way for men to interact with women and get somewhat comfortable with it. Of course men should still improves themselves, and eventually graduate to real life interactions, but the apps can be a useful learning tool as long as it doesn't become a crutch.
/r/seduction17/01/22 07:40 PM
4

Generally speaking, if you’re +5 years older or younger than a women, you can experience an attraction boost. The younger women see you as “mature” while the older women see you as “fun”. Whereas women closer to your age just see you as “normal”.
/r/seduction15/01/22 09:25 PM
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They don't necessarily care about the women they're fucking as a person, they basically want to smash n dash. Your confusing behavior and intentions. Just because a man engages in casual sex doesn't mean he wouldn't get into a relationship if the right woman came along. This is a point a lot of women seem to miss. It's like the female equivalent of Nice Guy logic. "If I give him enough sex, he'll give me a relationship". Men don't work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 11:12 PM
1

Whether the wolf study is true or not is irrelevant. Anyone with basic social awareness can see that social hierarchies exist in humans. Here's an easy example everyone knows, the "popular" kids in highschool. They're popular because they have traits, behaviors, and lifestyles that are widely considered attractive. Alpha and Beta are just practical labels to convey what is or is not attractive. It's not some complex system based on stars, science, or anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 10:21 PM
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I think the "invisibility" of LVM is probably one of the biggest sources of confusion in the dating world. Whenever women talk about dating issues, it’s almost always more accurate to add “attractive” into their statements. “Where are all the [attractive] good men?” “I want a [attractive] man who’s confident and funny.” “Most of the [attractive] men I’ve dated are jerks.” “I’m so lonely, no [attractive] men want me.” “I never get hit on by [attractive] men.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 08:51 PM
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It doesn't have to be dance lessons, but it's got to be some activity that has a mix of men and women. Outside of going to bars and clubs, a hobby/activity group is the most viable option. It is what it is, I wouldn't feel bad about it.
/r/seduction13/01/22 03:52 PM
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By that logic, getting laid regularly would also make it harder, so no I don’t think there’s something special about wanking. However, I wouldn’t wank it every day because it will lower your energy and desensitize your dick. I’d keep the wanking to 1-2 per week. Also get a sex toy you can’t squeeze, like a fleshlight, so you don’t get the dreaded “death grip”.
/r/seduction12/01/22 11:13 PM
8

Great advice. "Fantasizing" about girls creates all kinds of problems. It makes you too nervous because you see her as a future girlfriend/wife. It warps your judgement. You're more likely to ignore red flags because you see her as some "perfect" being. It makes the girl uncomfortable, because in reality she isn't "perfect" and now she feels like she can't make any mistakes. It makes you look desperate. Attractive people have options, they don't try to get super serious with a potential partner …
/r/seduction12/01/22 05:53 PM
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I think what he’s trying to say is you should convey your sexual intent with behavior, not words. Look her in the eyes, give her a smirk, touch her, talk low and slow, go for the kiss, escalate to the bedroom, etc. Obviously you can still compliment and tease her, but it’s the direct sex talk that you should generally avoid.
/r/seduction01/01/22 01:36 AM
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Seconded. Listen to this guy OP.
/r/seduction31/12/21 07:12 PM
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It sounds to me like you need to get the number before discussing anything date related. Your message examples also look a bit too wordy. My approach that usually works is simple. After the initial small talk I just say “Free to grab a drink this week?” and if she says yes, then “Cool. What’s your number?”. Then I text her to set up the date logistics.
/r/seduction31/12/21 04:53 AM
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Regarding your 2nd point, I think it’s not so much that it’s actually common, but more so that it’s just the bare minimum. You shouldn’t be fat and broke in the first place, you’re not some special prize just because you’re not.
/r/seduction29/12/21 06:26 PM
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it’s not even a matter of game or personality. Girls literally COME to him Yes it is. Why else do you think girls come to him? He clearly has an attractive persona/reputation among his social circles. If you think that you're similarly attractive to him in looks, than game and personality are the difference between you two. And here I am, having spent 4 years building a really good physique. Taking care of my appearance…buying nice clothes. I'm going to guess your brother has a better social lif…
/r/seduction23/12/21 04:19 PM
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I'm sensing a miscommunication here. I assume by "women" you mean "hot women", because yes, it's harder for an average man to get with a hot woman. You need to make yourself above average if you're going after hot women. That's how it works, no one wants to "date down". However if you mean women in general, you're wrong. Just go outside, there's plenty of "average" couples.
/r/seduction22/12/21 07:52 PM
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compete with her That's it right here. These "strong personality" girls usually want a guy who can stand up to them and fire back with good banter. You have to pass that "test" before you hit on them.
/r/seduction20/12/21 05:09 PM
1

It probably does skew younger, but to some degree that's because most men let themselves go after their late 20's. Being in shape and well dressed goes a long way. It also depends what girls these "loser" guys are going for. They'll do better with younger girls who are looking for "fun" instead of relationships.
/r/seduction17/12/21 05:52 PM
1

I think most women don't like being approached That's because most men are terrible at it. Ask any woman about how they get approached in public. Most of time it's corny pickup lines, cat calling, or awkward conversation. they will always give "Ahh not this shit again" face Sounds like your approach falls into one of the categories I mentioned above lol. Here's a tip, remember you're the only common denominator here. If everything smells like shit, check under your own shoe. Their behavior would…
/r/seduction15/12/21 03:27 PM
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First off, if a girl is at your place then 90% of the work is done already. Don't overthink it. Here's a simple blueprint. Set a nice atmosphere with warm lighting and soft background music. Offer her a drink and/or snack. Sit close enough to her to easily kiss her. Have some fun and flirty conversation. After a little while, when there's a pause in the conversation, lock eyes for a moment and go for the kiss. This will usually turn into a make out. Once the make out gets hot and heavy, tell her…
/r/seduction13/12/21 04:56 PM
1

A group of female friends doesn't replace a male partner though, it's a different role. And if I recall correctly, I've read that men and women actually attempt suicide at similar rates, but the difference is that men chose more effective methods, like a gun, instead of pills.
/r/TheRedPill10/12/21 10:01 PM
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Essentially, being "ballsy" is basically not being afraid of conflict with a woman. Say your honest opinion, disagree with her opinion, tease her, make edgy jokes, etc. The caveat is that you shouldn't try to create conflicts just for the sake of it, be honest with your opinions and intentions. Being "interesting" is a bit more vague. Everyone has different opinions on what's interesting. Generally, some form of novelty and variety is involved. Think about those Dos Equis commercials, the "most …
/r/seduction10/12/21 09:39 PM
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Good post. A man's behavior really is the other half of the equation when it comes to attraction. That's why you see men who are "losers" (on paper) banging lots of hot girls. They have that edge and the lifestyle that makes women excited.
/r/seduction10/12/21 09:18 PM
5

Not really, only at first. Your mind quickly adapts to it like any other repetitive task.
/r/seduction10/12/21 06:21 PM
7

Yeah I've gotten to point where I can usually tell just by the face alone.
/r/seduction10/12/21 04:32 PM
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This seems like overkill lol. It's not that hard to identify fat girls. My rule is simple, if she has no full body pictures (wearing form-fitting clothes) than I swipe left.
/r/seduction10/12/21 02:35 PM
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It's easiest when you have your shit together, not at any specific age. Be in shape, dress well, have a decent job, etc. and you will do well with women until you're practically a senior citizen.
/r/seduction09/12/21 03:39 PM
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why would they want to marry someone less attractive? What do they get from it? Security. Nowadays it's less so financial or physical security, like you said, but there's also "emotional" security. Women still want a man who will be there for them when life gets tough. This is more apparent as women age. The "crazy cat lady" is crazy for a reason, she's lonely.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/21 11:38 PM
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"If you are going through hell, keep going." —Churchill Also, try shaking things up. Go to new places, wear different clothes, talk with new people, etc. so you don't get stuck in the same old rut.
/r/seduction04/12/21 06:24 PM
5

At some age, the tables do turn. Usually it's guys asking out the hot, young women and then as they get older, usually the women actually have to do some work beyond looking pretty. You're on the money. Check out OP's profile, she's a 41 yo single mom. Funny how she's now begging for men to approach her.
/r/seduction04/12/21 06:53 AM
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Those are fine hobbies, but notice how they all are (or can be) solo activities. Look for a hobby you enjoy that requires other people. For example, team sports, partner dancing, or a hiking group.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/21 05:04 PM
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You're close. It's not that most women now prefer short term dating, it's that they want to have their cake and eat it too. They want to fuck hot guys while they search for "Mr. Right" to marry. This is the "dual mating strategy" described in The Rational Male book. I'd say the main difference nowadays is that society and technology has allowed women to be more open about the short term part of their strategy.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/21 03:28 PM
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I'd say it depends on your goals and the context of the notches, rather than any specific number. A man who just wants to fuck may be satisfied with 100 notches. A man who wants relationships may be satisfied with 10 notches. And on the flip side, a man who wants relationships may not be satisfied with 100 notches if they're mostly ONS and plates. Ultimately, you have to determine what's right for you.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/21 03:07 PM
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"STFU" is more about not sabotaging yourself, rather than talking too much. A lot of men have trouble talking to women, so eventually they say something stupid that messes up their chances. For those men, it's better to talk less to avoid that happening. If you're actually good at talking to women, you can talk as much as you like.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/21 09:39 PM
1

I agree with your points, but for #4 I think a better example of "edgy" behavior is playful teasing. Most guys avoid any potential "conflict" with hot girls, so teasing her sets you apart and shows that you're confident.
/r/seduction01/12/21 09:05 PM
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A same day double text is needy. Beyond that, I disagree. Besides, if a girl is taking multiple days to text you back, 90% of the time nothing is going to happen. Your time is better spent on more responsive girls.
/r/seduction23/11/21 09:30 PM
2

Its been 6 six hours and she still hasn't replied back That's nothing for a girl you barely know. A decent rule of thumb is to wait 24 hrs for new girls to respond. After 24 hrs, send ONE follow up text. If there's still no response after another 24 hrs, move on, she's not interested.
/r/seduction23/11/21 04:47 PM
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You will "know her more" better in person. You will find out more in a 1-2 hour date than texting for days. And dates don't have to be expensive either. Meet up for a coffee (cheap) or do an outdoor activity like a walk around a park (free).
/r/seduction23/11/21 04:35 PM
1

Ironically, if these "Man Parks" existed and were popular, eventually women would complain about them too, just like any another existing "male space". Women are simultaneously creating the problem and criticizing the solution. The only way for men to get out of this paradox is to grow some balls and say "No, this is our space". Women have no problem doing this for themselves, for example some gyms have "women only" areas, or entire gyms (Curves). If women can say "no", so can men.
/r/MensRights20/11/21 08:07 PM
3

How To Be More Fun
/r/seduction16/11/21 03:06 PM
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Your situation sounds different. In OP's situation, the girl is alone with him at his place, meaning she's attracted enough to make sex a possibility. The "no sex" test only happens in that specific situation. It's not a "reverse psychology" test that applies to all dating scenarios. It sounds like you're were only at the beginning stage with this girl. Based on her response, it seems like you asked her to "date you" or something. That's the wrong way to go about it. You "ask her out" on a date,…
/r/seduction13/11/21 08:20 PM
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This is the classic "no sex" test. It can happen for a few reasons: The girl doesn't want to seem or feel like a slut. She's testing your character. Cool guys don't act thirsty or complain. She's testing her safety. If she can't trust you, she can't fuck you. Edit: Also, I'd bet she jumped on you after your last line because that was the final confirmation that you weren't going to make another move. She had to make it happen.
/r/seduction12/11/21 11:27 PM
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There's a couple steps you can take. Dread. Start improving your appearance and be out of the house a little more often. If she starts asking about, just say you're living the life you want to live. Hopefully she starts fearing she'll lose you and straighten herself out. If that doesn't work... Put your foot down. List the things that need to change and give her a solid timeline. Don't argue about, state your case and shut up. Don't let her nitpick the details. If she fails at this... Threaten d…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/21 10:10 PM
1

No idea, it’s been 4 years lol
/r/TheRedPill31/10/21 05:50 AM
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Let me frame it this way. If everything was the same, but this girl was just an escort, would you pay her 2k to come along? If yes, go ahead. If not, don't.
/r/seduction27/10/21 07:28 PM
2

Just sounds like an unlucky situation. Your bathroom break killed her mood for whatever reason. Don't sweat it, you had no way of knowing. At this point just contact her next week to see if she's down to meet again. If not, move on.
/r/seduction27/10/21 05:06 PM
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No problem bro. I get that you're trying to avoid the "nice guy" vibe, I'm not against that. Basically what I'm saying is that it's usually more effective (less flakes) to use the sexual vibe in person, rather than over text.
/r/seduction26/10/21 06:19 PM
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IMO I wouldn't use "sexy" or any compliment like that in the opening message. At best you sound like a player, at worst you sound thirsty. You already conveyed your interest in the approach, so there's no need to lay it on more. Just play it cool and set up the date. Overall, nice job, keep at it.
/r/seduction26/10/21 01:45 PM
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I didn't seem desperate or needy, because I thought there was no chance, so that might be it. I'd say that's an important factor. The fact that you "didn't care" communicates confidence, regardless of "why" you didn't care. You're not ugly either, at least average I'd say, so that helps too.
/r/seduction23/10/21 11:45 PM
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I've been approached before, but it doesn't happen frequently, and usually I'm not interested in the girl. Obviously the biggest factor is your looks, but I think your vibe is also important. If it looks like you're having a good time (smiling, laughing, dancing) I think it improves your odds. I see a lot of guys at bars fall into the trap of either being too quiet/introverted, or too cool/tough to have fun.
/r/seduction23/10/21 11:31 PM
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That's a fair point too. However there's lots of guys in OP's situation that do use their money/status to get foreign girls, and it's created a valid skepticism about it. It's unfortunate, but it really should be mentioned to avoid everyone jumping to conclusions.
/r/seduction20/10/21 08:42 PM
2

Fair enough, that’s good to hear. You probably should have included those details in your original post because it’s a common stereotype that tourists do well with girls in poor countries.
/r/seduction19/10/21 10:55 PM
11

More like be a 1st world tourist in a 3rd world country. Most of those girls were hoping for OP’s money and a one way ticket out.
/r/seduction19/10/21 08:49 PM
2

I have a close friend that's slept with about 70 women. He admits that 2/3 of them were average looking at best. But the top 1/3 were hot, so he did actually have the skills to do better. Basically, lower your standards and approach lots of girls. But honestly, if your goal is just frequent sex, it's more practical to have a steady girlfriend. Think about it. It usually takes a fair amount of time and effort to get a new girl. You might get laid quick once in a while, but most girls aren't havin…
/r/seduction18/10/21 10:03 PM
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All Women Are Like That. Some guys use the concept to show similarities between girls – to the point where they claim there are no unique women. Supposedly all women are exactly the same and all want exactly the same thing Let me clarify this for the rookies and dummies here. AWALT means that all women are capable of ______ (hypergamy, cheating, etc). This doesn't mean all women will do these things, but given the right conditions, it's certainly possible. Ultimately, the concept of AWALT serves…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/21 02:01 PM
4

How To Be More Fun
/r/seduction30/09/21 05:12 PM
1

Here's a good starting point: Want to Feel Like a Man? Then Act Like One
/r/seduction22/09/21 02:45 PM
100

So basically she's getting all perks of a boyfriend (attention/money) while you get nothing. How hard is it to understand dude? She's clearly using you. Leave her.
/r/seduction21/09/21 02:42 PM
2

It's better to be skinny than fat, but it's best to look at least somewhat athletic.
/r/seduction17/09/21 03:50 PM
70

First off, 5 inches is average, so you're not actually "small". Second, I'm guessing you watch porn. So, it's important to remember that most male pornstars are 6–8 inches, which is the top 5% of men. They do not represent the average male. Furthermore, many female pornstars are smaller than average, so they make big dicks look even bigger than they really are. Plus camera angles, sex positions, etc. all add to the effect. Bottom line, porn isn't reality.
/r/seduction14/09/21 03:47 PM
3

That saying sounds like a nicer version of an older saying I've heard. "Treat a lady like a whore, and treat a whore like a lady".
/r/seduction11/09/21 03:51 PM
3

While I agree there are no "leagues", I do think there is a "line" or "threshold" of attraction. An in shape man with his life together is going to cross that "line" of attraction for the majority of women.
/r/seduction11/09/21 03:50 PM
2

This is literally from the Preface in the book you linked (pg. xiii): Isabel Myers and her mother, Katherine Cook Briggs, had been interested in Jung’s theory for about 16 years... They searched in vain for a test or some indicator of a person’s Jungian preferences and finally decided to create one of their own. The result was to become the Myers-Brigs Type Indicator® personality inventory. in 1943, they produced the first set of questions destined to become the MBTI... I can't believe you didn'…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/21 01:52 PM
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You do realize Briggs Myers is one name, one person, right? A simple Wikipedia search would show you that's wrong: "The original versions of the MBTI were constructed by two Americans, Katharine Cook Briggs and her daughter Isabel Briggs Myers." (Source) I cracked you right there that you have zero clue what you are talking about. LOL says the guy who's so confidently incorrect. If you think personality theory and dna-personality linkages are "not educational" or "psuedoscience" then you might a…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/21 04:33 AM
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It's based on Jung's work and follows it pretty closely. That's nice, but Jung's work was not using scientific methods, and he himself said that labeling personality types is "nothing but a childish parlor game". More here.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/21 12:36 AM
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Look into the "Big Five" personality traits, it's the professional standard among psychologists. You can take the test here. Ignore the popular "Myers-Brigg" test (it uses acronyms like INTP), it's pseudoscience that actual professionals do not use or respect.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/21 03:26 PM
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the INTJ personality type The "Myers–Briggs Type Indicator" is pseudoscience bullshit. It was created by a mother (Briggs) and her daughter (Myers) who both had zero education in psychology. The test is not respected at all by actual psychologists. The "Big Five" personality test is the professional standard.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/21 03:08 PM
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Plus regular people don't say shit like ravish and post haste. Those are both anime terms Lmao anime terms? Those are antiquated terms. Open any "old" book. You do realize that u/VasiliyZaitzev is middle aged right? He's naturally not going to talk like a zoomer. It would actually be cringey if he did.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/21 10:29 PM
2

I'd like to point out here that "direct" and "crude" are not the same thing. You can be direct and polite, it's all about phrasing.
/r/seduction03/09/21 07:37 PM
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Solid advice. One thing I'd add is that you should watch out for "baby trapping" behavior. If a girl is very insistent on not using condoms, or if she regularly talks about having children some day, you need to exit immediately. It's only a matter of time until an "accident" happens.
/r/seduction03/09/21 07:00 PM
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Generally speaking, it's best to just let her ghost you and say nothing more. If you really want to text her, just say something like "If you're not interested, it's cool". That's it. Don't mention ghosting. If she is actually still interested, she'll respond offering another date. If she doesn't, move on.
/r/seduction30/08/21 04:13 PM
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In addition to not giving women undeserved attention, men also need to give them consequences. If a woman makes it too difficult to setup a date, you need to point it out and tell her you're not interested anymore. If a woman is acting rude on a date, you need to point it out and leave. Woman (and people in general) won't change their bad behavior if they keep getting away with it.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/21 04:06 PM
12

I think you're misunderstanding. I'm saying that you need to have alpha traits to make her truly attracted, it's not enough to just be "not beta".
/r/TheRedPill20/08/21 05:47 PM
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Basically, their man was not doing anything observably “wrong”, but they still felt extremely repulsed by him Because their man wasn't doing anything "right" either. Not being a total beta is the bare minimum, it doesn't mean you're automatically put in the alpha category.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/21 05:36 PM
12

“so long that just assume I’ll fuck like a virgin” I like this idea, but I'd rephrase so the "virgin" idea isn't even mentioned. "Long enough that I'll probably be out of practice"
/r/seduction19/08/21 07:13 PM
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I had to go on a trip just after those dates and I couldn't really talk to any of the girls for the next 10 days. Did you tell them that? If not, they probably thought you ghosted. In any case, you can't let too much time pass between interactions. You usually have to contact a girl you're dating at least 1-2 times per week to keep her warm. On dating apps, you usually have to respond within 24 hrs to prevent ghosting. Girls just have too many options, they won't wait around for long.
/r/seduction14/08/21 07:35 PM
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Suggesting to just "chill" is something you can do at either person's place. You should provide a specific, better reason to go to your place. Alcohol and food are the easiest options. "I just bought this great wine, you have to come over and try it." Something like that. If you have to go to her place, it doesn't mean you can't set the mood. Take the lead, if she doesn't, and make the environment better. Sit where you can sit together, ask for a drink, suggest some music, etc.
/r/seduction08/08/21 06:06 PM
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In general, height only matters to the extent that women prefer men who are taller than them. So whatever your height is, you'll typically have the most success pursuing women who are at least 1-2" shorter than you. That's the key point. All the details about "how much taller" are arbitrary.
/r/seduction03/08/21 06:44 PM
9

Muscle. It's good to be lean, but it's better to be lean and muscular. You don't have to look like a bodybuilder, but you should at least look like you workout.
/r/seduction28/07/21 04:13 PM
3

I think she wouldn't be so adamant about it towards me if she herself was guilty of it. That's bad logic, because there's a thing called psychological projection: "a defense mechanism in which the ego defends itself against unconscious impulses or qualities (both positive and negative) by denying their existence in themselves and attributing them to others." Cheaters are often highly vocal about "no cheating" and accusing others of doing so.
/r/askMRP21/07/21 02:31 PM
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I get what you're saying, but I think once you understand the basic "dont's" a lot of it naturally falls into place. Like knowing that you "shouldn't be needy" will inform you that you shouldn't text a girl constantly, for example.
/r/seduction20/07/21 05:20 PM
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Exactly. Some people just get "too deep" into certain things. They make it their whole identity, with little to no moderation or balance. It's not the thing itself, it's the person taking it too far, to the point of self-sabotage.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/21 05:01 PM
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I find that most good seduction advice is about not doing the "wrong moves", rather than persuading a girl with the "right moves". Basically it's like understanding how to not shoot yourself in the foot.
/r/seduction20/07/21 04:28 PM
2

Just follow up with a more playful question that segues from your first question. "so hows your summer going" ... "meet any amazing guys like me? ;)" Ultimately, it's tinder dude. Half the girls will flake for no obvious reason. Don't sweat it.
/r/seduction19/07/21 12:38 AM
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The one critical tip I'd give is that you DO NOT mention race when it's unneeded. Common examples: "You're cute for a [race] girl." This is basically calling her entire race ugly. Just say "You're cute". "Your [color] skin is beautiful." Would you say that to a girl of your own race? Probably not, cause it's weird. "Do you date [race] men?" Assume attraction, don't create a reason for her to reject you. "I have a thing for [race] girls." Sounds like you have fetish, which will turn off the girl …
/r/seduction16/07/21 03:53 PM
24

Are you making an effort to go out and meet women? I ask because your description of your current situation sounds like you only leave your apartment when it's necessary (work and errands). Your old situation worked because you literally lived with a woman, so that took no effort on your part to get laid. Food for thought.
/r/seduction06/07/21 03:20 PM
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Now switch the genders if a guy said this to you would you have let it slide? If the answer is no then you’re fucking up. Great perspective. Cuts right through the bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/21 02:44 PM
13

there are no lessons to be learned I don't think OP is saying it's educational. He's just saying that the dynamics of the show are a good example of red pill concepts in action.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/21 09:36 PM
5

Yeah seriously. There’s nothing actually unrealistic about OP’s story. 5 dates in 1 day (plus a handjob) is obviously not common or easy to pull off, but it’s not an impossible scenario either. OP is an attractive guy in a new city and applied a lot of effort, it’s not rocket science.
/r/seduction29/06/21 10:13 PM
2

There's not really any specific subs. One of the best "everything manly" websites is artofmanliness.com One of the better youtubers is Alpha M
/r/seduction24/06/21 04:45 PM
2

Here's some basics: Body: Add more muscle, stand tall (chest out, shoulders back, head straight forward), move and speak a little slower (don't be fidgety) Clothing: darker color palette, fitted (but not tight) clothing, cotton/denim/leather/canvas fabrics, leather boots or minimalist street sneakers Mentally: Emotions are normal, but don't be a rollercoaster. Keep it in check. Minimize complaining and self deprecation. Yes, women generally don't like "overly" emotional men.
/r/seduction24/06/21 02:23 PM
3

Yep, it's the classic "If everywhere you go smells like shit, check under your own shoe."
/r/TheRedPill24/06/21 01:35 PM
9

It sounds like you're a good enough looking guy that you get attention. That's ultimately a good thing. Gay men are flirting with you because men typically make the first move. It's rare that women openly flirt with straight men, that's just how it is. It's not unique to you. Looking at your post history, you describe yourself as "really skinny" (5'11", 147lbs). I'd bet you come across as more feminine/gay than you think, unless your style is very masculine (short hair, beard, rugged clothing, e…
/r/seduction23/06/21 02:44 PM
1

First off, you need to sit down and decide what is and isn't a dealbreaker. What do YOU want? If you don't want a stay at home wife, then dump her, because that's clearly her plan. Don't fuck around and hope things "magically" work out somehow. Second, there's a "sugar daddy" dynamic going on here. Most obviously: We've talked about getting married and having kids together since the beginning. So right off the bat this girl knew you could be a provider. Bad move. You should have screened her fir…
/r/askTRP22/06/21 03:04 AM
2

Taking pictures of your woman and putting them online is like advertising her to other men. Underrated point. If you're girl is above average looking, she's going to get lots of DMs on IG unless she keeps her profile private and her followers limited. If she has a public profile with sexy pics it's only a matter of "when", not "if", she finds another man.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 10:21 PM
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I’d say it depends on the situation. If a girl is flat chested and gets implants to make her boobs normal sized, that’s ok. If a girl gets implants and she already has normal sized boobs, that’s more likely a red flag.
/r/askTRP21/06/21 12:58 AM
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Basically you just have watch out for certain clothes. Loose clothing is the most obvious, especially if it's just loose around certain areas like her stomach. Tight clothing is less obvious. This is something like yoga pants that compresses her legs and perks up her butt. Or it's a tight top that pushes up her boobs. Best bet is to find pics of her in a bathing suit. If she doesn't have full body pics in a normal bikini, she's probably chubbier than she looks.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 09:42 PM
1

You can explain things when it's needed, but keep it brief and aloof. Basically you just don't want to seem like you're bothered by it. “why do you like that sort of shit” "It's a man thing." “Why are you wearing red” "I like red." “why did you choose that major its job market is bad" "It's what I'm passionate about."
/r/askTRP13/06/21 06:36 AM
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Agreed. Also wtf is "detoxing from her" supposed to mean? Cut out this new age emotional language bullshit OP. This isn't some serious psychological issue. It's called drop her and move on. Simple.
/r/askTRP11/06/21 02:40 PM
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>Anyway the website states that it's calculation is based solely on the income from onlyfans. Fair enough. >The number is also low due to the fact that it factors in the inactive or accounts that don't actively promote themselves. Yes, although the average is still $185 per month. Not much better. >My point is that for ridiculously low effort an average woman can milk simps for excessive amounts of cash. I don't disagree. My point is just that OnlyFans isn't the big money-maker it's perceived to…
/r/askTRP01/06/21 07:43 PM
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factor in that you can get a 6 pulling 100+ a day This is largely not true, unless a "6" is catering to some niche. Most girls actually don't make shit, even though it doesn't seem that way. Here's some relevant statistics: Most Accounts Take Home Less Than $145 Per Month Top 1% of Accounts Make 33% of the Money Source
/r/askTRP01/06/21 06:28 PM
1

"Club game" boils down to having fun in close proximity to the girls. You should be dancing near the girls and occasionally inviting girls to dance with you. Some girls may start dancing with you unprompted if you have the looks/moves. If you're getting strong interest, you eventually lead the girl you're dancing with to a quieter area to chat/flirt and then escalate.
/r/askTRP31/05/21 07:15 PM
2

It seems like she just psyched herself out after the fact. Rough sex probably goes against the “good girl” image in her head. Keep doing what you’re doing, her actions speak the truth.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 06:15 PM
2

That's more so a product of a rough environment. On top of that, ghetto dudes tend to have a "juvenile hyper-masculinity" where their big ego/pride constantly gets them into trouble. They try to fight every battle, only to end up losing the war.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 05:44 PM
2

>They really embrace feminism to the point where asking them out can make them "feel uncomfortable" (translation: you're not attractive. fuck off). Nah that's simply an issue with your SMV or game. They're just phrasing the rejection in a feminist way. All that feminist stuff disappears when they're truly attracted.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 05:37 PM
2

If you've never read Dale Carnegie's "How to Win Friends and Influence People" I'd highly suggest it. Wikipedia has a good summary of the principles. Some of the principles are common sense, but you'll probably find that you're not doing all of the "obvious" stuff.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 08:05 PM
1

Buy a decent fitting tank top (not an undershirt). Take a normal picture outside, at the beach, at the gym, or wherever makes sense. Simple.
/r/seduction22/05/21 04:22 PM
5

First, I'd suggest rethinking your idea of perfect. Perfect is the enemy of great. If you dwell too much on "perfection", you can easily overlook how great something actually is. The grass will always seem greener on the other side. Second, stop expecting women to act like men. Most women do not have that intense drive that men do (thank testosterone). I don't see how you're getting "held back" by your girl's complacency. Your girl should come along for the ride, not steer the ship. And if your …
/r/askTRP20/05/21 02:12 PM
3

First off, stop swiping on single moms if you don’t want them, duh. And I hope you’re not one these guys who swipes on everyone, because that kills your profile score FYI. Second, most of your matches are going to be a 1-2 points lower than you because girls prefer to “date up”. You may get some matches on your level too, but that’s the minority. Same thing goes IRL, sub par girls will act more overtly interested, because they have to, and girls on your level will act more subtle.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 09:54 PM
1

If you see a girl as more than a plate, then you should tell her your real age sooner than later. How I’d do it: mention your real age casually in conversation, and if she calls it out, play dumb and blame the app for the error.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 07:48 PM
8

That logic doesn’t even makes sense. Chad being a natural is irrelevant to your life. Some people have natural abilities, but most have to learn them. It’s like that for all aspects of life. Quitting because you have to put in some work is the path to loser status.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/21 06:49 PM
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This is a good point that’s not specifically mentioned here often. When you look around, it’s pretty clear that guys with a solid group of friends do better with women. It’s makes sense for a variety of reasons: social skills, status, group activities, networking, etc.
/r/askTRP08/05/21 10:37 PM
2

Yeah I get that. I was just pointing that out so the newbs here don't get worked up over some bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/21 10:35 PM
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I mean, he was already fucking her. It's too late, might as well finish lmao. But seriously, OP better be using condoms.
/r/askTRP07/05/21 10:04 PM
3

Those "tall, jacked, and hung" responses are bullshit. Chads aren't browsing Craigslist for land whales. They don't need to.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/21 09:58 PM
4

I don't doubt that girl got 203 responses, but most of those text excerpts are total bullshit. "Hi I'm 6'4" with an 8" dick". Yeah right buddy lol. I'd bet 99% of those dudes would show up looking average, at best. Chads aren't browsing Craigslist for land whales.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/21 09:44 PM
2

The solution now is to only bang your girl so she pays your half of the rent. lol But on a serious note, move out and demote her to plate status.
/r/askTRP05/05/21 09:07 PM
1

I wouldn't say it "ruins" most young men's perspective, but it does affect most men to at least a mild degree. You can't really avoid it if you use the internet. However, the key for me is remembering how fake it all is. Porn is obviously not realistic when you compare it to actual sex. Social media is highly is curated so you're only seeing everyone's highlights and not their struggles. Porn and social media can be ok in moderation, but when you're feeling the negative effects then it's time to…
/r/askTRP01/05/21 08:47 PM
1

I think it's important to note there's 2 different kinds of "Nice Guys". The Pseudo Nice Guy: This is the guy who is nice up until the point of rejection, then he transforms into a jerk who insults the woman. He's only acts nice because he thinks it will get him laid. The Genuine Nice Guy: This is the guy who is nice all the time. When rejected he is disappointed or depressed. He acts nice not only because he thinks it will get him laid, but also because he thinks it's morally correct behavior. …
/r/seduction01/05/21 04:48 PM
3

Treat her nice, take her out, lead dates, met her mom and dad Treat her like a LTR when I’m with her You should already know you fucked up here. Plates/FWBs ain't girlfriends. Teased her a bit saying “ahh can finally get rid of you” Ok Einstein, what was the point of that? The fastest way to turn off a girl is to make her feel like she's just a slut. If you can't think of better teases, keep your mouth shut.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 02:32 PM
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They don't think they'll get roasted because they believe "I'm right" or "I'm a special case". Yep, it's just delusion and entitlement on full display lol.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/21 11:22 PM
3

I've been aware of Kevin's videos for a while now, and I'd say the biggest factor in his rising fame is that he's showing how delusional a lot of women are. What's funny is these women basically expose themselves. He regularly gets average/below-average women on the show claiming they're an "8/9" and wanting a handsome, high earning man. Then of course he slaps them back to reality with statistics and RP truths. However, I will say that I don't see his content progressing into more general RP da…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/21 11:10 PM
3

Who said that dating needs to be an expensive waste of time? You're in control of the situation. Don't set up long, expensive dates if it's the issue. Simple. If a woman wants you to "wine and dine" her, then don't even bother with her. Next.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 04:56 PM
15

The root of the issue is that anything that becomes "normal" eventually becomes boring. As a man, you have to figure out the proper balance of things for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/21 05:06 PM
4

A&A: "Do you have a microscope?" Pressure Flip: "Is your pussy tight?" Cocky Funny: "It's the perfect size, for you."
/r/askTRP20/04/21 03:19 PM
4

This entire time, there's an underlining thought process that guys are STILL looking for a dad 2.0. Nailed it. Guys like Rollo are simply laying out the facts and framework of the sexual marketplace. What you do with that information is up to you as a man. They're not your father or guidance counselor holding your hand, telling you specifically how you should live your life.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/21 02:51 PM
2

I suspect it's a self-selection bias. Most of the black pill/mgtow guys are not good with women, for whatever reason that's unknown to them, and then they conclude women aren't worth it. Most of them don't have enough self reflection or motivation to fix their situation.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/21 02:38 PM
2

Shit happens. Don't get caught up on singular bad experiences. If you're noticing patterns then there might be something to correct, but otherwise just chalk it up as a random fluke.
/r/seduction19/04/21 05:04 PM
5

It's the primal brain in action. When women are in distress, men want to protect and comfort them. In the caveman era this was useful for survival. Nowadays it's not really applicable, and easily exploitable. Modern men need to be watchful of their instincts.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 04:40 AM
1

TLDR: Don't explain the hobby, explain why you enjoy the hobby.
/r/seduction14/04/21 05:01 PM
9

They all want to get dominated, and have the most wildest fantasies but only with Men who they Deem superior for them. Key point. You better be damn certain she sees you as alpha, otherwise it's #metoo.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 02:25 PM
5

You are looking at stupid things women do on account of stupidity and interpreting this stupidity as some kind of malicious intent. Hanlon's razor: "Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity."
/r/TheRedPill09/04/21 02:47 PM
1

Lats are not that important for a v-taper What? The lats literally make the V shape. Don't give me fitness advice when you don't even understand basic shit like that. You also need to get your eyes checked. If I flex my arms you can barely pinch the skin. But it's all bloat right? /s. And you're calling me skinny fat when I've got visible abs? Lmao sure dude. Your acting way too butthurt all over the fact that I pointed out you're a newbie in this sub. Not a good look.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/21 01:43 AM
2

Bro all you got is some arms and shoulders. No lats, chest, or abs. I'm 6'2", 195lb, 43" chest, and 15.5" arms (you said 13" lol). I'm probably "mogging" you on height alone. This pissing contest is irrelevant anyway. A good friend of mine is very skinny and he kills it with girls because he's knows how to spit game. I've witnessed him in action many times. Think what you want about "game", but I'm speaking from reality.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/21 10:44 PM
1

Funny shit dude. Like I care what a pictureless keyboard warrior has to say. I'm natty btw, but thanks for implying I'm not ;-)
/r/TheRedPill06/04/21 07:34 PM
1

Plenty of good looking guys fuck up there chances by saying dumb shit or having boring convos. "Game" is simply having social skills that are attractive. It's not some PUA routine or whatever. I see your 1 month old account, read the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/21 07:03 PM
1

Agreed. Just look over at the dating/app related subreddits. Tons of clueless dudes with lame profiles and bad text game.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/21 09:19 PM
3

Dating app success is all about 1) looks 2) good pictures 3) text game, in that order. You're probably having issues with 2 or 3.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/21 09:10 PM
3

Read this: Want to Feel Like a Man? Then Act Like One
/r/askTRP05/04/21 01:40 PM
2

If you want a LTR, there’s no rule on how long before you fuck. That’s up to you. But you do want to be time conscious, don’t drag it out too long. The “not caring” thing is said often here, don’t know why you think otherwise.
/r/askTRP05/04/21 02:06 AM
14

Agreed. Turbo sluts are fairly uncommon. IME most girls jump from boyfriend to boyfriend once every 1–3 years, with the occasional hookup in between.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 04:48 PM
2

It all depends on your intentions. If you don't want an LTR, then you should fuck within 3 dates. It's about not wasting your time.
/r/askTRP01/04/21 04:37 PM
1

Not exactly, some girls will give out their number (in person) just to get rid of guys. Or some girls will use it to get pen pals (beta orbiters) who they don't ever plan on meeting. The best way to know if she's serious is if she makes it easy to setup a date. She tells you when she's free, responds quickly to texts, is flexible with her logistics, and so on.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 01:57 PM
3

If every girl is giving you starfish sex most of the time, then you need to look in the mirror dude. You’re the common denominator.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 03:18 AM
1

Well then, you fucked up your chances dude. Next time think about the long game before you “go off” on people. Sounds like you need to study up more on Machiavelli yourself.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 03:58 PM
0

Try to meet up with him again and act like everything is cool. Then take his phone when he’s not looking and Venmo yourself the money back. Then bounce, for good.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 04:27 AM
5

Spinning plates isn't for everyone No one said you have to spin plates. TRP is not about any specific strategy or goal. It's about understanding the reality of the sexual marketplace, and then optimizing your performance within it.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/21 10:10 PM
3

"Growing soft" is basically losing your masculine male behaviors. You slowly start acting more like a typical "nice guy" because you've gotten too comfortable in the relationship.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/21 09:39 PM
10

In his book, Dr. Glover calls these "covert contracts". It's one of the major flawed behaviors of nice guys.
/r/seduction17/03/21 07:03 PM
3

Personal Finance: https://www.thebalance.com/ Investing: https://www.investopedia.com/
/r/askTRP17/03/21 05:19 PM
5

girls admit they would rather be with an abusive tall guy Don't listen to their words, watch their actions. Yes girls prefer taller guys, but generally that means you just have to be taller than the girl, not +6ft. If your body, style, and game is on point most girls are not going to reject you just because you're under 6ft. You're taller than the average girl (5'4") so don't sweat it.
/r/askTRP17/03/21 05:12 PM
2

when I finally went to ask her to come over and fuck (one or two attempts, I was pretty blatant since I didn't care either way) she made up some dumb excuses. Too overt. You should've just asked her to come over and "watch a movie". She knows the deal. The thing is, even if a girl is really into you, being blatant usually activates a girl's "I'm not a slut" attitude. They want plausible deniability, they want to say "it just happened". "Ripping her apart" worked because she was highly interested…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 04:15 PM
18

It’s bizarre that every girl I talk to has been cheated on at least once lol. Not really, when you understand the dynamics. It's a sample bias. Girls want/date alpha men, and alpha men have options. Alpha men tend to cheat at higher rates than other men, because they have said options. When girls complain about men, they're usually referring to their sample of "jerks" (alphas) they dated, not men in general. The betas are invisible to them.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/21 01:17 AM
3

the boundary only becomes real when you act out the consequence. This is where 99.99% of men fail in LTRs. That's so critical I had to highlight it again for the people. You can't just talk the talk, you have to walk the walk.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 12:46 AM
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It's seen as "weird" because technically it is abnormal, most people under 40 have at least one social media account. The thing is though, if your SMV is high it doesn't matter. Girls are not going to turn down Chad because he doesn't have instagram. If you're questioned about it, hold frame and say something like "I'm not into it. It's just not for me". Don't attack it or justify yourself, that's insecure behavior.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 09:04 PM
1

For all you know, they could be wondering why the fuck you stopped contacting THEM and thought, "Well, he obviously wants to be left alone, since he fucking ghosted us." That's a key point. You have to consider other perspectives. If someone is really your friend, it's more likely they're not doing something with negative intentions, even if it "appears" that way. Don't be too naive either, but give your friends the "benefit of the doubt" most of the time.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 03:26 PM
6

I kept texting here during the weekend from boredom and build comfort. You fucked up here. The date was set, just shut up until the date happens. Boring small talk adds nothing of value. then i hit up with ''Hey, you forget to answer me'' Weak move. Her pussy was already drying out, but then you threw it in the desert. then wrote her ''Your lack of respect of my time turn me off, take care'' Now you're acting butthurt. Her pussy is now dryer than a fossil in the Sahara. Congrats. She unfollowed …
/r/askTRP09/03/21 06:01 PM
8

Her: That line was really good though You: Thanks. You free for a date this week? Her: Yes You: Cool, what's your number? That simple.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 04:30 PM
3

So 1 year of "hurting your confidence" in exchange for 40+ years of extra confidence? C'mon man, that's basically no risk and all reward. Do it.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 04:14 PM
6

I don't even play video games, but if someone wants to spend 1-2 hours doing something "unproductive" to chill out, video games or otherwise, that's reasonable. The human mind needs a break, you can't be productive all day. Just like fitness, you need rest periods to recover properly and stay healthy.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/21 11:55 PM
1

Is it wrong for me to want a girl to cry in my arms so I can comfort her Not exactly, but idk why you'd want her crying. You can't just cuddle? lol and vice versa? Unless you want your GF to be dryer than the Sahara, yes it's wrong. Is this just some deep rooted mommy issues? Probably. Or too many rom-com movies. Should I get a therapist I guess, if it's that's bad and you've got money. try getting a girl best friend You can try it, but I'd doubt it'd work out.
/r/askTRP04/03/21 11:19 PM
5

I realized most of my friendships up until then had been forged out of convenience. That's how it is for 99% of people. It's why friends are easier to make growing up, and harder after college. If you're not seeing the same people every week, effort is needed to keep the friendships alive. And if you lack friends, you have to proactively look outside of your usual environment.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/21 05:50 PM
1

Maybe not billions, but easily tens of millions. There's about 22 million women aged 20–29 in the US alone (source). You've got plenty of options.
/r/askTRP03/03/21 02:55 PM
1

Literally walking away from me? Nope. It's mostly neutral, sometimes closer. Something is off here. If you've got a "powerlifter gut" I'm guessing you're not as "movie actor" handsome as you think dude lol. Let's see a pic.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 11:50 PM
4

I tried other woman Try better women. If your girl was a 7, fucking 5's isn't going to help. gyms are closed so I can't lift at this time either The floor is always open, do pushups. Better yet, buy adjustable dumbbells. How can I get rid of this obsession? Get some hobbies. Read good books. Exercise. Fuck better women. Make your life better and you'll eventually stop caring.
/r/askTRP02/03/21 11:37 PM
5

The good thing when you are smaller is that a little muscle mass makes you look way bigger Yep, I can confirm as a 6'2" man. It took me a solid 2-3 years of lifting (naturally) before the gains made me look "big" to average people.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/21 03:36 PM
1

This girl has issues, or is just straight up trashy. Most girls will do their best to hide anything considered "nasty". Hell, most girls won't even fart around guys lol. So if she's doing trashy shit like this, just think about what else she is doing but you're not seeing? I hope you were fucking her with a condom dude lol. Hard next.
/r/askTRP27/02/21 08:50 PM
1

If anyone is criticizing you for improving yourself, they’re suffering from the “crabs in a bucket” mentality. They can’t or couldn’t improve themselves for some reason, and now they’re jealous/mad when they see others doing better. Classic hater mentality. Giving them attention gives them power. Just ignore them.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 08:17 PM
1

Non-masculine behavior will make you unattractive to women, regardless of your appearance. This is TRP 101 stuff. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP20/02/21 04:38 PM
23

She's being "distant" on purpose because she knows it's a "sex only" situation. Why would she act like your GF if that's not going to happen? That just leads to heartbreak. This is exactly how you want a plate to act if you want her to remain a plate. She's knows the deal, why don't you? Sounds like you're catching feelings.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 08:03 PM
25

Speaking of practical, it's probably best to sprinkle a few of these questions in randomly throughout a date rather than going down the whole list like an interview. Also stick to the more "fun" questions at first, discussing death isn't a great first date topic lol.
/r/seduction19/02/21 07:39 PM
2

This post could've have been one sentence: Pursue girls that you, no others, find attractive. Some men prefer ass, others prefer titties. Some men prefer petite girls, others prefer thick girls. This is obvious shit.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 07:03 PM
2

I think you're putting the cart before the horse. Attraction has to be established before comfort. Creating comfort without attraction usually leads to friendship, not romance. And once there is attraction, creating comfort is pretty straightforward. A little humor to ease the tension and playing it cool (not being hyper sexual) is enough for most women to feel safe with a man.
/r/seduction19/02/21 02:58 PM
5

Like most activities, it can be attractive if the guy is attractive. Otherwise lame dudes aren't getting extra points for being on a bike.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 03:23 PM
2

Think about embarrassing moments that happened in your past. Does that shit actually matter right now in the present day? Probably not. Especially not if it happened years ago. You're life is probably the same whether it happened or not. That's what you have to keep in mind. No one really cares, the world just keeps turning.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 03:15 PM
19

do women really throw themselves at you The vast majority of women will not overtly hit on a guy unless he's literally famous. High SMV men have it easy, but they still need to initiate and lead the dating process. Maybe i should accept that not everyone will want to fuck me Good idea. Women have their preferences too. Maybe she prefers blond jocks and you're not that. Oh well, that's out of your control. Move on and find a girl who likes your type.
/r/askTRP14/02/21 11:11 PM
37

Sure, they notice, but the woman has to be attracted to you first. Being aloof with a woman who isn't interested doesn't magically make her interested in you.
/r/askTRP11/02/21 04:15 PM
1

Great post, lots of good points. One thing I'll add is that a lot of guys fall into the faulty "nice/jerk" mentality because they don't understand what girls are communicating. When girls say "nice" they don't actually mean dictionary "nice", they mean boring, timid, and/or passive. The man behaves too much like a friend, not enough like a lover. The man needs to flirt and make moves, not just make her laugh and have good conversation.
/r/seduction11/02/21 03:21 PM
3

Agreed. Study both and then make your own informed decision. There's no definitive answer.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 11:48 PM
38

11 days ago you posted here complaining about your wife getting fat, she’s not productive, and you two have little in common. And you’re talking her up like she’s an 8/9?! LOL Cut the bullshit dude.
/r/askTRP09/02/21 04:08 AM
1

Yeah, cause you are trying get something, get laid. Believe it or not you have to use a little game, girls don't hop on your dick just being Mr. Silent. "Wow he can't even handle at little teasing? What a fragile ego. Lame." That's what most girls will think if you just ignore/walk away over some simple bullshit. Certain scenarios may call for ignoring/walking away, but you'll never get anywhere if that's you're go-to strategy.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 06:30 PM
3

No, joking about it shows you’re not taking it seriously. Duh. This is frame 101 stuff. Doesn’t sound like you understand it. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 05:51 PM
7

Lol no, it's basic "agree & amplify", you're showing her you're not bothered. Acting defensive/butthurt is playing into her frame.
/r/askTRP04/02/21 03:32 PM
27

Just play into it. "I'm becoming more aerodynamic." "Ya pretty soon I can become a bouncer."
/r/askTRP04/02/21 03:04 PM
3

I rarely party, club or go out at night all I do, apart from sleep eventually, is either watch Netflix or play video games So stop doing the tv/videogames and get out of the house. You control your actions, no one else does.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 09:51 PM
1

You may know women, but you don't know how to date women. That's the difference. Patrice literally gave out dating advice on the radio and lots of callers said his advice worked for them. Think what you want, but it just doesn't line up with reality.
/r/seduction02/02/21 11:37 PM
1

That's because when girls say "too nice" they don't actually mean dictionary "nice", they mean boring, timid, and/or passive. The man behaved too much like a friend, not enough like a lover. The man needs to flirt and make moves, not just make good conversation.
/r/seduction02/02/21 11:10 PM
1

I can say the same to you. Your individual opinion doesn't prove what the majority of women are like either.
/r/seduction02/02/21 10:52 PM
1

girls will eventually leave you if you are being lukewarm Nope. Patrice had the same girlfriend for the last 10 years of his life. You may not like his style, but he proved it worked.
/r/seduction02/02/21 09:47 PM
4

It's because you broke up with them, not vice versa. Most girls can't handle the rejection, so they cope by demonizing you. They try to lower your value to make their egos feel better. Nice Guys™ do the same when a girl rejects them, the girl is suddenly labeled a "slut/bitch" when she turns him down.
/r/askTRP30/01/21 08:51 PM
4

she stated ,"If you don't shave your beard, then I'll shave my head" LOL the audacity of this girl, I'm almost impressed. The bluff is obvious though, no girl is doing that on a whim. You handled it perfectly.
/r/askTRP29/01/21 09:16 PM
1

Yeah, and that's why a lot of BP dating advice doesn't work nowadays. The game has changed but the playbook hasn't been updated.
/r/askTRP26/01/21 06:31 PM
1

I wouldn’t do anything that leaves lasting marks, because that’s evidence against you if shit hits the fan. The choking could be doable, but popping the blood vessels in her eyes isn’t.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 10:29 PM
2

Shit happens. You had 3 cancellations this week. You could have 3 new dates next week. In the grand scheme of things, a few cancellations is nothing. If this is an overall trend though, you're not doing something right.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 09:37 PM
2

Where does this silly notion even come from? Culture. Most of boomer generation did the whole "dinner and a movie" style dating. This got reinforced over the decades by movies, music, and television. Most BP men today believe it because they've literally known nothing else. The fish don't know they're in water, so to speak.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 08:20 PM
1

Yeah and she rejected it, what’s your point? She wasn’t the one making moves.
/r/askTRP23/01/21 02:36 PM
-2

How about he’s an old friend from her town and she’s being a fucking decent friend. And she easily blocked because she only sees him as a friend. It’s not complicated. I swear, some of you guys on here are way too paranoid about girls cheating.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 09:44 PM
2

Not really. As soon as it got sexual she rejected and blocked the guy. Girls like attention, they’ll entertain it from any guy who’s not creepy. It doesn’t necessarily mean they want anything more.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 09:28 PM
0

She told OP off the bat that she was texting the guy, with a valid reason (surgery). If this was done behind his back then it’d be a bigger issue.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 09:17 PM
112

So she rejected the date, you told her to stop texting him, and she did. I don't see the problem here. Don't let your insecurities get the best of you.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 03:08 PM
9

Too many professional looking pics, it looks too staged (try hard). Swap out 2-3 pics for more candid shots of you doing activities and hanging with some friends.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 03:00 PM
17

Totally agree. What was OP expecting? For her to hop into doggy position and say "come fuck me daddy"? Just join her on the bed and go at it. She could have been responsive once the sex starts. OP ejected before it even started. lol smh
/r/askTRP22/01/21 12:18 AM
2

Take the lead. Tell her what to do and/or move her into positions. Not working? Start teasing her about her lack of effort. Educate her if she's clueless. Still not working? Tell her to fix her behavior or you're done with her. Time to go.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 12:03 AM
3

If girls are more likely to cheat on you if they've been with multiple partners, then isn't it also likely for guys to cheat on the girl if they've had multiple partners? Not necessarily. You're question assumes that both genders' brains are wired the same, but we know they're not. Men and women don't behave in the same ways. In addition, the dynamics of the dating market are different for both genders. Comedian Jim Jefferies sums it up nicely: Every single time a man sleeps with a lot of women,…
/r/askTRP19/01/21 04:26 PM
4

As others are saying, it comes down to the environment. You're not likely to find decent girls at drug-fueled house parties. You have to start looking in better places. Such as public parks, health food stores, gyms, book stores, art galleries, etc.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 03:48 PM
1

He’s not as “serious” as Don, but that doesn’t make him a clown. He has an IDGAF attitude that he coveys with humor. When there’s conflict or drama he cracks jokes because he’s not really bothered by it.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 10:53 PM
1

Ever since then she hasn’t said one word to me. What should I do now? You cut off the money and hold firm until she corrects her behavior. That's the only hope you have of improving the situation. Anything less and you're on a slippery slope to being a doormat she can, and will, walk all over. I'm getting lots of nice guy vibes from your post. The fact that you're rattled by the "silent treatment" is telling. Oh no, she won't talk to you! How will you live? /s lmao. Let her be silent, she'll eit…
/r/askTRP12/01/21 08:14 PM
3

This is a scenario where you use "disagree and amplify" instead of the usual "agree and amplify". For example: Them: You're a pedo. You: Nah, I just don't want that dusty granny pussy like you guys.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 07:50 PM
2

Roger Sterling is very red pill. He slings dick the entire show and doesn't get too attached to any particular woman. His emotional issues are only existential in nature.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 07:23 PM
2

Specifically Roger Sterling.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 07:12 PM
0

Money can help you become more attractive, but just having money doesn’t. If the only high SMV aspect of yourself is money, you’ll only attract gold diggers. Physique, style, game, and lifestyle is what creates real attraction.
/r/askTRP12/01/21 12:06 AM
9

Says the guy whose mom fucks dirty bikers at roadhouses in Oklahoma.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 08:29 PM
12

That works, but it only goes so far. It's ok to take the loss as long you put up a good fight. The main point is to demonstrate you won't be easily walked over.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 08:17 PM
31

You should expect them to have a comeback. Ball busting is a back and forth type of game. It's usually not over after one response. When they come back harder, you match their level. You keep at it until the other guy quits, or at least until everyone is laughing at the banter. If you get stumped, just say "Alright you got me there" with a chuckle. You don't always have to win, but you do need play the game to earn respect.
/r/askTRP08/01/21 07:41 PM
7

Bro Reeves is literally one of OG's of "aesthetics". Seid and Murphy are a similar size and even leaner than Reeves, so idk why you think Reeves is "too much" and they aren't. Your comparisons make no sense.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 03:14 AM
12

The classic "V taper" look. Broad shoulders, wide lats, and a slim waist. Here's Steve Reeves for example.
/r/askTRP07/01/21 02:56 AM
2

I'd first ask "What do you mean?" to figure out if it's a loaded question or not. If she replies with a basic definition, I'd just say "Sure". If she replies with a rant about feminism and misogyny, then I'd agree and amplify. "I love women! That's why I want 5 wives!".
/r/askTRP05/01/21 10:56 PM
11

Sounds like that woman actually was a real feminist, because most feminists still want a man to "treat her like a lady" (i.e. having it both ways).
/r/askTRP05/01/21 10:41 PM
3

A lot of girls put their guard up if they think you’re a player. So yeah I think it would help if you act a little beta at first. Just at first though, not the whole time. You might as well try it, cause what you’re doing now ain’t working.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 02:46 AM
3

Based on what you've said, I can only guess that your "vibe" is off somehow. Maybe you're coming across as boring or intimidating. If girls see you as a player, you might have to act a little "nice guy" at the start of the interaction just to show her you're not another sleazy dude. You'll also likely have better luck with tall girls because of your height. Try experimenting with different approaches and see what works.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 12:30 AM
1

At that point it’s mostly just personal taste. Some girls want a clean cut guy like Brad Pitt, others want a rugged guy like Jason Momoa.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/21 09:43 PM
0

Raising children is probably the best reason. Although, you can live with a woman and raise your children without being legally married. Just make sure you don't live in an area with "common law marriage". It would also be ideal to marry a woman with a higher income or from a wealthy family, so in a divorce you're unlikely to lose a ton of money.
/r/askTRP04/01/21 08:51 PM
2

First off, get a grip dude. You’ve only dated this girl for a few months and you’re acting like she’s your fucking soulmate. You don’t really know this girl. Secondly, she claimed she “loved” you yet she moved away as far as possible. That’s not what “in love” girls do. Her actions show that she’s not that attracted to you. And by the way, she still talks to you just for the free beta attention. Next this girl, and read the damn sidebar.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 07:39 PM
3

My man, there’s no reason to create a fictional character journey when you can apply the same thinking to your actual self. Figure out what your goals and end game is and act accordingly. If you need guidance or inspiration look to a real role model, it could be a successful friend, a family member, or a celebrity like Schwarzenegger.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/20 04:33 PM
1

It sounds like you’re doing fine, you’re just on autopilot. At this point you need to sit down and really think about what you want to do with your life. Ask yourself questions. What’s the end game for your career? What would you do if you only had a year to live? No one can answer those questions but you. Hopefully that gets the ball rolling.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 01:51 AM
3

If it’s about her, it’s a comfort test. If it’s about you, it’s a shit test.
/r/askTRP28/12/20 12:03 AM
15

Demote to plate status permanently. A woman who is highly attracted to her man is not going to play dumb games that put the relationship at risk.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 07:02 PM
2

Look up the Facetune app. Practically every other girl uses it nowadays. It’s like photoshop for selfies. Easiest way to tell when it’s being used is when the girl’s skin looks super smooth.
/r/askTRP24/12/20 07:39 AM
3

I think partly what's going on when girls say "muscles don't matter" is that they picture a bodybuilder when they hear "muscle", not a buff/jock type of guy. The general public seems to have a similar perception, like when you hear the classic "I don't want to get too big" line from casual gym goers.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/20 09:17 PM
3

No one is perfect, everyone makes mistakes. If your cringing at past mistakes that's actually a good sign because it shows that you're a different person now. You can't learn how to improve if you can't recognize your mistakes.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 08:47 PM
1

You’re making some false assumptions. I’m not saying you should waste time being persistent with girls who have low interest. All I’m saying is don’t just walk away after the first time a girl says some bullshit. If she’s continues to be difficult, then yeah, it’s time to bounce.
/r/askTRP18/12/20 07:30 AM
5

Regardless of it being a shit test or not, there’s nothing to lose by treating it like a shit test. If she’s not interested than you’ll be rejected anyway. But when it is a shit test you’ll miss out if you don’t treat it like one.
/r/askTRP16/12/20 10:06 PM
25

That’s the best response here. Flip it on her and make yourself the prize. If she presses the issue further you can say “You’ll have to find out.”
/r/askTRP16/12/20 06:14 PM
3

It depends on the relationship. It's less of an issue with FWBs, and more of an issue with LTRs. Either way, if you observe her actions, you can usually figure out when and why she lies. If you can't, it's best not to get too involved with her.
/r/askTRP15/12/20 03:59 PM
5

That’s usually the case in my experience. I used to have a barber who was a natural chad. Eastern European, mid 20s, jacked, tatted, and always dressed sharp. Banged lots of hot girls, he’d show me on his phone. When we talked women it was clear he followed RP philosophy. One time we got to talking about his upbringing and he said his grandfather and uncle taught him everything about women.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/20 01:03 AM
1

Remember that for every hot girl, there’s a guy who’s sick of dealing with her. Also being genetically blessed is not an achievement. She’s just an otherwise regular girl who got lucky.
/r/askTRP12/12/20 05:28 PM
1

I agree overall, but that lady is so fat it's more so a niche fat fetish than regular simping. Most internet simps are simping for bimbo models, cam girls, or "gamer" girls.
/r/askTRP11/12/20 05:27 PM
19

Girls trying to act masculine, like they're some business mogul. It's basically the latest version of "girl power".
/r/askTRP11/12/20 02:50 PM
3

Sounds like you only dated her to lose your virginity, and you accomplished that goal. If you're not attracted to her, leave.
/r/askTRP10/12/20 09:01 PM
2

Their strategy is right, but their ideas are wrong. You should pursue women when you're on the path of improvement, because it's vital to practice. However, looks actually do matter, you can't just "game" your way into a hot girl's pants if you look average or worse. If you're trying to avoid the "sit down" with these guys, just say something like "Guys, if I want your advice I will ask you. But until then let me do my own thing."
/r/askTRP10/12/20 08:07 PM
1

I'd argue that it's useful, but you don't need to read the book cover to cover. Most of the 48 laws make sense on their own. If you need further clarification or context on a law, then just read the specific chapter.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 03:29 PM
8

It does not really enable a deeper understanding of the dynamic male/female I don't think that's Rollo's goal for the book. It's more so a broad overview of the dating market and how men and women play the field.
/r/askTRP08/12/20 03:19 PM
3

The possible fairytale I have always believed is that one day the girl I marry will be able to listen to my life story and love me unconditionally for it, in essence replacing my mother I guess. That's literally the opposite of what girls want. In fact, a lot of girls want you to be the "parental figure" in the relationship. You'll even here girls complain about this, "Ugh I feel like his mother...". You're not going to be sexy to a girl who sees you as her man-child.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 04:59 PM
3

There's nothing to gain by insulting social media, it just makes you sound defensive. Be indifferent about it. Just say "I don't use it". If asked why, say "It doesn't really interest me" or "I don't really need it".
/r/askTRP01/12/20 05:38 PM
2

Yeah I like to look at it in terms of averages. Like, if you have 2 girls who both lost their virginity at 18, both have 10 bodies, but Girl A is 22 and Girl B is 28, than Girl A is fucking over twice as many guys as Girl B per year. Both have the same total, but Girl A is more slutty.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 10:19 PM
8

It's hard for me to put solid "rules" on it because of various factors. For example, if a girl's number is 10, that can seem high or low depending on if she's in her early 20's or late 20's. Of course it depends on my intentions with her too. FWB? I don't care. LTR? It will depend on her age, body count, personality, lifestyle, etc.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 08:28 PM
2

You got it. Direct and bold aren’t the same thing. And being bold is usually going to make you seem thirsty. Girls know the deal. Just invite her over with plausible deniability (watch a movie, etc) and you’ll be good.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 08:03 PM
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99% of the time it’s not going to work out after the fact because it was based on the situation and her emotions. It won’t be the same afterward. Also I’d be skeptical of random, low effort, late night booty calls. Best case the girl is just a big slut, worst case she’s psycho or it’s a setup.
/r/askTRP28/11/20 07:45 PM
3

It’s not really that subjective. Generally attractive traits like jawlines, check bones, and muscle definition require lower body fat levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 09:39 PM
1

It’s fine health wise, but most people are going to look better with a middle range healthy BMI.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 09:16 PM
0

Even 5'7" / 150 lb is borderline overweight at 23.5 BMI. The middle to lower range for a healthy BMI (21.7–18.5) at 5'7" is 138–118 lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 08:20 PM
6

BMI is only inaccurate when someone has significant muscle mass, which doesn’t apply to most people. So generally, it’s accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 06:16 PM
13

5’5” / 150 lb is a BMI of 25, which is overweight. So no, it’s not healthy. And the average women doesn’t have enough muscle to skew the BMI results that much either. People need to realize that the obesity epidemic has really obscured the western world’s perception of what’s normal. Look at crowd photos pre 1980’s, almost everyone looks “skinny” by today’s standards, yet that was “normal” back then.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 06:10 PM
1

Who said I cared? I don’t, I’m just explaining the reality of the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 05:01 AM
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but it is the women's fault? If their standards make them single for the rest of their lives, yes. if they set standards high and are successful then why would they set it lower. Nothing wrong with high standards, but that's assuming they're actually successful. Statistically the majority of average women are not going to get an above average man, because the demand doesn't match the supply. The majority are competing for a minority. If a woman wants to make that gamble, so be it, but the odds a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 06:24 PM
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Your argument is half true. Yes, hot women want hot men, that’s fine and obvious. But when people here say stuff like “women’s standards are too high” they’re referring to average women. The data from dating apps/sites shows this. The majority of women rate the majority of men as below average. Are all these women above average? Obviously not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 05:53 PM
18

Trans girls who look convincingly female. It’s called “trap” because you think they’re females until they reveal they have dicks. lol
/r/askTRP22/11/20 05:25 PM
1

As long as your car is clean and smells good, I wouldn’t worry about it. If a girl says something, just act like it’s temporary. “Ya this thing is getting old, I’ve been looking at new cars recently.”
/r/askTRP21/11/20 11:03 PM
9

Lmao sounds about right. Old school grandmas can be some of the most RP type people.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 12:55 AM
1

The fashion world is run by old women and gay men. What the average young woman on the street finds attractive in men is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 06:55 AM
3

If a woman can’t get a man to agree to a date, he’s either out of her league, or he has better options (the same applies vice versa). Women hate that truth, but it’s almost always the case. I’m a fit man, and I simply ignore all of the chubby women who attempt to flirt with me on dating apps, which is a notable amount.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 01:13 AM
1

Don't worry about it brother. Think about it like this: You had 5 out of 5 girls flake. Well if you set up 5 more dates, and 2 girls don't flake, your success rate is now 20% (2 out of 10). It's all about perspective. Don't focus too hard on the short term situation. Keep going.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 08:42 PM
1

we see each other basically 5 nights per week Space that shit out. You're getting the oneitis quick because you're basically seeing this girl everyday. Cut it back. 1 day on, 1 day off. So it's only 3–4 times per week.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 05:08 PM
1

Based on what you've said here, I guessing you didn't look as you good as you thought. You've spent most of your life being fat, then "almost" had abs for 6 months, and now you're fat again. Honestly it sounds like you just made some beginner gains, which doesn't make that much of a difference to your appearance. It seems like you quit too soon because you expected quick results, which isn't how it works.
/r/askTRP18/11/20 04:32 PM
6

1) the easiest way to demonstrate strength is to be mean. That's a pretty flimsy, immature perspective. Strength can be displayed in a variety of ways that don't involve being "mean". For example, remaining stoic during a stressful/dangerous situation. Or, expressing your honest opinion about something and defending it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/20 04:13 PM
5

I spend majority of my life being fat,not obese but fat. However when I am in my best possible shape it doesnt make any difference ,its not like women are throwing themselves at me,but I feel the best I can be and I feel way more confident. That's because there's a "line" of attraction you haven't crossed. Going from obese to fat only makes you slightly more attractive. It still doesn't make you attractive to healthy weight girls. You need to slim down to a healthy weight and ideally add some mu…
/r/askTRP17/11/20 09:28 PM
2

You're premise is incorrect. TRP often states that one of the main reasons a woman cheats is because her once alpha man has become beta. This actually occurs more often than an alpha man simply getting "out-alpha-ed" by another alpha man, as your premise implies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 07:59 PM
1

Honestly don’t understand the science of being led on. Girls like male attention. Hinting at sex is how you get male attention.
/r/askTRP16/11/20 07:28 PM
3

Most recent gf was 1.7 years long distance. BEST relationship i've had so far even though it was long distance. My man, you won't like this, but here's the truth: I’m sorry to break this to you, but there is no such thing as a long distance relationship. That’s correct, you have no relationship. An LDR simply does not meet the criteria necessary for it to be considered a legitimate relationship. There is no reciprocity of anything more than words passing over a phone line or an IM text. Understa…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/20 06:57 PM
1

It doesn't matter "how" she's acting if she's not actually doing it. She doesn't want to fuck you, period. If she wanted to, she would have. If you're paying for these dates, then you're just her beta ATM. If you're not paying, then you're just her little time-ho giving her free attention until she's satisfied. At this point you either need to A) be direct and let her know that if sex doesn't happen it's over, or B) just ghost her now and move on.
/r/askTRP14/11/20 10:20 PM
1

Most 40+ bachelors I know tend to be depressed losers. TRPillers can not get married if they wish so, but at least they shouldn't delude themselves about the reality of most bachelors. Thanks Sherlock. TRP is well aware and not in denial of anything. TRP's point is that a man can live a happy life as a bachelor as long as he has his shit together. These kinds of arguments are irrelevant because all these "depressed losers" are not following what TRP preaches (self improvement). In fact, that's w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 09:44 PM
1

I don't think so. I'm 6'2" / 195 lb (lean) and I don't look that big. So if he's 15 lbs lighter and 1" taller he's got to look somewhat skinny. Either that or he's got chicken legs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 09:41 PM
2

Nope. For men, the wall is a choice. If a man spends his 20's doing nothing for his life and appearance, then sure, he can end up hitting the wall in his 30's. Women don't have that choice for two main reasons. 1) A limited fertility window. 2) Competition. Women in their 20's will date an attractive man in his 30's, and most men will prefer the 20-something women. The reverse doesn't apply to men. Most 30+ women want to date a man who is around their age or older. The funny thing is you're situ…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 10:01 PM
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If you're trying to be nice, just use the typical break up lines that girls say to guys. "Hey you're a really nice girl, but I'm don't see this working out long term. I'd like to stop this now so we don't waste each other's time. I hope you understand." Something like that.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 04:44 PM
30

His dad cleary doesn't know shit about exercise. He could just tell him he's been doing push ups and crunches lol.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 11:43 PM
1

Simps gonna simp. Who cares? Don't try to "redpill" them. If anything, just playfully tease the ladies and maybe a few simps will realize why the ladies are eyeballing you.
/r/askTRP09/11/20 05:37 PM
2

I don't know about "half the battle", but yes charisma is an important factor. Being boring or socially awkward hurts your attractiveness, even if you're good looking. An easy starting point is to watch popular comedians and funny tv shows. Slowly but surely you'll start to gain a sense of how to be funny.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 10:15 PM
1

If it's not hindering your success, then it's fine. I'll add that you should try to keep your voice at a relaxed lower tone, even when you speak softly.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 09:52 PM
1

Men are just naturally more competitive and look for outlets to satisfy that desire. Back in ancient times there was hunting and combat. Today it’s sports and video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 07:55 PM
12

Even if you were ok with her hooking up with other girls, the fact that it wasn’t agreed to prior and she did it behind your back is not cool. That’s cheating behavior. Next.
/r/askTRP01/11/20 07:46 PM
2

When a woman has problems, she actually wants to vent, but she doesn’t want her man to try to fix the problem. She just wants him to listen and acknowledge it. It’s not about the nail.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 04:57 PM
1

It’s not so much being “deceptive” as it is “how” women usually communicate. It’s not what they say, it’s how they say it. Like if you ask your GF “how are you?” and she responds with a cold “fine”, obviously she’s not actually fine. Her demeanor is not congruent with her words. Men usually don’t communicate this way, and thus get confused. However, some women just have mental issues and expect you to do absurd stuff like reading their minds. Avoid those types.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 04:46 PM
1

If she makes money, she’s a ball busting “careerist” As long as she's a generally feminine, pleasant, and an agreeable person, I have no issues with a high earning "career woman". The problem is a lot of "career women" are not this way. If she doesn’t make money & had kids at a young age, she’s gold digging and waiting for her next betabux & the father is probably not even the father. If she's a good mother and romantic partner, and I can afford having her be a stay at home mom, I would not view…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 10:11 PM
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To piggy back off your 2nd point, it's the dating apps too. The 5's, 6's, and 7's think that because Mr. Alpha matched with them, they're now on his level. Except he just wants them for a fuck buddy at best, not for a relationship.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 09:51 PM
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That's a good rule for any type of girl. When you tell a girl she's "special" to you in some way, sooner or later she's going to start testing that claim. And not in a good way.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 06:43 PM
7

You’re likely getting more attention from girls when you’re lighter because you’re also leaner. Being lean generally makes your face look better. If you were 170 lb and 10% body fat you’d likely get better results than both of your examples.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 10:25 PM
2

Oh I see. Go ahead and delete then. I reposted my comment under the automod.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 03:15 PM
5

BP advice is simply all the mainstream cliche stuff you hear everyone say. "Just be yourself", "be confident", "girls like humor", "communicate more", and so on. There's nothing inherently "wrong" with the advice, but it's all way too oversimplified and just boils down to useless platitudes. It's like telling depressed people to "just be happy". BP advice also tends to ignore certain factors, like looks and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 03:13 PM
13

I'll second AMS. He's one of the few youtube guys that seems legit, in terms of practicing what he preaches.
/r/askTRP22/10/20 05:38 PM
34

Good stuff. One important note: Buying a house is not ALWAYS a good financial decision. Do your research and make sure the property and area is desirable now and in the future. A lot of homeowners break even or lose money over time. Sometimes it makes more sense to rent until you find a good property.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/20 05:31 PM
1

Thanks for just mimicking my response like a 12 year old. No better way to tell that someone has lost a debate. Good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 01:05 AM
1

I guess you’re set on being willfully ignorant. Oh well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 12:14 AM
1

Nice try, but your example is different. “Men are trash” is just a blanket statement. AWALT is used to remind men to be skeptical and not assume your woman is a perfect angel.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 07:24 PM
7

I think one of the key factors to "getting the boys together" is providing decent entertainment. If you're proposing a vague offer of "hanging out" that just sounds boring. I think my late grandfather was onto something. In his basement he had a pool table, ping pong table, and darts. Plus a beer fridge, of course. Not surprisingly, whenever he had guests over it was a popular spot for the men. The older generation knew how to entertain. Seems like most guys today think TV and beer is enough.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/20 05:11 PM
1

And no terper is a special unicorn either Didn't say we were. In fact, it's more so the opposite. RP newbies are often told something like, "You're not special. Start improving yourself." enough of you think in nuance lacking absolutes According to you, which doesn't count for much considering I had to explain basic TRP terminology to you. A minority of guys, typically the newbies, act in the manor your claiming. Take it from a guy who's been on that subreddit for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 11:17 PM
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Your shallow knowledge of TRP is showing. AWALT is not simply "all women are like that". That's just the acronym, not the meaning. AWALT means that all woman are capable of doing anything. Essentially, no woman is a special unicorn. It does not mean that all women will do the same things.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 10:55 PM
0

imagine complaining about every woman you meet being some awful hypergamous slut. Or every non-incel like you being some kind of beta cuck. Oh yeah, because every red piller thinks in binary absolutes, no nuance whatsoever. Nice strawman argument. Ironically you're doing exactly what you're claiming all red pillers do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 07:51 PM
1

I guess “technically” they’re not incels, but a lot them are clearly using the MGTOW label to justify and cope with their lack of success with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:23 AM
5

I think you'd find this video interesting and insightful. This woman decided to do an experiment where she lived like a man for 18 months. I won't spoil it entirely, but basically she realized that women have no clue what it's like to be a man.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/10/20 11:21 PM
1

RP: Mostly no, because they are actually trying to improve their success with women. MGTOW: Mostly yes, because they’re avoiding women, like their group name says.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 09:07 PM
2

Size only matters if you’re below average. If you’re average or above, women care more about how you fuck them. Only a small percentage of women specifically want huge dicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 08:55 PM
1

You misread my story, it's not the hairdresser herself getting gifts, it's her female clients.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:28 PM
5

Totally agree. The problem is the feminists seem to think that acting traditionally masculine is inherently wrong, and men are just doing it because of toxic external forces. They disregard the fact that most men act masculine because it's our natural state, we enjoy it, and it serves a important function in some circumstances. The real irony is that feminists push for equality, and yet femininity is always favored over masculinity when it comes to what is "correct" behavior.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/10/20 04:06 PM
9

I think the reason some girls look drastically worse without makeup is because they’ve tailored their face to look good only with makeup. Like for example, girls who need to fill out or draw on their eyebrows. I agree a 6 point drop is a bit much though.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 09:53 PM
1

In a group setting, one of the best ways to handle insulting jokes is to make them explain the joke. Play dumb and respond with, "What do you mean?". Now he has explain his bad joke, which will either make him look like a racist jerk in front of everyone, or he'll fumble around with his words trying to save face and look stupid.
/r/askTRP13/10/20 10:02 PM
10

Dude, girls don’t give a fuck about money in university. Just work on being the cool guy they want to fuck. And focus on your studies so you can make bank after university when the money actually matters.
/r/askTRP10/10/20 05:24 PM
4

I’ve had girls say I’m a good kisser, and my general strategy is to just mirror their behavior. If she’s kissing soft and slow, I’ll do the same. If I want to ramp it up from there, I’ll just increase the intensity one notch and see if she matches it, and if so, then repeat. Hold off on tongue until she starts doing it. Remember to keep your mouth open at the same size, don’t eat her face lol.
/r/askTRP09/10/20 11:52 PM
14

Lol I literally had a plate ask me to flex my arm and then proceed to grope it and giggle.
/r/askTRP03/10/20 11:20 PM
11

Listen to this man OP. Right now, you're like a baby who's trying to run before you can crawl. Practice and master the basics with your wife before you make any major decisions.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/20 04:25 PM
2

She just blurted out that her friend just went out once on a date and fucked a guy but that it's not what she does regularly. Bro, your girl just admitted she thinks it's okay to lie about cheating if it's not "regular". I'd be watching your girl like a hawk now. Whether you want to tell the BF or not is up to you, but be prepared for the potential fall out.
/r/askTRP01/10/20 10:10 PM
1

The men do get blame for their part, but the women aren’t innocent. They request the gifts (while hinting at romantic interest). The guys are not sending stuff unprompted. The women are leading them on, plain and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 11:38 PM
1

These men are not in relationships with the women. That’s why I said they are “hoping for scrapes of love and sex”. They’re hoping to pay their way into dating these woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 08:57 PM
1

You don't have to be rich for women to take advantage of your money. My friend's girlfriend is a hair stylist, and multiple clients have told her that they have normal men buying them little things on a regular basis. Such as, clothes, makeup, and food delivered to their door. They're not escorts either, it's just lame dudes hoping for scrapes of love and sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 05:56 PM
21

I don’t notice anything obviously wrong in your brief story. If you pulled this girl from a party, you probably were just the right dick at the right time. She wanted a ONS and that’s it. I might have suggested she just come over again instead of asking for a taco date though. You already hit it, so that’s like going backwards into a first date lol. I wouldn’t sweat it bro. You can do everything right and still lose, that’s just life.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 02:40 AM
1

Funny how you made the least attractive girl (Bethany) have the least amount of negatives. Stephenie sounds like a cold lover and Suzie sounds like a headache to deal with. Bethany being non traditional and really into hobbies isn’t that bad in comparison. She’s just less attractive. This really just seems like test to see how much men care about physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 10:04 PM
3

I think it's important to point out that "direct game" doesn't always mean "being crude". You can be direct without saying "Hey would you like to have sex?” as an opener. Opening with something like "Hey, I think you look cute and I wanted to say hello" is also direct. You're still clearly communicating sexual interest, but it's smoother and less likely to cause unnecessary drama.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/20 09:24 PM
4

Somewhat true, but it depends where you are. Big cities like NYC have lower obesity rates.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 02:24 PM
2

Oh boy. If women were good at giving any dating advice to men the red pill wouldn’t even exist. For decades now, when you ask women what they like it’s just useless cliches: be yourself, be confident, be funny, etc. Some men have figured out that it’s better to ask the fisherman instead of the fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 04:27 AM
13

In the short term, say “I’m built for comfort”. In the long term, lose weight.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 01:45 AM
2

If you understood the terms you wouldn’t asking this. Simply put, you progressively get more sexual with the girl.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 11:17 PM
5

You must be new here. Go search TRP for “how to escalate”. I’m not explaining something that’s been said a million times.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 11:06 PM
7

We start baking bread. LOL What else do you think happens dude? We escalate and go for the hook up.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 11:02 PM
4

It’s happened to me is some instances. The most common scenario is dancing at a bar with my boys, when the rest of the guys (outside the group) are just shuffling around or being wall flowers. Girls want to join in when you’re just letting it loose.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 10:50 PM
1

Are you mass right-swiping or something? Nope, I'm somewhat picky. It's also best not to swipe right on everyone because the algorithms will hurt your profile score. I'm also in very good shape and go to the gym regularly. I can count on one hand the number of times that women I've matched with have messaged me first or say anything like that. The messages don't happen all the time, but just often enough that it's noticeable. If you're in good shape you might just need better pictures and clothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 05:35 PM
30

You need to become the "go-to" guy for fun in your social circles. Be the guy who sets up fun activities for the boys. Be the guy who makes the parties more exciting. When you get enough guys following your lead, the girls will naturally flock to you.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 05:13 PM
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They don't care about your cock size or how big your muscles are. Cock size doesn't matter as long as you're at least average. You're flat out wrong on muscles though. I went from "average" to "muscular" and the difference is obvious. On dating apps I've had girls message first saying "nice arms" and "hey handsome". That never happened when my body was average. You don't have to look like a pro bodybuilder, but having some muscle is always beneficial. Muscular guys typically are super vain They'…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 11:07 PM
2

The problem is you're talking in absolutes, when all the things you listed are spectrum. What I consider a "high" or "low" number count is different than the next man. It's only in the extremes, like 0 and 100, where the majority of men agree it's low or high. Plus every man has a different "ideal" woman (tall/slim/blond, short/busty/brunette, etc.) so it's not like we're all competing for the exact same type of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 10:24 PM
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You’re only looking at it in one dimension, I don’t think you fully understand TRP. What most men are “unaware” of is how the dating market works and how men and women operate within it. This ignorance leads to situations you described, like sexless relationships. They’re not playing the field in a way that optimizes their results.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 07:34 PM
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Exactly. It’s funny how people come up all these theories and explanations, when the simple reality is most men don’t know any better or different. There’s a reason it’s called “the red pill”, because most men are just living in the matrix (blue pill society) completely unaware.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 04:57 PM
4

It’s not out of convenience, it’s for financial security.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 09:02 PM
4

Exactly. The red pill is a philosophy and mentality. Nothing more, nothing less.
/r/askTRP19/09/20 08:40 PM
1

I've noticed a similar thing with online dating. If I only use the apps for like 5–10 mins per day, the results are minimal. When I use them for 30–60 mins per day, I actually start getting a decent roster of girls and it often translates to at least 1–2 dates out of that bunch. If you have your shit together, it really does come down to just spending enough time and effort to make it happen.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 06:26 PM
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The miserable married men you’re referring to have no one to blame but themselves. They’re the classic blue pill husband scenario. What happened is they let themselves get too complacent. They let the wife be captain of the ship, and then get hen pecked to death because deep down she’s not happy with that job. A man can do a lot of his old activities in a relationship, he just has to realize he’s the only one who’s really stopping him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 12:39 AM
1

Look for brands that offer tall sizes. You’re usually better off buying a tall medium vs a regular large because the large will be too baggy in the torso. Land’s End offers good basic pieces in tall sizes.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 12:07 AM
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Bill Burr explains it perfectly.
/r/askTRP12/09/20 04:22 PM
1

I would argue though, that nothing about the internal social status evaluation prohibits a different cognitive interpretation. Sure, not everyone has the exact same set of values. However there are certain traits that the majority of people find attractive and valuable. Most people would agree that being "good looking" and "wealthy" are high value traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 11:48 PM
2

I don't know any of these acronyms. Colleges? If so, that's a specific niche of men, not "most men" like I stated. Outliers don't prove the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 03:34 AM
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Cool, doesn’t change my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 02:15 AM
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Ok so you’re admitting you take advantage of desperate men. That doesn’t really excuse your behavior. A conman conning fools is still in the wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 10:08 PM
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obesity is unattractive (at least in part) precisely because of its association with lower socioeconomic standing. Disagree. A fat rich woman is not more attractive than a broke fat woman. A slim broke woman is more attractive than both of them. it's not like there's a flood of men with college degrees looking for women who only graduated high school. Specifically looking? No. However men are not rejecting them either. Being college educated is not a prerequisite for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 08:41 PM
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If you’re fat or ugly in South Florida or Southern California, good luck. First off, ugly is ugly. It doesn't matter where you are in the US. Secondly, if you're fat, you're best dating prospects are other fat people. And the south has a lot more obesity than the north. So I'd argue it's actually easier to date in the south if you're fat. This whole premise is flawed. All the other cultural stuff you mention is only a minor factor. If you're good looking and in shape you'll have any easy time da…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 08:14 PM
3

Do not ask her about hooking up. Go on the date, play it cool and escalate.
/r/askTRP10/09/20 01:56 AM
1

Yep a lot of women want to feel like Ms Perfect. Getting dumped doesn’t fit that narrative.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 11:11 PM
2

It’s illogical to us because it’s lose lose. She’s not playing the same game. It’s simple for her, she wants the validation.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 10:58 PM
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It’s because of ego. If you take a woman back after cheating you’re demonstrating to her that she has value. She begs to get to back together to validate her ego. If you take her back, she gets her validation and now she’s no longer interested. Women hate being rejected, they don’t want to be the “loser” in a breakup.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 10:51 PM
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they're no longer respected for doing anything That depends on who you're talking about. The 9-5 corporate desk job guy, agreed. A fireman, lawyer, or a doctor, disagree. If you're not feeling respected or accomplished, look in the mirror and ask yourself what YOU need to do to get those things. You don't get points for just existing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 03:16 PM
6

Similarly, your effort and time invested doesn’t count for much. You could act like the perfect boyfriend and some women will still dump you for shallow reasons.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 02:45 PM
11

It’s basically a long term shit test. Most men will fail at it unless they learn about it or naturally understand it.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 02:33 PM
3

It’s good that you’re improving yourself, but here’s a critical question. Are you actually flirting with women? And by that I mean asking for numbers and setting up dates.
/r/askTRP02/09/20 12:20 AM
15

If your girl finds your RP stuff, just play it cool and put the ball in her court. "What? Men aren't allowed to read dating advice? You ladies have '9 Blow Job Secrets Guys Will Never Tell You' in Cosmo magazine. We have this."
/r/askTRP01/09/20 10:34 PM
1

Men who hook up with lots of below average women are not impressive to other men, but they're usually not viewed negatively either. It's viewed as "If he wants to dumpster dive, so be it".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 09:58 PM
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Possibly. I think it’s more so the other way around. If girls see a girl make herself exclusive to you than that’s a higher form of preselection than just being a fuck buddy.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 02:24 AM
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A girlfriend is a more visible form of preselection than plates. Unless you’re bringing plates around your friends.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 02:00 AM
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The way to comfort your girl is to be stoic for her. Be the rock, not the sponge. Let her talk about it if she wants to, but only reply with simple acknowledgements (“I understand”). Don’t try to solve her problems. Don’t talk it out like you’re a therapist. Just hold her when she cries.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 02:01 AM
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So she can collect followers and get attention from her beta orbiters (which is you right now).
/r/askTRP27/08/20 01:44 AM
1

I also find it useful to see where you could end up if you decide to "quit". I recently encountered a 36 yo guy who, in his free time, basically just played video games and was an unpaid moderator for his ex girlfriends cam show (facepalm). And of course he looked like your typical out of shape, nerdy guy too. He claimed he was happy with his life and had no ambitions to change it, no career or personal goals. Seeing guys like that will send a chill down your spine, and make you promise not to g…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/20 05:41 PM
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Agreed. To elaborate on your point for the rookies, the “mind muscle connection” is about being able to contract the muscle you’re targeting. It should feel like you’re flexing the specific muscle while doing the exercise. If the muscle feels tight and pumped up after the exercise than you’re doing it correctly.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/20 07:47 PM
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Dude, you made a post 10 months ago in asktrp titled "bad at sex" where you describe having sex only 3 times. You need to do a lot more learning and improving before you start posting advice here like some authority figure. This whole post is just parroting basic RP information.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/20 03:53 PM
2

Over text I started acting like an arrogant smart-ass fuckboy like I usually do Don't talk the talk, walk the walk. Talking like an "arrogant smart-ass" usually comes across as insecure. Show your confidence through actions, direct speech, and body language.
/r/askTRP18/08/20 02:46 PM
1

I have this issue with new girls on the first few sleepovers. After that it usually fades out. If this problem persists for you, than you just gotta tell her what the deal is. Either one person goes home or you guys sleep on separate furniture.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 07:21 PM
4

Look up Hafþór Björnsson, he’s a well known strongman that has Bell’s palsy. No one cares about it because he’s an otherwise badass dude. That’s what you have to do, focus on the things that you can improve.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 06:02 PM
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Girls may be “liking” these posts, but that doesn’t mean they want to fuck the guys who post it. It’s all lip service. Watch what they do, not what they say.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 04:26 PM
1

Ahh got it.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 12:59 AM
4

Why do you take a shower before doing the workouts? Wouldn’t it better afterwards to wash off the sweat?
/r/askTRP13/08/20 06:50 PM
6

According Dr Matthew Walker, who specializes in sleep science, the average adult actually needs 7 hours of sleep at minimum to function normally. The research shows those who claim they function normally on less are always disproven when tested. Getting 7-9 hours of sleep is the normal healthy range.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 06:41 PM
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Pretty much. The conservative parties have become full of religious zealots, science deniers, and morons who still believe “trickle down” economics help the average citizen. The liberal parties have their share of problems too, but they pale in comparison to conservatives.
/r/askTRP03/08/20 05:00 PM
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Agreed. There’s a limit this strategy. If after a while you’re still the one asking questions and keeping the conversation going then it’s time to eject. You’re only making the other person feel above you at that point.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/20 06:06 PM
2

Video calls are ok, they’re actually good for screening girls, but keep them short. No more than 30 mins. If you get impression she’s not that attracted then cut it off sooner.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 11:32 PM
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With women, more obvious signs of attraction: more glances or stares, more matches in dating apps, more compliments, etc. With men, more signs of respect: calling me sir or boss more often, moving out of my way faster, quicker to apologize, etc.
/r/askTRP26/07/20 03:58 PM
2

Young women don’t date older men only for their money. The problem is a lot of older men use their wealth to attract young women and they end up with gold diggers because of it. It’s a screening issue on the man’s end. Don’t flash your wealth or give gifts and the gold diggers will filter themselves out.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 05:58 PM
2

You have to start small. Hug her when you first meet. Touch her shoulder or arm if you’re laughing at something. Take her hand if you’re leading her somewhere. You’re just testing the waters. If she doesn’t react negatively to those moves then she’s ready for sexual moves. Go for the kiss, and so on. If she recoils at any point just back off and play it cool. Wait a little while and slowly start again. Remember this, if she’s on a date with you, she likes you to some degree. She’s expecting you …
/r/askTRP18/07/20 06:57 PM
2

Be careful painting with a broad brush. Some women know exactly what they're doing, and men fall for it all the time.
/r/askTRP11/07/20 01:43 AM
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That can work too, assuming your physically intimidating enough. Some scenarios may call for you playing it cool though, and treating him like your dancing monkey.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 11:45 PM
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Some women are delusional, it's that simple. Don't waste your time writing novels about it.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 11:33 PM
2

That teasing tactic is for when he approaches you with your girl. If you're approaching him and your girl, you can just introduce yourself "Hey I see you've met my girlfriend, I'm [name]". That might be all it takes. If he directly flirts after that, then resort to the teasing tactic.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 11:25 PM
1

You got it.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 11:15 PM
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Nah that's just being a cockblocking beta. You're not mate guarding if you haven't actually "mated" with the girl lol.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 10:55 PM
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Mate guarding is basically being "overly protective" when your girl is interacting with other men. What you're describing, jealously and paranoia, are elements of mate guarding.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 10:50 PM
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Remember, women are as predatory as the guy who raped this young man was. More so. And as all predators do, they have a radar that is constantly pinging for weakness. Your making this more malicious than it really is. Yes, women are attracted to physical/mental strength in men for obvious evolutionary/survival reasons, but it's generally subconscious. It's all feelings and tingles to them. They're not actively scanning people like the Terminator lol.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 10:09 PM
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It depends how aggressive about it the guy is. If he's just lurking around or doing the lame nice guy routine, ignore it. If he's directly flirting with your girl right in front of you, then call it out. A good tactic is to tease him like, "Let's here your best pickup line" or "Show me your smooth moves dude". Treat it like he's your entertainment, the awkward pressure will cause most guys to eject pretty quick.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 09:43 PM
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People here are citing evolution, or the Kardashians, and there's truth to that. But let's also not forget about the old "cushion for the pushin". When you're hitting it from the back it feels better when the girl has some ass.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 09:23 PM
2

Agreed. It's ultimately a fear of failure and ego protection that stops the betas and incels from improving.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 04:19 PM
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That’s basically the root of it. He talks the talk, but there’s little proof that he walks the walk. However I find it passable to a degree because most of his writings are an analysis of human behavior. He’s not a PUA spouting his techniques for picking up girls. As with anything, take it with a grain of salt.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 05:00 PM
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It's not an opposite effect, it's faulty binary thinking. The incels tend to think about everything as "Virgin vs. Chad". This thinking usually leads to lame excuses about not improving. "I'm not a 6'4" male model, why bother trying?" they ask. They won't admit, or don't realize, that if they improved their appearance somewhat and actually tried talking to girls that they could get laid.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 03:07 PM
5

Glad I’m not the only here who thought the same. OP passed the shit test, then just dumped the girl lol. Some guys are really overthinking themselves out of pussy.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 07:50 PM
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It’s location dependent. Obesity has gotten bad in the US. Major east/west coast cities are the only places where it doesn’t seem like everyone is overweight. It also depends where you’re specifically looking for girls. You’re more likely to find fit girls at the gym, yoga classes, doing outdoor activities, etc.
/r/askTRP05/07/20 04:33 PM
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what you pointing at!? you crazy stoner "It's a fly. You going blind grandpa?" You need to learn how to shit talk.
/r/askTRP03/07/20 07:05 PM
1

I’d partially agree that with billions of women on earth, that does make them more disposable. However, as humans we still have primal instincts that make us value women over men when it comes to survival situations. The bias still exists in modern times because of our evolutionary past.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 06:52 PM
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Accidentally deleted my previous comment: My scenario assumes the 101 people are the only humans in existence. There are no other humans to deal with. I’m not saying that men have no value. They just have lesser value when it comes to reproduction, and thus survival, of the human race. Men have more value when it comes to protecting, maintaining, and advancing society.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 06:49 PM
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Yeah it’s a good thing to remember the demographics when browsing the internet in general. Every website has a certain crowd, and that can give you a false impression of what the wider view is on certain topics.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/20 06:19 PM
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The only proof of male disposability that anyone needs is this: What scenario is better for the survival of humanity? A. 1 man and 100 women B. 100 men and 1 woman If it wasn’t obvious, the answer is A. You could have 100 new babies per year. At the very core, men are inherently less valuable to society because of this reason.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/20 05:35 PM
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If it becomes inevitable that my death will be slow and painful, I’d rather buy a gun and take care of it myself while I can. No point hanging around for a few extra weeks of misery. I’ll choose when I get to die, and I want to go out happy. Your grandfather sounds like a badass, sorry for your loss.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/20 05:31 PM
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I agree. This dude naively thought everything was perfect until he realized that his model tier girlfriend had a model tier ex boyfriend. Like no shit dude, what did you expect? You think this model chick was only banging average Joes? This dude is insecure and it will probably ruin his relationship down the road.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/20 10:20 PM
2

In addition, the “wall” is not the same for every woman. Some decline fast, some decline slow. Genetics, lifestyle, and fitness are big factors.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 11:01 PM
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Similarly, there are no feminists in a dangerous situation. They will agree with “women and children first.”
/r/TheRedPill29/06/20 10:55 PM
3

You just need water and electrolytes to prevent fainting.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/20 04:00 PM
3

A romantic gesture is rewarding her for good behavior. Simping is rewarding her for nothing.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 04:45 PM
2

I’m sure there are some people here just looking for entertainment and ego stroking, however there’s utility here too. Maybe you need a RP concept clarified, maybe there’s not an obvious RP answer to your situation, maybe you need reassurance for a decision, and so on.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 06:22 PM
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This ain’t nothing new. Serial killers get fan mail and visits from women. Some women even marry them in prison.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/20 03:55 AM
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You don’t have to flush it though. Put some rubbing alcohol, hot sauce, or whatever kills sperm into the condom afterward. Bonus points if you later hear the girl screaming cause she stuck hot sauce in her pussy lmao.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 01:25 AM
1

Also lose weight and stay lean. Obesity is a big factor for low testosterone.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 06:40 PM
2

You just need sit down with her and have a serious talk. Clearly define what the relationship is, and confirm that she understands the situation and the consequences. You do not want her assuming anything and causing drama because of it.
/r/askTRP20/06/20 06:30 PM
3

Like I said in my first comment, if she’s rejecting your sexual moves then she’s not interested. She’s just looking for male attention. You’re in the friend zone.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 06:53 PM
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The broad, general answer is that when a woman likes you, interacting with her feels “easy”. By that I mean everything usually works out well. She responds to texts/calls, she makes time to see you, she reciprocates your sexual moves, etc. If it seems like you’re constantly dealing with drama, games, ghosting, etc. then she’s probably not that attracted to you.
/r/askTRP18/06/20 04:29 PM
2

Exactly. Just search for “reddit meetup” pictures. Most of the girls are not attractive.
/r/askTRP16/06/20 03:41 PM
8

That wouldn’t change my point. A few comments can’t be used to prove a “popular” view.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 06:36 AM
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Ok but what is “some posters”? Unless this sub took a poll on the topic, we don’t know how many people here actually think that. Otherwise it seems like an unproductive strawman argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 06:27 AM
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I think you're taking the "women have it easy" argument a bit too extreme. I don't think most people believe there's a bunch of plain Jane girls hooking up with male models. When people say that phrase, they typically mean "the average looking woman has it easier dating wise than the average looking man". And by "easier" that means getting more matches, dates, and sex. Various online dating statistics prove that point. Average looking women on Tinder get matches daily, while average looking men …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 06:03 AM
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The solution is simple. Keep social media use to a minimum. Better yet, don’t even use it (unless it’s for business). All I have is Facebook. No Instagram, Snapchat, Twitter, etc. Even if there was no risk of being “cancelled”, who has time to keep up with all that? 99% of people who are on social media a lot are just wasting their time.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/20 02:59 AM
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“Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t, you’re right.” —Henry Ford Don't fall into the trap of creating self-fulfilling prophecies. If you're expecting to fail then you already have. Get out there and shoot your shot. Let the girls reject you, not yourself.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 03:24 PM
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Giving people advanced notice is a great point. Last minute invites usually don’t work out with people who aren’t already good friends.
/r/askTRP14/06/20 07:01 PM
3

It’s pretty obvious she’s gold digging, your story didn’t convince me otherwise. You may not be showering her with money or gifts but that just means she’s playing the long game. She’s hoping you’ll eventually turn into a simp and ask her for a relationship. Why else is she stopping by for sex when she’s in town? She doesn’t need to visit you for dick. She can get that anywhere.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 02:48 AM
1

If you’re looking for a “natural” supplement solution, I like/use Ashwhagandha and L-Citrulline. The former reduces stress/anxiety, the latter increases blood flow (it’s a precursor to arginine but it works better).
/r/askTRP12/06/20 02:34 AM
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To be more like your popular friend, you simply have to observe his behavior. Does he start conversations? What topics does he talk about? Does he smile a lot? What does his body language look like? Don’t copy him exactly, but figure out what he does in general and start practicing it yourself.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 02:23 AM
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I’m 30 as well, with a fair share of regrets. But the upside to regret is that it motivates me to do better in the present and future.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/20 06:36 PM
1

Ask yourself this, who fucking cares? So what if they’re stronger than you? You’re not in some contest with them. They’re not grading your performance. You’re making up bullshit fantasies in your head. Focus on improving yourself and the results will come eventually.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 07:09 PM
2

Our environment and society certainly has an effect on us. However I’m referring to the primal level of human behavior. Women will not be convinced to like the average beta. Just as a man will not be convinced to dislike tits and ass. Attraction is not negotiable.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/20 06:57 PM
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The key point is this: Revealing the struggle of dating for men will not change women's behavior in any significant way. It's a bluepill dream to think that "enlightening" women will do anything. At best, they'll be more polite the next time they reject the betas, but that's it. You can't change the fundamental instincts of human nature.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/20 03:09 PM
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Girl in this video: "It will be easy..." Classic solipsism. She thinks it will be easy because it was easy for her. And on a deeper level, it's because she only romantically interacts with above average guys, who actually do have it easier. The struggle of the average beta is invisible to her. Props to her though for recognizing her biased expectations at the end. Edit: Also it's funny how she thought she knew how to seduce women. Then we see her texts and it's simply "Hi [name] how are you?" LO…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/20 08:02 PM
2

Contrary to what some are saying, texting afterwards for logistics regarding a second meetup is alright. However, you handled the whole thing wrong. It should have been this simple: You: Hey that was fun last night. You headed home today? Her: IDK yet You: Ok That's it. Nothing more. Sit back and relax. She'll let you know if she wants to meet again. And if she doesn't, it's cool, onto the next one. In contrast, you went from "thirsty" about meeting up, to "butthurt" because she rejected you, to…
/r/askTRP26/05/20 05:19 PM
3

You simply just have to do it. It’s the only way to get over your fear. Remember no one is good the first time. Like anything else it takes practice. Think about it, if you’re just fucking a random tinder thot, who cares? It’s not like she’s in your group of friends or coworkers. You could fuck her once and never see her again. You’ll probably be surprised how not a big deal it is afterwards. In terms of meeting tinder girls, meet at a public place first that’s close by to your or her home. That…
/r/askTRP25/05/20 08:51 PM
2

Yeah the text miscommunications can be annoying. I had a plate who almost bailed on a meetup cause she misread my texts. She got mad and went silent for an hour until she realized her mistake. It wasn’t until later during the meetup she mentioned it. “I was almost mad at you...” smh.
/r/askTRP23/05/20 07:33 PM
1

It's not that complicated, frame is simply "your reality" (mindset, words, actions). A "strong frame" is not allowing others to alter your reality in a negative way.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 03:21 PM
25

If you get all bitchy and go "ew no, what the fuck?" That's what they want. Agreed. You can however say "no" by using disagree & amplify. "Nah my boat and harpoon aren't ready for that one."
/r/askTRP18/05/20 08:21 PM
0

I wouldn’t recommend carb cycling for weight loss, that’ll just slow your progress. Go full keto for a while.
/r/askTRP17/05/20 12:38 AM
1

Hard to know her reasoning, it could be not enough attraction, or OP's a bad kisser. Regardless, if a girl is into you, she should be touching you and kissing you back during a makeout.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 04:22 PM
3

Generally speaking, it's not good to express "sad" emotions in front of your girl. You're better off expressing those feelings to a close friend or when alone. This pertains to the typical bullshit life throws at you. The death of a loved one is more serious though, and a girl who doesn't empathize with that is likely not worth it. Good riddance.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 06:24 PM
4

Confidence is not the end all be all. Unless you just want to harpoon land whales, there are some bare minimum requirements to fuck attractive women.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 06:07 PM
1

My point here is that if you want to eventually get women, you have to somewhat do stuff that is generally attractive to women. Well said. I think the same thing applies when it comes to hobbies/lifestyle. You don't have to do activities that are optimal for meeting/attracting women if you don't like them (e.g. yoga, dancing, etc). However, you should at least pick activities that have some opportunities for meeting/attracting women (e.g. hiking, cooking, etc).
/r/askTRP12/05/20 05:41 PM
5

Something is off. A small lie like "I like your shirt" is no big deal. But this girl told you a story and provided fake evidence. There's not much else to go on, so I'd suggest just keeping your eyes open for more lying or odd behavior. The dots will connect at some point.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 11:16 PM
4

So she's specifically texting you questions, when she could text other people. Why's that? Doesn't she have other friends? It's because she likes you. Because you "treat her like she's just another girl". Make a move dude, she's interested.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 03:58 PM
2

That’s a great screener test. Solid advice.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 02:34 PM
1

The scrotum shrinks when cold and hangs when hot. So take a hot shower beforehand and make sure the room temperature is warm enough. That's all there is to it, you don't need any "stretching exercises" like some are saying. lmao
/r/askTRP05/05/20 02:21 PM
15

Your girlfriend has become “comfortable”, meaning she’s not afraid of losing you. She sees you as a beta with no better options. She won’t change just talking about it, she’ll change when you take action. If you want to keep her, you need to apply dread. Start improving your appearance, chat up slimmer girls, act more disinterested, see her less, etc. And if she doesn’t improve, dump her.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 06:19 PM
8

Roger Sterling is actually the most red pill character in the show. Don: What do women want? Roger: Who cares?
/r/askTRP02/05/20 03:33 PM
8

So you’re basically asking why women like bad boys. It’s because bad boys act masculine and don’t treat women like princesses. That’s basic shit. Go read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP19/04/20 07:06 PM
1

I should have elaborated more. I’m talking about when the person cannot see you, like when you’re approaching from behind. That’s when I say “excuse me”. But I will physically signal like you said, if they can see me.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 08:24 PM
1

What do you actually eat in a day? Typical meals? Basically everyone who claims “I eat a ton but can’t gain weight” is overestimating how many calories they eat.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 07:38 PM
2

What’s the alternative then?
/r/askTRP16/04/20 12:28 AM
-1

Saying "sorry" instead of "excuse me" when someone's in your way. Asking "Can I have the..." instead of ordering "I'll have the..." at restaurants.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 03:05 PM
1

Basically any job that you can work remotely. This usually means a majority of the work is done on a computer or phone. I'd starting looking in that general direction.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 05:27 PM
9

Anyway it took literally an hour and a half on the phone of me telling her that I wouldnt let her back in my house unless she apologized for her shit behaviour You didn't handle this right, don't waste your time. If you're explaining, you're losing. On the phone, the first you thing should say is "I want an apology for your bad behavior". If she doesn't apologize right away, hang up. When/If she calls back, repeat those actions. Anyway, overall this girl sounds way too difficult to be worth it. …
/r/askTRP14/04/20 04:26 PM
5

If you look at the top posts in the ex-redpill sub, you'll see that all of the posts involve misunderstandings of what the TRP actually is. Here's some samples: But you know what the most harmful thing was that I learned from the Red Pill? That the problem was with all women and not with me. I didn’t need to change, women didn’t like me because there was something wrong with women. Since when did TRP place all the blame on women? Literally the first pieces of TRP advice are to LIFT, dress better…
/r/askTRP09/04/20 03:11 PM
2

Stainless steel bottles, like Klean Kanteen.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 05:25 PM
9

Get at least 7 hours of sleep every night (8 is preferable)
/r/askTRP07/04/20 07:25 PM
21

You got it. Treat her like a Queen and she’ll treat you like a peasant. To paraphrase Patrice O’Neal, “Who’s the Queen? She’s the King’s bitch.”
/r/askTRP01/04/20 01:10 AM
1

I have the same thing. Go to a dermatologist. I use a cream my dermatologist prescribed to keep the skin looking normal. Only use it once or twice a week. There’s no cure, but it’s manageable.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 04:31 AM
1

Dating wise, I don't think it makes a difference unless it something really nerdy like "Eugene" or "Sheldon". I'd go by a nickname if that was the case. Career wise, it can make difference in terms of job hunting.
/r/askTRP27/03/20 04:30 PM
1

Here’s a simple breakdown. Being the prize means being valuable (good body, good job, good friends, etc). Acting like the prize means not seeking other people’s validation. Be outcome independent. As man you have to approach women, but that doesn’t mean you care about her validation. If she rejects you or acts difficult, you simply next her and move on to other women. Being willing to walk away shows that you value yourself more than her.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 06:05 PM
2

I’ll tell you right off the bat you’ll want at least 2-3 girls. Why? Consistency. If your one girl can’t meet up one week, or decides to leave, you’re back to square one.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 02:12 PM
1

Even if these guys had game, the 1 girl and 3 guys setup is just awkward and useless. If it was more like 1 on 1 speed dating then it would be interesting to observe.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/20 07:43 PM
8

This is it OP. Tell her you don’t like it and she should have asked you first. If she’s not apologetic and doesn’t fix it reasonable quick than it’s time to demote her.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 05:46 PM
3

I did keto for a year. You actually have nice solid energy throughout the day. The only downside is your energy output is capped at ~90%, so it’s harder to go all out in the gym. You should try it, at least for a month or two.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 12:55 AM
6

Low carb diets, like keto, are the best for getting shredded.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 12:39 AM
1

You can’t take Tums for the acid reflux?
/r/askTRP16/03/20 03:10 AM
3

Agreed. Also get a barber to clean up the edges on the sides and back, so it doesn’t look sloppy.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 04:37 PM
1

Online simps actually do think they have a chance with the girl. Even if it’s only 1%, they will simp for that 1% chance of pussy. It’s dumb, but they’re just that desperate.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 11:46 PM
3

Right? I expected him to say he's 40 lol. I banged a nice 19 yo from Tinder when I was 28. As long as your SMV is high and you don't act beta, you're good.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 05:53 PM
9

Or Pinaud Clubman.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 09:00 PM
1

You can be direct in a friendly way. Something like, "Dude I don't mind hanging/talking with you sometimes, but other times I want to be by myself. If I'm with a girl, hang back and let me do my thing. I'll let you know if it's cool to join in."
/r/askTRP10/03/20 08:31 PM
1

Sure, but lots of guys fall into the mindset of “eat more” when they’re not happy with their numbers and end up chubby. It’s a common trap.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/20 01:10 AM
3

As long as your approaching girls and getting laid, who cares if your friends are better looking.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/20 08:52 PM
2

I said its a plus Everything is a "plus" dude, because no one has it all. You improve what's possible to improve. I wouldn't call TRP naive on looks when the first advice is literally "lift" to improve your appearance.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/20 07:42 PM
2

That's bullshit dude. I put on muscle, uploaded new pics to dating apps, and now I'm getting girls messaging first with "nice arms" or "hi handsome". This never happened when my body was average. My body fat % didn't change, I just added muscle. Don't knock it until you try it.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/20 07:09 PM
1

I don't agree 100%. Yes lifting will help no matter what, but aesthetics don't just happen unless you focus on it. The classic bodybuilder look requires certain exercises and watching your proportions. If you're just moving weight and chasing big numbers you'll end up looking like the typical chubby powerlifter.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/20 06:10 PM
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Notice there isn't a lot about working on improving THEMSELVES. It's filled with 'you deserve better gurrrll' BS. Their sub comes off as very whiny, bitter and entitled. What's both funny and sad about that is, for women, "girl game" is 80% about improving one's appearance. They can have high standards for men all they want, but James Bond isn't interested in 5's.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/20 08:25 PM
4

If you don’t drink water for a while you get thirsty. If you don’t orgasm for while you get horny. That’s how the body works.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 05:32 AM
2

Neck training. See this video.
/r/askTRP24/02/20 05:44 PM
1

I agree with many redpill theories, and have seen them in real life, but at the end of the day you have to realize they’re not the end all be all. Many PUA end up disappointed when all the research and strategies they did on women ends up not working on a certain girl TRP is better used as a mentality or guidelines, not strict rules. That's why you have to live it, not memorize it word for word. It's important to know that some women will simply not be interested in you. For whatever reason you'…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/20 05:37 PM
2

Yeah it's the classic "If you have to say it, it's probably not true."
/r/TheRedPill24/02/20 05:16 PM
5

Not as bad as I expected. You could actually slick your hair straight back with pomade (like this) and it would look decent. But you look fine bald also.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 10:37 PM
5

This comic says it all.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 06:39 PM
3

This girl sounds like a loser. And I bet you only care because you don’t have other options. Stop being her time-hoe and go approach local girls.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 10:53 PM
12

Closure for a girl is just a means to reassure her she made the right decision. She wants to label you as either an asshole or a beta so she can justify leaving you. Ignore her, don't give her closure.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 10:21 PM
2

That’s fair. Even if you cut it in half to 75 million males, that’s a 0.0002% rate.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/20 12:10 AM
11

It's important to note that getting cancer from HPV is actually very rare for men. The CDC says on average 19,113 men get cancer that's caused by HPV annually (source). There are 151 million males in the US, so that's less than 0.0001% of males. Obviously one should still wear condoms, but I wouldn't be paranoid about HPV cancer.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/20 10:35 PM
1

You don't see it much in reality because most older guys have dad bods, no style, and act like nice guys. Being older doesn't automatically make you more attractive. An older guy with his shit together can get a fair share of girls.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 09:25 PM
1

I’d pick pilot. News anchors are a niche market (not lots of openings) and some of your success is based on casting directors and who you know.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 12:31 AM
1

For finance/investing: Marketplace, Planet Money, The Indicator, We Study Billionaires
/r/askTRP06/02/20 05:50 PM
3

Simple. She's mad because she wants you as a boyfriend, and you're treating her like a plate. Just ignore her bullshit if you plan on keeping it that way.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 10:03 PM
1

If you decide to smash, you need to be upfront with her that your not looking for a relationship. She’ll either be cool with FWB or she’ll stop pursing you. Either way, problem solved.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 05:43 PM
1

The best response to this scenario is “Who’s this?” Or simply ignore it.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 09:41 PM
3

The thing is, you can live exactly like you're married without actually being married (in areas without common-law marriage). You can have a home and children with a woman without a legalized marriage. The only hurdle is getting a woman to agree to that arrangement. I assume that's OP's reasoning in the post you're looking for.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 11:24 PM
1

Here’s a thought, buy smaller condoms.
/r/askTRP28/01/20 05:19 AM
9

Condoms don't have to suck. Most guys just don't test out which condoms work for them. A proper fit makes a big difference. Condom width is the biggest factor, if it's too tight around your dick it will get numb. Every man should measure his dick and look up what condoms match his size. Here's one list of condom specs.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 06:21 PM
17

You just have to go for it. Remind yourself that if she's on a date with you, she's interested, and expects you to make the move.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 05:43 PM
3

It all goes back to Patrice's philosophy of "you have to be better than her". Even if your SMV is not higher than hers, you have to act like it is. If you maintain that frame, most women will believe it.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 05:21 PM
1

It's probably best for you to start approaching girls you're "mildly" attracted to, so you can build your experience and improve your confidence. It's too intimidating to approach hot girls right off the bat. Work your way up. When you feel confident with 6s, start approaching 7s, and so on.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 06:19 PM
5

The "dad bod" is just bullshit that insecure, less attractive women say to keep men in the beta bucks category. They don't have to worry as much about Billy beta cheating, or other women making moves, when he looks like a sack of potatoes.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 06:04 PM
5

I agree. Ultimately, women will act like women. It doesn’t matter where they’re from or how they were raised. They may play different games but the end goal is the same. Get the best man she can get. Whether it’s alpha fucks, beta bucks, or both.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/20 04:39 PM
9

Knowledge alone does not lead to action. Most people don’t change their ways because it’s uncomfortable.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 10:34 PM
3

General rule is 3 dates max. The one exception is if you're making good progress on each date. Recently I went on a 4th date, and had sex, because the 3rd date ended in her bedroom but she got LMR. If you're still just kissing her on the 3rd date it's time to move on.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 12:26 AM
2

The 4th Iron Rule states “NEVER under any circumstance live with a woman you aren’t married to or are not planning to marry in within 6 months.” Keywords: planning to marry So yes, you can live with a girl to screen her before marriage.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 10:32 PM
24

Youre unemployed and all you think about is what im doing during the day. I wouldn't even date unemployed girls in the first place. Plate status only. Most of them just want you to be their ATM.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 06:12 PM
10

Crazy how some guys aren’t prepared with condoms. Plan for success. Do not wing it.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 04:42 AM
1

Lose weight, stop masturbating everyday (once a week at most), exercise 2-3 times per week, eat healthy, and get 8 hours of sleep every night. Do ALL of those things and your test levels should improve a lot.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 12:47 AM
1

Don't go cold turkey, it's tough and you'll probably relapse. You should gradually taper off instead so your mind and body can adapt. So if you're watching porn three times a day, cut back to two times a day. After a week cut back to once a day. The next week cut back to once every other day. The next week cut back to once every 3rd day. Continue this process until you reach your goal.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 06:44 PM
1

Think about your day. How many strangers can you actually remember? Maybe 1-2 at best. Those strangers think the same way.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 01:56 AM
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“A man who procrastinates in his choosing will inevitably have his choice made for him by circumstance.” —Hunter S. Thompson
/r/TheRedPill07/01/20 02:47 AM
1

True lol. It’s also a vague term. Athletes can look very different based on what sport they play.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/20 07:52 PM
1

On top of what others have said, I suggest using a humidifier in your bedroom. You'll wake up with hydrated skin/hair and you'll need less moisturizer.
/r/askTRP05/01/20 10:29 PM
10

This might blow your mind, but she only told you because she thought you would forgive her. You were that much of a beta to her. Think about it, she wouldn’t admit that to an alpha male with options because she knows he’d dump her. And she was right, you were ready to forgive her until TRP slapped some sense into you. You’re very lucky dude.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 09:42 PM
1

I don’t talk to random gym goers, but I do talk with some of the regulars. Usually it’s just brief small talk, but there are a couple of cool guys who I’ll sometimes partner up with on exercises. It makes the overall gym experience a little more fun and friendly.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 08:41 PM
1

The guy in question has a good blue-collar job (probably makes close to 6 figures), keeps himself in decent shape, is very positive and easy-going about stuff, is an excellent dad, and takes the wife out frequently. But that doesn't necessarily make him sexually attractive to her. Plenty of boring nice guys fit that same description. To me, it sounds like this guy lacked the "alpha edge" to get her turned on.
/r/askTRP20/12/19 10:07 PM
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My guess is that some of these feminists see witches as a representation of "powerful women". Plus the whole "magic" thing goes along with astrology, chakras, crystals, and all the other bulllshit some women believe in.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/19 09:28 PM
1

You can get condoms with spermicide lube.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 02:24 AM
3

Is your body in shape? In your free time, do you go out to places/areas with women? Do you actually approach women often? If you answered "no" to one or more of those questions, that's your problem. I'm asking this because most self proclaimed incels do none of the above.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 06:49 PM
6

I wouldn't say it's really downplayed. The most common piece of TRP advice for newbies is "LIFT". It's an old cliche at this point. I also see plenty of talk about dressing better, good haircuts, fixing acne, and so on.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 06:15 PM
3

Girlfriend told me she doesn't like sex. Translation: "I don't like sex, with you." She's not that attracted to you dude, move on.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 04:31 AM
2

You're standards do raise, but here's the thing. You need to think that "I'm better than her" even with a high quality woman. Why? A woman wants a man who is "better" than her. She won't be attracted or will lose attraction if she thinks she's better than you. Here's Patrice O'Neal with more.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 03:20 AM
1

They have big fragile egos and anything that hurts it makes them angry. Also they usually lack options so rejection puts them back to zero, leading to desperate behavior.
/r/askTRP07/12/19 11:57 PM
8

With kissing, the only risk is herpes. With oral, the risk is all the STDs. Don't eat out random hoes right off the bat, verify they're clean first.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 11:42 PM
14

the neighbor of a red pill friend of mine committed suicide after finding out his wife was going to leave him. I hate to see this happen. The problem is that BP guys become so dependent on their woman for everything that they literally have no life outside of her. No real friends, hobbies, goals, etc. A break up leaves them in an empty void of their own making.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/19 06:21 PM
3

If a women is defending you, just give her a grin and a head nod, that’s fine. You can also play off of her defense. So for example, if you’re called ugly, say to the girl, “It’s ok, he forgot to wear his glasses today”. Or if he says your nose looks weird, say “Don’t tell him, but his mom sat on my face last night”.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 12:50 AM
3

why the fuck would she invite me to meet her mother 2 weeks into chatting with this dude, knowing she might branch swing anytime soon? Or wasn't she looking to branch swing and was only fishing for attention from this dude? Pretty simple, she's keeping you as a backup plan if things don't work out with her ex. That's how branch swinging works, the girl will hold onto the beta until she's confident the alpha will commit.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 09:37 PM
15

Exactly. And on top of that, let’s remember it’s 2019 gentlemen. You’re basically guilty until proven innocent if a vengeful woman claims that you beat her or raped her. Trolling girls isn’t worth it. If you’re going to respond at all, just be polite and neutral. “Sorry I’m just not interested in dating you”. That will hit her harder because she’ll start wondering what’s wrong with her. If she asks why, don’t respond.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 10:21 PM
9

The art of “shit talking” can be a great bonding tool, but it’s something that can’t come out of nowhere. There has to be an established friendship or at least a clear understanding that you’re not being serious.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 09:27 PM
34

Solid post. I think one thing that’s less discussed about convert contracts is it’s not always as straight forward as “doing favors for sex”. For example, if a women is in a bad mood, most men try to cheer her up in some way by doing things like chores, errands, gifts, etc. This often doesn’t work because that’s not how women operate emotionally. A man must lead the frame of the situation. A man who remains positive when his woman is negative will influence her back to positivity. He is the rock…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/19 09:05 PM
1

I’ll say this, if you want to take steroids after 6 months of lifting, then steroids aren’t going to help you that much. Why? Because you haven’t established the knowledge and discipline yet to train and eat properly. Plenty of guys who take steroids look like crap because they never figured out the basics. Steroids can’t fix sub par training and diet. You can get decently big as a natural, but it takes discipline and time.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 06:38 PM
1

It's a balance. The man needs to take the lead (open, get the number, setup the date, etc.) but he should not be flooding her with attention. A "pull back" can be used if a women is unresponsive to a move initiated by the man. For example, you text a girl to setup a date, but she doesn't respond. Pull back, wait at least a few days for her response. If she still doesn't respond, reach out again. If you get no response after that, drop her and move on.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 09:54 PM
3

20 women, roughly of those I can remember in 6 months. That averages out to about 1 approach per week. That's not a lot man. If you're improving like you say you are, than you just need to approach more often. Diversify into dating apps too.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 10:53 PM
1

You just need to keep going. 6 months isn't that long. You probably don't even look like you lift yet. It took me about a year of lifting (2-3 times every week) until my physique started getting attention, and I started lean. Same goes for your confidence and style, it's a marathon, not a sprint. Keep practicing with lots of women, learn from your mistakes, and you should gradually improve. Practice with average girls too, not just the hotties.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 03:15 PM
2

My takeaway from Rollo is that "loneliness" shouldn't be a factor in deciding to be in a relationship. You shouldn't settle for or stay in a relationship out of fear of "ending up alone". If you find a great women to have a relationship with, that's fine.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 07:17 PM
2

but what about guys that spend their lives having meaningless sex and also end up alone? You should read The Myth of the Lonely Old Man by Rollo. Here's an excerpt: The man who is comfortable with himself and confident in his true independence is the one that women will want to be associated with and to share in it. How you handle being alone and what you do with the opportunities that freedom allows is the real measure of a man. If you’re single and 50 you STILL have options if you’re only brav…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 06:22 PM
8

“No matter how hot she is, somewhere there’s a guy who’s sick and tired of putting up with her shit.” A classic phrase to keep in mind. Hot girls are not perfect beings.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 04:31 AM
9

I would advise against getting a dog unless you have a fair amount of extra money. All the dog food, treats, toys, medicine, and vet visits add up fast.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/19 07:13 PM
1

You got it. Or they're just clueless/lazy about working out properly.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 08:57 PM
4

I simply cannot for the life of me get the really hot girls. The kinds of girls you see on IG. It's important to keep in mind that all these IG "models" are using photoshop, camera angles, plastic surgery, and a pound of makeup. Most of these girls are 8's at best in the real world. That's why none of them are actual professional models. Don't be fooled.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/19 08:44 PM
3

No, because it doesn’t say how often you see cute girls.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 11:26 PM
5

“Do you do this often?” “Only when I see a cute girl.” Don’t give a direct answer.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 11:01 PM
1

It’s not a myth. The average man has 17X more testosterone than the average women. Guess one effect testosterone has? It makes you horny. You’re wrong on a biological level.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 01:06 AM
1

Based on your story, I see two potential reasons why it didn’t work. You didn’t escalate properly. You shouldn’t go from making out right to pulling her pants off and fingering her. You need to slow down and add some steps. Girls like foreplay. Make out, feel her tits/ass, take off her shirt, feel her more, take off her bra, feel her more, then go for the pants. You didn’t come across as alpha enough. If she’s getting railed by the frat house (lol) she’s not looking for a gentle nice guy.
/r/askTRP15/10/19 11:39 PM
8

I’ll second that. A high paying job is great, but if that’s all you have going for you, you will only attract gold diggers. Get in shape, dress well, and live a fun lifestyle outside of work.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/19 05:25 PM
1

The only issue here is that there is no agreed arrangement. Next time you fuck, just tell her that it's cool with you to keep hooking up, but it's strictly a no strings attached situation. That way she doesn't start expecting anything more and cause drama.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 10:49 PM
14

It could be a couple things: • Your brain is addicted to porn and will only orgasm to porn • Jerking off too rough made your dick insensitive • Performance anxiety • Improper fitting condom
/r/askTRP01/10/19 12:57 AM
2

Exactly lol. They’re just theatre kids blessed with good genetics. Ryan Gosling is another one, he married Eva Mendez when he was 30, and she was 37.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 03:24 PM
1

If you actually have low T, see a doctor and get TRT.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 06:14 PM
3

I have however read the Sidebar and I started lifting, read the 48 rules to power and the game, I’m somewhat buff Sounds like he hasn't been lifting long enough to even see results. Plus he's delusional about being "somewhat buff" lol. PSA for the newbies, a few months of lifting will not make you look buff.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 06:05 PM
8

I doubt she's actually trying to make a move on you, she is your cousin. Instead I think she's become clingy and dependent on you because you're her only friend and source of happiness. Set your boundaries with her, and offer positive encouragement on exercise and socializing with new people.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 04:25 PM
-1

Listen, you can nitpick this to death but the overall point is the average guy is not lacking gains because of genetics. At least half the guys I see at my gym on a regular basis make little gains because they're clearly A) half-assing it B) not following a routine C) using incorrect form. And if they're bad at that, their diet and sleep probably aren't great either.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/19 02:13 PM
-1

I’m talking about average healthy people. Not outliers with disorders and diseases who obviously will be different.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/19 03:24 AM
4

Just use toothpaste and mouthwash that are "whitening". Will help whiten your teeth over time and combat the daily staining. That's what I do, and I've had a dental hygienist ask if I've had my teeth professionally whitened before.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 07:22 PM
1

If your psoriasis is that severe, you should look into biologic drugs, such as Humira. These drugs work very well but can have serious side effects. Talk to a doctor about it.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 04:10 AM
2

I didn't say anything about height. Somatotypes is about body composition. Humans are not "naturally" thin, muscular, or chubby. Diet and exercise are the biggest factors in body composition.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/19 05:04 PM
0

Yes they would have similar muscle gains. Small variations may occur due to different testosterone levels.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 09:23 PM
11

Somatotypes (ectomorphs, etc) is bro science bullshit. There’s no actual scientific evidence that these “body types” exist. Skinny guys just need to eat more and train properly. Genetics aren’t holding them back, it’s just an excuse.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 05:19 PM
0

LOL I’m 6’2, 29, but 195 lbs with visible abs. I’m not even that big, so this guy is way too skinny to be claiming he’s at his peak.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/19 05:06 PM
1

I don't know why you're staying with the obese girlfriend. Based on your stats you could be slaying hot girls left and right. Seems like you have a scarcity mentality that's holding you back. Go out and play the field dude.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 03:18 PM
1

Your scarcity mentality is showing. You're focused on this girl because she's your "best option" in your mind. Go find more options. I'd bet you could find a local girl with no kids that's better than this one.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 07:42 PM
8

Being poor has little to do with being overweight. It costs nothing to eat less. Even with an unhealthy diet the main factor in weight gain is too many calories.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/19 09:58 PM
0

Two of them say that nothing compares to their first expirences as honest and pure in love teens That's because they were naive teenagers. The red pill dynamics still existed, they just didn't recognize it.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 07:25 PM
1

Your method of direct game is totally off. Asking for the number right after opening is socially uncalibrated and it’s not surprising that it mostly leads to rejections. Why would she give her number to a stranger right away? You have to have some fun and flirty conversation after opening so she can see that you’re a cool guy who’s worth dating.
/r/TheRedPill10/09/19 03:38 AM
1

Looks do matter, but they matter most at the start. A below average guy will usually get rejected right away. An above average guy will usually not get rejected right away, but if his game sucks, he will get rejected a little later on.
/r/seduction05/09/19 08:32 PM
4

The vast majority of issues in game would be solved by simply maxing out looks and perfecting TONALITY and BODY LANGUAGE. This is probably the strongest point here. Every guy I know who is good with women has that "cool" factor, which boils down to what your saying.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/19 04:29 PM
2

He’s a celebrity so obviously that helps with any woman who is less famous than him. With other celebrities, like Ariana Grande, it’s his blunt IDGAF attitude.
/r/askTRP01/09/19 06:20 PM
42

It's not girl logic, it's girl game. She knows what she's doing. She wants to have her cake and eat it too.
/r/askTRP31/08/19 07:47 PM
2

I ask her out after about a year of knowing her That’s where you messed up. Don’t act like a friend if you don’t want to be just a friend. Make a move in the beginning. A girl who is interested will date you immediately. And yes, that means next this girl. She already rejected you twice.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 11:11 PM
2

You need to be more direct in the beginning of the conversation so you don’t waste your time. Make it clear you’re flirting with her or simply ask if she’s single. It’s ok if you get rejected quickly, it’s better than getting rejected 30 mins later.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 10:45 PM
1

You can watch pretty much any old school action/western movie. Look for classic masculine actors like Clint Eastwood, Steve McQueen, John Wayne, Sean Connery, Jack Nicholson, Charles Bronson, Yul Brynner, etc.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 10:13 PM
1

Generally, if there’s not a kiss on the first date than she’s not really attracted to you. Any reason she tells you is just to keep you around, making you hope it will happen. Meanwhile she’s getting all the attention from you she craves. Don’t be fooled by her words. Girls will happily kiss an alpha guy they just met at a bar or club.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 04:44 PM
3

You're looking for "magic words" to get pussy. Spoiler Alert: There are none. Women of all ages want high value men. It's that simple.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 05:26 PM
7

a lot of super creepy and borderline obsessive stalker behavior from a lot of guys when it comes to high-level female chess players Yeah this happens with any nerdy, mostly male activity. The beta orbiters think she's some special unicorn just because she likes, or is good at, their activity.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 04:55 PM
2

There's a couple reasons: Women don't want to appear shallow. Women are insecure and don't want to compete with other women over an attractive man. Some women are not attractive enough to get muscular men, so they cope by convincing themselves it's a turn off. When they hear "muscle" they think "huge freaky bodybuilder", not "Magic Mike".
/r/askTRP20/08/19 09:51 PM
2

This is great advice dude. I’m going to start incorporating more incline pressing.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/19 11:54 PM
4

You've only been seeing this girl for 3-4 months. You don't know her well enough yet. Basically you're still in the "honeymoon" phase where both partners are on their best behavior. She may or may not have issues that will be revealed over time. Proceed but keep your eyes open.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 05:19 PM
13

I think this comic sums it up nicely. Basically, being bald is fine if you look attractive otherwise.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 04:25 PM
1

really weird about any sort of PDA she felt like I was trying to make it known to everyone that we are a couple 3+ years of dating and being in an LTR, shes only every uploaded like 2 photos of us. Her Facebook profile doesn't show that her and I are in a relationship God damn, how many more red flags do you need? She's basically just waiting for Mr. Alpha to come along while she keeps you as her back up plan. Get out of this relationship.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 07:34 PM
6

In her mind she expected him to say shit like "Please don't leave me" or " Baby PLEASE! Don't go" or other weak shit like that. She wanted to be the one with the upper hand. To expand on this, she wanted to confirm that he's a beta so she can confidently dump him. Accidentally dumping an alpha is one of a woman's worst nightmares.
/r/askTRP07/08/19 05:13 PM
2

Her : "Hey I'm not sure about us, i'm not really in, i think we should talk about it, i know it might be hard for you" She thinks she has higher value than you. Her : "I thought you loved me and that it would be very hard for you if i leave you ? You lied to me the all time just for having sex ?" You shattered her belief that she had the higher value by initiating the breakup. Now she's attempting to shame you to get her value back. And then she started to tell me that she regrets the text she s…
/r/askTRP07/08/19 05:05 PM
1

Focus on one thing at a time. Don't overwhelm yourself. Get a full time job Move into you own place Improve your health and exercise Explore hobbies and social activities This won't happen quickly, but over time your life will get better. Nothing worth having is easily acquired.
/r/askTRP04/08/19 04:17 PM
7

As I expected. Notice how the only women who say "muscles don't matter" are not attractive.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 04:31 PM
1

Everyone here is correct, your friend is insecure. Just look at how crazy women go over movies like Magic Mike, a movie full of buff guys showing off their bodies.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 04:19 PM
2

I know what you’re saying, but this is not totally true. Yes, if a girl is into you it makes it very easily to succeed. But, the guy still has to play it cool and not turn her off. Many guys talk or act their way out of sex.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/19 06:55 PM
48

I'm calling bullshit, but not because you're short and asian. Rather it's because you're a self described dad bod with glasses, a novice at pickup, who pulled a model tier girl. Plus you mention one PUA by name and your account was created today. This reeks of marketing spam.
/r/seduction25/07/19 06:39 PM
1

OHP, upright rows, and lat raises Do NOT do upright rows, they will fuck up your shoulders. Here's a good video explanation.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/19 04:50 PM
2

Ask for her facebook, a selfie, or video chat to verify she's real. Meet in a public place where other people around. A bar, coffee shop, restaurant, etc. But most importantly, don't be pen pals with a random girl for two damn years without even checking if she's legit.
/r/askTRP19/07/19 08:10 PM
11

They don't know. They are desperate. They don't care. They like it (cuck fetish).
/r/askTRP19/07/19 07:38 PM
9

You’re overestimating your calorie intake, it’s that simple. It’s not genetics or metabolism, those are minor factors. Many studies have shown that people who can’t lose or gain weight incorrectly estimate how much they actually eat.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/19 12:24 AM
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I don't know why you hung around basically waiting for the dude to hit you. As soon as he came over I would just say "Oh is this your girlfriend? My bad dude." and walked away. No point getting into a fight over some random girl. High risk, low reward.
/r/askTRP12/07/19 05:20 PM
3

Don't be embarrassed, most girls actually take it as a compliment. Orgasming fast validates her as being sexy. If you last a long time or don't orgasm some girls will think it's because you don't find them sexy enough. Give it some time. If you're still cumming quick after a month or two then I would consider it a problem.
/r/askTRP08/07/19 07:43 PM
7

Exactly. A good physique makes practically everything look more stylish. It’s why models can get away with wearing clothes that normal people can’t.
/r/askTRP05/07/19 10:11 PM
2

Move on, don't further waste your time with her, that's just torturing yourself. And in the future you need to make your intentions clear from the start, because this girl thought it was "friends hanging out" not a "date".
/r/seduction01/07/19 09:19 PM
1

That’s the best advice here. Don’t let mistakes distract you from your larger goal.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 07:52 PM
3

The real alphaness comes from running, from pushing your body to those extremes that only the true winners will ever be willing to go to. Pushing your body to extremes is not exclusive to running. It's not hard to throw a bit of weight above your body. Try shredding your lungs into oblivion on a hard run Apples to oranges. Lifting and running can be hard in their own ways. Try deadlifting triple your bodyweight. Ex-athletes understand that lifting isn't remotely difficult Yeah because "athletes"…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/19 05:33 PM
64

Jim Jefferies said it best: "Every single time a man sleeps with a lot of women, he’s called a stud. But if a woman sleeps with a lot of men, she’s called a slut. And people think this is unfair. Not! It’s completely fair. And I’ll tell you why, right? Because it’s fucking easy to be a slut. It’s fucking hard to be a stud. To be a stud you have to be witty, charming, well-dressed, have nice shoes and a fab job. To be a slut you just have to be there. There are fat ugly sluts out there. There are…
/r/askTRP27/06/19 03:00 PM
4

Yes you have be attractive to get matches, but only the most attractive guys can say anything and still be successful. Tons of guys have no clue how to message girls. They send some boring opener like "Hey" or "What's up?". Then, if they get a response, they ask boring nice guy questions until the girls ghost them.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/19 05:34 PM
9

I think you need to work on your verbal game. You said you can can get matches on tinder but 95% of them go nowhere. So that tells me something about your conversations are not working. Same could be true about real life approaches.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/19 09:59 PM
39

Sounds like you need to start approaching women in real life. The problem with online dating is that you'll rarely match with girls who are on your SMV level. You're judged almost solely on looks, not your flirting, charisma, or personality. Also look into the keto diet, it really helps cut body fat.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/19 04:22 PM
1

Anyone who has been single in a major city know that you can line up a weeks worth on tinder dates in a matter of hours. Sometimes multiple meet ups in the same night. Her ignorance of the male tinder experience is hilarious. She actually thinks the average single guy in a big city can just jump on tinder and get a "weeks worth" of dates in a "matter of hours". That's only true for the top 20% of men. The other 80% are lucky to get one date per month. Classic solipsism in action.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/19 04:07 PM
5

It’s a beta move to get some rebound pussy? Ok then lol. It’s not putting her on a pedestal, you shouldn’t be waiting around for her to come back. If she doesn’t rebound that’s fine. But I don’t see the point in stopping her if she tries to.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 10:06 PM
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No need to block girls unless they're acting crazy. If you act cool after a rejection some girls will actually become interested because you didn't act like a needy bitch. You miss out on these rebound girls if you block them. Don't cockblock yourself, like you did in this story.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/19 08:22 PM
6

I'm 31, 6ft, 170lbs, ~20% BF?. SQ 170, DL230, Bench145. Lose more body fat. Aim for 10-14%. Higher body fat is correlated with lower test.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 10:23 PM
73

so she hasn't dated much Pay attention to how that's worded. "Dating" does not mean she hasn't been fucking. She could have fucked 30 guys without "dating" them. Not to mention girls will say certain sexual encounters "don't count".
/r/askTRP18/06/19 10:11 PM
1

Your body needs more rest than normal if you're working out 3+ days a week, so first thing I'd say is get more sleep. Low energy can also come from a lack of calories, so make sure you're eating enough, and preferably healthy.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 06:31 PM
3

In your scenario, I would just ignore it, or say something like "yeah it's the perfect size". You're 1.25 inches longer than average (~5.5 in) yet she calls you normal lol. Never listen to women about dick size, they're bad at estimating it. And as you see, they'll just judge you based on the previous dicks they've had.
/r/askTRP18/06/19 05:01 PM
5

Funny how the issue of offspring is not even mentioned. The majority of straight people want children, and a trans person cannot truly provide that (a child related to both parents).
/r/TheRedPill17/06/19 10:42 PM
1

I'd say another big reason famous/wealthy men pay for hookers is because there's less concern about get trapped with a baby.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/19 06:50 PM
3

Agreed. Also just start masturbating more. The more often you masturbate the less sensitive you'll be.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 04:53 PM
2

women that think they are the dominant ones That's a shit test to filter out the soft boys. A woman I know keeps saying how Why are you listening to her? Actions speak louder than words. You can be the dominant one, you just have to actually do it.
/r/askTRP14/06/19 04:22 PM
1

You can't imagine this happening to you, so you can't imagine it happening to others.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/19 09:02 PM
1

The rates are similar for men too. That's why TRP advocates lifting. It's easier than ever to look better than the average.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 09:55 PM
4

The bottle neck has also been made worse by the obesity epidemic. The average western person is overweight, so the physically attractive end of the dating spectrum is smaller.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 07:38 PM
6

My wife blew some old ugly motherfucker in a bar parking lot like a free whore. Here's the cold truth, your marriage will not get any better for you down the road. She cheated and you accepted it. Now she no longer respects you, and she also knows she can cheat again without serious consequences. You have two options, be in a shitty marriage the rest of your life, or have some self respect and divorce her. but my wife looks good and is sexy as shit so I just keep chasing it. Scarcity mentality. …
/r/askTRP12/06/19 06:50 PM
1

This is my first question in this sub, I'm not constantly asking what to say. Chill dude, I was just drawing a blank on this one.
/r/askTRP12/06/19 01:48 PM
3

First, your SMV has to be high enough. If you're getting rejected quickly in the first interaction than that's your problem. Second, you need to be confident and care free with the hot girls the same way you are with the average ones. Third, you should compliment the hot girls less and tease them more. They're use to most guys treating them like princesses.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 07:45 PM
17

The last introduction to you I had was this shit. https://youtu.be/zcLLKse0kNY?t=1416 Wow, both guys came off bad in this. The interviewer acts like a corny pseudo alpha, and GLO acts like an obnoxious immature bully.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/19 08:08 PM
2

Normally I would put friends over girls, but your friend has been in the friend-zone with this girl too long. Here's what's probably best for both of you. Make a deal with him, tell him he has X amount of days to make a move on this girl, otherwise you will make your move. If he succeeds, great. If he's rejected or doesn't make the move, you get to fuck, and he'll hopefully stop wasting his time on this girl.
/r/askTRP07/06/19 09:36 PM
6

work hard a few years,save enough money, enjoy life for awhile Honest critique: Your plan is vague and unrealistic. Working hard at a job for a few years is not going to allow you to save "take a few years off" money. Especially at your age and experience level. Not to mention paying off school loans and saving for retirement. Most industries don't like gaps in employment either, so getting a job after a long break is going to be harder. It's not impossible, but the fact that you're already comp…
/r/askTRP07/06/19 09:04 PM
1

Source? As far as I know, he did swinging and threesomes, but not actual cuckolding (just watching your girl get fucked).
/r/askTRP03/06/19 05:36 PM
7

What makes him seem fake to me is his grandiose talking style. He'll talk about relatively simple concepts like he's some new age mystical guru.
/r/askTRP03/06/19 04:04 PM
32

It's the positive masculine traits they possess: confidence, non-needy, takes the lead, physical strength, etc. Women will overlook the negatives if there are enough positives.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 05:25 PM
1

Exactly. This situation is just text book "nice guy" behavior. They think doing favors for a woman with make her return the favor (sexually). The problem is that the woman did not actually agree to this arrangement (convert contract). So you end up with nice guys doing a bunch of favors for an imaginary prize.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 05:05 PM
12

Here’s further advice, even if you’re wearing a condom you should pull out shortly after you cum. About a month ago I was fucking a plate and nutted in the condom, but I didn’t pull out for a few minutes. So my dick got a little soft and when I did pull out the condom came off. It stuck in her pussy. She pulled it out and it looked like all the cum was still in the condom, but I wasn’t taking any chances, so I had to buy Plan B. Thankfully she agreed to take it.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/19 04:02 PM
1

I think you have more than a "slight lack in protein". Chicken is the only thing you listed that has high protein. Try eating some kind of meat with every meal, that's what I do and I see gains. I would increase your fat intake also, fat is essential for testosterone production.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 04:42 AM
2

You need more protein. Three of your meals are just carbs. Add some red meat and whole milk to your diet. Switch to whole eggs too, they have more nutritional value and calories than whites.
/r/askTRP28/05/19 04:08 AM
1

I agree with you, with some caveats. As others have said, some guys are just in the anger phase and will grow out of it. Also, for me at least, I will sometimes use a crude word as a substitute for "girl/woman" simply because it gets a point across better or for humor, not hatred.
/r/askTRP27/05/19 09:07 PM
3

It's not necessarily high standards. Attractive guys with good careers can be unsuccessful with women simply because they don't have good mental or verbal game. A lot of guys ruin their chances as soon as they open their mouthes.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 07:03 PM
2

If he's oblivious enough to do this, you can't do much other than hope the inevitable divorce happens sooner than later.
/r/askTRP12/05/19 06:51 PM
48

Not much to learn, she's just confirming RP truths. Women will throw themselves at high value men, even ones who are married. Women hate female competition, it makes them insecure and anxious (dread game). A woman's SMV is based primarily on her looks, not her social status (famous husband in this case). Not to mention, how many guys would attempt to flirt with a NBA superstar's wife? 99% of guys know they can't compete with that.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 07:55 PM
6

I agree with you, but with one caveat. You don't automatically become a pussy magnet after 30. You need to have your shit together. A good physique, sharp style, and a decent job are required. If you look like George from Seinfeld than being over 30 isn't going to help you.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/19 04:39 PM
2

In the context that OP gives, I think he means be aware of your actions. Analyzing your actions and learning from them is an important skill.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/19 04:26 PM
1

Bring an extra water bottle I guess. Depends how long you're out.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 10:02 PM
4

Yeah, and use some kind of water filter (eg. Brita, Pur).
/r/askTRP08/05/19 09:15 PM
3

Just buy a pure stainless steel water bottle to avoid plastic entirely.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 09:06 PM
1

Some men have low testosterone only because of genetics, that's why.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 09:01 PM
2

My guess is you're acting too much like a "player" around these girls. You have to give them at least a small amount of "nice boyfriend" behavior so they aren't worried you'll leave or cheat. But remember, you need to wait for her to ask for a relationship so she is the "chaser", not you.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 08:56 PM
6

That’s an important point. I see a lot guys in the gym who are “big” but their body fat it too high or they have muscle imbalances. If you want girls to drool over your body you need to be somewhat lean and well proportioned.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 11:25 PM
2

It’s pretty simple. Pump and dump the obvious gold diggers if you want (Condom sex only with them! They’re the most likely type to try trapping you with a baby). Otherwise keep your wealth invisible with women until a relationship gets serious.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 12:25 AM
3

They can always find a *beta guy, not the alpha guy they truly want.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 11:18 PM
2

That could be the case. Keep in mind that avoiding conflict can go along with not teasing enough. If there is not a lot of natural conflict, you can compensate by teasing her more.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 07:07 PM
2

If you're getting decent matches, then you're not ugly. Your'e at least average. If girls are losing interest on dates, something is wrong with your verbal game or body language. Verbal game issues could be: boring conversation, talking too much, avoiding conflict, not teasing her, etc. Body language issues could be: acting shy, bad posture, nervous ticks, not touching her enough or correctly, etc.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 05:40 PM
8

Yeah it's ego protection. It's like saying you don't want a Ferrari, even though you can't afford one.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 03:29 PM
5

Usually it's because these guys have a scarcity mentality. They haven't dated a lot of women, they're afraid of being single, and they feel lucky when they finally get a woman. They avoid conflict with their women out of fear of them leaving. This leads to them acting like slaves to keep their women happy.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/19 09:21 PM
0

They’re not stupid, they’re just following nature. They want the alpha genes, a natural who didn’t have to “learn” alpha male behavior. This helps ensure that their offspring are naturally alpha and successful.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/19 01:18 PM
1

I’d say it depends on your experience level. If you’re a novice with women, then you should go for it, for practice. If you’re beyond novice, then you can take it or leave it.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 03:32 PM
37

There's a variation on this I like to do, that I'll call "Reverse Amplify". Basically you just reverse the tease back at her, at a higher notch. "You're short" – "That's because you're a giraffe" "You're old" – "Ya well are you even potty trained yet?" The point is to catch her off guard with an absurd comeback. The key thing to remember is when she acts shocked, just grin at her. No apologies. She will quickly start giggling or full on laughing.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/19 08:20 PM
2

This is true, over 30 women still have plenty of options thanks to thirsty betas. The real downside though is that they usually have to settle with thirsty betas. They don't get the alpha they truly crave.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 08:47 PM
1

Agreed. Although minor plastic surgery (botox, fillers, etc) can help the healthy lifestyle girls look youthful into their early 30's.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 08:28 PM
3

If your friends see you getting rejected, there are two outcomes. They give you props for trying. They tease you about it. If #2 happens, you just tease them back. "Ok show me how it's done then." or "How many girls have you talked to tonight?" etc. Put the ball back in their court. ​
/r/askTRP29/03/19 08:09 PM
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/r/askTRP26/03/19 05:15 PM
1

one notable exception which is approaching people, including women. Idk why but i fear that so much You simply need to start doing it, there's no trick to it. The fear will slowly fade the more you do it. Practice breeds confidence.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/19 07:55 PM
1

This is an important topic. I've watched a fair share of interviews with highly successful people (business moguls, high level athletes, etc.) and one the most common similarities I've noticed is a "make it happen, and fix it along the way" mentality. Almost NO ONE who is highly successful started off on a "perfect path" to success.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 06:12 PM
1

You just need to assess the situation and look for signals. Did she invite you? Are you two alone? Is the activity romantic? Is she physically close to you? Is she giggling at your jokes? And so on... If the answer to those types of questions is mostly positive, you can make a move. Don't worry about being creepy at that point, she's very likely attracted to you. Don't overthink the signals either. Some alone are very obvious. Like, if she's coming to your place directly from tinder, she wants t…
/r/askTRP21/03/19 07:02 PM
15

I agree with your premise. Most beta guys aren’t actually acting like “themselves” but rather they’re presenting a “perfect gentleman” facade to women. If they acted more natural, like they would with a good friend, they’d be more successful.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/19 05:56 PM
4

One thing to keep in mind, to prevent the "oneitis", is to remember that these girls are hoes. Think about it, they are quickly jumping around from guy to guy looking for good dick. Are these the type of girls you want as a LTR? I don't think so.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 03:28 PM
2

No smart ass, but you do consume some of the toothpaste, it’s absorbed through the membrane in the mouth and swallowed with the saliva naturally.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:18 PM
4

Yeah I’ve read it, it’s potentially poisonous if you swallow more than what’s used for brushing. There are safe tolerances, just like other things like alcohol. And you do actually consume some of the toothpaste, it’s absorbed through the membrane in the mouth and swallowed in the saliva naturally. I know there are studies that show it reduces testosterone, but the average person is not consuming enough of it. I’d worry a lot more about your diet and body composition affecting your test before f…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 05:53 AM
8

If fluoridated water was really that bad then we be fucked up even worse from toothpaste, which contains a lot more fluoride than tap water. Stop the conspiracy bullshit.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:14 AM
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The average man has also been getting fatter every year, and high body fat lowers testosterone.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 03:02 AM
1

Yes lifting improves SMV. Even if you have a shit job, it's better to be physically fit, otherwise you're just a skinny/fat guy with a shit job. As long you're actively improving your career, that's what's important. If a girl sees you're trying to do better and still isn't interested, then just move on. It'll be her loss when you start making good money down the road.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 09:23 PM
5

Too $hort is easily one of the most RP rappers.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 08:52 PM
1

It's possible you're giving off too much of a "player" vibe with these girls. If they see you as only a player, then they won't consider you as serious boyfriend material. It also depends on the type of girls you're selecting. Girls who want sex quickly are less likely to want a relationship. They want to sleep around. But you shouldn't be seeking a relationship with those girls anyway.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 07:55 PM
46

If you're past puberty, you're better off losing body fat or growing a beard to improve your face. There's little evidence that mewing works post puberty.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/19 06:03 PM
1

For the men who worry about making "wrong" decisions, don't worry. A woman will tell you if she thinks it's wrong, and you can make an alternative decision, if you agree with her feedback. The important thing is to just make the decision in the first place.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/19 04:33 PM
2

One thing to keep in mind is that if you love (or least like) your job, it won't always feel like a waste of time. This is why it's important to go for a career you enjoy.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/19 04:46 PM
2

If you just want her gone, say something like "Hey I can't talk right now, I'm trying to focus on my workout". It's not that complicated.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 03:03 PM
12

If you really wanted to marry her, you wouldn't be asking us for advice. Sounds like you need to break up. There are other "good girls" you can love. She's not a unicorn.
/r/askTRP28/02/19 11:13 PM
1

Also those types of exercises usually give you strong legs and a strong core. Other muscle groups will be lacking in volume. I want that V-taper, I want to look like a Greek fucking God. That's what I dislike about these programs. They lack a consideration for aesthetics. They act like "vanity muscle" exercises are beneath them (arms, side delts, abs, etc). The end result of these programs is looking like a damn T-Rex, not Apollo. And that only discourages new lifters. I actually do a full body …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/19 06:31 PM
2

FYI mewing does not work past puberty because the bones become too hard.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/19 04:51 PM
5

This is known as "uptalk". It tends to be more common among women, particularly Kardashian wannabes. Which is why it makes men really seem feminine if they speak like that.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/19 04:24 PM
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We talked for an hour You should ask a girl you're flirting with if she's single within the first 10-15 mins of conversation. That will avoid this whole time wasting situation entirely.
/r/askTRP23/02/19 08:57 PM
11

FYI this isn't a random woman as the meme image suggests. He says that she's his girlfriend in the interview. Regardless though, she's definitely ready to jump his bones.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 08:09 PM
7

You need to shower first. And when I do it's, My mouth hurts to I'm not up to it tonight Before bed I took a really good shower Dude, the shower thing does not matter. You're failing a shit test right here. If she's giving you any excuse, fixing it isn't going to help, because her excuse isn't real. She's simply not attracted enough to give you a blowjob. And when you jump through these hoops to try to get one, she only loses more respect for you.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/19 06:05 PM
1

The same way men used to learn pre-internet, male role models. Fathers, grandfathers, uncles, and friends. Also by practicing through trial and error.
/r/askTRP19/02/19 12:58 AM
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Yeah girls definitely like glutes. My theory is that, subconsciously, good glutes show that you can fuck her hard, because glutes are the main muscles involved in hip thrusting. It could also be an aesthetic thing, just as men like women's butts, women like men's butts.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/19 10:51 PM
1

now hes confessing to being raped by another man while completely being in tears and holding me. That's the problem. Not the admission of being raped. Women want a stoic man, a rock to lean on. They do not like being the rock.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/19 10:12 PM
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I disagree. I think once a man looks obviously unnatural in size, lean or not, that's the line where many women get turned off. Proportions are important too, a husky powerlifter physique isn't as attractive as a v-taper bodybuilder physique. I think Steve Reeves is the best example of an ideal body to most women.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/19 09:54 PM
11

Solid analogy. The short version is “Do not change the things that attracted her to you in the first place”.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/19 04:47 PM
16

Exactly. Women will be as lazy as men let them. Men need to start dreading/dumping women for being useless outside the bedroom. That’s the only way to correct this behavior.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/19 12:53 AM
6

I read a post on TRP the other day that said women make the better artists because their greater emotional depth. There are more women in the creative fields, but the majority of prestigious people in the creative fields are men. Even in stereotypical female industries like fashion. Louis Vuitton, Gucci, Versace, Prada, Dior, and Hermes were all created by men. Chanel is the only exception I can think of.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/19 04:59 PM
2

I agree with that. Just buy what’s needed, don’t buy a bunch of fancy razors and creams.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/19 01:45 AM
3

They're not that good for the price. Safety razors are better and cheaper in the long run. Check out the "wicked_edge" subreddit
/r/TheRedPill16/01/19 10:25 PM
3

Uber, duh. It's for Uber-Chads.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 09:53 PM
18

I see Jeff Bezos, a man who can get any girl gold digger in the world do poorly with women. FTFY
/r/askTRP16/01/19 09:51 PM
1

It depends on what you're reading. If you're just reading fiction books, than sure, that's not providing much value to your life other than entertainment. If you're reading books that are relevant to your career, finances, health, etc. than that's more beneficial.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/19 05:24 PM
2

Like lifting, reading a book should be a scheduled activity. If you read 1 hour per day, for a whole year, that's 365 hours worth of reading. Just imagine the amount of knowledge you could learn about a subject in 1 year if you did this.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/19 05:09 PM
5

I've been lifting inconsistently for 3 years. That's your problem. You need to be consistent if you want significant gains. I'm talking at least 2 gym days per week as the bare minimum. No skipping gym days unless you're sick, injured, or out of town.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/18 09:21 PM
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You're lean, but not that big. You still look normal in clothing. Which is expected considering you are only 7 months into training. You need to keep at it longer for noticeable gains. Regardless of physique though... Good pictures are everything on tinder. You need good pics with friends, doing activities, traveling, etc. If all your pics are solo selfies you're going to come across as a lonely boring loser, even if you're jacked.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/18 08:52 PM
1

It can be used as a tool for inspiration, motivation, or education. Follow important people who bring value to your life.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 08:22 PM
23

There's no point in threatening her with a break up. She's already planning on cheating, so just break up with her before it happens.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 08:50 PM
74

I've said this before and I'll say it again. Nice guys tend to label any guy who isn't "nice" as a jerk. The truth is most "jerks" are just normal guys who don't act like pussy whipped betas around women. They're not afraid to tease, disagree, or be direct with women. They're masculine men, that's it. It doesn't mean they act rudely in general to everyone in their life.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/18 09:42 PM
12

I'll second Bumble. Better quality in my experience. Because the app makes girls message first or matches disappear, it reduces the amount of non-serious attention seeking girls.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/18 07:20 PM
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Pay attention to her actions, not her words.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 04:32 AM
1

Dr. Dre - Bitches Ain’t Shit / Housewife
/r/askTRP11/12/18 05:46 AM
2

10K IU is a bit high. I think 5K IU is more reasonable, unless OP is diagnosed with a deficiency.
/r/askTRP10/12/18 09:18 PM
3

You're taking the word "jerk" too literally. Nice guys tend to label any guy who isn't "nice" as a jerk. Most "jerks" are just normal guys who don't act like pussy whipped betas around women. They're not afraid to tease, disagree, or be direct with women. They're masculine men, that's it. It doesn't mean they act rudely in general to everyone in their life.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/18 10:16 PM
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I agree with your point, but I think the concept of "jerks" needs to be clarified, at least for the novice crowd. Nice guys tend to label any guy who isn't "nice" as a jerk. Most "jerks" are just normal guys who don't act like pussy whipped betas around women. They're not afraid to tease, disagree, or be direct with women. They're masculine men, that's it. It doesn't mean they act rudely in general to everyone in their life.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/18 10:04 PM
1

Keep it simple. Choose one goal to stick to. It could be "go to the gym three days a week". Once this becomes a habit, add another goal. Repeat this process. Before you know it, you'll be accomplishing a lot. Also don't worry about perfection, if you have an off day just get back at it tomorrow. Persistence is key to improvement.
/r/askTRP28/11/18 08:13 PM
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It's always the same story with these insta-hoes. They hate being hoes, but they love the money and attention, so they keep doing it. Typical. Don't give them any attention and just live your life.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/18 01:04 AM
1

So I asked her out and she said she wasnt looking for a relationship or dating. That doesn't mean she doesn't want sex. Sounds like she's open to a one night stand, or fuck buddies. I said I wanted to hang out as friends and she agreed. Here's where you messed up. You should have just hung out with her without saying "friends". She knows you want sex, but you tried to hide it, and that's beta behavior. Now she sees you as beta. That's why she wants to "take things slow". She only wants to "take …
/r/askTRP20/11/18 06:04 PM
10

FYI only 2% of men globally have penises longer than 7 inches. Most black guys don't have huge dicks, that's a myth perpetuated by the porn industry.
/r/askTRP19/11/18 08:57 PM
5

That's not true. A few have died young, but many have not. Arnold, Franco, Zane, Samir, Haney, Platz, etc. are beyond their 50's and alive still. Larry Scott and Sergio Olivia died in their 70's.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 05:49 AM
1

If you want to blend in, just order a seltzer or Coke with a lime slice. It will look like you're drinking a cocktail.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 08:19 PM
1

There’s not an exact age that males stop getting taller. The general range is 16-21 yo. You could still potentially get taller. Whey protein and creatine aren’t the best for gaining weight, but nothing’s wrong with them. I would focus on eating more meat, eggs, and dairy. Drinking whole milk is an easy way to add extra calories.
/r/askTRP31/10/18 12:10 AM
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I wouldn’t bother with leg lengthening, cost and results aren’t worth it imo. You’re 16 dude, you can still potentially grow for a few years. Make sure you’re eating enough and eating healthy. Sleep is also critical for growth, try to get 8 hours of sleep consistently.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 03:33 PM
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Receding hairline? Buzz cut. Shit posture? Start working out. Acne scarred? See a dermatologist. Crooked eyelids? Plastic surgery (might have to wait until you're older). The point is, don't act like you're hopeless when you CAN fix most of your issues. Don't give up before you even try.
/r/askTRP30/10/18 02:28 PM
2

What is “the secret stroke” you learned?
/r/askTRP29/10/18 11:34 PM
1

Post this in the steroids sub, not here.
/r/askTRP19/10/18 08:07 PM
9

Swallow before follow.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 11:03 PM
1

Women are attracted to three things: power, confidence and humor. Nowhere did he say looks or money. Women are attracted looks. Ok Cupid has data that shows that women rate 80% of men as below average looking. Money is attractive to a degree. Being broke is bad, being rich is a bonus. Humor alone isn't attractive. It's only attractive if the man is attractive. The fat clown doesn't get laid.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 05:42 PM
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has been going sour for quite some time told her we needed a break If you're done with her, why do you care about what she thinks? Ignore her and move on.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 05:05 PM
1

I will keep thinking that, because I actually have abs from following a keto diet. No cardio required.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 12:28 PM
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There's nothing special about cardio. Diet is the major factor. Abs are made in the kitchen.
/r/askTRP02/10/18 04:15 AM
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r/keto
/r/askTRP02/10/18 04:10 AM
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Whenever a woman discourages her man from exercise, it's because she's feeling "competition anxiety" and she's too lazy to get herself in shape. She'd rather pull you down than pull herself up. The simple solution is ignore her and keeping exercising. She'll respond by either 1. start getting in shape 2. do nothing and keep complaining 3. start sabotaging your exercise routine. If 2 or 3 happen, it's time to dump her and move on.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 03:05 PM
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Competence = Confidence The most straightforward fix is to do things that you're insecure about, one step at a time, until you're competent at it. When you know you can do something, you'll become confident about it. Take approaching women for example. 1st step, approach a woman and say hello, then leave. That's it. Repeat until it feels easy. 2nd step, approach a woman, say hello, give her a compliment, then leave. Repeat until it feels easy. Eventually you'll get to the point where can have a …
/r/askTRP24/09/18 08:38 PM
1

Nothing wrong with learning how to fight, but it's not comparable to the benefits you get from lifting. You're not going to get women's attention because you can fight. They have no way of knowing you can fight (and if you're good at it) unless you actually demonstrate it. Being jacked needs no explanation, women will immediately see you as attractive. Men will immediately respect you. It's simply more beneficial to daily life than knowing how to fight.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/18 03:37 PM
2

only exchanged gifs with for weeks For weeks? So, did you actually get laid? Because otherwise you're just wasting a bunch of time for nothing.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/18 05:35 PM
6

Most girls will only approach a guy who's at least 1 point above them. So if a girl is a 7, she will approach guys who she considers an 8 or better. Girls don't "date down". Hypergamy 101. This holds true in my experience. I've been approached multiple times, but only by girls who I consider below me.
/r/askTRP21/09/18 04:03 PM
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My BF % is going up and it is a struggle to go out with crutches. So eat less. Stop eating like you're still going to the gym, you don't need extra calories now. In fact, you should be focusing on eating a really healthy diet considering your situation. That's under your control.
/r/askTRP13/09/18 03:13 AM
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Great comment. I think this is often a big source of approach anxiety. If a man fantasizes about a woman as some "perfect being", he becomes too intimidated to make a move.
/r/TheRedPill12/09/18 08:12 PM
3

I'm sure your friend looks good for 50, but stand her next to an actual 25 year old and the difference will be obvious.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/18 06:39 PM
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Most women are "blown out" because they don't have a diet/exercise regimen. Most of them could look a lot better if they actually tried. Some may need a little plastic surgery for loose skin or breasts, but proper diet/exercise will fix the majority of body issues.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/18 06:24 PM
3

Let me guess, when you have free time after school or the gym, you hang out at home doing nothing. If that's the case, that's your problem. You need to get out of the house and start doing activities and socializing. Take a walk around town, go to a cool bar, whatever, just get out there. And when you encounter attractive girls, make your move. They won't make the first move, that's what you're expected to do.
/r/askTRP31/08/18 02:22 PM
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Exactly. This is what's known as "shit talking". It's supposed to be a light hearted verbal fight, not something to get mad or cry about. It's what men do, and if you don't shit talk back, you will lose their respect.
/r/seduction29/08/18 09:21 PM
2

Just watch this basic tutorial. It's pretty easy.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 06:49 PM
1

Any group that gets large enough will have some idiots. And the minority of idiots tend to get more attention then the silent majority.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 06:30 PM
2

I'm curious about this situation. Did you just hand this girl a card without saying anything? Was it an actual business card with just your name and number? I want to hear more details.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 04:48 PM
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It's more so "preselection" than what you described. A man who gets female attention makes other women interested because he has been deemed attractive by other women. In other words, good reviews interest more buyers.
/r/askTRP29/08/18 04:36 PM
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Keep in mind that just because they had a LTR doesn’t mean it was great the whole time. Lots of guys stay in shitty relationships for years because they’re afraid of not finding another girl.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 09:40 PM
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Dude, you're a bouncer. You have the power to eject people and are physically big enough to make them. It's basically the most "alpha" job position in a bar (except for the owner). Women of all ages are attracted to status/power, even if it's just situational. It's no surprise this girl was interested.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/18 06:15 PM
1

Agreed. I think prostitution is actually a useful tool for most men. It allows men to practice and gain sexual experience in an easy manner. And after having sex with attractive hookers, it will help reduce one's nerves around regular women.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 03:53 PM
2

Men are portrayed as absolute beta's or willing providers who are the loyal dogs of the women. What you're describing isn't just Netflix, it's all the mainstream tv shows since the 1990's. Just look at The Simpsons or Everybody Loves Raymond. The "beta father" trope has been around a while.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 11:09 PM
17

Exactly. "Where are all the good men?" translates to "I have little/no value". Because a valuable woman wouldn't need to ask this question, she would find "good men".
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 04:42 PM
158

A man in her comment section delivered a textbook RP response: My story: I’m 30 and living in North America. I’ve traveled extensively, I’m tall, I’m in shape, have college diploma and am about to finish my degree. I dress well, get complimented on my looks (way more than in my early 20’s!) and am loving life. I have many hobbies, enjoy the outdoors, and read a lot. I have a dream career with benefits, full-time flex hours, and I absolutely adore what I’m doing and where I am and headed in life.…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 07:46 PM
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I would only go down on a girl in a monogamous relationship. One night stands, fuck buddies, etc. aren't worth the risk. As an alternative, you can finger her instead. If you're skilled enough at that, lots of girls will be satisfied.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 03:54 PM
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guarantee they exist and work without a single doubt. Looking at your post history, your most recent post was titled "33 yrs 5 year old dry spell". LOL Wow, those pheromones really work.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 02:26 PM
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Don't you think there'd be a pretty huge market for that powerful of a drug? Exactly. It's just like those "penis enlargement" pills, if they worked every guy would be walking around with a huge dick. But that's not the case.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 02:02 PM
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He can talk like a retard while texting because he's attractive, not because it's attractive.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 05:00 PM
10

no fap → healthy testosterone levels → more confidence/vitality → more girls
/r/askTRP15/08/18 02:51 PM
1

he’s recently tried treating girls like shit and its working out really well What do you mean by "treating girls like shit"? Like actually being rude to them, or just not being submissive?
/r/TheRedPill15/08/18 02:30 PM
1

It sounds like you need to sit down and figure out what your true goals are. A useful mental exercise is to think about death. Like if you had only a year left to live, what would you do? Or if you were laying on your deathbed right now, what would you regret not doing? Any ideas that quickly come to your mind are likely the most important to you.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 03:31 PM
2

Depends on what the tattoos are. I don't associate military or religious tattoos with poor self image.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 07:50 PM
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I think it's mostly because tattoos are "in fashion" right now. Most girls are just following the herd. I expect tattoo removal services to be very popular in the future lol. Excessive amounts of tattoos and piercings could indicate actual mental issues however.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 07:40 PM
3

Totally agree with this. On a related note, if you're circumcised guy who has trouble feeling it during sex, your problem is likely caused by too much rough masturbation (aka death grip). Your hand can move faster and grip much harder than a vagina. This makes real sex seem dull. It can be fixed by only masturbating with a sex toy that can't be squeezed (like a flesh light). Furthermore, actually fuck the toy (thrust your body) instead of just moving your hand. The point is, your masturbation ha…
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 06:20 PM
2

The issue with "near wall" women is that it's harder to discern if they're genuinely attracted to you, or if they're just settling because they're desperate to start a family. And like others have said, loyalty isn't guaranteed, hypergamy doesn't care.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 03:05 PM
1

Pick-up artistry doesn't actually fall in line, at all, with the "Red Pill.” Yes it does, it's simply one tool in the toolbox. It's not everything, but it's not valueless. You seem to be against pick-up because you view it as "manipulation". If your pick-up game involves lying and deception, I'd agree. But it's not all just lying to get laid. For example, if you have game plan on what to talk about on date, that doesn't mean your lying about what you're talking about.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/18 08:18 PM
1

The timing is important, irregualrity hurts your circadian rhythm.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 04:37 PM
2

get an answer for my constant fatigue, mood swings and irregular sleep schedule Your irregular sleep schedule is likely WHY you have fatigue, mood swings, and low test. It's the cause, not a symptom. Fix that shit. Get at least 7 hours of sleep every night.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 03:16 PM
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She snoops my pages every day. Posts emotional stuff. Remove her from all of your social media. It only makes it harder if you see her everyday. I slept with other women. I slept with hookers. I think your issue is that you haven't had a LTR since your ex. You think she's special because you had a LTR with her, not just sex. Once you find a new LTR I bet you will start caring less about her. In the meantime, keep improving.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 03:05 PM
1

You still have to keep lifting though. You don't have to be huge, but at least look like you work out. An amazing personality won't help you that much if you have a weak dad-bod when you're middle aged.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 10:51 PM
442

2Pac said it best, "When these hoes get horny, niggas die."
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 04:11 AM
3

is there some way to increase that look Yeah, it's called lifting weights. There is no substitute.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 10:27 PM
6

Keep your shirt on indefinitely and see how long it takes before she wants you to be shirtless again lol.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 10:09 PM
3

runners and cyclists It's probably the cardio. Excessive cardio hurts your test levels. I remember reading a study that showed healthy men who run over ~35 miles a week had below average test levels. And more you run, the more it declines.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 09:39 PM
1

Let them do it, and wait for your lawyer. It’s not worth it to fight back or run, that’s just a faster way to prison.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 01:42 AM
7

“Why would a woman lie about a sexual assault?” "Because women are people, and people lie." You have to frame it as "people" to neutralize the gender biased reactions.
/r/MensRights20/06/18 04:28 PM
27

Her: "I ain't single, you look like you are" You: "Yeah, and after talking with you I'm happy to be single."
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 08:53 PM
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most of their BFs aren't anything special Can confirm. I live in a large east coast city, and I see hot girls with their boyfriends frequently. Most of them aren't über-chads, they're just above average in the basics (looks, physique, clothes, etc).
/r/TheRedPill16/06/18 12:12 AM
1

I’ve dropped my calories down to under 2k before and I lose muscle quickly. I'd recommend a keto diet (high fat/low carb). Studies show that 1/3 of the weight lost with a basic calorie restriction diet is lean mass (not fat). Where as the weight lost on a keto diet is 99% fat.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 09:25 PM
14

Shaming doesn't really fix anything, it just makes women be more secretive.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 04:23 PM
9

Exactly. Forced monogamy is a band-aid solution. It doesn't change the underlying issue of women disliking beta traits.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/18 04:19 PM
2

I don't know your specific situation, but generally men act more confident, funny, and natural around women they don't like. They're not nervous because they don't care what she thinks. They act like they're talking to a male friend.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 04:14 PM
3

The ones I'm not interested in contact me repeatedly after the first date. How do you act around the girls you're not interested in? That's how you should act with the girls you are interested in.
/r/askTRP12/06/18 01:47 AM
8

Also make sure you’re sleeping enough, 7 hours minimum every night. 8-9 hours is preferable.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/18 11:02 PM
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He didn’t say they don’t worry about rejection, he said they don’t risk rejection, which is true. 90% of the time girls don’t make the first move out of fear of rejection.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 11:10 PM
2

Although what you propose would benefit all men, it’s only a bad-aid solution for betas. Betas wouldn’t become more attractive, their wallets would. Wives of betas would still cheat, just more covertly because of the harsher consequences. I think one idea that would be better is a large scale program for boys to learn how to be masculine men. Kind of like how the Boy Scouts used to be. How that would actually be implemented, I don’t know, but it’s an idea.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 10:52 PM
1

"Women aren't birds, birds are birds, birds can fly, women can't." No shit. Since when are slang words supposed to be literal? Men can call other men "cat" or "dog". If the slang word isn't meant to be derogatory, then there's no good reason to be mad about it.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 10:38 PM
2

The founding fathers agree. "There is nothing which I dread so much as a division of the republic into two great parties, each arranged under its leader, and concerting measures in opposition to each other. This, in my humble apprehension, is to be dreaded as the greatest political evil under our Constitution." —John Adams
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 09:57 PM
12

The question here is, who do you want to be? The pool boy because he actually made out well. She gave him sex, money, and a new life in a better country. Then he bounced without giving her anything.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 09:25 PM
2

The suckers who fall for this don't send them money for nothing, the girls implicate that they will get something in return (sexual of course). "Send me $ and see what happens" is commonly used. Then they unmatch you after you've sent the money.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/18 08:49 PM
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If you’re going give red pill advice, you should use plain language. For example you don’t say “Be an alpha and hold your frame”. You instead say “Be a man and don’t let her walk all over you”. Most people don’t have an issue with red pill advice, they have an issue with how it’s phrased.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 03:45 PM
3

If look into the data you'll see that the 20-29yo average weight is 83.4kg and 30-39yo average weight is 90.5kg (Pg.9 of the CDC report). That's only a 7.1kg difference. And no where in the data was marriage status mentioned. In your case, you are in a little bubble because of your lifestyle. Colleges contain more fit people because of sports. And if you lift, it's no surprise that your friends lift. Birds of a feather flock together.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 06:12 PM
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Yes this data is based on men in their 30’s. Men in their 20’s are leaner on average, however they are mostly just skinny or soft looking. Lifting is advised on TRP because the average man at any age is not muscular.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 04:25 PM
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This is the average male body. The average is basically a "dad bod". The bar is so low it's pathetic. Any man here should be able to do better.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 09:57 PM
8

Agreed. Invisible man made borders do not overpower biology.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 04:54 PM
7

“Yesterday you said tomorrow.” Something I like to tell myself when I’m procrastinating.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/18 04:09 PM
17

It's not as simple as alpha or beta. Musk is an alpha in business but a beta with women. It's possible to be both in different aspects of life.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 08:37 PM
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At the Girl Scouts of Greater Chicago and Northwest Indiana, where enrollment is up for the third year in a row, CEO Nancy Wright took the opportunity to emphasize the differences between the boy and girl scouts. “We’ve always had the word ‘girls’ in Girl Scouts, because it’s indicative of where our focus is,” she said. “We believe we’re the experts, based on our years of developing programs for girls.” —Source Funny how this logic is not being applied to the Boy Scouts.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 10:27 PM
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The thing is, ignoring protocol and codes doesn’t work out for 99% of those who try, not just beginners. For example, if you go to a black tie event in a t-shirt, people will judge. You may not give a fuck, but you’ll still be labeled in a negative way. If you care about your reputation than you can’t often ignore cultural codes.
/r/TheRedPill03/05/18 02:11 AM
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Style is very important. Here's some additional tips: Dress appropriately. This means matching the level of formality for the situation. Don't show up to a nice place wearing a t-shirt and jeans, duh. Don't be a walking advertisement for a brand. It looks tacky, generic, and try hard. No large visible logos/branding. Keep logos under 1 inch. For example the little horse logo on RL polos is ok. Wear appropriate shoes. This is similar to tip #1. Don't be the guy who wears running sneakers with eve…
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 06:39 PM
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There is definitely a line on tinder. I didnt go from 1 match a week to 3, to 5 etc. I went from about 3-4 per month to 20/week with a new pic. I had a similar experience. When I got a new haircut and grew a beard, my match rate jumped up a lot after I added new pics.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 09:47 PM
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and probably don't even realise how much lucky he is. That right there is WHY he's able to date her. He doesn't treat her like she's special. A woman is not attracted to a man who values himself less than her. Why? Because she doesn't want to be with a man who is below her. We are talking about guys with literally no value That's your evaluation, not hers. Maybe he fucks her well or maybe he's just a fun guy. Point being is that you don't know what "thing" is attracting her, especially if she's …
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 07:11 PM
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Translation: "I want all of men's powers without any of the responsibilities". Modern feminism in a nutshell.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/18 04:31 AM
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I told myself repeatedly, "Rejection is better than regret." It didn't help. It's a good (and true) phrase when thinking about the big picture, but it's not a great motivator when you're out in the field. I think it's because there's the implication that you WILL get rejected. It's not a helpful mindset when you're trying to man up and approach. I find it better to tell yourself something like "Just talk to her and see what happens". It's open ended, there's no assumption of outcome. Treat it li…
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 11:21 PM
2

Surgery is the only option for any real improvement. Otherwise you could grow a beard to cover your jawline.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 01:09 AM
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This is the average American male body. If you're below average, then you need to get your shit together because the average is pathetic. Not being chubby is above average. And if you're above average, keep improving, because you'll eventually look like a Greek God compared to the average guy.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 07:13 PM
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Go ahead and have sex with the average girls, but don't get into a relationship with them (friends with benefits at most). When you're having sex regularly this will create an abundance mentality, which will help your attitude with the hotter girls.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 06:49 PM
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Be the type of man that other men take seriously. One of the major factors of being "taken seriously" that you didn't mention is having a muscular body. "Lift" is repeated around here for a reason. Men will respect you out of admiration, intimidation, or both. The rest of your post is on point. Nice job.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 01:13 AM
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Allegedly when people said to Arnold "I'd never want to look like you" he often responded "Don't worry, you never will."
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 09:51 PM
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Aside from having a good profile and not sending boring messages, one of the keys things I've noticed is timing. WHEN you send your messages is important. In my experience, sending messages on Fridays or Saturdays have the worst response rates. This makes sense because she is likely out with friends enjoying herself. But not only that, it sub communicates that YOU are likely NOT out with friends enjoying yourself (unsocial beta behavior). If you were out at a bar/club you would be flirting with …
/r/TheRedPill09/04/18 06:43 PM
13

It's the 80/20 rule. 80% of women are fucking (or want to fuck) the top 20% of men.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/18 06:12 PM
1

You can be confident without having a big ego. A certain level of confidence is good, you just need to be self aware and recognize when you’re letting your ego go too far.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 05:15 AM
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I know what you saying. It's an ego issue. You want to feel like the one special guy who was different than the others. But you're not special, no one is, and that's the tough pill to swallow.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 12:37 AM
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You need to change your mentality from “the easier she is, the more slutty she is” to “the easier she is, the more attractive he is to her”. That’s reality. An alpha can fuck quickly because he’s more attractive, it’s that simple. Every girl is a slut for the right man.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 10:40 PM
4

In the wise words of The Brofessor Dom Mazzetti, "It's not about how much you can lift, it's about how much you look like you can lift."
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 05:29 AM
1

An exception doesn't prove the majority.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/18 05:04 AM
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hard to tell how much of the bulk is muscle mass or fat A good way to tell if a guy has that "blue collar strength" is to look at his hands. Thick and callused hands are the giveaway.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 06:25 AM
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It happens. Keep in mind Chad is 26, 6'6, in shape, and trained in boxing. According the story, Steve is 40, normal height, out of shape, and untrained. The 4 deadbeat friends likely have the same stats as Steve. Not to mention he fought them one on one as they got out of a car, he wasn't surrounded.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/18 06:13 AM
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My ex-wife would think she has more leg strength than men or some shit like that. LOL. The male squat world record is 1,268 lbs. The female squat world record is 684 lbs. It's not even close.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 07:16 PM
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I try to explain to her how she emasculates me That will get you nowhere. Actions speak louder than words. If you want her to treat you like a masculine man, start acting like one. Complaining to her only makes you look more pathetic. By the way, stop this shit show and dump this broad.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/18 08:56 PM
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No one is truly fearless though. I think it's better to say "do whatever the hell we want despite our fears." Things don't get less scary, we just get better at dealing with it.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 11:02 PM
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You're totally right. Here's a great video of Arnold talking about having a vision and goals.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/18 07:28 PM
39

“Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain't all sunshine and rainbows. It's a very mean and nasty place and I don't care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain't about how hard ya hit. It's about how hard you can get hit and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That's how winning is done!” ― Sylvester Stallone, Rocky Balboa
/r/TheRedPill22/03/18 12:04 AM
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Yeah the bar for menswear is set really low in college. Probably the best option for looking casual (but not a slob) in college is a well fitted solid color t-shirt and dark jeans plus some boots. For example.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 09:29 PM
1

I'll offer some practical advice besides "whatever they want". If you see hot girls IRL with their BFs, simply observe how their BFs dress. Or go to hot girls instagrams and see what their BFs are wearing.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 08:31 PM
10

Women expect chivalry when it's to their benefit.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 12:26 AM
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I don't think anyone here literally says "looks don't matter", but some guys do think that game is more important than looks. In person that can be true, but in online/app dating it's usually not. Success in online/app dating is heavily based on your appearance.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 06:25 PM
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As a customer or client you can never give an order When you say "I would like.." you're ordering. That's not a question that you're asking. It's not that hard to understand dude. There is an enormous value in polite speaking Sure, I'm not saying to be impolite. You can politely make an order.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/18 07:28 AM
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No, you are in fact ordering. That's why the waiter usually says "Are you ready to order?" or "What would you like?". They are asking you. "I'd like a..." is the right way to order. "I'll have a..." works equally as well, that's just semantics.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/18 09:02 PM
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The way they ask for things: “Can I get umm...uh wait a minute let me think..” One of things my father taught me was to never say "Can I get..." when ordering something at a restaurant/bar. Instead you say "I'll have a..." or "I'll have the...". You're ordering, not asking.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 09:11 PM
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The recent Florida shooter wasn’t incel, he had a girlfriend. But interestingly, they broke up months before the shooting and he got in a fight with her new BF, causing him to be expelled. With that info, it seems the shooting was a result of a jealous beta who just snapped after losing his girl.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/18 05:23 PM
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It's amazing how counterintuitive a girls reaction to this scenario is. We think, "It's over. She thinks I'm a sleazy player". She thinks, "I need to fuck him so good that he only wants to be with me".
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 02:38 AM
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make out and just pull your dick out I'm sure that works sometimes, but it's a bit extreme. A smoother alternative is to take her hand and put it on your crotch while you're making out. Soon enough she'll be pulling your dick out for you.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 02:20 AM
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It's not the same, it doesn't work the other way around because of a basic truth: it's easy for women to have sex. To paraphrase comedian Jim Jeffries, "It's easy to be slut, it's hard to be a stud. There are fat ugly sluts, but there are no fat ugly studs."
/r/TheRedPill16/02/18 02:15 AM
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Don’t forget unattractive drunk women at clubs/bars who grope you, and then accuse you of being gay when you reject them.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 09:55 PM
2

i don't see how that will get me the chick. It's not "supposed" to get you the chick, but it's a better response than trying to change her mind. Acting needy after the rejection will only confirm to her that she made the right decision. Saying "no worries" at least leaves a small chance for her to change her own mind. But if she doesn't, oh well. Move on to other girls.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 06:57 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Basking_in_reflected_glory
/r/TheRedPill08/02/18 07:29 AM
3

Technically correct because Greek men did engage in pederasty (sex with boys), but that was a common accepted practice in Greece at the time. Those same men still fucked women. It wasn’t “gay” in the modern sense of the word. Context is important.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 04:58 PM
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very feminist and also believed in equality Not exactly. It's true that Spartan women had many rights for their time period, but it was that way for economic reasons; not feminist ideology. Most Spartan men were away from home fighting and women needed enough rights to manage and run Spartan society in their absence. More info here.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/18 08:13 PM
2

Similarly: If you try to please everyone, you’ll end up pleasing no one.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 09:20 PM
1

15 years of orbiting. Guess it paid off for him. It didn't pay off for him, but it did for her. Your ex-friend is Mr. Plan B to this woman. The backup guy who she knows will be there for her after she sleeps with all the alphas in her youth. The only reason she's dating your ex-friend now is because her SMV has dropped and she no longer attracts alphas. Classic beta bux situation.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 07:58 PM
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Although the main issues here is consent and regret, I can't help but think that this situation could have gone differently if Aziz wasn't a beta. Aside from being rich/famous, Aziz is totally beta in appearance and personality. In this situation it's clear that this woman expected romance and courtship from Aziz, only to find out he wanted sex. She realizes she's about to give a beta a quick lay and cuts him off. And even worse blabs about like she's a victim. Imagine this scenario, but instead…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 06:32 PM
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Yes you can. I use a scale that measures body fat and at 15% I can see my abs.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 06:27 AM
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I wouldn't say 15% is tubby, abs are usually visible at 15%. Tubby is more like 20%.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 06:29 PM
3

She did this because she doesn’t want to hear that it’s not being hard to control that makes self-identified independent women less desirable. It’s all the baggage that comes with them. I'd argue that the whole issue is completely irrelevant. Being independent and educated doesn't reduce a woman's attractiveness to a man. It doesn't help it either.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/18 04:05 AM
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You need to be super put together and clean It's crazy how many guys walk around looking like slobs. Good grooming and dressing is the easiest way to boost your attractiveness. To quote the former GQ style guy Glenn O'Brien, "If we’re created in the image of God, do you really want to put on a Steelers jersey?"
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 09:32 PM
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Either way the point still stands.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/17 02:20 AM
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After being cheated on for the second time This is why you should end it with a girl as soon as she cheats. If you stay with her, you've showed her that she can cheat without losing you. Now she will likely cheat again.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/17 08:25 PM
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this chick was talking about how she “can’t wait for next year” so she can start If she "can't wait" then why hasn't she started? Obviously she's bullshitting herself. This is what I don't like about new year's resolutions. Why are you waiting for an arbitrary calendar date? The best time to start was yesterday, the 2nd best time is now.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 05:40 PM
2

Well said. I also like "you can't give a helping hand if your hands are full".
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 05:28 PM
1

I assume that you have to spend a night at a hospital being monitored for a proper diagnosis.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/17 07:52 AM
1

Have you been tested for sleep apnea? Low energy and brain fog are two common symptoms of it.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 08:42 PM
1

Possible explanation for the rejection anxiety? It makes sense. It would certainly make a man anxious if rejection meant getting attacked by an alpha or labeled unfuckable by females.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 11:05 PM
7

The lack of empathy for men makes more sense when you understand this truth: men are less valuable to the survival of humanity. It can be a tough pill to swallow but it's biologically true. 100 women and 1 man can populate a civilization easier than 100 men and 1 woman. Society cares more about women out of necessity for survival.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 06:32 PM
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FYI Magnums are barely wider (1-2mm) than regular ones. They're mostly a marketing gimmick. Most average guys can use them.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/17 11:33 PM
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Exactly. Whenever a man does something that improves his looks it creates competition anxiety in his woman. It’s a passive form of dread game.
/r/askTRP03/12/17 05:46 PM
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I’ll throw my two cents in. A gentleman is man that’s capable of masculine acts (like violence) but can control them. You must be a MAN before you are a gentleman. A nice guy is a gentleman without the man, just gentle. Which is not attractive to feminine women.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 08:14 AM
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Obvious results. You'll find the same thing on Reddit. Just look at the ladyboners subreddit. Most of the highly upvoted men are in-shape celebrities with facial hair.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 10:29 PM
1

Aside from Vitamin D3 supplements, going to a tanning salon once every week or two (depending on your skin) is a good solution.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/17 02:01 AM
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This goes double for criticism. It's easy to tell the difference between someone who's got a point that's valuable for helping you improve, and someone who's feeling short-dicked because you have the lectern right now. This is my favorite quote regarding criticism: "It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 11:11 PM
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I️ said don’t be any girl’s repairman in my first comment dude. Read more carefully.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 12:08 AM
1

That’s not true. Being able to fix things shows that you’re self sufficient, you don’t rely on anyone. That’s not a beta trait.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/17 09:00 PM
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Agreed. Having manly skills is definitely attractive. However you shouldn't be any girl's on call repairman. Use your skills only when it's convenient to your situation.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 07:25 PM
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On a similar note, this is a fantastic video on basic economics: How The Economic Machine Works by Ray Dalio. For those who don't know, Dalio is a successful investor and hedge fund owner worth $17B.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 06:10 PM
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You want revenge because you’ve failed to accept women’s nature. It’s like you’re angry at a scorpion that stings you when you pick it up. It’s a scorpion, it’s nature is to sting. You’re angry because women’s nature is not what you thought it was, not what society taught you. You want justice for a reality that never existed. You’re better off accepting reality and using it to your advantage than seeking revenge that does nothing but waste your energy.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/17 05:31 AM
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you can eat it no more than once a week Not true either. FDA considers 2-3 servings a week safe, even for pregnant woman. Source: https://www.fda.gov/Food/ResourcesForYou/Consumers/ucm393070.htm
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 03:10 PM
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