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This might be the dumbest thing I’ve read all day
/r/seduction21/03/21 04:32 PM
-2

Herpes is like accepting Jesus into your heart. It’s the gift that keeps on giving .
/r/askRPC21/03/21 12:10 AM
-7

I wonder if Jesus could have got off the cross if his traps were buffer?
/r/askRPC20/03/21 05:14 AM
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You’re a 5. Almost everyone is a 5.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 03:21 AM
2

Lolz. Standard deviation? Normal distribution?That weird scale is called math. I’m not complaining at all. I’m a 5 and my wife is a 6. I’m golden.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 04:38 AM
2

Wait wait theres a saying here...hold on it will come to me...Oh yeah! ​ Not ALL Men!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 01:30 AM
5

Which most people seem to be! Every alpha larper on TRP thinks with just a little more manipulation and little less body fat they’ll pull a 21 year old “HB8” who is a virgin but likes anal. Every femcel in FDS thinks that if they’re just enough of a distant, frigid, bitch, they’ll get a chiseled 6’2 engineer who remembers their cat’s birthday and has never watched porn and cares only for their orgasm. Like I said, everyone is miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 10:15 PM
4

That’s because you’re a 5. Almost everyone is a 5. Some lucky people get to be 6’s. To be a 7, or two standard deviations above the mean, you have to be hotter than 97% of everyone. An 8 is 99.7th percentile, or only 3 out of every thousand people. 9’s and 10’s are so rare they basically don’t exist outside your imagination. But everyone thinks they can score an 8. So everyone is miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 09:33 PM
1

Mgtows are such fags.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 09:27 PM
1

And when almost everyone is actually a 5, there’s little hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 09:26 PM
1

Because they sat around as boys plying video games all day instead of manning the fuck up and doing something fun and somewhat dangerous outside. ​ Video games are a fucking cancer.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 01:31 AM
1

44M, Married 18 years to my college sweetheart. Yes, she is absolutely my best friend. The only person I could go on a long trip solo with and not get annoyed with or need time away from. The kids and the sex and the shared finances are icing on that cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 01:25 AM
1

Dude you need to get out more. The vast majority of Women and men spend the vast majority of their interactions in a friendly, non confrontational manner. Incels and man haters arguing on the internet do not reality define.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 02:53 PM
4

Here’s the thing about the 1-10: it’s all about statistical distribution. Check the chart: https://ars.els-cdn.com/content/image/3-s2.0-B9780123747228000050-fx1.jpg 68% of EVERYONE is a 4,5,or6. To get to a 7 (or a 3) you have to be hotter (or uglier) than 98% of humanity. An 8 (or 2) gets that number up to 99.7%. 9’s and 1’s are almost non-existent, and 10’s and zeros are imaginary. You’re a 5. You fuck and date other 5’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 03:48 PM
3

Probably because you’re a shallow 21 year old with nothing to take. I love women. The way they move, the way they smell, the way they smooth the edges of a rough and indifferent world. We laugh and flirt and tell stories and open each other’s perception. They’re great. But that’s just me. I’ve no desire to change your view.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:51 AM
3

Show us a pic and we’ll decide.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:47 AM
1

I think I luv u
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 10:53 PM
2

Get a vasectomy, and cream pie freely with no remorse.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 10:47 PM
2

Says the whiny little millennial cunt with man tits and a muffin top from sitting on ass playing video games his whole life. You wanna converse strictly with other little millennial cunts? Don’t you have your MMORPGLARPS for that? Fuckin little bitch faggot.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 05:05 PM
0

Nah. There’s a chance they won’t come out like you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 04:58 PM
0

There are no alphas anywhere. You’re all a bunch of faggoty little simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 04:56 PM
1

Ugh hell no. Real dykes are not hot little Cuties staying home and licking each other’s perfect pusses. They’re usually overweight butches staying in and getting menstrual bloating together.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/20 04:54 PM
1

Count me on your team please. I “swallowed” the red pill several years ago, and it gave me pretty bad indigestion so I shat it out. I’ll give MRP credit where it’s due: for making me take a good hard look at my failures, and taking true responsibility for fixing them. But the rest of it: the sociopathic manipulation, the naked misogyny, the ridiculous “alpha strutting”, it was all quite intolerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 04:15 PM
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No, it’s probably 90% unsatisfied dudes trying to prop up whatever pseudo psychology they’ve cherry picked from assorted rp forums.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/19 04:10 PM
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I love it. Unwrapping her slowly like a nice gift wrapping. Tasting as you go. Railing her senseless while it’s still half on. Hell yes to lingerie
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 12:21 AM
2

I bet you’re a blast at parties!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 06:38 PM
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Good and great ones are available, just not to you. See, an actual high value man is one looking for a partner, not a dependent. He wants to love, and BE LOVED in turn. He would sniff out your manipulative FDS bullshit in a hot second, and you’d be at the curb. Perception of value cuts both ways, miss.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 04:50 PM
4

Well, we’ll see you there then! All of the garbage humans and you, dumpster diving for love since your toxic attitude repelled every decent partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 04:43 PM
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LOOOOOOLLLLLLLL!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 04:40 PM
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Nothing. We’re worth nothing to you. As many people have stated, “value” is in the eyes of the buyer. You’ve already decided that men are shit, therefore have no value. I have no reason to prove otherwise to you. Now my wife, on the other hand, gets joint control of our bank account that my considerable salary goes into. She gets to live in the million dollar house that I built and drive the luxury SUV that I pay for. She gets the support of a communicative and loving partner, who’s a good cook,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 04:31 PM
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Sure. With whatever thirsty chump was willing to jump through all your little hoops and put up with your games. Or a sperm bank I guess, or adoption.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 01:08 AM
2

But actually you’re weeding yourself out. You’re clearly a psycho, and anyone desperate enough to mate with you is gonna have some serious chromosome damage.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 12:57 AM
1

You’ve got it backwards. If this melonade chick is hot like she says, then she’s good for a roll in the hay. But looking through her post history it’s pretty obvious she’s ugly on the inside, and a psycho to boot. LTR with someone like that is a hard no.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 11:04 PM
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Pics or it didn’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 08:05 PM
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What makes you think we want to date YOU? I’ve read enough of your posts to know that you have an absolutely shitty attitude, and that’s just not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/19 04:05 PM
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Your observations are fine (since they are 100% subjective) until your last paragraph. I know I could compete. I would actually destroy most competitors. And I would never stand for it. It would not be “irresistible”, it would be incredibly off-putting. Game playing and manipulation are not attractive. There is poison at the center of all “Pills” Blue pill, red pill, pink pill, or black, they all share the same fundamental flaw: reducing human relations to a zero sum transaction. It’s the core o…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 11:17 PM
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I tick all those boxes, but I would never put up with the manipulative bullshit FDS promotes. Never paying or even offering to pay on a date? Bitch please. I make almost 400k a year and a 300 dollar dinner is nothing, but nobody wants to be used. We’re looking for partners, not dependents. Waiting 3 months for sex? Bitch please. I’ve been with my wife for 20 years and we fucked on the second date. Never taking the initiative on a conversation or a date? Bitch please. Nobody sees a conversational…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 10:32 PM
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Weren’t you paying attention? There’s nobody better than her!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 04:34 PM
2

A lot it seems. When you’re taught your whole life that you’re a special princess who can do anything you take that as truth. Further, When you’re taught that your pussy is gold plated then you naturally look to use as currency in your Transactional relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 04:33 PM
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Dude, I don’t know who you think you’re fooling with your user name. I know it must have been hard for you when they shut down r/incels, but you can take that shit elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 04:13 PM
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She works her ass off. Makes about 130 a year doing personal accounting for really rich people. And does almost all the stuff for the kids, driving carpools, on the board for the pta and the swim team, cooks dinner every night, does all the shopping, does our personal bills, walks the dog, does laundry, works out.... What people stuck in anger mode never seem to get is that we do this for US, not for “her” or “me”. Is a quarterback “using” a wide receiver for his points? Is an outfielder “using”…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 02:17 PM
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Do you have a successful loving relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 05:14 AM
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Hmm lemme check. Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 04:09 AM
1

I’m happy!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 12:24 AM
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Bah that’s bullshit. I make $375k a year and just let it all go into our joint account. Why? Because my wife is an accountant and this way I don’t have to deal with it. I know all the account numbers and passwords. I spend whatever I want. I just don’t have to deal. And if shit ever went sideways I’d just turn off the direct deposit and it would be all mine again. But more importantly: I do it because we are a team. She’s not using me for my income and I’m not using her for sex. We both give it …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 12:18 AM
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https://www.investopedia.com/terms/n/nestegg.asp I know the kids these days like to think “it’s all different now and you olds don’t know anything” But its really not. I know you don’t believe me, but you will. Just give it a decade.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 05:33 AM
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I’m also happily married. For 20 years to my college sweetheart. 6’2, 8” schlong and I workout every day. 6 figure job and a nice fat nest egg. Good relationship with my mom and my kids and my dog. I’m nice to servers and I give to charity. I have fun hobbies and wide group of friends. I’m a good cook and I built our house from scratch with my own two hands. High value enough for you? I would never have put up with that shit when I was single and I wouldn’t do so now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 01:30 AM
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Lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 01:24 AM
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Ain’t no 9 waiting 3 months for a 6 either!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 01:23 AM
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Less humans on this planet is a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 07:00 PM
5

There’s a BIG difference between “just wanting to get laid” and “not wanting to spend 3 months to find out if we’re sexually compatible”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 06:29 PM
0

If you both have low libido, it sounds like a perfect match.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 05:35 PM
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You said it yourself a REGULAR man might wait. Regular men are not high value. By the numbers they are probably making about $40k a year, have only a 50/50 chance of having been to college and are overweight. What about that strikes you as “high value”? A high value man knows perfectly well he is high value and is not gonna put up with manipulation and game playing. He’ll see right through that shit and breeze. MAYBE if you’re super hot and interesting, he’ll fuck other girls during your 3 month…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 05:31 PM
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Sure they’ll wait...but not 3 months, unless he’s tagging someone else on the side. A dude who puts up with those FDS games is a sucker chump, not a “HVM”.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 04:52 PM
1

Fake tits, collagen lips, Botoxed faces are all huge turnoffs for me. The hottest chicks I’ve ever known are the surfer girls on the north shore of Kauai. Not a speck of makeup, no glamorous clothes. Just fit tan women going about a healthy lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/19 02:03 AM
3

They calculate cost very differently than you do. Emotional investment is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 08:14 PM
0

😂 straight to the point!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 05:40 PM
1

Don’t forget lazy and uninteresting.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 05:39 PM
2

Dude. “Certain” men. Aka SELECTIVE. Don’t be butthurt that you weren’t selected. Get off your ass and do something about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 05:38 PM
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Because there’s only one of me. science
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 05:34 PM
1

False. Tautology.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 05:34 PM
2

Gross. I just don’t get this one. If homey knew his teeth were nasty, why the hell didn’t he clean them up? Brushing and flossing aren’t like a secret
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 01:56 AM
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Passionate love. 44M with my 45F wife for 20 years now. I’d take a bullet for her, or anything else she needed me to do. She’s my best friend by a long way and our sex life is better, deeper, and more engaged than it’s ever been. We got plots and plans and two young men to launch into the world. It’s quite a ride. When your relationship is like that, you don’t settle, you accommodate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 01:54 AM
1

Are you serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 05:38 PM
2

News flash fuck nuts: see the “Senor” part of my user name? No, I’m not a woman. Nor do I meet your probable definition of a beta simp, though I don’t subscribe to that language. I’m a happily married man, who went through the whole red pill phase for years. First reading stupid toxic shit like “Return of Kings” and enjoying it because it cast all the blame for my problems on women. Later I found Married Redpill, which forced me to take a much harder look at myself. I got my shit together, hit t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 02:30 PM
2

M/straight/44/hell no
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 05:13 AM
6

Can I just put my own thoughts into one of these bodies and marry myself?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 04:56 PM
1

44M here. Single women my age are pretty great actually. Almost all of them are single via divorce. There’s usually a couple of kids in the mix, anywhere from 5-20 years old. These chicks have no time to waste on drama. They have their time to themselves when the kids are with dad and intend to make the most of it. There’s no childish FDS tactics or game playing. You’ll know exactly where you stand, and if you’re nice and fun and have your shit together, you’re gonna hit it off. Big minefield: t…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 03:31 PM
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Honestly I have no idea. We’ve been together 20 years and it simply doesn’t matter. We’ve fucked each other thousands of times, and will continue to do so! That’s the only “N” that matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 03:23 PM
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Because you’re an irredeemable loser if you pay for sex. Unfuckable on your own merits.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 11:05 PM
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Because you need that pussy way more than she needs some sub-par dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 09:47 PM
4

They only hate that most men suck, and looking around in society as a whole, I can’t say they’re wrong. Up your game and you won’t have a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 09:40 PM
1

So then why do you care at all? Why bother with dating men in the first place? You’re obviously quite active in FDS, so you obviously are interested in dating. Are you honestly after a loving relationship? Or are you scratching some other itch?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 08:19 PM
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She was not hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 08:08 PM
4

Misogyny Never stopped not one man... What, wat?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 08:06 PM
2

You can’t really say WHAT we walk away from because we all get banned after the first comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 08:05 PM
4

I support FDSers and their pursuit of their own best interests. Much of what they are demanding, in a strategic sense, is not a problem to achieve if you’re not a useless man child addicted to porn and video games. A lot of the TACTICAL things they suggest are pretty toxic, and ultimately will be self defeating. A potential partner who puts up with the most egregious of their tactics like intentional ghosting, breadcrumbing intimacy, financial usury etc, will not net them a “HVM”, it will get th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 07:59 PM
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You FDS’ers sure spend a lot of time and energy figuring out how to get the right men to pursue you, given that you hate them and don’t need them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 07:53 PM
2

And more homeless fuckups, convicts, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 12:12 AM
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News flash: dudes of ALL ages who strut around trying to seem like “alphas” are ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/19 03:10 AM
1

OH press is NOT beneficial to shoulder health! Quite the opposite. I’m 2 years out from a grade 3 AC separation and the one thing every doc and PT specialist has agreed on is that OH press is a thing of the past for me. Face pull and framer carry sure, those are building the upper and medial traps. OH press loads up the rotator cuff...no bueno long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 04:16 PM
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And those attractive enough to get it anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 04:08 PM
2

Because the dudes become unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 10:50 PM
1

FDS and TRP are the same thing: people using shitty games and manipulation to get what they want, or think they want. What they will find, in the end, is that attracting a high quality partner requires two things that those strategies are lacking: a focus on self worth first, and an empathetic mindset when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 10:49 PM
1

Well said OP!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 10:36 PM
3

He could start his day with a delicious glass of soy milk, blending it with increasing amounts of tofu. Eventually it will have the exact consistency of his bull’s load and he can move right over into cleanup duties.
/r/askMRP19/10/18 04:49 PM
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It’s a little obscure outside California, but water polo will toughen the hide of anyone who plays it. Get the goal while sprinting in a pool nonstop for 45 minutes and the opposing team tries to drown you with every dirty trick they can think of.
/r/askMRP16/10/18 11:39 PM
2

Have you considered man-love? I mean, you’re clearly a little bitch. There’s probably some big burly dudes on grindr that would be happy to take you home as a little fuck toy and show you how to be a man.
/r/askMRP09/10/18 10:37 PM
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For where you’re at now, and where our economy is now, I’d vote for “stay”, though I understand it’s painful. Here’s my rationale: We are likely to enter a recession in the next two years. It will probably last 1.5-2 years, then the expansion will start again. Some time around 2 years after THAT, we’ll be in a robust cycle again, with high labor demand. If you stick it out until then, you’ll come into the civilian cycle in the upswing, in your early 40’s and kicking ass. I’d be cautious about go…
/r/askMRP03/10/18 02:58 AM
5

“...not lifting” /thread
/r/askMRP14/09/18 03:07 AM
13

Have you thought about taking dick instead? You might really like it.
/r/askMRP14/09/18 02:27 AM
1

This is gayer than the volleyball scene in Top Gun.
/r/askMRP12/09/18 01:46 PM
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Well, please delete the ones with me in them. I don’t need the whole internet to know I got peed on by a chubby ginger in Mickey Mouse ears.
/r/askMRP03/09/18 03:57 PM
2

Would she consider an abortion? That would clear up a lot of the problem
/r/askMRP02/09/18 03:52 PM
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Ya know, sometimes I come in here and read some inspiring shit. Guys that turn their life around. Schlubs going from from meek fatbodies, adrift in the sea of androgynizing society, to men with a mission and a spine and an outlook to match. Then there’s this shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/18 01:12 PM
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Ya that’s gonna hurt. Now on to the pickle: think you gotta just ignore that one. Answer to the son: “bah, that’s her job anyway” Answer to the wife...well nothing, I guess. She didn’t say anything, so neither should you. If she wants to drop the passive aggressive approach and actually express herself to you, then you should commit to some well crafted communication. Otherwise...fuckit. Water under the bridge.
/r/askMRP16/08/18 08:11 AM
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Option 3. Definitely 3.
/r/askMRP16/08/18 08:03 AM
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And she’s probably right.
/r/askMRP06/08/18 11:27 PM
3

You write like a retart, that’s for sure. Go home, read Strunk and White’s “Elements of Style”, learn how to use basic punctuation, and give us this sob story again.
/r/askMRP02/08/18 02:38 PM
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Jesus. Grow a fucking pair.
/r/askMRP31/07/18 03:59 AM
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I have both my boys playing USA water polo year round. If you’re not familiar with it, you basically kick, punch, and try to drown your opponents on the way to getting the goal, without getting caught by the refs. Fouls and fouling are almost more influential than your actual game strategy. Somebody ends up bleeding pretty much every game. And you do it all while swimming your ass off, sprinting back and forth every 30 second possession, and treading water with your legs only. There’s a girls le…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/18 03:41 PM
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For fucks sake man. You ran away from your problems and now the hole you dug yourself is twice as deep. She is not going to forget how you bailed when she was at home with a 3 day old baby. Get your ass home, do the fuck out of the laundry, make the place spotless. Get the baby up and let your wife sleep. Bring her the baby for feeding. Make your wife dinner. This isn’t choreplay, it’s basic ownership and parenting. Jesus.
/r/askMRP21/07/18 01:05 PM
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I apologize if I think I have been malicious or neglectful. Nothing else.
/r/askMRP18/07/18 11:46 AM
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Sometimes people get upvotes for being useful. Sometimes for being funny.
/r/askMRP18/07/18 12:28 AM
2

Dump her.
/r/askMRP16/07/18 01:23 PM
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A side note: this guy banging your wife while you’re deployed in his service doesn’t deserve the sobriquet of “Chad”. This sneaking piece of shit is a Jody.
/r/askMRP14/07/18 03:14 PM
3

Well done dude.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/18 10:19 PM
8

The sex would be so hot...
/r/askMRP02/07/18 01:15 PM
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It’s probably undiagnosed faggotry. Have you asked your doctor?
/r/askMRP28/06/18 01:42 PM
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I found I liked the idea of fucking every day, but the reality becomes a little mundane. 3x a week with good DEVI is ideal for me. YMMV.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/06/18 01:35 PM
1

I’m at the point of diminishing returns there. Been working out every day for years. Have a closet full of stylish clothes. I could pull some more gains and mass if I went to running gear or pushing test but I’m not ready for that step. The PED route feels irreversible, and at 43 I’m taking those steps very carefully. I need to get over the hurdles in my head. Need to quit pining away for the pussy I’ve put on a pedestal. Need to realize true OI. I put on a decent show of OI but she sniffs right…
/r/askMRP27/06/18 03:00 AM
2

You’re absolutely right. My dread game has fallen on deaf ears and a blind eye. As OP has so eloquently described, this one has to be fixed from within. I can’t do this one in the gym or my wardrobe. Abundance, frame and game are built in my head. Getting back to work now.
/r/askMRP27/06/18 01:28 AM
1

This is a very timely post, I've been ruminating a lot on this subject myself. Men have a built in neediness which is need for sex. Yes, women need sex, but it is not the same frequency. In an LTR / marriage, a man is locked (in theory) to the partner / wife. This is a surefire way to create neediness in a man, aka the dancing monkey / choreplay. I've found myself sort of painted into a corner with my MAP, and I think you're hitting the nail on the head. I'm in the best shape of my life, my care…
/r/askMRP27/06/18 01:03 AM
2

All that, but cigars are still nasty.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/18 10:58 PM
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Grab her by the pussy.
/r/askMRP19/06/18 10:46 PM
5

Hmm. I have a hair stylist who is a solid 8. With bright pink hair and a pit bull that hangs around the shop. Without a doubt in the danger zone of the hot/crazy matrix. I pay her rather than some dude because it’s simply much more enjoyable to have her tits and her coconut perfume in my face for 30 minutes vs. a man. Now, if she made a habit of vomiting feelz on me, I might have to reconsider.
/r/askMRP18/06/18 11:00 PM
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I think you have cogently articulated your view, and it’s likely to find a receptive audience here on MRP. Put this on r/feminism or r/twoxchromosomes and let’s really watch the fur fly!
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/18 12:30 AM
1

In the context of Aurelius’ fruiting vine metaphor, I think the difference between an altruist and an RP aware man is this: the altruist thinks virtue is its own reward because of the benefit his actions bring to other people. The RP aware man closes the circle, and understands that those benefits ultimately devolve back to him, in the form of social status.
/r/askMRP13/06/18 01:27 PM
1

Highly relevant post and a good quick read, thanks. It always amazes me how far back some of this wisdom goes: they reference the principle of least interest being hypothesized back in the 1930’s. That Wikipedia entry should be sidebar reading. It sounds like that principle is the very basis of OI.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 05:45 PM
1

He’s actually pretty ripped. But he’s also a fuckup. The drugs and failure to engage with his kids were a slow motion train wreck that was painful to watch. Odd mix of traits that certainly don’t add up to Alpha. Confirmed I only have a little bit of a clue.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 03:50 PM
1

Roger that. Solid advice.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 03:46 PM
1

Excellent advice.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 01:47 PM
3

This goes to the very heart of why I asked, and you identified the problem exactly. On reflection, though, this is exactly why we identify solipsism and hypergamy, and use terms like awalt and “it’s just your turn”. If she’s gonna cheat she’s gonna cheat, and all I can do is have my own plan. You guys never disappoint.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 01:09 PM
3

Agree on the deadlifts. Squats: my left leg is a wreckage of sports injuries. I have a steel plate and 7 screws holding my tib/fib together at the ankle, and I had a hamstring graft done to replace my ACL, and during the same surgery cut out a third of the meniscus. I get over 100 days a year on the mountain bike so I get plenty of leg exercise, and the meniscus is a wear item. Once I use this one up I’m gonna have to get a full knee replacement and I’m doing everything I can to delay that day. …
/r/askMRP11/06/18 01:01 PM
3

Excellent point.
/r/askMRP11/06/18 12:53 PM
5

For the love of god, please tell me it’s only YOUR name on the title to the house? And then please tell me there’s no evidence whatsoever, electronic, photographic, whatever, if you hitting her? If those are both yes, then kick that two bit whore to the curb and get on with your life. If either is a no, then go talk to a lawyer. To make a plan to kick that two bit whore to the curb and get on with your life.
/r/askMRP10/06/18 03:19 AM
133

Easy solution bro. Fuck your wife more. Cost goes down. Seriously though, there actually is supposed to be more to marriage than sex and finances. Do you not enjoy her company? Do you not share dreams and hobbies and adventures? Contrary to what a lot of people assume by scratching the surface of MRP, there is innate value in sharing your life with a loving spouse. The whole reason it’s called MARRIED redpill. If you really truly just see your wife as a maid or a nanny, and you don’t want to sus…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/18 03:23 PM
3

Unfortunately, for a lot of women, they’ve been steeping in the feminist narrative too long to just let go of it. They have been told, and thoroughly internalized, that women should lead, and submission is weakness. A couple generations of leftist conditioning is conflicting with the reptilian brain that the MAP is trying to satisfy. Cognitive dissonance results. Always remember that all these metaphors like the 1000’ rope and the captain/first officer relationship, are only metaphors. Everyone …
/r/askMRP07/06/18 07:49 PM
1

I don’t see any of the obligatory “Cut the shit stats”. Without knowing where you’re at, we are only speculating, so here are my speculations: you are still fat and unattractive. If you tolerated 18 months without sex, you clearly lack options. If I went 18 days I’d be hitting something on the side. you need to cut this SAHM thing off, like right now. She clearly has no respect for you as a spouse...you are the epitome of beta bucks. If she doesn’t work, and she doesn’t fuck, what exactly is she…
/r/askMRP05/06/18 01:29 PM
2

In this case, awalt means every woman has a threshold...based on dozens of factors. OP here simply did not surpass that threshold, so he had to settle for a wank in his hotel room afterwards.
/r/askMRP05/06/18 01:47 AM
14

I have a question about your fitness routine: Have you ever sprained a rotator cuff patting yourself on the back?
/r/askMRP15/05/18 06:12 PM
3

Agreed.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/18 12:44 AM
1

You ever see one of those pornos where the girl is gettin a train run on her in a cell? Every cop is 25, shredded and has a 9" dong? She ends up triple penetrated and atm'ing a billy club? Get shredded.
/r/askMRP13/05/18 02:25 PM
7

u/weakandsensitive's mom already raised her babies and dealt with the teenagers. She doesn't need another one in the house. She needs a man, goddamnit. Get to work. Do you want your future step-son to be on here calling you a faggot and a retard? Because he will.
/r/askMRP11/05/18 01:03 AM
4

That's what I was hoping for too. Dammit.
/r/askMRP09/05/18 01:23 PM
2

Look here Mr inchargeman...you probably need to do some chores too. Have you dusted the figurines yet?
/r/askMRP09/05/18 03:41 AM
1

Jesus. Calling this guy a sniveling faggot is an insult to actual homosexuals. I know this dude Josh who was an officer in the navy, queer as a 3 dollar bill, but was still a fuckin man. Hey op, did you ever think of having YOUR GIRLFRIEND STAY WITH YOU?!!! probably not, because that would interrupt the train of leather bears you're gonna be having run on your blown out asshole.
/r/askMRP09/05/18 12:57 AM
14

Are you helping around the house? She's probably tired from doing all the laundry and cooking. You need to really focus on the housework, and step up your romance game. Get her flowers, text her at least 3x a day telling her she's beautiful. Make sure she knows she is your one and only. Guaranteed to get her in the mood.
/r/askMRP08/05/18 03:28 PM
8

All of this shit is out the window during pregnancy and up to 1 year after. Keep working on yourself. Keep paying the rope out behind you. Don't start drawing it back in for 9-12 months. When kid#2 is 6 months old and not gonna die of SIDS, go get a vasectomy. Enjoy.
/r/askMRP07/05/18 09:58 PM
8

Don't forget this little tidbit: clothing companies have followed the needs of modern consumers very closely: they now make shit for fat asses. This means that if you are fit, most clothes that are long enough in the arms and wide enough in the shoulders are cut like a fucking expedition tent. But Lo! Amazon is your friend. If you used to be an XL, look for Large/Tall. If you were a Large, Med/Tall etc. You'll be pleasantly surprised at how much more flattering they are.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/04/18 08:38 PM
3

Lots of behavioral correlations between incels and radical Islam...
/r/askMRP25/04/18 01:26 PM
7

Ugh. I'm dying a little on the inside hearing it. It's like seeing a dog who's locked up in a condo all day: not my problem but a bummer nonetheless. I've tried counseling all the snowflakes on other subreddits about why video games are a stupid fucking waste of time, and they won't hear a word of it. Video games and Reddit seem to be joined at the hip. Long ago when I was a young senor, the dorks who stayed in on their consoles playing Mario and duck hunt, while we rode bikes, played pickup foo…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/18 12:54 PM
0

Fitness is foundational to everything else: pussy for the apprentices, frame and game for the journeymen, long healthy life free from misery and disease for the masters.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/18 03:20 AM
3

I'm guessing they're Indian. "Conservative culture where you don't have sex before marriage". I also notice a huge proportion of Indian men get fat once they've married and achieved a measure of material success. Presumably a response to being surrounded by scarcity during their youth. Source: work in tech in SF. Have hundreds of Indian co-workers. They are super nice dudes, friendly and generous to a fault, but vanishingly few of them are fit.
/r/askMRP14/04/18 02:46 PM
4

He doesn't need cialis, he needs a big dominant boyfriend to come spit lube his asshole and push his face into the pillow. His little hairless winky would be stiff as a #2 pencil in that circumstance.
/r/askMRP14/04/18 02:36 PM
1

Agreed.
/r/askMRP14/04/18 02:34 PM
1

As soon as I saw "Avengers" I knew this kid was doomed. Son, comic book and super hero movies are for children. I bet if you invited my 9 year old son, he'd be delighted to join you. My 13 year old son would probably decline, because he's busy that night trying to bang your girlfriend.
/r/askMRP14/04/18 02:32 PM
11

Look at what she's asking for: choreplay. If you went in and said "what you really want is a husband with 15% body fat, slaps you on the ass, and doesn't listen to your nonsense" they'd be screaming bloody feminist murder. Now, you and I know what she needs is an MRP husband, but those twoxchromo chicks will be dipped in shit before they admit it.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/18 11:00 PM
1

You might want to have that checked out...
/r/askMRP10/04/18 01:15 PM
1

Sigh, dude these are the shit tests of askmrp, and you keep failing them. The poking, the prodding, the calling people faggots and retards. They are 100% intended to get under your skin, test your frame. You gotta just let em slide.
/r/askMRP02/04/18 10:07 PM
3

I've yet to meet a man that wouldn't benefit from lifting more and talking less.
/r/askMRP02/04/18 03:43 AM
1

I got the exact same response when I took two surf trips in one year..."You let him go?!" This was before I'd read a single mrp post, but at the time I thought it was pretty pathetic that the prevailing attitude was "Mother may I?" It's two weeks out of a year for fucks sake.
/r/askMRP30/03/18 03:49 AM
1

All about kneeling in the rectory ifyouknowwhatimean!
/r/askMRP28/03/18 02:15 AM
1

I'll tell you where the good men ARENT: this sub right here!!!!! This place is the new r/incels I swear to god. In between posting all the dating profiles of delusional post wall fat chicks, did any of you ever stop to think what your own profile would look like? Are you attractive? Successful? Witty? Charming?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/03/18 12:48 AM
12

I was raised Catabolic but after the sex abuse scandal I went atheist.
/r/askMRP27/03/18 11:00 PM
1

Damn dude even if she didn't have cancer, it's pretty gross to bang your mother in law.
/r/askMRP26/03/18 01:45 AM
36

Honestly I don't understand this obsession with cuckoldry. At 42 years old, i have had hundreds to thousands of straight male friends, coworkers, team mates, etc. Not a single one of them would be OK with their partners getting fucked by another man. I think this is some weird sort of urban myth that speaks to our innate fears, perpetuated by those bullshit websites because they know it generates clicks.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/03/18 03:20 PM
5

Probably on a cable machine, which usually have a 2:1 pulley, so he's actually only rowing 85lbs
/r/askMRP23/03/18 01:30 PM
2

I agree. If the downstairs bathroom is available, just use it. I wouldn't want to brush my teeth in someone's ass-miasma either. Contrary to some of the opinions put forth herein, I don't think basic courtesy is a beta trait. Also, throw in a mercy flush as soon as you drop anchor. Cuts the smell down a ton, for your benefit as much as anyone else's!
/r/askMRP23/03/18 01:28 PM
2

Id hit it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/18 02:21 AM
3

It's Aussie for "white trash"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/18 12:59 AM
1

This has to be a joke, right? Right?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/03/18 12:57 AM
3

You're in the wrong place at the wrong time bub. making excuses about not working out making excuses about how your schedule is too busy arguing with long time contributors when they call you out on it. GTFO and come back when you are ready to learn.
/r/askMRP22/03/18 03:46 PM
2

But good god man...18 miles of cock!🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/askMRP22/03/18 01:51 AM
2

Well said.
/r/askMRP16/03/18 02:11 PM
1

A few more duck faces ought to do it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/18 12:30 AM
3

Princess personality with a few extra pounds? What a catch!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/18 12:26 AM
2

Fucking savage!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/18 12:11 AM
6

TIL that 50 = a few
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/03/18 12:10 AM
7

I'm thinking those numbers are a little too excellent.
/r/askMRP15/03/18 03:35 PM
1

Jeezus this is gayer than the volleyball scene in Top Gun.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/03/18 03:43 PM
5

Note: I am white. I see your point about the racism, but it feels like this "super-entitled-self esteem-youcandoANYTHINGsweetheart" parenting style is particularly common in white america since the baby boomers started having kids.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/18 01:17 PM
17

Like all attractive white girls, she was almost certainly raised, quite literally, as a princess. Guaranteed it was all princess themed birthdays and Halloween costumes as a kid. At least one trip to Disney world to meet Snow White. Encouragement from her parents that she "can do anything in the world she wants to!!!" A life of luxury as a white American that was unimaginable to actual royalty 100 years ago. Every societal lever ever invented was pulled to protect and inflate her self esteem. Th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/03/18 12:54 AM
21

Like one of those prepacked biscuit tubes that you twist open?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/03/18 01:32 PM
2

I can't comment on setting an example for a daughter, as I have two boys, 9 and 13. IMO it's absolutely appropriate to display affection for your partner. Not slapping her ass in front of the kids is a reasonable request, but no kissing is just ridiculous. On a hypocritical note, I get the feeling that I would probably not raise a daughter that would make a redpill husband very happy. She'd learn MMA, and how to build a house, and how to ride a motorcycle, and basically be a "strong independent …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/18 03:50 PM
7

Fucking savagery! 🤣
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/03/18 12:57 PM
1

Let's find that dude and give him an intervention. Of course that would break one of your plates, sooo...let us know when you're done with the two timing whore. Fuck man what a bummer.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 04:00 AM
2

You're doomed. Who marries again at 41? Ffs.
/r/askMRP12/03/18 03:12 AM
3

Jesus fucking tapdancing christ. I scrolled to the end now I have downspergers syndrome.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/03/18 03:55 PM
1

It's Thursday night. The incels are getting feisty.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/18 04:30 AM
1

By that I can only assume you mean "much more attractive than you" Jesus fuck. When did this sub become infested with mgtow uncles? His name is Chad T Swoleman, that chick is smoking hot, and if anyone besides your 2 liter bottle of Mountain Dew and party size bag of cheetos ever sat on your lap while you played Call of Duty you'd probably cum in your underoos.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/03/18 04:28 AM
7

Chick looks like a Realdoll. And she calls dudes creepy?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/03/18 02:15 PM
2

Eh. I'd hit it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/18 11:57 PM
22

I bet a lot of Carols are hiding some sore spots!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/03/18 11:50 PM
1

It has a certain bouquet, doesnt it?
/r/askMRP07/03/18 04:43 PM
1

Jesus H Tapdancing Christ, you want to go somewhere with your boys? Fucking go! She wants to go on some henhouse trip with her friends? Who gives a fuck? If you need her "permission" to go, you're a weak little bitch. If you feel like you need to withhold "permission" for her to go, you're a controlling dickface, displaying low value and lack of abundance by being a controlling dickface. If you're hot, fit, funny, and successful, she wouldn't dream of cheating on you. This is not even mrp materi…
/r/askMRP06/03/18 09:29 PM
2

Roger that Sarge.
/r/askMRP06/03/18 01:58 AM
3

Gawddammit all. Tore my AC ligaments all the way off in a motorcycle crash 5 months ago and I can still only bench 135. Any more and the rotator cuff starts screaming. If I tear THAT I won't even be able to lift a bag of groceries out of the car. You filthy animals have any tricks for getting pec exercise that doesn't load the shoulders up? I'm at a loss. I mean I can do an ass load of low weight reps if that's the only answer, but fuck!
/r/askMRP06/03/18 01:34 AM
24

With that laundry list of requirements, you think she'd be better looking.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/18 02:30 PM
41

Young men are told that...if they read garbage like huffpo and buzzfeed. If they have an actual father figure at home they sure as fuck aren't told anything of the sort.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/18 01:56 PM
3

Well, that's a strategy too I guess. 🙄
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/18 01:48 PM
9

Hell yeah gramps!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/18 02:30 AM
-4

Because you cant get that hot body, and everyone knows it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/18 05:24 AM
2

Fuck man. Winning every time is hard work! Just keep that shit up until I die?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/18 04:36 AM
5

Dude looks like a butthole.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/18 04:07 PM
8

Read the comments though. She gets trashed, even by the women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/18 02:25 PM
3

That's fertile ground for gaming right there folks. Pumpndump time.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/02/18 02:16 PM
7

Thankfully no...I've been married the whole time. But if I ever end up single again, I won't be sharing that bit of info unsolicited!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/18 05:01 PM
30

Man it feels good to be rich with a vasectomy!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/02/18 03:15 AM
9

A buck eighty and a skin condition. What a catch!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/02/18 01:59 PM
1

Don't forget: a REAL man won't hesitate to raise the kid! You should probably start looking for a second job, since you're going to need the money. Just treat your wife like a princess and everything will work out in the end.
/r/askMRP14/02/18 05:31 AM
3

Jack10 is a fucking artist. Damn.
/r/askMRP12/02/18 02:37 AM
1

I gotta agree...6-7% body fat? Isn't that like freak show competition bodybuilding level?
/r/askMRP09/02/18 01:38 AM
1

1: When you were a boy, surely you had a dream. You wanted to be a pilot, or race cars, or go hunt a lion in Africa. You didn't want to become a fat alcoholic programmer. What was that dream? 2: You DO want to quit drinking, but it's the only thing that stimulates your dopamine receptors, because you're a fat alcoholic programmer. Lifting is a means to an end: looking and feeling healthy. It's not a sport in its own right. Men need a challenge, something that pushes you to compete and excel, eve…
/r/askMRP07/02/18 02:13 PM
2

Have fun at banned camp, faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/18 02:55 AM
2

She probably has his jizz in her right now. Definitely on her panties, still possibly dripping from both lower holes. When you guys fuck, does she go straight to the bathroom to "clean up"? She's wiping your weak beta sperm out of her before they infect her with a weak beta child. Man up motherfucker! Or don't. It doesn't matter to me. But it should matter to you.
/r/askMRP07/02/18 01:38 AM
1

Did I just read "badass shit with eyebrow grooming" in the same sentence?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/18 04:17 PM
1

First: never turn her down for sex. This is one of the basic rules o MMSLP. She needs to see that you are a sexual being that wants to fuck, anytime anywhere. Many of us noobs have made this mistake and it does not turn out well. If you want to make a point about being too busy when she initiates, jut fuck her quick and hard for your own benefit, THEN go to the gym. Second: your wife blocked you on Facebook? That's a fucked up sign of disrespect, man. I don't use FB, and one reason is the main p…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/18 04:05 PM
15

Well, with that BMI it sounds like OP already has a wife and half, so he's on his way....
/r/askMRP02/02/18 02:20 PM
1

That's a ridiculous point of view. You're saying you would divorce a woman who went to dinner with another man? How exactly is that displaying high value? If you were fit, smart, well groomed, well traveled, and fun to be around, you'd have zero qualms about your wife being around other men, because they simply aren't a threat. If you were unattractive and insecure, you would worry about Chad Swoleman laying his superior sperm in your high SMV wife, and try to forbid her from going. Be the prize…
/r/askMRP02/02/18 02:17 PM
2

It's a conditioned response from the woman: if the rejection has resulted in butt hurt so many times over the years, then she's expecting to see it. Literally ANY response, including silence, will be interpreted as such.
/r/askMRP02/02/18 02:08 PM
1

Also: employers are in a war to pay kids straight out of school (stem only mind you) 80-100 for engineer 1 positions. Guys with 20 years under their belt make 200 easy. 350-400 is not unusual if you're a rockstar working for a FAANG company.
/r/askMRP01/02/18 04:03 AM
3

Easy. OP lives in the Bay Area, so gets raped on the monthly by: PGE 200-300 easy for a standard SFR, local water district $100-ish, Comcast 100-300 depending on your package, cell phone, sewer, trash, you name it. Living here is a nonstop buttfucking of expenditures. That's why 120k for a family of 4 ain't shit.
/r/askMRP31/01/18 09:14 PM
3

Anybody wanna go up to Tahoe and bang some ex sorority whores with me?
/r/askMRP31/01/18 09:10 PM
3

Jealousy is the ultimate DLV.
/r/askMRP31/01/18 02:35 PM
1

You can't help but have appreciated 20-30% over the last couple years if you own a house here. No financial wizardry just dumb luck.
/r/askMRP31/01/18 02:33 PM
1

Hmm. Have to disagree. I see your point, but u/pegged isn't moralizing, he's pointing out the red pill incongruity of a guy trying to hide the fact that he banged a rando. Now, in a tactical sense, you're right, he needs some opsec help, but I think he's got that covered. Blocking on FB and IG should suffice. He might even go a bit further and report them for harassment or some shit. Those Silicon Valley algorithms are all about the safe spaces for snowflakes, so you may as well exploit the glit…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/18 03:34 AM
4

Or he won't. Either way it ain't OPs problem, it's his fuckup friend's.
/r/askMRP30/01/18 11:12 PM
1

That was my thought too. I'm 6'2 and 200 at 15% and really feel like I need some bulk. Our boy here is missing a bunch of meat.
/r/askMRP26/01/18 05:34 PM
1

I'm interested to hear how you guys adjust these routines for injury prevention and long term stability too. At 42, I'm trying to find the program that results in decent bulk and stable bf of 12-14% without fucking up energy or hormone levels, and doesn't risk blowing out rotator cuffs, ligaments, etc. I've been knocked out several times, for months at a time, with injuries and that shit is no good for anyone's MAP.
/r/askMRP25/01/18 03:29 PM
1

Yes! There's research supporting this too: your taste buds play an important roll in insulin response. Artificial sweeteners ramp up the signals that tell your pancreas to start pumping insulin. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2782974/ Dump that shit! There's so many flavors of sparkling water now too, there's no reason to be drinking sweetened sodas.
/r/askMRP25/01/18 03:06 PM
10

She she she. What are YOU doing to improve? Stfu already.
/r/askMRP24/01/18 02:08 PM
1

Wow! Welcome to Trainwreckville, population You.
/r/askMRP23/01/18 06:00 PM
15

Answer: because i knew you were guilty
/r/MGTOW23/01/18 03:26 AM
2

"Oh you must be one of them Fancy Lads!"
/r/askMRP23/01/18 02:55 AM
1

Dammit! You are right on the money. Of course my Monday quarterback was like "hey fuckwit; how about answering with an alternative like "yeah married for now" "yeah but it's only like a legal contract" "yeah but she's been in a coma for 12 years". Back to the grind.
/r/askMRP20/01/18 02:21 AM
1

Yes you're right. That was poor advice thrown out without thinking it through.
/r/askMRP19/01/18 06:22 PM
-1

Vasectomy. Don't tell her. Problem solved.
/r/askMRP19/01/18 04:34 PM
6

OP has had a Reddit account for a grand total of 3 hours, and has made a grand total of one post. GTFO of here
/r/askMRP18/01/18 08:52 PM
2

I think at that weight, a shit load of cardio is in order too. Not instead of lifting...in addition to. Trail running burns a LOT of calories and gets your heart and lungs into the kind of shape they've been literally dying to be. Biking and swimming can be your friend too. 1 rep max injury is not a ridiculous thing to fear. Tear a rotator cuff muscle trying to max out on bench and you won't be lifting anything for months. Tear a spinus erector or slip a disc trying to max out deadlift and you'l…
/r/askMRP18/01/18 05:16 AM
2

Posts like this need more stats: bio, personal stats like fitness, comparative SmV's, financial balance between spouses. Kid's ages. All these things inform who is dreading who, who is ready to kill the puppy, and who is in line to get divorce raped. Is your wife a lower SMV with a higher paying job? Lowers her motivation to leave. And so on and so on. Data. It matters.
/r/askMRP18/01/18 01:46 AM
-4

Ha! You're still here commenting on my one liner from two days ago? And I'm supposedly in YOUR frame? No sense of irony with this one, folks. I could write a carefully enumerated and cross referenced rebuttal of your cum gargling, but my morning shit is over and I've no more attention to give you.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/18 06:03 PM
1

That would be funny as fuck though...
/r/askMRP16/01/18 02:14 PM
0

Heresy against the MRP shibboleth! There goes your flair, mister.
/r/askMRP16/01/18 02:04 PM
5

Well it sounds like you made your bed, now you gotta lie in it. Strategically speaking, keep on with the plan: organize, work out, lead. Tactically speaking, you should slow your roll. After a recent spate of Rambo-ish behavior of my own, I had to be reminded of the "1 month per year of marriage" rule for MAP planning. Now with that conventional wisdom said and all, you should still make that fucking calendar. If she takes the roomba back, buy another one and refer to it as "my roomba". If she b…
/r/askMRP16/01/18 05:13 AM
1

Is there a more in-depth definition of DL's? I've been using this as a guide: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2l7pqe/the_12_levels_of_dread_the_rules_for_any_long/ But I note that these are all descriptions of the man's visible qualities and actions, where the true definition of dread is what the woman has internalized, how much she dreads your ability to next her. For example, you could be hitting all these descriptors (by these definitions I'm at 5), but she could be not reacting …
/r/askMRP15/01/18 06:43 PM
-2

I got the reference, and the substance of embracing positivity vs. projecting it, so thanks for that. We've read here before about digging the diamonds out the shit. Some guys shit:diamond ratio is just a lot higher than others.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/18 04:41 PM
12

They're opening wide to catch their Bull's load. Cuckoldry 101.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 04:00 PM
-2

Maybe you're warning yourself? It's cute how you say "YOU autistics"...
/r/askMRP15/01/18 05:52 AM
5

"Not telling wife" is not the same as "hiding from wife" OYS to anyone who is interested. Including her.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/18 07:03 PM
1

I always appreciate your insight and candor. You're right on the money...it's internal changes I need to make most desperately.
/r/askMRP13/01/18 11:32 PM
1

Well, you're right and you're not. When I say "by the book", I mean this: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2l7pqe/the_12_levels_of_dread_the_rules_for_any_long/ DL1 - Yup got it...POOK, MMSLP, NMMNG done. Shit tests recognized. Building the frame. (Probably been yanking the lifeboat a little too hard, and being a bit of a dick) DL2 - Got it. Been working out 6x a week for years actually. I'm 42 with 14-15% bf. DL3 - Got it. Been racing bikes, riding motos, and surfing for years. Have…
/r/askMRP13/01/18 10:41 PM
3

Fuck man, I was about to write almost the same post, then logged in and saw you wrote it for me. So thanks for taking the ass beating I would have gotten instead. I'll step in here and take a few licks of my own. It's hard as hell to project positivity and be the "fun alpha" everyone talks about when you're busting your ass at the gym, work, around the house, with the kids....and getting zero recognition for it. I am right there with you. DL5 or so, by the book, and ain't shit changed. We're tol…
/r/askMRP13/01/18 04:06 PM
1

Nah. That ruins the point of sarcasm!
/r/askMRP12/01/18 09:19 PM
1

I would go straight to r/twoxchromosomes. They are full of women's wisdom.
/r/askMRP12/01/18 12:05 AM
2

Seriously dude? You ask a forum of straight men? Wow, just wow. You OBVIOUSLY need to talk with your wife about how she's feeling. Check in several times that day, in fact, to see how she's feeling.
/r/askMRP11/01/18 10:28 PM
2

Ugh. That is a horrible thought.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 04:09 PM
2

No doubt. My older son, who has everything goin for him: 6'2 at 13 years old, junior Olympic water polo player, A team basketball, record holding swimmer, listens and absorbs everything I say...except when it comes to girls. Simply Will not discuss with me. Maybe he's listening, maybe he's not. I have no Idea. Hopefully in the revelatory light of some adult failures my wisdom will come back to him.
/r/askMRP10/01/18 04:03 PM
1

That ain't necessarily so...I'm a mechanical engineer in SF and live comfortably enough. But: I have an hour+ commute and the wife has to work too even though we both have six figure incomes. 250k a year gets you what used to be known as "middle class". Two decent cars, a functional house, a trip somewhere nice once a year, kids can go to public university. A car in my neighborhood has a classic bumper sticker: "Suck it up and grind it out until you die" how's that for a slap of reality...
/r/askMRP09/01/18 04:43 PM
4

With a reddit history of exactly ONE post, you'll forgive my incredulity. That is exactly the profile of some white knight brigadier, here to see if they can stir up those sexists over on the redpill subs. IF you're a real poster with a real question, then the answer is this: reacting to such innocuous banter as serious disrespect only erodes your frame further in her eyes. It's motivated by the same thing inspired your response to me: your own insecurity. Part of the reason you get such harsh a…
/r/askMRP06/01/18 07:50 PM
2

Agree. Sometimes the situation calls for different tactics. My wife is a freelance accountant for high net worth people, and is really good at tracking expenses, reconciling bank accounts, paying bills on time etc. But, I make most of our income, about 70/30 split. She gets so engrossed in the day to day, she loses sight of the bigger picture: when can we afford to retire, can we pay for kids college, how to build our mountain house etc. I've dealt with that by managing our big "strategic" asset…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/18 04:01 PM
3

Fuck out of here u little 1 post troll. Top 1% of bodies....
/r/askMRP06/01/18 03:41 PM
88

Sometimes you pay for your burger, it is served to you with a smile, you enjoy it, and then when you are done, sometimes even months or years after you are done eating, the cashier goes to the cops and claims you stole the burger by force. You go to jail.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/18 12:20 AM
7

Ok so here's what happened: double starfish. She did in fact decline to wear the lingerie I had requested, but i fucked her regardless. Pretty much starfish. Tagged it again this morning to slightly better response, but still recognizable as sea-life. Maybe more like a jelly fish. So my little experiment concludes in fundamental agreement with the majority of comments: if she initiates, I should serve it up good and hard. It's the best window to kinky enthusiastic sex I'm likely to see. There ma…
/r/askMRP05/01/18 02:19 PM
2

Looking forward to reading it
/r/askMRP05/01/18 02:52 AM
1

Well, let's see how it turns out. These other dudes think I'm blowing it!
/r/askMRP04/01/18 09:16 PM
3

Yeah. I'm giving it 50:50 that I can close the deal tonite at all, and 50:50 that it's the fuck I wanted when I deflected this morning. So 75:25 my little experiment fails...gathering data is hard. Cheers, gentlemen. Good input all around, with a clear majority of you guessing that I made an unforced error. Will advise.
/r/askMRP04/01/18 04:29 PM
5

She was non-committal. Sex God method is up next, you're the second guy to mention it in this thread.
/r/askMRP04/01/18 03:16 PM
3

Yeah I'm just over the starfish. We're 20 years in and I'm not in a rush anymore. I want the minx.
/r/askMRP04/01/18 03:15 PM
1

Hmm. You may be right. It's an experiment that could cost me a fuck, no doubt.
/r/askMRP04/01/18 03:14 PM
2

Ha! I like your analogy. I'll admit I have my doubts about my hitting strategy...but im still at bat. At worst I fouled it away this morning. If I cavemanned it last night, that's a guaranteed starfish. Like getting a walk-on single. We're 20 years in together and I'm over that shit. If I took the pitch this morning, that's a semi-starfish, maybe a double. Final pitch comes tonite, where I may strike out, may get a basehit , or may hit it deep into the stands. Time will tell.
/r/askMRP04/01/18 03:11 PM
6

What's your resume look like, champ?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 01:39 AM
2

You could move to Guatemala....people are seriously short there
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 01:32 AM
1

OYS#3 - Wherein I try to grasp the full meaning of OI. So it's been a month since I last owned my shit, and some things have moved along nicely, others I think I'm just not understanding correctly. Stats: 42, married 16 years to HB7/8, 43. 2 sons, 9 and 13. 6'2/205, 15%bf (navy and pics) Both of us work out min.6x/week. Sex life ok, 2-3x/week but stuck in a rut. Never pure starfish but rarely enthusiastic and kinky. Lifestyle/Diet: made some big improvements here since I fucked up at thanksgivin…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/01/18 04:08 PM
19

You got lucky, I have several friends that are nurses or married to nurses. They have told me some really fucked up stories of backstabbing, gossip, and all around cuntiness.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 11:09 PM
5

Fully agree. My wife and I had both our kids 600 miles away from the nearest family. Absolutely crucial in this case to be the leader she needs right now. The following points are absolute musts in my mind if you want to stabilize your ship, captain: 1 - find some reliable childcare. Even if it's only for a couple days a week. Lots of daycares will take little babies 2 - hire a housekeeper. You're both working hard enough on life things, delegate some of that shit work. Fuck this might be even m…
/r/askMRP29/12/17 07:51 PM
3

Re: finances, That's not really that much, all things considered. Op says that includes student loans and car payments too, and he and wife are both making 100k+. Two $30,000 cars, a smallish student loan and a couple of $5k credit cards can hit $100k in no time and those are all fairly reasonable purchase numbers. But as to looking in the mirror: dead nuts accurate. Our boy here needs to internalize the concept of dread. Since wife has a job and an income, he's in less danger of divorce rape, t…
/r/askMRP28/12/17 03:57 PM
2

Is "success" all your money? Your advanced degree? If you're so successful why are you here asking for advice?
/r/askMRP26/12/17 04:43 PM
1

Insufficient context. Insufficient information to render any sort of conclusions. On the face of it, not responding to emotional arguments made in bed is the correct response. But you failed in that you froze like a deer in headlights, and only didn't respond because you couldn't think of something to say. You shouldn't WANT to say anything. STFU, remember?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/17 04:00 PM
2

Well, for starters you only have to pay 77 cents on the dollar!
/r/TheRedPill24/12/17 01:40 AM
3

Don't even sweat it. You may see the phrase "kill your ego" thrown around here… This is a perfect time for that. You are correct, the meme is somewhat mocking and disrespectful, but at such an insignificant level that it shouldn't even make it onto your radar. Amused mastery is the tactic for you here. "You're right about that baby! As soon as I'm demobilized and debriefed, I'll put the garlands up!" After all, do you really want to plan Christmas? Let her have it.
/r/askMRP24/12/17 01:35 AM
2

I have a few insights for you, as an amateur knee anatomy enthusiast. About five years ago I completely shredded my left knee in a kite surfing accident. ACL, MCL, meniscus, and hamstring were all torn. The short answer is they will never be the same for me, but I strategically modified my exercises to still do what I want. First: verify which part of your knee is actually in pain. If physical therapist is probably your best bet for this. If it is in fact hamstrings or IT band, those are muscula…
/r/askMRP23/12/17 04:29 PM
4

This just in: OP is a faggot.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/12/17 01:56 PM
2

If and/or when you age out of TRP into MRP, you will see this very balance referenced quite often. LTR's will require a sprinkling of beta qualities to stay viable. SMV must be balanced with RMV. Shit tests are alternated with comfort tests. You're on the right path, and there are many ways to describe what you're getting at.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/17 02:45 AM
2

DILLIGAF?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/17 03:48 PM
6

Bear in mind: once a woman achieves SAHM status: your divorce rape becomes 10x more brutal. She'll get more custody, more alimony, more child support, and keep the house. You'll get a shitty apartment and see the kids on the weekends. You gotta keep her working.
/r/askMRP19/12/17 02:16 PM
3

Haaaaaaaahaaaaaaahahahaa!!!!!!
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/17 02:12 PM
5

Another college kid who takes acid and discovers the secret of the universe. Riveting.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/17 12:36 AM
2

Bullshit. That was Morgan Freeman.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 03:36 PM
3

The 1-10 scale is logarithmic, with a normal distribution around the absolute mean of 5. So in laymen terms: 5 is dead-on average. There are the most of these people in the world. There are 10x more 5's than 6's OR 4's. So on in order, there are 10x more 4's than 3's, and 10x more 6's than 7's. Take it out to the extremes: 1 is the most hideous person you can imagine, 10 is almost impossibly good looking. There are 100,000x more 5's than 10's or 1's.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/17 12:29 AM
0

Nah. They're miserable too. Told their whole lives that "you can do anything you want princess!!!!" Then they find it's not true. The best they can do is lock down a thirsty beta and get a job in HR. That shit stings.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 11:11 PM
9

Which of course, leaves a majority of males as incels. Cuz math.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 01:43 PM
17

It's already happening. Huffpost and Vice and some other bullshit peddlers are writing articles about how "empowering" it is for women to have affairs.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 01:42 PM
2

This phenomenon is well understood as sexual competition. Explained thoroughly in MMSLP.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 01:39 PM
11

Well and honestly, I've yet to see any actual stars get roasted for it. Harvey Weinstein is a disgusting slob. Nobody's complaining about the Hemsworth brothers grabbing them in the pussy.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 04:25 PM
36

The other problem, is the #metoo definition was "assault OR HARRASSMENT". Conflating the two incidents, imo is ridiculous. Particularly since the current definition of harassment seems to be "hit on by someone I don't find attractive" "Have you ever dinged your car door in a parking lot or had a head on collision on the interstate?" "Have you ever lost a $20 bill or your entire life savings in a stock market crash?" "Have you ever had a hangnail, or lost a limb in a tree chipper?" Congratulation…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/17 04:09 PM
5

One thing I don't understand: If you want a divorce, why do you have to move back to Oklahoma and shitty schools? It's a big wide world.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/17 01:45 PM
1

I'm trying, bro. I'm trying.
/r/askMRP11/12/17 01:03 AM
1

Honesty is why I'm here, my man. I was once young chad, and on two separate occasions, helped myself to a married cougar out on the town with her friends. I believe you are right on the money. Lifting, frame, and dgaffing. Cheers, gentlemen.
/r/askMRP10/12/17 03:53 PM
1

Yeah. That always seemed a little too good to be true, but the moral of the story is relevant nonetheless.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 07:12 PM
0

Ok, so those cases mentioned were both for men married to the mother. So a pump-n-dump may still be safe, but I wouldn't take it much farther than that.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 04:40 PM
4

That's where maintaining frame comes in. Even if you're a couple years in, and she takes it up the butt, wakes you up with blowjobs, puts on her sluttiest lingerie, you gotta be prepared to breeze when that ultimatum comes.
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 07:27 AM
17

I'm genuinely curious: do they hand out the poon freely, assuming you will take the bait and beta down for them? Or do they look for some sort of commitment first? Reason I ask: I'm 42, married for 16 years and together almost 20. I literally can't even remember what dating was like, and I know it's undergone a tectonic shift in the last decade. I make good money and take care of myself, so if I end up back on the market I'm wondering how ruthless those sharks actually are. Since the grass is al…
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 01:21 AM
44

Ahhhh....but a secret weapon there is. Vasectomy. If you have a decent job, a car, and a home of your own, the single mom is the easiest plate to knock down. She'll try to get knocked up, but if you're snipped, you can just bang away with no repercussions. Of course, you'll need to stfu about it, but that goes without saying, right? Right?
/r/TheRedPill09/12/17 12:41 AM
28

U never know, she may suck dick like a pool cleaner. 4/10 on the streets and 7/10 in the sheets?
/r/TheRedPill08/12/17 03:34 PM
2

Nah. Bang away. Sometimes they just ain't into it. I have an almost identical situation. Different only in that I don't feel bad. Never star fishing would be fantastic, but life is what it is. Be the most attractive partner you can, and let the chips fall where they may.
/r/askMRP05/12/17 09:24 PM
1

The money thing is not NECESSARILY a deal killer, if you can maintain your frame, fitness, and attitude. But seriously though, exec assistant at a non-profit? I'm having a hard time imagining a more beta-bitch job. You fetch coffee and run someone else's errands for a living. That position is SOMETIMES acceptable, if you are there to learn and if the executive in question is insanely alpha, like a 4 star general or the CEO of a Dow company. But a non-profit exec is likely to already be a bleedin…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/17 05:36 PM
2

Agree. Haz-mat alarms going. Cognitive dissonance. Rhetorical inconsistency. Woman.
/r/askMRP05/12/17 05:26 PM
1

Usually shit is a brown color, not transparent.
/r/askMRP03/12/17 06:48 AM
2

Fuck her in the morning. Next!
/r/askMRP02/12/17 03:40 PM
1

It's at a business. But I'm over it. For one, I'm not gonna DLV about it, and two, if she wants to branch swing I'll next her ass and be balls deep in some Tinderella the next week.
/r/askMRP01/12/17 08:42 PM
0

It's possible. Whatever.
/r/askMRP01/12/17 03:12 PM
1

Good point. She does her thing, and if "want" turns to "doesn't want" then I'm breezin.
/r/askMRP01/12/17 04:21 AM
0

Calm your tits. Its a cultural reference, nothing more, nothing less. I never heard the term as anything other than a colloquial reference to "your wife".
/r/askMRP30/11/17 05:31 PM
-1

I understood it in the "Sons of Anarchy" context. You've got your "Old lady" at home, and you may have some poon on the side.
/r/askMRP30/11/17 03:17 PM
1

Excellent observations all around. Thanks gentlemen. Back to lifting and S'ingTFU.
/r/askMRP30/11/17 03:09 PM
3

I guess I should say "it never bothered me enough to snoop, or inquire, or accuse." The most likely scenario for them to hook up would be if we separated. At that point I have no doubt he'd bang her like a screen door, probably on the massage table. Hell, the dude probably has a regular rotation of divorcees getting exactly that particular therapy. For now, we both have oneitis for each other, married 16 years and all, but speculation leads to all kinds of potential scenarios!
/r/askMRP30/11/17 06:18 AM
1

You have forgotten one very important word: Abundance.
/r/askMRP29/11/17 10:32 PM
2

Ach. I'd never heard of it, so I went and looked. Is there a way to unsee a website?
/r/askMRP29/11/17 10:29 PM
1

What industry are you in? I went the consultant route for a few years (Product design engineering) and it was a giant pain in the ass. I spent MAYBE 50% of my working hours doing billable design work. The other half was chasing new business, chasing paper work, and trying to get paid for the work I had already done. Some business models of course are different. My old lady is a accounting consultant, once a company has a good accountant they almost never let them go, so its easy for her. If you …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/17 05:58 PM
0

I did read that post, and it’s right on the money. Dancing monkey has been my understanding of “frame” for the last 5 years. I’m working on the rest of it, I only found this sub a week ago. Finished NMMNG, found it didn’t really apply, I’ve never been much of a nice guy. Halfway thru MMSLP and it’s much more relevant. Most of the lessons in there so far are also descriptive of dancing monkey: fitness, aesthetics, kino, shit tests, behavioral modification etc. I still have half the book to go. Re…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/17 03:03 PM
0

I'm guilty of many sins, getting plastered in front of my family is certainly among them. I can certainly do 30 days and have, dry January is quite the thing in our social circle. I just don't like it. It feels like it justifies the over-use before hand "Don't worry, I'm doing dry January!", and feels like an admission of lack of self control. There is no excuse for my behavior last week, and I certainly cant justify the quantities I had allowed myself over the last year, particularly the last t…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 10:38 PM
1

What is the ultimate form of that reward? Shes fishing for an apology, which clearly isnt warranted, so what should she get instead?
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 09:37 PM
-3

Ok
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 08:46 PM
1

You hit the nail on the head. Dont smoke weed. Ive been a daily stoner for almost 25 years, minus a few 6-12 month absences. I kicked it to the curb again recently and its amazing the changes that happen, and quickly. It numbs ambition. It makes you OK with mediocrity. Its a feminizing wet rag laid over your fire. Ditch it.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 08:02 PM
-1

Feel free to suggest alternatives. To be entirely frank, every friend of mine who has gone completely tee-total has become a boring fuck who never goes out, doesn't come on rides, avoids social engagement, or worst of all, buys into the AA "higher power" bullshit. Im mostly just concerned with not chugging 1000 extra calories of short-chain carbs every day.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 07:56 PM
11

OYS#2 - Wherein I ACTUALLY own my shit. Mostly my excessive drinking and weed smoking. Bio/Stats: 42yo, married 16 yrs to 43 yo wife. 2 sons, 9 and 13. Me 6'2/205, SMV 6-7, her 5'8/140 SMV 7-8. Sex life OK but pretty boring duty sex 90% of the time. Finances in good shape, except I got laid off 2 months ago resulting in 20k hit to income, then crashed motorcycle a week later resulting in 10k+/- medical bills. Crash also resulted in separated shoulder which means no lifting or bike riding, my 2 m…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 07:35 PM
1

Hmm. I dunno. I think there’s an argument to be made that men can and should do SOME housework. For example, I like to cook, so I have no problem making sure the bbq is clean, the knives are sharp, and the kitchen is ship-shape. Ditto the garage, tool shed, lawn, and pool. Also goes for the laundry that I want to know is ready to deploy: gym clothes, riding gear, and work wear. If the old lady starts bitching at me about the throw pillows being out of order, or the hand towels not hung right, sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 02:40 AM
1

Ok this is a little off topic, but was life saving realization for me: hire a house keeper. If you’re working two jobs and she’s got one full time, you’re both presumably adding more value than the 10-15:hr a house keeper will cost. Of course, stay on alert for shit tests and unnecessary bitching, but for real. Allocate your time appropriately and pay others to do shitty low value work like scrubbing the shower.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 02:08 AM
1

Fuckin classic. I’m reading.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/17 10:27 PM
1

OYS #1. Trying to figure out when, how, and if I went wrong Bio: 42 yo, married 16 years to 43 yo wife. 2 boys, 9 and 13. Her libido declining for the last 3 years, sex is now reasonable in frequency 2-3x a week, but boring as fuck and definitely duty sex for her. Anal off the table years ago. BJ’s very uncommon. Even simple requests like lingerie are a big ask. It’s dead-fish missionary that I have to initiate almost every time. Stats: me 6’2/205, good to very good income as engineer. Aging not…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/17 03:07 PM
1

Since I’m new here...what are the posting guidelines? What’s allowed and what’s not?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/17 07:37 PM
1

new to the acronyms...what are asp and mrp?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/17 06:56 PM
6

Boo fucking hoo. Get off your ass and improve your own life.
/r/MGTOW25/11/17 03:45 PM
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