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FundamentalsStujitsu2/r/seduction26/01/22 05:18 PM
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With woman met online I have always kept up texting, I think it would be ackward not to considering its how you met. But for women met in person I have always kept the early texts minimal after setting a date and always got a date. Once a date is set there is no reason to contact them other than to confirm a date.
/r/seduction10/02/26 05:30 PM
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She just changed her mind. Best move on
/r/seduction10/02/26 04:09 AM
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You are both regulars there. You are bound to end up in each others bubble. If so just say hi. If she says hi back strike up small talk and see where it goes. You don't have to put the cart before the horse. Why worry about a date before you have a phone number before you know she is single before you know she is even sociable with you
/r/seduction06/02/26 02:59 AM
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Well that is good news at least. After one date the attachment is not that strong so a two week interim will def cause things to fizzel out. Try to set a 2nd date within a day or 2 of the first. I mean set an appointment. The date itself can be within a week or less
/r/seduction29/01/26 04:55 PM
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Basically most women date multiple guys at once and compare them while continuously making cuts. You got cut. Its why guys say...things were going welll, I don't understand where things went wrong. You didn't do anything wrong necessarily. She just met someome she perceives as a better option. Or one of the other guys did something to pull ahead, including just slept with her perhaps. If a woman dates 2 guys and sleeps with one, chances are she will be more attached to the guy she slept with eve…
/r/seduction29/01/26 04:34 PM
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It seems like you tried to get physical too soon for her comfort giving her the impression you just wanted sex from her, which was off putting. Hence she said we just want different things. I wanted to add she cut you off from just a shoulder rub. Not sure why you would go for a kiss after that. It clear she wasnt into you romantically. Also its clear you are being overtly analytical which is actually hendering you from seeing the truth in real interactions. The real "meta" is being genuine. You…
/r/seduction26/01/26 05:24 PM
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Go without an agenda.
/r/seduction26/01/26 02:11 AM
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You can parlay this into any type of date if she wants to see you. Just ask when she is free to get together if she gives availability you can suggest any venue, anytime she is free. If she ignores you or says have to get back to you then you know its a no and can move on
/r/seduction25/01/26 04:28 AM
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Movies aren't the best first dates and the vibe is probably a no, but the sky is not gonna fall if you shoot her a text and say, Hi Jessica, so when are you free to get together?. No response is a response. Anything vague or flakey is a no. If she gives availability and set a date. You are like 10 words away from finding an answer to your question.
/r/seduction25/01/26 04:15 AM
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Exactly! But don't give up either. Not giving up is the closest thing to a guarantee that life offers. At the very least social skills can be improved over time, along with career, income, fitness, wardrobe. IDK why, probably some type of trauma but I know an attractive woman who has been single all her life, but she solo travels and has been all over the place. There are ways to seek fullfillment no matter what and its always wisest to seek fullfillment in areas that are not dependant on anothe…
/r/seduction11/01/26 09:42 PM
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You never will. But you have to approach each new person with a "let's see where things go", attitude. When you can let go of your ego and just stop putting effort and energy into the ones that are a waste of time. If you ask a woman out and she flakes,won't commit, commits then back-pedals, just let them go. No reason to ask a woman out more than once, ever. But at the same time ask women out on dates because its disambiguous. Most men waste a lot of time on women that are not interested. But i…
/r/seduction11/01/26 05:42 PM
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You have to tey to learn to be content being alone first. Stay in the moment without dwelling on the past or future.
/r/seduction11/01/26 05:50 AM
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When you can socialize without expectations and/or trying to get something from women, youll get more genuine responses because you are actually being genuine too. First understand two things; attraction is natural but it can't be forced. If a woman had no attraction youll never talk them into it. But you can talk a lot of women who are attracted to you, out of it. You come off as desparate because you are. Stop trying to control every interaction and just be in the moment at let others come and…
/r/seduction10/01/26 11:44 PM
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To succeed on dating apps you have to be tall and quite attractive to really get results. Not to say you won't get any. But if you are sociable at a bar you'll probably get some results that way. Many a woman has been won over by a confidently calm approach, making them laugh and so on. I have a friend who is not conventionally comedic but arms himself with a lot of jokes and both men and women perceive him as funny because they are entertained and laughing. If you are naturally comedic its a bi…
/r/seduction06/01/26 10:36 PM
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As a woman you have it easy all you have to do is compliment anything.
/r/seduction23/12/25 09:25 PM
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No you really don't need to mistreat a woman at all. You just need to understand things like tolerating disrespect from her. Or bribing her for affection. Or trying to force something onesided will hurt your relationships. The biggest mistake most men make is pursing women that aren't really interested in them. When you can explore a relationship without trying to control another from a place of security you'll realize that you shouldn't want affection from someone who doesn't want to give it to…
/r/seduction21/12/25 06:24 AM
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Its simple you are trying to date friends and wondering why they only want to be friends. Meet new people to date.
/r/seduction13/12/25 04:29 PM
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You don't pass the shit test with words. She wanted to see if her being contrarian ruffeled your feathers and it did. It doesn't mean the fight was over but you lost the round. Lol. Zen is the path of contnuous acceptance. If you were in a zen state you would realize firstly that if you liking techno was a deal breaker for her, there was no saving it so it doesn't matter. Secondly, that if it was a deal breaker then she is retarded. And tertiarily you could reframe it and use it to flirt. Like g…
/r/seduction21/11/25 07:47 PM
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I would just look at the girl and say...you didn't tell me you had a boyfriend. If she says...He is not my bf. Then look at him an say oh I guess you should fuck off then before I press charges.
/r/seduction12/07/25 08:52 PM
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Women are non-confrontational especially with men they don't know. She ghosted you because she doesn't want to go out again but also doesn't want to tell you no because when women tell men no, men get their ego bruised and want to ask why, argue their case, beg to be given a chance. And thats usually best case scenario. Not only did it happen once, you tried again which seemd desperate, at least for her, and makes you look like you have no self respect either and that just reinforced her initial…
/r/seduction01/05/25 09:34 PM
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She is saying she is not interested.
/r/seduction09/09/22 02:10 AM
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I would say this in the best redneck accent I could drum up. Lol
/r/seduction25/08/22 11:02 PM
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I think its important for you to try to understand why it ended. If you had an LTR, her attraction probably waned for a long while. Did you give her enough attention, romance? Did you continue to date her after you were together so to speak? Did you take her for granted? Or, did you become her yes man, errand boy and do everything to please her. Also after a while, she may have been thinking is this leading towards marriage? Did she get the impression you were never going to ask? I don't know yo…
/r/seduction25/08/22 05:16 AM
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Bringing a bottle of wine to your place 😉
/r/seduction25/08/22 01:45 AM
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I think she is just not interested.
/r/seduction25/08/22 01:27 AM
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Sometimes men perceive politeness as flirting. Sometimes women flirt just for attention. Sometimes women legitimately find you attractive but have no intent to act on it because they are involved. Sometimes they are interested in you There is this magical tactic they call asking a woman on a date that will answer these questions pretty quickly.
/r/seduction24/08/22 09:57 PM
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Are you conveying info or needing it. Lol.
/r/seduction24/08/22 09:52 PM
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I think first date kiss is best. 2nd is okay too. Any longer and your friend zoning yourself.
/r/seduction24/08/22 04:39 PM
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The answer to this problem as most problems mentioned here is ask her out on a date. He can't cock block when you are alone together.
/r/seduction24/08/22 06:07 AM
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Ask her to go bowling. If she says yes youll know she is interested
/r/seduction23/08/22 11:40 PM
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You might want to just start at another level without trying to get something from them. Like just say hi, or any greeting, to women you find attractive. Then next time you go out, try to get a couple of those greetings to turn into a conversation. If conversation goes well ask for a date. Seek openness incrementally. If you greet someone who ignores you, they probably won't converse with you. If they smile, make eye contact, reciprocate...maybe they will. If they converse...maybe they will acce…
/r/seduction23/08/22 11:00 PM
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Its kinda rude
/r/seduction22/08/22 01:15 AM
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Firstly don't go to movies on first date. 2nd just use text to set up dates. You being a bit aloof will keep her interested. As long as she likes you. As for her saying she's bored, is she saying she is bored with you? If not she wants you to take the lead and take her somewhere. All you need to do us ask when are you free to get together, set a time and suggest a venue to meet at then say nothing until the day you are supposed to meet then some simple confirmation like: tonight at 7 is still go…
/r/seduction20/08/22 08:54 PM
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Dude girl setting on your lap is about as good as it gets. All you had to do was make out with her.
/r/seduction20/08/22 08:47 PM
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I mean...the issues there are really her level of comfort, trust and her personal aims. Many women want casual sex but you can't expect them all to want casual sex. But if she won't let you lead her to another public place, she is not gonna let you lead her to your place. And if she declines that, and you spent time talking with a girl and your interaction was positive, why waste it? Might as well get her number. Just because a woman won't sleep with you right away doesn't mean she doesn't like …
/r/seduction20/08/22 08:14 PM
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Well the way I would think of it is she is not going to go home with you if you haven't even kissed yet. Also physical contact on the dance floor doesn't necessarily have any meaning. There is nothing wrong with good old fashioned dating. I think your best bet is to see if she is open to visiting another venue with you. Especially if you can sit down and eat or have a drink and talk. Try inviting girls to a quiet bar or breakfast or after hours restuarant. If she declines go for the number and a…
/r/seduction20/08/22 07:04 PM
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Do you flirt or just talk? Do they touch you? Do you touch them? Do you employ innuendo? In other words are you sexual at all? Women are not going to have sex with someone who is a sexual mannequin. Try touching them but in a strictly innocent way at first. Idk touch is hard to explain because you have to be good enough to read their body language to know what they are comfortable with. A good rule is let her touch you first then reciprocate. Tap her on the shoulder or get her to high 5 you as a…
/r/seduction20/08/22 06:18 PM
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This happened to me recently. I was a little buzzed to be honest but I told her she had a beautiful smile...asked her name...shook her hand. She was a waitress. She was very smiley seemed very flattered, definitely no negative reaction. I went to go toss my garbage and she was nearby cleaning. Like I said was a little buzzed and got her name wrong but was close she smiled and corrected me. I asked her how she felt about meeting for drinks. I said something before that but idk what now. But she s…
/r/seduction17/08/22 12:55 AM
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You are probably showering them with too much affection/attention too soon so it repels them. Maybe you come off as clingy. Behavior is very important to women so they tend to fall in love more slowly because they have a lot more to risk than us in a sexual and or domestic relationship. So you are at 60 mph she is at like 30. She is thinking this guy really likes me and I am still just trying to get to know him. That'ed be my guess anyway.
/r/seduction16/08/22 11:58 PM
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I don't think you should lie or need to. At the same time you don't need to spill all the beans on the first date either. What's important to her she will ask about. If she says things like what kinda car you drive, how much money you make and the like then she is not looking for love anyway.
/r/seduction16/08/22 10:42 PM
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I'm 5'6 on a fucking good day. I hate these people that bitch about height but bitching when your 6'1 is atrocious . What you gonna do to change. Women like confidence!
/r/seduction24/07/22 06:07 AM
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Dude...truth! Don't give a woman even one little piece of your heart
/r/seduction24/07/22 06:04 AM
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I am talking about women
/r/seduction24/07/22 04:21 AM
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So say you meet new chick and things seemed good but yiu found out she cheated on her ex what would you do?
/r/seduction24/07/22 03:19 AM
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Okay just text her: might have to cancel...not sure yet. What time were you thinking?
/r/seduction24/07/22 03:13 AM
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Tell her the day of like 45 mins before you meet that you will be running late. See how she reacts. No contact in interim
/r/seduction24/07/22 02:39 AM
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Another option would be to just tell her you don't appreciate her bullshit. But before you do I would ask yourself "If this person doesn't change am I still happy with her. And if they answer is no, am I willing to walk away".
/r/seduction23/07/22 05:47 PM
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I think a good rule with women is when in doubt pull back a little
/r/seduction23/07/22 08:37 AM
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Who typically initiates
/r/seduction23/07/22 06:54 AM
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When will you see her next
/r/seduction23/07/22 06:50 AM
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Idk if thats a shit test. Maybe she just teasing you because she likes you
/r/seduction23/07/22 06:34 AM
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Have you greeted her in any way
/r/seduction23/07/22 03:29 AM
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I'd like too lol
/r/seduction23/07/22 03:23 AM
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I wouldnt text her until its time to get a date. Date someone in the interim
/r/seduction22/07/22 03:20 PM
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I think real confidence comes from successful experience. Courage is more important.
/r/seduction22/07/22 02:59 PM
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It depends on the person. Everyones different.
/r/seduction22/07/22 05:14 AM
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Normally I would take no for an answer. Maybe it just happened to play out in my favor this time
/r/seduction21/07/22 10:10 PM
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The thing about women is they date multiple partners until they pick a boyfriend. If you are being rejected anyway, may as well ask one more question to know for sure.
/r/seduction21/07/22 05:56 PM
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It'd be better if I didn't have dyslexia lol
/r/seduction20/07/22 06:27 AM
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This is like the easiest situation to open. Just say Im an animal lover...can I pet your dog? The start petting the dog and saw awww....you have such a cute...owner! and make eye contact. With the woman...not the dog. Lol
/r/seduction20/07/22 02:14 AM
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How soon after you meet a guy you like do you fuck him?
/r/seduction19/07/22 06:56 PM
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How soon after you meet a guy you like do you fuck him?
/r/seduction19/07/22 06:54 PM
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She is probably not into you but...you should just ask her if she wants to grab a drink with you. If she flakes or whatever you can move on with certainty that you at least went for it.
/r/seduction19/07/22 12:33 AM
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They do Its a numbers game Being a numbers game is not just about finding someone interested but also compatabillity Having multiple options will cause you to behave less needy. It reinforces an abundance mentality.
/r/seduction18/07/22 07:27 PM
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They do Its a numbers game Being a numbers game is not just about finding someone interested but also compatabillity Having multiple options will cause you to behave less needy. It reinforces an abundance mentality.
/r/seduction18/07/22 07:27 PM
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Do you want pussy or a pen pal? Use it to set up dates. Radio silence in between. Put 4-5 days between getting her number and the first text 3-5 days after each meeting until and unless you are exclusive or she reaches out to you.
/r/seduction18/07/22 03:54 AM
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Good! I think hiking is a great date just a risky first date.
/r/seduction16/07/22 09:08 PM
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This was a bad first date choice period. Learn from this mistake. She is certainly asking the other guy along for her safety rather he is straight, gay, friendzoned or whatever. What you don't know is if she is also doing it to establish an unromantic precedent. And even if she is not, this is going to make for an unromantic interaction. You can handle this 3 ways. Drop her Go anyway, do what you can to build attraction and see what happens. The silver lining here is she will almost certainly tr…
/r/seduction16/07/22 07:58 PM
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If you have the courage to push your boundaries. I was cripplingly shy as a kid and young teen. I solved it by getting a job that forced me to talk to people. I think you need to figure our your current level and push boundaries. Assuming the worst, start by saying hi to 100 strangers. Then say hi to 100 attractive women. Then try to engage in a platonic conversation with 10 women. Then ask one woman on a date. Then go open 100 women with something flirty like "Hey pretty/cutie!" By the time you…
/r/seduction16/07/22 07:16 PM
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It really doesn't matter how the texting is unless you want to be her fuckin pen pal. Just ask her out. Cut the shit. You'll know she is interested if she shows up.
/r/seduction16/07/22 05:47 PM
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Dude it doesen't matter, what you gonna do....stretch? You have to own that which you cannot change.
/r/seduction16/07/22 05:43 PM
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This was to be my suggestion. You absolutely should.
/r/seduction15/07/22 03:03 AM
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You just have to practice being social. Its not really a big deal.
/r/seduction15/07/22 02:14 AM
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You said you texted her: "What is the point of playing mind games with someone that is good to you".
/r/seduction14/07/22 11:57 PM
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Back off for about a week of no contact then ask her out once more.
/r/seduction14/07/22 09:48 PM
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Stop chasing and let kitten come to you when she wants. Or drop her if you are unsatisfied. You are sub communicating that you want more from her than casual by questioning her about it.
/r/seduction14/07/22 09:45 PM
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Tonight at 7 is still good for me, how about you? Great, see you then!
/r/seduction14/07/22 08:03 PM
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You can't change the past. Find two other women to work on.
/r/seduction14/07/22 02:09 AM
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Its never been common. Probably only 20% of dudes here do it. And thats against the rest of the population of which all the members of this forum comprise a very small percentage.Thats why it works. Just trying it, even if youre nervous sets you apart from most men.
/r/seduction14/07/22 01:31 AM
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Start by saying hi to strangers especially attractive women. When youve said hi to 100 women you found attractive come back here.
/r/seduction14/07/22 01:17 AM
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I forgot you mentioned that. You could keep her on the side and lie about it to your girlfriend. Or you could lie to both but one of them is gonna find out eventually and both relationships go tits up. Maybe you just dont want a relationship, in which case, you can break up with your GF and attempt to play them both.
/r/seduction13/07/22 10:02 PM
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I consider your issue two separate but related issues. However given your current GF tried to set up a date behind your back, you could do the same with this other girl without being less moral than her. I use the term less moral, as opposed to moral, because 2 wrongs don't make a right. You could be the bigger man here. There is more than one way to handle this. You ask the girl on a date and keep it between you and her and do what you can to not allow your GF to find out. If you can manage tha…
/r/seduction13/07/22 09:52 PM
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Good post! Women that like you show up.
/r/seduction13/07/22 12:54 AM
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This one is fucked. Next time only use the phone to set dates. You get her number wait a minimum of 4 days to contact her. Make brief small talk then ask when she is available to meet for drinks/dinner/activity. The no contact until the day off planned meeting and say: Tonight at 7 is still good for me how about you? Great see you then!
/r/seduction13/07/22 12:44 AM
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You need to start small. Just say hi to like 50 attractive women.
/r/seduction13/07/22 12:36 AM
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If its not you its not you. Find someone who likes the real you. But if its fear stopping you, you just need to work on your social skills with practice. Rome wasnt built in a day.
/r/seduction13/07/22 12:33 AM
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I like Corey Waynes view of using the phone/text and its always what worked best for me...don't. Only use it to set up dates. If she won't meet in person you are being used for validation or in her friend zone. Don't get me wrong, if your text game is badass, you can advance with it. But if you are asking about it, its not. There are a lot of advantages to minimal phone contact. It keeps you from appearing clingy or too eager. It conceals your intentions thus providing a bit of mystery. If you s…
/r/seduction12/07/22 05:03 PM
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I see this as a numbers game for both genders. Women just play defense. Lol
/r/seduction12/07/22 04:50 PM
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This is pretty much the way it is.
/r/seduction11/07/22 04:44 AM
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Find a random cute girl..ask if she likes the band and if yes, invite her instead
/r/seduction11/07/22 04:25 AM
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I went on plenty of dates with a week of no contact in between. It give you the appearance of having a life, being non-clingy and a bit mysterious, all for free. All you need to do is on the day of the date say send a text: 6pm at X is still good for me, how about you?
/r/seduction10/07/22 06:24 PM
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But if you can't lead them the rest won't matter.
/r/seduction10/07/22 02:51 AM
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Thats exactly what they want.
/r/seduction10/07/22 02:50 AM
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Most women psychologically choose a man slightly more, but not too much more dominant than they are. So basically someone they feel is a leader.
/r/seduction09/07/22 06:46 PM
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Okay good...you can work with that.
/r/seduction09/07/22 08:39 AM
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That's any man's BEST bet. Lol
/r/seduction09/07/22 08:34 AM
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What she like..laughing and smiling...don't say that it sounds weird while touching your arm. Or was it like all serious and stoic
/r/seduction09/07/22 08:12 AM
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Which vibe do you want to put out there?
/r/seduction08/07/22 11:58 PM
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My take is you are doing what you can to improve your sex life and he is not. Youre changing and it may make you less relatable to him. He may be a bit jealous. Dont worry about it.
/r/seduction07/07/22 05:45 PM
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If you want an exercise say "Hey pretty!" to as many women as possible for a week. Just do that. Leave no expectation for yourself or them to converse, though its okay if you do. The point is you practicing courage. Your action is important, their reaction is not.
/r/seduction06/07/22 05:54 PM
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If you could feel confident just because you wanted to, you wouldnt be asking. You are going to be scared. The question is if you are going to let it stop you. Courage is more important than confidence.
/r/seduction06/07/22 05:50 PM
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She shows up
/r/seduction05/07/22 09:18 PM
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Nothing.
/r/seduction05/07/22 12:01 AM
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Set small obtainable goals. And build step by step. I doubt you really want to give up, you are just fed up. What is a success you have had no matter how minor?
/r/seduction30/06/22 02:25 AM
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You got more synchronicity than I do then. I don't have a fully formed opinion on affirmations but there is an idea that everyone is manifesting rather they realise it or not. Although I used affirmations to attract women when younger and had some erie shit happen.
/r/seduction29/06/22 04:41 AM
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Feast or famine dude. Such is the way of the Tao.
/r/seduction29/06/22 01:48 AM
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Doing and saying nothing is the best move. Once a friend always a friend. If she happens to come around she will reach out to you. If never you at least preserve your dignity.
/r/seduction29/06/22 01:40 AM
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Here is the thing, you know its a problem. You don't have to be boastful to not be self deprecating. A good way to start conversation is to compliment their style. A good habit is to start describing to yourself womens style when you see them out and about. Do they look: elegant, professional, sporty, hippie, all american, et cetera.
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:45 AM
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The reason you look like a creep is because you hover and stare without saying hi. If you are too afraid to say hi, dont stare.
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:19 AM
1

Chicks that dig beards dig creeps lol
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:17 AM
1

Twice a week! That's game
/r/seduction28/06/22 01:16 AM
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You don't stop them you just move on as quickly as possible.
/r/seduction27/06/22 04:57 AM
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Is he involved with someone else?
/r/seduction23/06/22 04:57 PM
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Perhaps because the seek leadership
/r/seduction25/04/22 12:50 AM
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Don't expect women to accept something you do not accept yourself. Women abhor insecurity. True confidence is not something you do it is merely the absence of insecurity. Change what you can. You cannot grow. But you can get fit. Make money and so on. Weak social skills hurt you more than the lack of looks by an order of magnitude. Action is more important than reaction which you can not control anyway. And courage more important than confidence. Its better to shoot your shot as a shaking studde…
/r/seduction24/04/22 05:14 PM
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I don't think it paints all women as sluts. Its a reminder that you cannot control others. That relationships run their course. And that just because you feel strongly about her doesnt mean she feels the same way
/r/seduction24/04/22 05:00 PM
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I'll check it out! Any quick tips?
/r/seduction21/04/22 04:25 AM
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Is that book worth reading?
/r/seduction20/04/22 10:04 PM
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I'll be damned she replied 25 hrs later agreeing...women
/r/seduction14/04/22 11:32 PM
1

Yeah I can see that. Ill try it with the next one
/r/seduction14/04/22 06:01 PM
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She did not reply to be clear. I'm over it, its just unusual. Its probably nothing to do with me or the text. But...I seriously hate talking on the phone so if there is a way to maximize text potential I want to figure that out. And I don't want to be her fuckin pen pal either, I want to get to the date. But maybe that was too long a wait. Too direct? I was literally said This is Stu. Are you available to meet here for dinner Saturday evening? And sent a screenshot that google pulls up showing t…
/r/seduction14/04/22 05:09 PM
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Thats usually what I do. Whats trippin me is this was the best, smoothest, funest "pick up" I ever did. Then no reply. How long do you wait typically
/r/seduction14/04/22 04:19 AM
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If she is dumb enough to be seduced by you she will ruin her life
/r/seduction14/04/22 03:01 AM
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I think I can sum it up as this. You can show emotions that are happy, affectionate, even anger! But you cannot show insecurity. Women abhor it. That's why its a common theme here never to discuss your problems with women. Women don't care about your problems. They only care about solutions. Talk to them about it after you've solved it, never before. The book of pook says to treat women like girls and you will never go wrong. You would not vent your insecurities to a child or look for their advi…
/r/seduction13/04/22 06:41 PM
1

Nice! The way you wrote I thought you were at ground zero. Is it starting well? Mayne you are trying to talk for too long?
/r/seduction12/04/22 09:01 AM
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The best advice is this Action matters not the reaction. You can never predict another persons reaction. But you can test it by trying something. Start small. Start with simple things like eye contact and a simple how's it going? What you are looking for is incremental openness. For example a woman who says hi back is probably more open to converse than one who ignores you. Yet Incremental in the sense that her saying hi doesn't prove she is open to conversation. Conversation doesn't prove she i…
/r/seduction12/04/22 08:41 AM
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There are nuances to honesty. There is a book called radical honesty its about always speaking your true opinion. One reviewer was like...do not by this book. I lost my gf and my job! Lol You say your honesty is offending some and friend zoning you but all of your girlfriends have you in the friend zone but they know you think they are hot. Yes all hot chicks with make orbiters know what they think. It sounds like you have 2 issues. One is no filter. The other is no escalation. You need to just …
/r/seduction11/04/22 05:02 PM
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A mix of patience and directness is good. Tonight I number closed a fucking gorgeous brunette but I didn't like open with can I have your number. I flirt with her from the jump. I asked her out she said I am dating someone. I said if you are happy I am happy for you but every woman is dating someone. She said well...I am not married...I said great I'll take your number then.
/r/seduction10/04/22 03:29 AM
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Its all relative. If you meet her on the street I agree. If you met in a bar its situational
/r/seduction10/04/22 03:18 AM
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If you want to bitch about height and face, you are bitching about shit you cant change. I am at a bar right now looking at a beautiful hottie holding hands with an ugly midget. Get out of your own way.
/r/seduction10/04/22 01:12 AM
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I think there is a difference between ideal and the situation. Ideally you may chat and flirt for 30 minutes but not all situations are conducive to this. Taking action is always better than not.
/r/seduction10/04/22 12:58 AM
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It can. It may not. But it preserves your dignity.
/r/seduction09/04/22 07:14 AM
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Not a bad point. But its okay to throw a hail mary if you want. But you must understand its a hail mary. I would def spend some days before reaching out again.
/r/seduction08/04/22 09:25 PM
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One time I was in this situation a long time ago. I was like "I am gonna spank your ass and send you to my room!" And she was like "That got my attention!". But this could go so many different ways lol.
/r/seduction08/04/22 08:59 PM
5

Or just send her a dick pick. And be like, sorry that was for someone else!
/r/seduction08/04/22 08:57 PM
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I will add an idea I got from a Todd V video. Haven't tried it myself. But it still precludes removing your attention for awhile and presume you sent the last text. " Cute girl vanished. Should I send search party?"
/r/seduction08/04/22 08:53 PM
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Remove your attention.
/r/seduction08/04/22 06:16 PM
2

You can absolutely make a move too soon or wait too long.
/r/seduction08/04/22 04:28 PM
1

This is best reply.
/r/seduction08/04/22 04:24 PM
2

I would it cuts through the bull shit.
/r/seduction07/04/22 11:59 PM
2

You use an escort because its legal there. I don't think its morally wrong. Its not gonna help you get any better with women though.
/r/seduction06/04/22 11:02 PM
5

Another thing to consider is if she is testing you to see if you blow up her phone. If I were you i would just ask her out
/r/seduction06/04/22 10:46 PM
1

Good tips
/r/seduction05/04/22 11:48 PM
2

So you leave them alone. Numbers game
/r/seduction05/04/22 11:29 PM
1

Match her energy. If she reaches out reciprocate. If she pulls back, you pull back. The only thing you can do wrong really is over pursue.
/r/seduction05/04/22 11:28 PM
1

You better have a plan dude
/r/seduction05/04/22 11:23 PM
1

Have it if you want not if you don't. If some chick says its weird she is probably just testing you anyway. Just say you did a dopamine detox and never looked back.
/r/seduction05/04/22 11:22 PM
1

I usually go with leadership. Dominant can have kind of a negative connotation but, you are not wrong
/r/seduction05/04/22 07:23 PM
1

Get him back as a friend? Why
/r/seduction05/04/22 06:57 PM
2

I read this study years ago. Women that are very submissive are off put by very dominant men. But very dominant women like a very dominant man. So most women choose a man who is slightly more dominant. So we might sum that up to leadership.
/r/seduction05/04/22 06:26 PM
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I think this is kind of a vapid question. In general women idealize a handsome fit confident wealthy man. But I seen a male model get rejected for not having tattoos. Many women that prefer dad bods Men get rejected for having tattoos. Women that only date blue collar workers. My uncle been married 7 times. He would get out of jail without two nickles to rub together and be living under some womans roof within a week. Its unreal! Freud could't figure it out. If you like being fit work on it. If …
/r/seduction04/04/22 06:01 PM
1

Women cock block worse than her male girlfriend. Just be like...you're a big girl, you sure you don't want to stay with the cute boy. Lol but for sure get the number!
/r/seduction03/04/22 11:54 PM
1

If you didn't kiss I feel like its early to invite her over. I could be wrong. She may well accept but you risk killing it. I would invite her out to dance and then invite her back for a nightcap after the outing.
/r/seduction03/04/22 11:43 PM
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If you met in person, i think its good to ask for date right away. But online you have to build a little rapport first. Its probably over but if you want to try once more I would back off for like 10 days then see if you can get her to respond to something humorous or interesting. Or you can be like...I could use a woman's opinion on something. Which is not as good but better than nothing.
/r/seduction03/04/22 11:40 PM
1

The opener can be anything that gets her attention. Hay you ( flirty like) Hey pretty! Hey trouble! This is totally random but... I love the look Can I bum a cigarette Just hi with flirty confidence
/r/seduction02/04/22 09:43 PM
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She has a BF. Can't say rather she is happy. But you can be her friend and potentially lead it to more because she has a BF. Whereas if she were single you would be friend zoned. But...that is no guarantee you are giving her too much of your time already.
/r/seduction02/04/22 07:04 PM
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Turn your attention to something else. Sit next to them and play a game on your phone or open kindle and start reading. But don't leave. Sit next to her but have a tool you can use to put your attention on instead of on her. Chess.com lol Kitty will come to you.
/r/seduction02/04/22 06:58 PM
2

Nice! It works best with a Texan accent! Lol
/r/seduction02/04/22 06:07 PM
1

Hey girl, you like a big dick? Haha
/r/seduction02/04/22 05:35 PM
1

PM me
/r/seduction02/04/22 03:01 AM
1

Two of the best guys I know with women are 5'4. I am 5'6. I got a hot bartenders number she is like 6'. A girl I used to work with a while back had a crush on me she 5'11". Since bartender was somewhat recent ill share story. I see guy getting her number. I wait. I walk and say did you get yourself a date? Nah it was a fake number. Would you give me a fake number (smile)? Ask me and find out! Whats your favorite food? Sushi. Dinner then? Smile...I'll have dinner with you. Great lets exchange num…
/r/seduction02/04/22 02:16 AM
1

Go by yourself. You'll then learn to push yourself without an excuse
/r/seduction01/04/22 10:53 PM
1

She didn't care enough to even let you know. Don't care about someone more than they care about you.
/r/seduction01/04/22 10:49 PM
2

Just say thanks for the pen it really came in handy. Use that to get a conversation going.
/r/seduction01/04/22 09:42 PM
3

I used to smoke pot with these girls and watch movies when younger. We watched American Psycho and they were like oh god he is so hot. Especially with the scene where he dominated the 2 hookers. There were other examples always from movies like when in this one movie two female neighbors are arguing and the one's dude comes out and like dominates the interaction then shoves his girlfriend back in the apartment.They are like god thats hot! Dude was ugly too. I think women are attracted to 3 basic…
/r/seduction01/04/22 08:42 PM
2

Wait a few hours and set a meetup.
/r/seduction01/04/22 08:07 PM
1

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.usatoday.com/amp/97132220
/r/seduction01/04/22 01:04 AM
1

If I can I will post a link. Its an optical illusion essentially.
/r/seduction01/04/22 01:00 AM
1

Well thats not bad then. So if its going well why you worried about it
/r/seduction01/04/22 12:33 AM
0

You can insert sub communication like "I'm not boyfriend material".
/r/seduction01/04/22 12:02 AM
1

Pm me
/r/seduction31/03/22 11:59 PM
2

Well the question is are you getting the results you want. Otherwise 2 is 1, 1 is none.
/r/seduction31/03/22 11:57 PM
1

Go to populated are and spend 4 hours just opening hot women and do it by yourself.
/r/seduction31/03/22 11:18 PM
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If you can get somewhere with one and move on in a week I say you are ahead of the pack lol
/r/seduction31/03/22 11:14 PM
2

This!
/r/seduction31/03/22 10:37 PM
1

Is this book really that good, I have heard of it? Can you share a couple important points from it?
/r/seduction31/03/22 04:42 PM
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Its been studied. Bald men are seen as less attractive but more dominant, intelligent and look taller. Picture your self as a video game character. You are not loosing or gaining any points just shifting them around a bit.
/r/seduction31/03/22 09:07 AM
1

What you are saying is you want to be exclusive. Leave it to her to bring that up
/r/seduction31/03/22 04:27 AM
2

Keep the date. Reschedule the group thing.
/r/seduction31/03/22 03:21 AM
3

One on one date better than meeting a group. Try to do both just do the other on a different day.
/r/seduction31/03/22 03:17 AM
2

You cannot predict the flow of conversation. If you can converse first great but if not go for the kill.
/r/seduction31/03/22 02:39 AM
3

You can be her friend or lover. Choose.
/r/seduction31/03/22 02:38 AM
2

Chat a bit like usual then say: " so are you free to grab a drink with me this coming weekend?"
/r/seduction31/03/22 01:15 AM
2

Like you said. You working out and she is working. You don't have time to escalate in any major way. She is giving you buying signals. Ask her out.
/r/seduction31/03/22 01:06 AM
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Ask her out before she moves on. Next you talk and she flirts ask her when she free to grab a drink? Great lets exchange numbers.
/r/seduction31/03/22 12:54 AM
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The truth is she is probably not that into you. She reachedd out when she wants something. But you can always shoot your shot. In fact I would. That way you get a date or you can move on quicker.
/r/seduction31/03/22 12:47 AM
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Look you are asking how to make a move on a guy. It is weird in the sense that its atypical. But its not bad. You dont have to say anything much he will get the message. You can even have a friend do it. I was young like 15 saw this girl same age at beach we kept smiling at each other. But we were young both with family. Before they left a young lad ran up to me with a piece of paper and said "My sister told me to give this to you". It had her email and phone number. It was adorable! It will be …
/r/seduction31/03/22 12:29 AM
2

The absolute best thing you can do is write your phone number on paper and hand it to him
/r/seduction31/03/22 12:04 AM
1

I agree...good points
/r/seduction30/03/22 11:52 PM
1

At least if you ask you show intent. I think people just afraid to ask. I been there at times but if you don't ask the answer is always no.
/r/seduction30/03/22 11:51 PM
1

I am curious can you elaborate
/r/seduction30/03/22 11:43 PM
1

No contact for a week
/r/seduction30/03/22 11:34 PM
1

Why cant they figure this out.
/r/seduction30/03/22 11:26 PM
1

Who gives a fuck what her friend thinks she seemed interested. Shoot your shot
/r/seduction30/03/22 11:22 PM
1

Who cares if you sound gay youll come in under their radar
/r/seduction30/03/22 09:18 PM
1

[Try this] (https://jiujitsutimes.com/six-ways-to-gift-wrap-your-training-partner-into-hating-you/)
/r/seduction30/03/22 08:49 PM
1

Dont let your past define your future. The easiest way to get started with social skills is go to a populated area and just say " How is it going" to a lot of people. Do that one day a week and you will loose the fear, learn to tell the difference between who is open or not. If some turn into a conversation roll with it. There are things you can do like start working out. Get a kettlebell. Tweak your style a bit. Never wear something that isnt "you". But go with nicer version of you. On clothes …
/r/seduction30/03/22 06:31 PM
3

Everywhere else lol
/r/seduction30/03/22 06:04 AM
3

Don't shit where you live either lol
/r/seduction30/03/22 03:18 AM
1

Exactly. Perhaps the appropriate term is the "testing stage".
/r/seduction30/03/22 03:10 AM
2

This is good. She is saying she is interested. But she is also saying she wants to go forward. Its time for you to ask her out before she moves on.
/r/seduction30/03/22 02:54 AM
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Interesting she talks of setting boundaries but when I suggest to the young man to set a boundary its a "manipulative tactic". I get in her mind its not a test. To a woman its just her nature. But she "decides who is worth her time". How? "Test" is a convenient term for that to help men understand that women communicate differently. That a man's behavior is important to her so women need to deduce that somehow. By seeing how he reacts to her, to others. Is he confident, will he stand up for hims…
/r/seduction30/03/22 02:50 AM
1

Boundaries are different in my opinion. You should leave someone who doesn't respect your boundaries.
/r/seduction30/03/22 02:16 AM
1

You said, they are deciding who is worth their time? How do you decide?
/r/seduction30/03/22 02:14 AM
1

Its all relative to what you call it. But i dont disagree. Women test to see if you are someone they respect or not and so on.
/r/seduction30/03/22 01:34 AM
2

Just cut ties.
/r/seduction30/03/22 12:59 AM
1

Don't preemptively disqualify yourself for any reason. Make them reject you and find out if they like you or not.
/r/seduction30/03/22 12:36 AM
1

Do jiu jitsu or judo. Youll meet people and learn something cool.
/r/seduction30/03/22 12:34 AM
1

Women build attraction slowly. You have to avoid putting the cart before the horse. A flirt is just a flirt. A number a number a kiss a kiss sex-sex and so on. Know where you are at with a woman and dont make it more than what it is at the moment.
/r/seduction30/03/22 12:30 AM
1

Fuck social media. Ask her if she wants to meet for drink/dinner. Then say great lets exchange numbers. Asking her out gives the number a purpose.
/r/seduction30/03/22 12:16 AM
1

You do naturally. You loose it by being anxious and over thinking. Also accept your own humanity. You are not going to be on point all the time.
/r/seduction29/03/22 11:23 PM
2

Practice socializing without an agenda. Practice meditation. Close your eyes and pay attention to breathing in and out of your nose. Count each exhalation 1-10 then start over. In the beginning try to do 10 sets of 10 a day even if its just 10 at a time.
/r/seduction29/03/22 10:59 PM
1

You don't have to be impolite or unkind to not be a pussy. You just have to not make certain mistake which are: Premature attachment to one Tolerating disrespect Over pursuing Not knowing when to back off Not knowing when to move on Not being sexual (timing is important here)
/r/seduction29/03/22 10:55 PM
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Escalate sexually
/r/seduction29/03/22 10:50 PM
1

Right on!
/r/seduction29/03/22 07:49 PM
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There are two men women don't test. Men they are in love with. And men they are not attracted enough to bother. She is testing you because you let it go you earned a little respect from her. She is testing you to see if you will keep it up or not. But this is a sign of potential interest. The way you find out for sure is directly ask her to meet. First ask when she is available to get together. Then, If you want romance invite her to a date. If you just want to plough, invite her to netflix and …
/r/seduction29/03/22 06:15 PM
2

What I don't understand is why you told her you didn't like her when obviously you do. I think maybe you just didn't like being her rebound. Which is fine. The issue here is that you insulted her with the way you went about it...curtly. She moved on and you are still lurking so she tried to cut ties permanently and made that very clear. Also she sounds like a fucking train wreck. If you had continued the physical relationship it could have grown. But probably not and that is what you were feelin…
/r/seduction29/03/22 07:06 AM
2

Maybe by telling you about celebrities she has rejected is her telling you she likes you. Your assessment could be right just saying. In any case I can teach you zen. You dont have to be religious. You can also be religious doesn't matter. This is purely mental. Close your eyes sit up straight. Breathe in and out through the nose. When you breathe in think inhale, when you breathe out think exhale. Inhale-exhale. This will calm you. When other thoughts come return to noting the breath. Then you …
/r/seduction29/03/22 06:41 AM
2

The easiest way around this situation is to use the phone only to set up in person meetings with no contact in between. If you have good text game then use it but clearly you do not so its best to just keep it to logistics. A lot of guys are afraid to be forgotten or something. But its not a real thing to worry about. If she won't commit to meeting in person she isn't interested anyway.
/r/seduction29/03/22 06:07 AM
2

If she wants to be exclusive she will bring it up. But if you tell her you just want to fuck she can't fuck you without feeling like a slut even if that is what she wants too. So, just hang out and hook up. If she tells you at some point she wants to be exclusive and you still don't. Just say you were not looking for anything serious. But you have to respect her decision to break up with you at that point. In the inverse opposite guy asking woman to be exclusive comes off as clingy. So just enjo…
/r/seduction29/03/22 05:48 AM
3

A park with a lake at night is good.
/r/seduction29/03/22 03:40 AM
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Dating apps suck. You should practice talking to girls by talking to girls any time you have opportunity. Then when a conversation goes well you should ask when they are available to grab a drink. If you can, set date immediately. If not exchange numbers. Wait 4 days to call/text. Then say when are you available to meet for a drink? Or if you already set the date just text her the day of saying tonight is still good for me how about you know where you are meeting her you have to plan it not her.…
/r/seduction29/03/22 03:13 AM
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Radio silence until then. The day of say tonight still works for me, how about you? Or, you can take a bigger risk and test her. The reward would be she get more enthusiasm. The risk is you may have to discover she is not interested at all. But you could say sorry something came up and I need to cancel plans tonight. Let me know when you are available next week.
/r/seduction29/03/22 02:43 AM
2

I think you are giving a friend vibe. Go for the kiss. If she kisses back ask her on a 2nd date but wait 4-5 days of no contact before you ask for 2nd date. Keep it to one date a week for a bit until she actively reaches out to you.
/r/seduction28/03/22 10:47 PM
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Look OP. There is no rule about touching or not touching on a first date. But there is a rule about not touching those who don't want to be touched. So ask yourself if you know when a woman wants to be touched or not. If you cannot tell, try this as a rule...let her touch you first.
/r/seduction28/03/22 10:40 PM
2

Yep! And its the perfect example on why a crush is so fucked up. Lol I feel like it should be a rule to work at least 2 women at a time. A good sailor had a girl in every port. Lol
/r/seduction28/03/22 06:37 PM
1

I don't mind the posting but the first rule is its a numbers game. The 2nd rule is its a numbers game.
/r/seduction28/03/22 04:21 AM
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Keep pursuing others in fact double down on it now before you fuck it up with her. A crush is the enemy. The worst enemy.
/r/seduction28/03/22 03:54 AM
1

Women give IG for 3 reasons. 1. You are dumb enough to ask for it. 2. The want to add another number to their count. 3. They are not interested so the offer social media instead of phone number.
/r/seduction28/03/22 02:40 AM
1

The phone is only to set up meetings in person
/r/seduction28/03/22 01:55 AM
1

Don't tolerate bs. Tolerance for uncertainty builds with practice. Every new woman is an uncertainty.
/r/seduction28/03/22 01:23 AM
1

If you have no game do this Start by saying hi to everyone! Then try getting into conversations. If conversation goes well ask girl if she wants to have a drink/dinner with you. If yes say great lets exchange numbers and I will let you know when im available. Don't contact her for 4 days then say Hi its joe when are you available to grab a drink with me. Have a plan know where you are taking her and go for the kiss on the first date. If she pulls away or gives you the cheek she is not interested…
/r/seduction28/03/22 01:13 AM
1

Practice your way out of it. All you can do. Or target shy women.
/r/seduction28/03/22 01:04 AM
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I know a girl who rejected a total stud. Like 6'4" model, because he didn't have tattoos.
/r/seduction28/03/22 12:59 AM
3

You have to choose between risk and zero results. Most women aren't creeped out because you shoot you shot. They are creeped out by guys who keep pushing when the answer is clearly no. When you approach you are looking for openness. Don't expect all women to be open. Women are fucking moody. Its more them than you unless you are a total asshole.
/r/seduction28/03/22 12:47 AM
1

Rather you do in person or text might as well ask her out for a drink.
/r/seduction28/03/22 12:40 AM
3

I agree you had an opportunity to show leadership as well as get yourself a "workout date" potentially. Hold off for several days then give it one more try this time with a plan. Meeting someplace public to work on cardio perhaps.
/r/seduction28/03/22 12:38 AM
1

I never been but I have heard it really is!
/r/seduction28/03/22 12:08 AM
2

Don't call it Mystery method. Hahaha! But do try it. 4 days is the sweet spot. Later and you are waiting too long. Sooner you are too eager.
/r/seduction26/03/22 12:04 AM
1

You can't change your past but you don't have to share it with everyone. Women don't care about your problems anyway.
/r/seduction26/03/22 12:02 AM
1

You stand out by not being too eager. Women don't forget you. They just decide if they are interested or not. Most guys are too scared to go up and ask a woman out. You stand out just by being willing to try. You have to understand that women are attracted to a bit of mystery. And they are put off by clingy behavior. Not calling for 4 days is free mystery and unclingy in one. I think the best way after a bit of conversation is to ask if she wants to meet for a drink. Then let that be the reason …
/r/seduction25/03/22 11:53 PM
5

Stop making it an approach. You don't need to go out and approach. You go where you want do what you want and talk to a pretty girl if you want. You fucking ask her out if you want to. And you let her do with that what she wants.
/r/seduction25/03/22 11:39 PM
2

Thats a problem. If you dont plan something specific why would you expect them to leave thier calendar open for you? Get the number. Don't text for 4 days. 4 days later you invite her to something specific about 2-4 days out. Specific place and time. Hey it Joe we met at wherever, when are you available to meet for drinks? Sure I am free Friday, how about 8pm at venue X, would you prefer I pick you up or to meet there?
/r/seduction25/03/22 11:37 PM
1

Do you plan something specific?
/r/seduction25/03/22 11:29 PM
1

If burnt out dial it back. Do less approaches be more selective. Don't text before the dates other than perhaps to confirm the day of.
/r/seduction25/03/22 11:25 PM
1

What happened the last time you asked a woman out? Maybe some details will help.
/r/seduction24/03/22 04:04 AM
0

Don't women are attracted to players
/r/seduction09/03/22 12:56 AM
1

What you should have said... I heard what you told so and so and thank you goodness! I thought you had a huge crush on me and I was trying to figure out how to navigate away from it without hurting you. The mere thought of our lips touching absolutely repulses me. I am so glad you feel the same!
/r/seduction07/02/22 07:42 PM
1

Guys that can't tell when a woman is ready to be kissed should always go for the kiss. Also you should have established it as an official date. But don't try to make it something more now. If she is meeting you alone, it is basically a first date.
/r/seduction31/01/22 02:51 AM
0

You can be monogamous. But I think the talk should be up to her. She will bring it up.
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:01 AM
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Maybe you are right. But perhaps you have had better experience. I am actually somewhere in the middle of models now. A lot of people like that one!
/r/seduction27/01/22 12:00 AM
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Well that does not necessarily conflict. But put it off too long and its over.
/r/seduction26/01/22 09:34 PM
1

Sorry for the belated reply. I want a serious monogamous relationship. Inability to do the former precludes the latter.
/r/seduction26/01/22 12:50 AM
1

I would get a job bro lol
/r/seduction14/01/22 06:08 AM
2

Its ultimately a numbers game. Start harvesting! Lol
/r/seduction10/01/22 08:34 AM
2

You both look alright. One of you look boyish. The other unkempt. Neither of you should dress like that on a date.
/r/seduction10/01/22 08:24 AM
1

Best is quiet bar/lounge. Classier the better Tier 2: Billiards/bowling/mini-golf/restuarant/cafe Worst: Movies or anything in the wilderness. Top Secret: Take her to see a play. They serve drinks and tend to be rife with adult humor and innuendo
/r/seduction18/12/21 12:48 AM
1

I hear ya. I would like a marriage myself but you already know she is not what you are looking for on that. So you just have to decide if its worth having a bit of fun, or if she is robbing you of time an energy you could spend looking for someone you can be more serious with. Sometimes the answer it everything is still up in the air.
/r/seduction15/12/21 07:19 PM
1

I never said it was the same.
/r/seduction15/12/21 07:15 PM
1

I really separate men into two different categories. Guys who know how to flirt and guys who do not. There are many different styles but, guys who know how to flirt have certain things in common. They know when a woman is attracted. They know when a woman is not attracted. The know when a woman is neutral. They know not to waste time with women who are unattracted. Guys who are really good at it recognize the difference between a bitch shield and get the fuck away from me. And usually don't have…
/r/seduction15/12/21 09:32 AM
1

Its all relative on if you are looking for a wife or not. Have fun with her if you want
/r/seduction15/12/21 09:01 AM
1

Everyone already told you how you fucked up but...all you really need to do is back off and let her reach out to you when she is ready.
/r/seduction15/12/21 08:59 AM
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She is not your girlfriend unless you talk about having a relationship. So don't talk about it. In fact don't talk about it even if you do want a relationship because it makes you risk coming off as needy. Let her bring it up. Other than that what dude said is right. Just escalate physically.
/r/seduction15/12/21 08:50 AM
1

You are young. If its low T easy fix. Start sprinting or get a kettlebell. Or lift weights in gym. It will help you with depression too. This may be a sign you want something more than just a hookup now. And thats good
/r/seduction15/12/21 08:45 AM
1

Women that like you show up
/r/seduction15/12/21 08:42 AM
4

There are many potentials but the glaring one that's in your control is you didn't have a plan. Big no no. Other than that she could have made herself feel slutty even though its not your fault. That's not likely but it is possible. Or she got with her ex or a date with her crush. Or she went with a guy who had a plan or...she just uses men for validation online.
/r/seduction15/12/21 08:40 AM
1

If you don't know how to flirt. Ask her to dinner. If she says yes...ask to exchange numbers. Don't call or text for 4 days. Then call or text ask her when she is available to meet for dinner. You can also ask her to an activity bowling, mini-golf and so on. Or you can ask her if she wants to have a drink. But NO movies and NOTHING near the damn wilderness. I don't know if it needs to be said to you but ill be damned it needs to be said to some. And you MUST know where the hell you are taking he…
/r/seduction15/12/21 08:31 AM
4

I saw Todd V talk about the 2 kind of men women are attracted to. Players and providers. You more or less have to be one of those. Either make you above average in one way or another. Game works to some level. But game makes you a player. I can't really be a provider. At least not now. But it sucks for me because being a player is not my ideal. But it is what it is. There is a third path I think but its basically zen like non-attachment and few can attain it. But when you get to a mental state w…
/r/seduction15/12/21 08:07 AM
1

My theory on this is you either know what to do or don't. You have game or not. Prefacing that game has stages. Like you may have solid opening but not so solid closing and so on. But if you had solid opening you would have used it already. So you have no game. If you have no game, you should be direct. Being direct sets you apart from most because it shows you are not a pussy. Its the next best thing to actual good game. Try talking to her for about 5-15 minutes then asking her if she wants to …
/r/seduction25/10/21 01:01 AM
1

Not if you say it with a smile. Its banter
/r/seduction15/10/21 12:05 AM
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Next time say...you're not exactly a social butterfly are you? But would it kill you to smile!
/r/seduction02/10/21 06:43 AM
2

You are at a tough age to be confident. Be courageous instead. Experiment. Confidence comes from the experience of success.
/r/seduction02/10/21 06:41 AM
4

Big fucking zero! If you feel it...conceal it!
/r/seduction02/10/21 06:39 AM
1

Say yea yer cute...like a little cartoon!
/r/seduction02/10/21 06:38 AM
1

If I were you I would wait 3-5 days and shoot another shot by inviting her to do something specific. Sometimes a woman loosing interest has nothing to do with you. She may be involved with someone. In any case use the phone to make plans, not be her pen pal
/r/seduction20/09/21 02:05 AM
2

I have a Russian friend. He is pretty good with women and open about having a small cock. He say I have a small cock but golden fingers. Owning it is step one.
/r/seduction15/09/21 07:41 AM
1

You don't have to be confident or unafraid to be courageous. And like above, start small and build.
/r/seduction15/09/21 07:32 AM
1

I mean I don't fully disagree. But I have seen beautiful women in love with some ass-ugly mofos. Go figure. I am not sure what lines I repeated from PUA books in this OP. But what's wrong with that? My real point, not that I think you don't understand, that rather you are into "game"or of the go direct and be your best self camp, without courage you don't have a chance. And if you are ugly, you still are better off approaching. You may well get rejected more. But you will simultaneously increase…
/r/seduction08/09/21 11:17 PM
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I just read in magic bullets that a woman who doesn't know you can't reject you. Only your approach. Women often reject your approach just because they are being hit on. So you have to figure out a way to come in under the radar. The advantage of showing intrest is you appear confident and will get faster results with women that are attracted and single. But you will get rejected more. You have to find your own style. That's another thing most attractive women are not single. Its a good reason n…
/r/seduction07/09/21 07:23 PM
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So Rome wasn't built in a day. Just start with a greeting with eye contact. When you make eye contact put both of your eyes to one of hers. It prevents your eyes from darting. Don't break eye contact first. Men want to break eye contact because we view it as confrontational but man to woman its social. Sometimes if you greet a woman passing her reaction can be delayed because she doesn't expect it. But hold the eye contact she may well break and I mean break into a smile. Regardless the verbiage…
/r/seduction07/09/21 06:57 PM
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I have this book. I have yet to read it but that moment approaches. I have also had a conversation with the person who brought up looks. So I decided to look up Mark Manson to see if he is good looking. I can't rate him as well as a woman can but he looks pretty average. A bit husky. A lot of people know of style. He's average looking, plus bald. He is short. And has less than average male musculature and kind of weak voice and subtle lisp to boot.. He has two things going for him, style, which …
/r/seduction07/09/21 10:41 AM
1

They drink that Brazillian Acai
/r/seduction07/09/21 02:56 AM
2

I would experiment lol
/r/seduction07/09/21 02:55 AM
2

You don't have to lie you could set your profile age at whatever. Then write in text actually your real age and say it was an accident.
/r/seduction06/09/21 11:52 PM
1

I'm reiterating what is most fundamental regardless. My main point was that courage is more important than confidence. Not that it was the be all end all.
/r/seduction06/09/21 09:15 PM
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I mean at its most basic level it is all you need. But its percentages. If you have the courage to say something simple like: "I find you attractive and I was wondering if I can get your phone number?" Then call/ text to set up a date. It can work. I did it as a teenager a lot. You'll probably get mostly good numbers, but mostly flakey dates, but not always. So by having courage to ask, and ask again. You can get results. However pickup is optimizing results. So while courage by itself is not op…
/r/seduction06/09/21 07:56 PM
4

Haters are a sign of prowess.
/r/seduction06/09/21 05:26 PM
1

Tank you my friend! Jahmbo!
/r/seduction06/09/21 05:03 PM
2

I agree for the most part
/r/seduction06/09/21 03:07 AM
2

I have seen a lot of his openers online but not much middle/closing
/r/seduction06/09/21 03:00 AM
1

I agree it just surprised me at first how often
/r/seduction05/09/21 09:10 PM
2

Consider the type of bar you visit is going to have an effect on the type of people you meet.
/r/seduction05/09/21 08:21 PM
2

Have you used his system? I notice he actually compliments women often as an opener.
/r/seduction05/09/21 08:20 PM
1

I can't dance so I hate club. I like classy, quiet bars
/r/seduction05/09/21 07:46 PM
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Its okay not to be confident at first but you do have to be courageous. You have to take action in spite of fear.
/r/seduction05/09/21 07:42 PM
1

I know courage is the first step
/r/seduction05/09/21 07:33 PM
2

You would get punched. But not likely disfigured. I would be concerned about brain damage though.
/r/seduction05/09/21 05:35 PM
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What is "going backwards to go forward" other than rooted in courage? . And of course attracion is not one dimensional. Courage is just the most fundamental aspect. Rather its responding to body language or knowing a lot of routines, or anything else, all worthless if you don't have courage to use it. And having courage to approach beautiful women does set you apart from most.
/r/seduction05/09/21 05:33 PM
2

I said " not exclusively btw". Meaning women possess it too.
/r/seduction05/09/21 04:24 AM
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Boxing probably wont disfigure you, but, its bad for your brain. Lol. Jiu jitsu however, is highly recommended!
/r/seduction05/09/21 04:23 AM
1

I disagree. Courage is more important than confidence. With courage you can take action in spite of fear.
/r/seduction05/09/21 01:42 AM
2

Its the fragility of the male ego that causes this.
/r/seduction05/09/21 01:41 AM
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I think you are over thinking my point. And maybe its my fault. Women can for certain be brave! But society does not expect them to be. So when they are, the garnish even more praise than men.
/r/seduction05/09/21 01:39 AM
1

Damn pimptress
/r/seduction04/09/21 06:06 PM
1

The closer it gets to the time she is leaving. The more likely it will happen.
/r/seduction04/09/21 06:05 PM
1

If you want her and its there go for the kiss without talking about it at all. If it is there, that is what she wants.
/r/seduction04/09/21 06:03 PM
0

I say "lets exchange numbers."
/r/seduction04/09/21 04:03 AM
0

I mean there are many influences out there. Does giving your number work for you?
/r/seduction04/09/21 01:30 AM
0

The best way to handle it is to not have it because it is a manifestation of insecurity. But if you do feel it..conceal it!
/r/seduction03/09/21 12:40 AM
1

That last thing is all you can control. You can't use a magic wand. But you can do it with practice. I get what you are saying but I say like, you want to grab a drink, lets exchange numbers. Not lets meet at x place at x time. I do that over the phone. Have you read how to be a 3% man by chance?
/r/seduction02/09/21 09:43 PM
1

Well all the short guys except me seem to think being tall is more important than being confident or good looking and you are tall. Telling me you don't have the confidence to inititiate conversations. Kind of proving my theory. Its a confidence issue Most women to most men there will be a lack interest if only for most women being taken, plus the other variables. At the end of the day all you can do is open yourself and look for openness in others. One reason asking for a date is better I think…
/r/seduction02/09/21 08:56 PM
1

Dude the best natural I ever met was 5'4". Women like CONFIDENCE!
/r/seduction02/09/21 07:45 PM
2

I bet there is a book on it
/r/seduction02/09/21 05:21 PM
1

Shit im white. I wish I got 30 likes. Maybe I oughtta switch to bumble lol
/r/seduction02/09/21 03:35 PM
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Idk i always been able to since I was a kid. But the point is that its as good or better than bench pressing.
/r/seduction02/09/21 03:33 PM
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Confidence is the number one. Courage is the next best thing.
/r/seduction02/09/21 03:31 PM
2

Good for you! Im 5'6". I do kettlebell and one meal a day. I lost 30 pounds. I am up to a 70# kettlebell now. I do one arm pushups.
/r/seduction02/09/21 09:14 AM
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Btw when I said your level I meant your level of comfort interacting with a total stranger. Not your standard for women physically. I look at it in terms of openness. Yours then hers. So for example your openness. Can you say hi to a stranger. Check. Can you say hi to a woman. Check. Hot woman. Check. Can you ask for her name. Can you converse. Can you ask her to dinner. Exchange numbers. Text her and plan a date. Tell if she is interested. Go for a kiss. That's your level. Her level: I say Hi s…
/r/seduction02/09/21 09:11 AM
1

A woman that fucks you only because you are black is not the same as a woman who only fucks black guys. A woman that likes black guys doesn't mean she has no other standard. But again its not about "women" and "blacks" its about you and them. The irony is that you are generalizing about women just as much as you assume they are generalizing about you being black. The reality is most women are not single. Its the greatest barrier. Yes some women will reject you for a number of reason. Some women …
/r/seduction02/09/21 08:44 AM
1

Ask her if she wants to grab a drink.
/r/seduction02/09/21 06:05 AM
1

I am somehow reminded of the scene from Yellowstone. Old cowboy and rookie. Rookie says I don't think I am cut out for this kind of work. Old one says nobody is, its gotta be cut into you. Seems fitting somehow
/r/seduction02/09/21 06:03 AM
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Do you flirt? I am going to tell you the boldest thing I have seen women do. That is walk up to a guy you like or think you might like with your phone number written on a piece of paper. Hand it to him and say call me! Or get a friend to do it if you can't its too much for you, try flirting.
/r/seduction02/09/21 05:38 AM
1

There are women out there, usually white woman, who will ONLY fuck black men. Sure its not common but if you find her you'll hit paydirt. You don't need them all, just one. You are tall, fit. Also what about other black women, do you feel they judge you too? Pulling lots of women is nice, its fun, sexually gratifying and even "cool". But it usually doesn't satisfy forever. You really truly only need to get it right once. Find one good woman that makes you happy that loves you for you! If you can…
/r/seduction02/09/21 05:32 AM
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I never said looks didn't effect situations. I said if you can't alter it, what is the point of letting it stop you from trying? Its a numbers game for everyone. Its true everyone's numbers are different. But you still have to apply courage to succeed Lil Wayne is a conventionally unattractive black guy his numbers will be better than anyone posting here because he is rich and famous. But I bet he did alright before because he has confidence. And confidence starts with courage.
/r/seduction02/09/21 03:16 AM
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If you dwell on what you cannot change you just dump points into your insecurity pool and make yourself less attractive. We all know women love confidence but courage is 100 times more important. You will be confident when you let go. Its not something you can do or become. Its something you are or are not and it fluctuates. You will have your confident momentd and your unconfident ones. But courage allows you to take action even if and when you are afraid. It is the ultimate strength quality! C…
/r/seduction02/09/21 12:55 AM
1

Lets see if we can help. Are you giving guys a chance when they ask you out.
/r/seduction02/09/21 12:43 AM
1

Validation
/r/seduction02/09/21 12:20 AM
1

I am curious if you are dating or not. Are you giving guy a chance? Are you so attractive that you are intimidating and thus not dating. There are a lot of variables
/r/seduction02/09/21 12:19 AM
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No woman is gonna go there off the bat. But do pay attention to her body language and whatnot. I wouldn't push too hard. Keep some distance at first don't get too close. If she gets pretty defensive take a big obvious step backwards. But don't necessarily eject.
/r/seduction02/09/21 12:11 AM
2

More like be comfortable with yourself. If you are not,.don't expect anyone else to be.
/r/seduction02/09/21 12:08 AM
1

A girl said that for real and if so what did you do? And what country are you in?
/r/seduction02/09/21 12:04 AM
1

Why is an analogy bullshit?
/r/seduction01/09/21 06:56 PM
5

More complex sure. But you can't force affection on a cat or a woman. Because they are more cautious. Most men put cart before the horse. They think how do I make her like me. They should think- is she open for dialogue, let me find out. If that goes well, let me see if she is open to meet up again. Let her touch you first. If she does a few times, flirt back. If she is open, go for the kiss. Men just need to be content moving gradually, and like a cat, being present and wait for her to open up …
/r/seduction01/09/21 02:23 AM
2

Yea you need to try to keep covo going but if nothing else go for the kill and ask if she would like to grab a drink. If she agrees say great lets exchange numbers. Then call or text 4-5 days later asking when she is available to do whatever thing you suggested (drink is just an example). Choose a time out of her availability. Ask if she would prefer to meet you or pick you up. Know where you are taking her and get/ give address accordingly and close the conversation with see you then. Say absol…
/r/seduction31/08/21 11:49 PM
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You shouldnt. What your doing is whats getting you laid. Women are like cats. After a couple months she may hint at being exclusive
/r/seduction31/08/21 11:39 PM
0

Just say do you want to grab a drink this weekend...great lets exchange numbers. You show her she had something to prove by having standards. You don't have to like always trick a woman or manipulate her with every word. Women that like you, or even just curious. Show up.
/r/seduction31/08/21 07:46 PM
1

The invention of the phone is the worst thing to happen to men. Minimize it
/r/seduction31/08/21 07:12 AM
1

The best way to not seem needy is to not be needy. Which you are or you wouldn't be worried.
/r/seduction31/08/21 07:10 AM
2

Forgot to address the other question. No ground rules. It makes you seem jealous which is a symptom of insecurity the great attraction killer. You do not own her. You need to make her want you to be her choice.
/r/seduction31/08/21 07:08 AM
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Start using the phone only to set in person meetings. Stop being her pen pal. Im fact go silent for 5-7 days to fix the damage you've done. The most non-needy non-clingy thing you can say is nothing. Texting and talking on phone is to set up meetings. You can't touch her, you can't read her body language. You sure as hell can't be mysterious being her pen pal. Wait 5-7 days then say when are you free to get together for X? Great, Friday at 6. Do you want to meet me there or prefer I pick you up?…
/r/seduction31/08/21 07:05 AM
3

Dude never ask a girl out who flakes more than once. Cut ties and preserve your dignity.
/r/seduction31/08/21 06:57 AM
1

Dude are you at an all male college or sompin? You are literally in the most fertile environment at the best age you can be. No need to feel offended by this comment but you just need to grow a pair. Shit I'd go back to school just to meet women. Its the fucking easiest place to do it. If nothing else talk to them about school shit.
/r/seduction31/08/21 06:54 AM
0

You texted way too soon. Wait 4-5 days phone is to set up dates. Dont be her pen pal
/r/seduction31/08/21 02:48 AM
6

She threw herself on him because he is not interested.
/r/seduction31/08/21 02:46 AM
1

Give it a try
/r/seduction31/08/21 02:42 AM
4

If a woman flakes more than once, never contact her again. You can ask a woman twice with dignity. Never more. And the more women you pursue the MORE you get rejected. But you simultaneously increase your success. It really is a numbers game.
/r/seduction31/08/21 01:19 AM
1

Go shopping at department stores. See pretty girl. Pick up two jackets, or two shirts or 2 colognes shoes anything. Hi, can you help me choose between these two items. Women are often shopping alone, and they love shit like this. Chat with them a few then ask then out on a date. Say would you care to grab a drink/coffee/dinner with me sometime? If she agrees, say great, lets exchange numbers! Text her 4-5 days later. Hi this is Ron, when are you available to meet for a drink/ coffee/ dinner. Mak…
/r/seduction31/08/21 01:09 AM
1

Dudes that do this, stop being her fucking pen pal with the damn texting. Text her just enough to set up an in person meeting and then no contact till the day of. Send one text the day of meeting, look forward to seeing you tonight. Thats it! You make yourselves look way to clingly just by talking at all. Even if she is responding. You can't fuck her through the phone anyway and a woman that won't meet you in person gives no fuck about you.
/r/seduction31/08/21 12:50 AM
1

Women that like you...show up.
/r/seduction31/08/21 12:42 AM
1

Worse if they do remember and say they don't. But then you could say jeese how many dudes did you give your number to?
/r/seduction31/08/21 12:39 AM
1

You would be surprised how well saying "Hi, I just wanted to meet you.", can work. At the end of the day all you can do is shoot your shots and play the numbers game.
/r/seduction31/08/21 12:37 AM
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I would ask yourself where your individual level is. A phone number, even a real one is always better if you build rapport first. And it means nothing if she won't see you again. You will probably get some success playing the numbers game. But if you are not skilled at initiating conversation yet, this would be a good exercise for you.
/r/seduction31/08/21 12:13 AM
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I did this shit all the time as a teenager. Most women will give you their number. But not all women will commit to a date. Link the video though!
/r/seduction30/08/21 11:25 PM
1

It is if you make it so. You can't make yourself grow and you are not that short. Women like CONFIDENCE'
/r/seduction30/08/21 07:02 PM
1

Stop doing it. Get women to meet you in person. If they won't they don't want you.
/r/seduction29/08/21 08:42 PM
7

Posture and eye contact are the two pillars of positive body language.
/r/seduction29/08/21 06:49 PM
2

One of the best dudes I ever met with women was 5'3". He wad handsome though. But he had brass balls. Fucked multiple women every week.
/r/seduction27/08/21 09:43 PM
1

Most of you here are bitching about how women are. Which accomplishes precisely nothing other than awareness. The truth is she DID tell you she wasn't interested and you even know the reason. You acted clingy. She pulled back. You pursued anyway which she now interprets as more clingyness. The reason clingy men are unattractive is that women love a challenge. They want a man they have to work to get. Pull back before she has the chance to do it to you. A woman cannot reject you if she is the one…
/r/seduction26/08/21 08:43 PM
2

Ask her what she thinks about tattoos and piercings, in intimate areas.
/r/seduction26/08/21 08:26 PM
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Its not that bad. I get not hitting on women at gym like crazy, but she gave him the signals. I get its awkward to see someone that rejected you daily but there is nothing wrong with inviting someone into your life.
/r/seduction25/08/21 06:05 PM
1

When you get number, wait 4-7 days to make contact. Text her hey Jenny its Brian. When might you be available to grab a drink with me? Or, Are you available to have a drink with me on X day. Great lets meet at X bar at 7pm. Here is the address. See you then! Go to bar at 7pm ( or whatever the established time) If you get stood up, you are now drinking at a bar ready to open more sets. If you shut the fuck up and do nothing and exercise patience, and thus self control, it shows women you are not …
/r/seduction25/08/21 11:05 AM
1

Women just flake don't worry about it. You really only need 3 things at the core level You must have the balls to approach and ask women out. You must not waste time with women who are not into you. Rinse and repeat.
/r/seduction25/08/21 10:53 AM
-1

Why not ask her at the gym what is the aversion?
/r/seduction25/08/21 10:43 AM
1

I don't see it as a game. I see it as practice. Practice is not too serious or to frivolous.
/r/seduction25/08/21 10:42 AM
3

You may never see her. Should have asked her out. You have fuck all to loose. Now you will think about it and how you gonna do it and it will be harder.
/r/seduction25/08/21 10:39 AM
1

A lot of guys said it but just ask girls on dated and kiss them.
/r/seduction25/08/21 10:34 AM
2

Its because they are in their 30s dude.
/r/seduction25/08/21 10:32 AM
1

Dude thats funny!
/r/seduction25/08/21 10:14 AM
2

Just ask her if she wants to have coffee or grab a drink. I don't get why people say how do I ask someone out. What they really mean is I don't have the balls to ask or... is there some mystical way to guarantee she will like me! Both of which are bullshit. If you don't have the balls to ask, no one can help you. No there is no mystical magic cantrip, but you could find out if she is interested or at least curious if you grow a pair and ask.
/r/seduction25/08/21 10:00 AM
1

The show, does he use it to get women to break up with him lol
/r/seduction25/08/21 09:47 AM
1

Sometimes I'll say: " hey pretty!" If they reply :"hey handsome" you are golden. I don'y recommend approaching a set like this, but if its a situation there is no time to talk much, like a gas station. Go for it cause she not gonna stop for idle chit chat anyway.
/r/seduction25/08/21 01:46 AM
3

Someone once said the only time women stop testing you is after falling in love.
/r/seduction25/08/21 01:42 AM
2

I'm just joking my friend. Wealth is better than looks when it comes to women though. But you can be wealthy, handsome and still suck with women. I've seen ugly guys that don't have to nickels to rub together be great with women.
/r/seduction25/08/21 01:37 AM
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What's HIMYM?
/r/seduction25/08/21 01:27 AM
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I want you to try my principles and give feedback
/r/seduction24/08/21 08:25 PM
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No money
/r/seduction24/08/21 08:13 PM
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Sounds like you have been studying a lot of PUA. It has overcomplicated things for you and made you over analytical. Which is what it did for me. Lucky for me I read a book called the system before I read the game. The system is expensive and outdated. Luckily it has been repackaged by Corey Wayne in a book called the 3% man. I highly recommend it. Its dating style not pua style. Its less complex but still works. PUA is about fuck closing as fast as possible. So think of this as the long game. Y…
/r/seduction24/08/21 07:59 PM
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The instant you start thinking how do I make good conversation you fuck yourself. Women will make good conversation on their own. You just have to be the initiator. You dudes need to understand being social is a learning experience. It doesn't have an on/ off switch. It starts with growing a pair. Think if it as sharing yourself actively. It doesn't mean conversation is going to flow naturally with everyone. Women are fucking moody. The truth is there is never anything you can or need to say to …
/r/seduction24/08/21 07:17 PM
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Fuck step one and two be rich! Looks don't pay the bills!
/r/seduction24/08/21 09:46 AM
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Okay tell her you have a naughty secret you want to share, that its really important to you to find a woman who eats ass. And that its a MUST! HAHA
/r/seduction24/08/21 09:42 AM
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Every woman you date and are intimate with is a friend with benefits. Or, someone you are dating casually so to speak. Until SHE asks you to stop dating other people, agrees to do the same herself and wants to be exclusive. Its on her to tell you she wants you to be her boyfriend. And if she does and did not tell you. She only has herself to blame.
/r/seduction24/08/21 09:36 AM
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The phone is only to set dates. Dont contact her any more than once a week and use it only to set a date. After you get her number wait 4-5 days to call. Set up a date before you get her number if possible. Let the date be the reason to exchange numbers. The most interesting thing to a woman is unclear feelings.
/r/seduction24/08/21 07:30 AM
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Shut the fuck up and do nothing. Its that simple
/r/seduction24/08/21 07:25 AM
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Tell her you only date women that eat ass! Hahaha
/r/seduction24/08/21 07:23 AM
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Try going opposite. Tell her you can see yourself falling in love. You think Simon and Dorothy will be good names for your kids. You cant stop thinking about her and jerking off to her. Blow up her phone. Send her a text then ask why she is not responding. Say you still like me right? Every couple hours. And then: just thinking of you again. Then send her a dick pic. Then ask her to send you one of her tits. She'll cancel on you! Lol
/r/seduction24/08/21 07:16 AM
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Are you in the friend zone because you asked her on a date and she said no and you decided to hover and bend the knee to friendship. Or because you were friends and somewhere along the way you developed an interest. Or because she had a bf. There are two friend zones. The dark side, which is you are her friend because shes not attracted to you and never will be. The light side which is she is attracted to you but had a boyfriend she was loyal to. The problem with women is the sometimes get more …
/r/seduction24/08/21 07:04 AM
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Did you kiss her
/r/seduction24/08/21 06:52 AM
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Women don't care much about your looks but they very much care about how secure you are with yourself and you may be projecting that insecurity. You seem intelligent. At the end of the day your face is unchangeable. But your behavior can always improve. You probably think its worse than it is.
/r/seduction24/08/21 06:48 AM
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The crux of game is not being a pussy on all levels but its a lifelong battle because...feelings. lol
/r/seduction24/08/21 06:40 AM
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Courage is more important than confidence. Courage is more valuable to society than confidence. Courage puts astronauts on the moon and men into battle. You are not going to be confident in a situation that you have no experience in, its not a rational expectation. But you need to grow a pair if you don't want to be single for life. Here is the truth. The more dates you ask for, or women you try to pick up. The MORE you get rejected. My recommendation to you is practice making small talk everywh…
/r/seduction24/08/21 06:28 AM
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Why did you ask about pickup lines
/r/seduction24/08/21 05:54 AM
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Its a pretty direct opener but saying: Hey pretty! Works pretty good sometimes. If she replies hey handsome! You know you are in.
/r/seduction24/08/21 05:53 AM
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There are two kinds of pickup. Pickup and dating. There is an art to both. There is a fair amount of useful overlap. Dating is more traditional and takes patience and is more conducive to finding a relationship. Its also easier IMO. But pickup is more like for getting laid as often as possible.
/r/seduction24/08/21 05:51 AM
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If you set a specific date in person. As in location and time follow through on it. But if you were like "lets meet for drinks thursday ill call and set something up". Wait anyway. Then set something up on a different day. If she says something about it say something came up so she knows you have more to your life than just her.
/r/seduction24/08/21 05:45 AM
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Try saying hi! What's your name? See if she asks your name. If she asks your name its a sign of interest. You kind of have to teach yourself to be social and get better with experience. I have walked up to women saying hi, whats your name? Nice to meet you Angela, I just like meeting new people. It shows you are social without indicating too strong of interest. You can get someone's attention by saying "quick question". You can ask for an opinion on many things that works too. Stick with that un…
/r/seduction24/08/21 01:52 AM
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