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| 93 | When you "alpha up", you just can't be an orbiter anymore. | Red Pill Example | kranos33 | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 06:27 PM |
| 6 | What non-positive changes have you seen as you maxed out your SMV? | kranos33 | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 08:24 PM | |
| 4 | Is game massively overrated? | kranos33 | /r/askTRP | 30/09/17 10:10 PM |
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| 1 | Two years of lifting but SMV seems stuckAt 225lb, you are approaching chubby/bit fat, level (unless you are doing steroids). You probably are higher than 16% and more like 18%. Since you are at the end of the bulk, and it is summer now, lean down (while still working out), and go to 190-195lbs max. At that level you will start looking athletic/chisled. Dress really well, and work on your social game. Also, keep in mind, that given your race most white girls will not want to date you (many are willing to freak with black dudes, but not… | /r/askTRP | 09/07/18 01:41 AM |
| 0 | A coworker tried to push me aside in front of my boss and I confronted her. Did I do the right thing?"My coworker is a PM at my company but she's failing miserably at her job. I'm a team leader, so we are not exactly above each other, but equals" -- NO, you are above her. Keep that in mind. PMs are easily replaceable, and often not that useful. If you are a good tech lead, you are much more valuable to the company and you word is more important, and act like it. Internalize that shit: You are more valuable to the company. Don't let some idiot push you around. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/18 01:08 AM |
| 2 | Evolutionary role of handsomeness?Symmetry, both in the face and the body, height, and proportions (the V shape), are the most important parts. They are markers of "health" and genetic fitness that can't be faked, and an indicator that your babies are more likely to survive and become successful. Even 3 months babies stare longer at symmetric faces, which indicate that it is a 'innate' desire and humans are born to value it highly. Same reason that men value women with large chest, and a certain hips/waist ratio. They measured t… | /r/askTRP | 13/05/18 07:35 AM |
| 3 | What is the body fat percentage women find the most attractive?Easy, 12%-14% - during the winter (on a slow bulk) 11% - 12% - during the summer, (the point where your biceps veins are visible, and abs are starting to show, but not ripped). I have been once sub 10% and it was not worth it. Felt weak, smaller, and my libido shut down. If you are 6'0, have some decent muscle, and have been working for a couple of years, and natty, it is about 180 lbs, ad or remove 5 lbs for every inch in difference: 6'1" - 185lbs 6'0" - 180lbs 5'11" - 175lbs 5'10" - 170 lbs ..… | /r/askTRP | 01/05/18 10:12 PM |
| 4 | What are your best go-to's to instantly level up your attractiveness?If you get acne time to time, buy a Neutrogena Skin Clearing Blemish Concealer. I wish I had learned about this a while ago. Any spots, acne, and small blemishes are instantly concealed, plus it has some medication in it. It works like magic: https://jet.com/product/detail/59d5b80136fe434b97ac497839f323e3 Pick the right color (either fair, or light, for white guys). I can see why women like make-up so much. It instantly improves your SMV + 1, and your confidence by 1+ points. I used to fret the … | /r/askTRP | 16/04/18 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Why do women like dudes who are shacked up? I told my female coworkers that I’m taken, and now they treat me like a completely different person. So much nicer to me and even flirtatious. Even when they’re not flirting, they just show more respect.Yo, a lot of people will tell you "pre-selection", and I disagree.... If you said you are married, you are seen as 'safe' as probably will not try to jump on her/ask her out as soon as she is being nice or having a conversation as most guys do. I am in my 30s, and I truly understood this once I maxed my SMV. I have a different problem, where girls (in group settings . (think team sports, or work) would start develop crushes on me. And yes, this was from girls that I didn't want to really date an… | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 03:58 AM |
| 6 | LTR had some swinger gang bang dream.You should learn this: Shockingly high rate of women have a dream of being gang banged, run the train on them, or rape, or something like that... but for most women it is just a fantasy, and thats it. Some do cross into "let me try it" territory, but most keep it as fantasy and settle for the 'occasional; rough sex romp/spanking on the bed. Don't fret, have a rough sex/spanking session time to time.... there is a reason 50 shades of grey become such a popular book so fast. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/18 03:43 AM |
| 2 | If you were in your early 30s and wanted to find an LTR, would you focus more on women in their early 30s or much younger?I am in the same position. Treat any girl younger than 26, as simply as a 'plate'. Don't spend too much resources/energy. Now there are plenty of early 20s, that are actually on the serious side and more mature, the fact is that life changes people, and in few years they might be a total different person, and just end it because they still can find another great guy. As for women between 26-31 you have to divide them into two parts: Mature/serious, still partying it up. The more serious types wi… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/18 06:13 AM |
| 2 | If you were in your early 30s and wanted to find an LTR, would you focus more on women in their early 30s or much younger?Best sex I have had was on a LTR.... banging random girls, or girls that you don't really care about, aka, 'plates', gets old after a while. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/18 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Most women that check me out have a husband/bf.I agreed, women can't keep a secret, unless they are a total sociopath. It is hard ingrained in them, they have to share what's going on, otherwise it "never happen" and they never feel satisfied about it, unless they shared it . This includes both glam things posted on instagram, and shitty things they did as well (usually told to their friends, which will proceed to tell other people as well). For a woman keeping a secret and not telling, is just as hard as an addict trying to stay away from a… | /r/askTRP | 21/03/18 08:52 PM |
| 2 | Best friends with a celebrity..?Most people that "make it", (i.e. become rich, or famous), will value their early friendships, and consider them to be "true friendships". The only problem is that most normal folks get jealous/envy takes over, and they have a hard time keeping a friendship with someone that became much more successful than them. If you can keep your envy at bay, try to connect your friend. It will only benefit you, and treat him the same as you would as if he wasn't famous. Ps. I had a couple of friends become … | /r/askTRP | 21/03/18 08:46 PM |
| -5 | What's with the hate for videogames?My point is that successful people did play videogames occasionally, even when they were not successful/nobody's. It is not like: You can do fun things (like playing videogames), only when you are successful. Fuck, ELON MUSK wrote one when he was a kid. Everything in moderation, that's the key. Enjoy the journey.... as there is no real destination. Once you reach a place, there is always another top to climb, but enjoying it doing it is the key. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/18 09:28 AM |
| -9 | What's with the hate for videogames?I disagree with this "absolutist" view. Counterpoint: I know some very successful CEOs, that do occasionally play videogames to wind down. They are worth billions (unicorn startups, can't say more without giving up my identity). One of them does work out to boot, the other doesn't. Especially at tech startup. If the CEO/founders were engineers, guaranteed they play video games time to time to bond with their key employees. Also, Elon Musk plays as well, and he is the most successful entrepreneur… | /r/askTRP | 13/02/18 09:11 AM |
| 3 | Does money matter in attracting women and if so why?When I didn't have money, I hated doing 'fun' things, as those always, (apart picnics), cost money. With money, then came fun experiences, and more opportunity to meet women have fun, and get laid. So, yeah, money matters in: 1) Controlling your environment, getting yourself in best shape and healthy (living in a great apartment will make you more relaxed than living in a shitbox whole, with 3 annoying roomates) 2) Less stressed about bills, about little things that don't matter == less cortisol… | /r/askTRP | 13/02/18 05:52 AM |
| 0 | Major/minor vs double majoringMy barista has a philosophy major and now makes a whopping $15/hr, just staying. Go math, and learn statistics, programming and machine learning. Also, minor in philosophy. The only time that would be useful is if you try to go to law school. I had a friend in college that did double major in philosophy and comp. science, and guess what is paying the bills? Engineering, and not the mental circle jerk that is philosophy. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/18 05:37 AM |
| 1 | Would rather be big and muscular, but have some noticeable fat on you, or have smaller muscles and look lean?Agree, but: I found myself the 11% - 13% body fat range to be ideal. I look big in clothes, and lean at the same time. At 10% (while my abs were showing), I just looked too small with clothes on. Now that I am bulking, and reached passed 14% body fat, my face looks more round, lost the jaw definition and the attention from women has decreased a bit as well. TLDR: Stay at the 11% - 13% body fat range (i.e. at the level where you just starting seeing your abs, but not shredded either). | /r/askTRP | 09/02/18 06:34 AM |
| 5 | How do real TRPers make money?Three true red pill people i know: 1) Software engineer, does good enough (i.e. doesn't kill himself for the company), makes his money but has hobbies outside work. 2) Has his own business (modeling and construction), which takes a lot of his time, does more sports as hobbies. 3) Has is own business, european car repair shop. Not much hobbies outside work, but likes to party (and stupid girls unfortunately) From what I have seen, people with white collar jobs get either a 1) Cushy job (intention… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/18 05:03 AM |
| 2 | Guys with oval facesLower your body fat %, and the jaw will come out. I saw mine at around 13%, and it was awesome. Like the ones you see on TV, and when I i'd chew food the whole jaw would "pulsate" (from the muscles and lack of fat), and just look awesome. Currently bulking at around 14% reaching 15%, and the jaw definition disappeared and the roundness came back. Yes, I look "bigger" in clothes, but my face looks round/dull. I truly believe that the sweet spot is 11%-13% body fat for most men. At 14%+ you start … | /r/askTRP | 08/02/18 04:52 AM |
| 13 | Is "alpha-ness" (or beta-ness) determined genetically, or is it a learned feature?Mixture of both: George Washington was a total pussy when he was young. He was meek, got rejected by women, and all that. He learned leadership the hard way, and grew to eventually become the president and one of the founders of the USA. But, he still had great genes. Born in a wealthy home and he was super tall for the time (6 ft 2 in), making him imposing and one of the tallest presidents ever. So, yeah, being a leader/aka alpha is a mixture of: physical prowess, mental intelligence, and exper… | /r/askTRP | 04/02/18 07:38 PM |
| 2 | How do you get social status when you don't need to work (Financial Independence)?I call bs. on this question, if you are really wealthy than you must be smart enough to figure out Apart from looking good, working out, having a decent place, making friends, playing sports, etc, those are the basics. Start clubs: Literally club, environmental clubs, dancing club, etc.... anything that is an co-ed activity Start your own charity foundation (find a good cause), throw fundraising parties, etc.... have a "Founder of X Charity Foundation", business card, and call it the day. Your j… | /r/askTRP | 01/02/18 06:51 AM |
| 3 | Non-American redpilled men, how hard was unplugging for you?From the Balkans here as well, lived in the US since I was a teen, so 80% americanized. I always was a mix of alpha and a beta. The culture where I come from is naturally Red Pilled, in the female / male interactions. Men are more manly, and women are more "feminine". If they can move up in career, there are appreciated and treated like a man (i.e. for what value they can bring, and not because they are a woman), probably because of communism. So it is common to see women in good careers. If the… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/18 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Is the sexy son hypothesis presented by Prof. Richard Dawkins in the book Selfish Gene scientifically substantiated by now?The Red Queen (another book by a very famous anthropologist) mentions this: It is an integral feature of sexual reproduction (compared to asexual reproduction), where the female wants to acquire traits that other female find attractive as well. This will ensure that her male offsprings will be desirable as well and pass their genes on. In Peacocks this is shown with the female preference of certain colors, and feathers, even though those feathers hamper the male's agility and make him easier pre… | /r/askTRP | 19/01/18 07:55 AM |
| 21 | Estrogen in cows milk, better to switch to soy milk?Op, has a point. For thousands of years humans didn't inject cows with hormones to get larger and produce milk. Cows just pastured and ate grass. Now, they are confined, eat crap, and get injected hormones to produce more. All that stuff ends up in your body. Switch to organic milk OP. I noticed myself if I ate non-organic cottage cheese I'd feel like crap. Organic (at least in theory), shouldn't have the hormones. It is just more $$ | /r/askTRP | 12/01/18 08:18 PM |
| 1 | How bad of an idea are steroids?Steroids on a dude are like fake tits on a chick.... If you have decent hormonal profile and have some muscle steroids are not worth it. if you have some major deficiencies, then TRT might be.... You need to work on your confidence, and see why do you think you really need it. Is risking your hormonal profile worth the some extra attention you will get? Flip the script. What do you think of a girl with huge fake tits? Fuck her? Probably, date her, .... maybe not. If you are a girl with a B or a … | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Being dominant makes me feel uncomfortableLift more. Natural testosterone will make you want to be more dominant (and other people more submissive, if you get large enough). "Keep doing it until its no longer uncomfortable?" -- Yes. Don't force your self (i.e don't try to act like a gorilla day one), but keep doing/repeating small assertive things it until it becomes second nature and you don't think about it. Think when you learned to ride the bike, or drive a manual car. It feels "unatural" and very uncomfortable at the beginning, but… | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Lifting Routine Advice"Bro splits are for steroid users." -- Not true, actually the opposite is true. If you are an intermediate or advanced natural lifter, bro splits is the best way to go. Try doing deadlifts everyday/workout. You are on the way to snap town. Each muscle group generally needs 48hrs to recover (72hrs for for legs). If you are steroid user, that recovery can come faster, and actually full body workouts are better for *roiders and not natural lifters. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/18 05:44 AM |
| 1 | What should a Red Pilled Man's week look like?Start joining clubs: I.e. co-ed sports (soccer, volleyball, doge-ball, whatever). Twice a week you should be doing something sporty+social. These groups usually hang out for happy hour/beers, and throw parties time to time. Then join at least one professional group. Whatever you are majoring in, or are working in, there are enough groups (meetup.com is a good resource) that throw meetups, networking, activities, hackathons...etc.. Make friends with these people. Don't just compete, but collabora… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/18 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Expats and Europeans - which EU countries are the most "guy-friendly"?Denmark (Copenhagen) or Holland (Amsterdam). Most people know english, the countries have good dating culture, and also first world living. Barcelona and Valencia are great cities (the only cities worth living in Spain), but the local girls would be a bit more standoffish (though they are less promiscuous). But, both cities get so much expats and tourists that you wont have trouble meeting people there. Knowledge of Spanish is a must. France is great also if you know french already. If you don't… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Bulking/cutting adviceYour body will start getting used to restrictive calories and you metabolism might start slowing down a bit, you end up doing less activities in general. It is good to pause a bit after few months of cutting. Remember, when you stop cutting and start bulking it is better to ease in. Maintain for few weeks first, then (very slowly). I.e. not more than 100-200cal surplus a day, start bulking. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Bulking/cutting adviceyeah, you need some muscle. I'd recommend to slow bulk until 195lbs, gain some muscle. On April start cutting. By the end of June you should be at 180lb -ish. | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Bulking/cutting adviceIt is going to take some time... you are still in stage 1. Since it is winter i'd recommend a slow lean bulk to 195lbs. Stay there for a bit, then starting on April cut down to 175- 180lbs for the summer. (Yes, that lean). Best plan: Lean bulk up to 195 until March. (you need some muscle, plus you have been cutting for too long) Maintain until the end of the March On April start cutting until you reach 175lbs (yes that lean). Don't buy any expensive clothes yet. Stay like that all summer until S… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 04:48 AM |
| 2 | What would you do if someone catcalls your gf?Say what? Are you 12? If somebody is catcalling a girl is with you, is also a disrespect to you, not just her... you are considered weak by these guys actions. What if it is your mom, or your sister? Tard..... | /r/askTRP | 03/01/18 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Anybody here try intermittent fasting?Keto is shit if you do sports. I tried and it hurt my performance (both in the gym, and in the field). I know somebody is going to point out ketogains, but really it only works for very very few people.... otherwise all steroid freaks that compete will be doing it, but they don't. Most people I know, tried it, and it switched back to normal (low-ish carb) diet. Also, the only success stories you hear is from fat lards: Lost 40lbs on Keto, and have 100lbs more to go.... my suspition is that it wo… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here take propecia?Seems you have made up your mind. Good luck on it, just in case you know what you are getting into: http://finasteridesyndrome.blogspot.com/ | /r/askTRP | 31/12/17 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here take propecia?Riiight.... I would have been one of those healthy 95% , because most studies follow folks for one year, and not for the very long term. 1 year had no side effect, it was the second time that they started. I had to move and needed a new prescription, so I didn't take it for two years. When I started it the second time, that's where things started. Gyno (aka man-boobs)., can be one of the side effects, and that is irreversible. I didn't get it, but many do. Give it a try, but if you see any sides… | /r/askTRP | 31/12/17 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Anyone here take propecia?Tried it twice. First time didn't have any sides, but the second time had major side effects. Stopped within two months, and the sides reversed (it took another month). But for some people out there, the sides might take longer to reverse. Not worth the risk. It really fucks up with your Test and DHT levels, which are key for a male's libido, erection, not accumulating fat, and not feeling depressing. Lost a relationship/girl when got on it. Yeah, you keep your hair, but if you can't get it up, … | /r/askTRP | 31/12/17 04:20 AM |
| 6 | You will never outlift a bad dietBad example. Hodge Twins do massive amount of steroids..... If you are natty you really need to bust your ass, but also have realistic expectations. http://nattyornot.com/top-10-fake-natural-bodybuilders-youtube/ https://encrypted-tbn0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:ANd9GcQCQxeiQSTkWug0bvHBpcwxGEE80l1lVJ2k00PGaxlQZk1F5Ncn | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/17 06:31 AM |
| -5 | Does GayLubeOil's (presumably ironic) flirtation-tactic here actually work?I disagree. His twitter account is very crude: https://twitter.com/GayLubeOil Scrolled for a bit: Looks like the posts of someone with mental issues. (similar to those cars that have 50 stickers behind their cars, either liberal or conservative, doesn't matter the content, it is the type of crude stuff they post). | /r/askTRP | 28/12/17 05:02 AM |
| 1 | What is trps view on giving gifts ?I gave no gifts to my family at all this year --- ALPHA AS FUCK In all seriousness, I started a business and have to time/money to spend on frivolous stuff. Told my fam. before-hands, expect nothing this year, they are fine with it. Plus girls usually like shopping, and gift giving is just another excuse (and hence they love giving gifts on xmass). If you feel buying something for your girl, (or family) just do it, it doesn't scream anything. What it screams BETA is trying to earn her affection … | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 06:42 PM |
| 4 | High smv/high social circle status guys, what's your take on cold approaching?I have successfully cold approached girls, but not the way you think (i.e. PUA style). It always started "serendipitously" and having something interesting or in common. Coffee place, I am working, she is reading a book and sitting close by. I wave at her, and ask what she is reading. Convo ensues. Different place, she is working on her laptop on some graphics. (looked like an app). Approached and asked what was she working on as it looked interesting Park, girl with a dog. Dog came by me and I … | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 09:20 PM |
| 1 | First serious girl after 2 years of slutsArtemis Dolgin Not defensive, realistic. If you do modeling for money, then you should have no problem getting good looking women in your life if this doesn't work out. If so, why are you here being insecure? Pathetic are the people that come here and exaggerate and claim numbers that are way off (220lbs, shredded, 8' penis, 6 plates on rotation, SMV 9.5, fucked 100 women by 19), while the reality is completely different. Being secure means not having boast outlandish stats. You might be saying … | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 09:05 PM |
| 1 | First serious girl after 2 years of slutsI’m 6 foot, 210 lean now Lol, you are full of shit. 210, you either are a fat fuck, or juicing up your eyeballs. No way you are modeling. Stop lying dude, it wont make your life better. I live in NYC, and the average 6' model (6' is kinda short actually, most are 6'1-6'3" range), sits around at a lean 165'-175'lbs, at 180lbs they are pushing it. Know people personally (both actors and real models). | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Need some clarification for LMS (looks, money, status) statements from TRP HandbookLook, the girl you will be dating wont be a SuperModel with a PHD in physics either.... She will be flawed in ways that might similiar or different from you, but at the end of the day for a relationship to be stable on the long term the guy has to be a tad better on average. Girls get offer for dick at all the time, and in order to stay put they have to value the guy that they have (look him with respect), and have an emotional bond to him. In most real scenarios guys outperform the women in one… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 10:23 PM |
| 3 | Woman who hates men, worth plating?Or declare it years after they break up / move on. I have seen it in real life. Friend breaks up with crazy girl, two years down the road she starts saying he was "abusive", where the opposite was true. I had enough insight on the relationship, and she basically acting out in public, berating watresses, etc... to know that was not the case. Projecting her flaws into the dude. OP, MAN HATERS HAVE MENTAL ISSUES. NOT WORTH IT! Stay away from crazy.... | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 10:12 PM |
| 0 | Women who flake on set datesIf a girl flakes out (with no reason, and doesn't respond) send something like this, and delete her number: "Well, that was pretty trashy/low class of you. I hope you find what you deserve in life." Ps. I have had only once a girl flake on me, and it turned out to be a legit reason. 9/10 they just are not feeling it, and this is their way to let you know. ie. She is not into you, don't spend any more thoughts on this disrespectful girl that is wasting your time. This is the case when you burn th… | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 11:13 PM |
| 7 | Confidence issues even when doing well in life, my LTR HB9 model partner becoming more disrespectful.As an older guy: This relationship is not going to last. Keep that in mind. It will run its course and it will end. You are both young, and figuring out what you want. So, enjoy as long as it last, but that means not letting her disrespect you, and you not doing things that you don't like to do just to please her. You have your shit together, and keep it like that. Probably going to meet more interesting people over time and find somebody that you like. Also, most models are dumb..... sorry to s… | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 11:04 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with mild autisum?One thing to remember: Social skills are learnable. It is a skill and the only way to get better is: Practicing. Being around people, being social, etc. You will see some of the patterns repeating over and over, and will get better to anticipate things. Same with dating/work etc. Don't force conversations, but small talk with people you encounter (i.e. less than 2mins), are good. One mistake Aspie-s do to start blabber/talk too much as soon as somebody is giving them a ear, go deep into technica… | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 12:54 AM |
| 2 | Regaining my employment, is pride my enemy?"Currently also fighting for back-pay So If I admit to something just to get job back, I may not be re-imbursed for the time I was unemployed." -- Why do you think it is a binary option? You can say: "I thought I was my right at the time when I did x", din't know it will cause so much trouble. I will agree that I was wrong, and it wont happen again if: 1) I'd like to be re-imbursed for the two weeks of back pay, and 2) re-employeed. If you can clarify the policy on X, then I will make sure it wo… | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 12:41 AM |
| 2 | What do i do when an Ex says i am a rapist?Say: "She is so unstable/odd. I had to get a lawyer to send her a sieze and desist to cut out the crap/lies. " Move on. Don't say "Crazy", but say "she has issues". For some reason girls get defensive on the "crazy" term. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/17 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Escalation at a coffee shop?Just fine, but make sure to start the convo on a real topic. Eg. the girl is reading something you recognize, or she is working on some graphics on her laptop, etc... (what are you working on?, a good starter). Never do cold approaching PUA stuff on a Coffee Place, as it will backfire. If she digs you, she will keep the convo going, otherwise she will just keep it "friendlly", but short. Disengage and keep doing what you were doing. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/17 07:28 AM |
| 4 | She invited me for coffee on her lunch break(engaged woman). How should i proceed?Permabulker spotted. Unless you are doing roids, and have Arnold’s physique, at 6’ 175-185lbs is the sweet spot for the best lean and muscular look. If you are not doing roids, then at 200lbs you are just a fat fuck and on denial of it. Iggor is 5’11” and 174lbs in this pics https://pbs.twimg.com/media/C7H8NcDU0AAlk5v.jpg https://scontent-sea1-1.cdninstagram.com/t51.2885-15/s480x480/e35/c135.0.809.809/17932494_1413424938722143_3929429905112039424_n.jpg?ig_cache_key=MTQ5NDMyNTA5MDczMjgxODMzNQ%3D%… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/17 11:05 PM |
| 10 | Who else finds the permanent attention seeking that women do hilariously cringe worthy?That's the female version of "addiction". The male version is usually either Video Games, or Porn addiction. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/17 01:35 AM |
| 3 | Attracting Women by AccidentNature at work. I work at coffee places time to time. Every time I am dressed really well, and sit on the window, you see girls walking by, stopping "kinda checking out the place", backtracking and getting in the coffee place. Some of them will sit close by even if there are other places empty. When I am dressed like shit, (unkept/unshaved), it doesn't happen. Girls, are like that naturally, but I learned that they are more attracted when there are conversation between people. A huge part of the… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/17 01:29 AM |
| 5 | How the hell do you beat this depression???Let me take a stab at this: You seem depressed. You need to start having positive interactions with other people (both guys and girls). Since you have money, do this: Sign up for co-ed soccer/volleyball/whatever sport you like. At least 2 days a week, your evenings should be sport. Sign up for a dance class. (your therapist is right on this one). Make it a point to do some activity every week (happy hour with friends), or go see a new gallery, etc... So, 4 days every week you should have some po… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/17 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Given how TRP seeks truths, at least in theory, I have a very important question: are male multiple orgasms fake news, or has anyone actually achieved that mastery?No, fake news. You can edge out (i.e. almost to the point of orgasm, and it feels like it), and stop, and do it again, but full multi orgasms (with ejaculation) are impossible. If you can prove it, then you might change science.... | /r/askTRP | 18/12/17 08:33 AM |
| 2 | At which age is mens physical/looks peak?32-34 - ish, depends on your genes and how well you take care of your self..... definitely not in your 20s That's Gerard Buttler at 34: https://i.pinimg.com/236x/97/cb/8c/97cb8c2af980d1dc38e77d550629b48b--longer-hair-gerard-butler.jpg At 38: https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/originals/00/8f/82/008f824227b70d664f7c76e513960d9a.jpg Of course, past your late 30s, it is a steady slow decline, but a man's peak is definitely not in their 20s. They still look too "boy"-ish at that age | /r/askTRP | 17/12/17 01:21 AM |
| 9 | LTR moved country for me, has no money and just left because of a fightDon't leave yet..... make sure she is ok She is your ex-gf from now on. This is a major red-flag, she can't control her emotions | /r/askTRP | 17/12/17 12:48 AM |
| 5 | Unable to escalate dates into hookupslol, the most trailer trash advice I have heard... how old are you? High SMV girls usually have a line of guys (especially if they are online), and not dying to jump in the first cock available to them. It is hard to escalate in a coffee date. If things are going well, do VERY LIGHT kino (i.e. touching), and propose somewhere else (i.e. a bar) close by. It is winter, so say: Hey, lets go to BAR x, they have hot drinks, cider, mullet wine, etc.... If she is game, she will come. If she is on the f… | /r/askTRP | 17/12/17 12:40 AM |
| 7 | Need advice - hostile work environment created by female coworkersAlso, communicate in WRITING..... Send an email to your supervisor and HR about the situation first, then talk in person, so when shit comes to shove you have proof of prior girls trying to manipulate/fake a situation. IN WRITING MOTHERFUCKER.... <- Can't emphasize this enough. It has saved my ass in sticky situations *female co-worker playing games with the code review process, and trying to paint me as the evil blocker, while the opposite was true.... | /r/askTRP | 17/12/17 12:29 AM |
| 2 | 18m/ i just shaved my head because of balding, and shit tests are FLYING in+1 on the beard..... perhaps not a full one, but light past 5o clock shadow will make the OP look manly | /r/askTRP | 16/12/17 01:22 AM |
| 4 | Does dating more conservative leaning woman makes any difference?Nope. My last ex was conservative, educated, quiet/shy type, and guess what? I was her "chad", that she branch swung from her ex bf. After a year, she lined up somebody else and did the same. Maybe will do the same to her current bf. Just saying. Women be women. Crazy girls can be both conservative or liberal. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/17 06:49 AM |
| 2 | Abs after 40?You look smaller with clothes, and you feel less strong (and probably are weaker). Your face looks a bit more gaunt, and depending on your genetics, it doesn't look great on some people At 12% bf, you are still lean and your body your body looks a bit more fuller, and your face looks shinier (it has a tiny bit amount of fat inside, instead of none). It really depends on the person's genetics | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Abs after 40?36 yo, here. Abs are overrated. Stay at 12%, (where you have a flat stomach, and you can see some abs, in the right lighting/flexing). I did reach about 10% BF, and I could see my abs, but the rest of my body felt 'small', and with clothes on I did not look impressive at all. Plus, staying at 10% BF was a total mindfuck and affected my work performance and soccer performance. I was fighting with my body to stay at that level. I went back at 12% -ish, and I am much happier now. I can see my abs w… | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 09:24 PM |
| 3 | Save money and travel? Or Stay in school broke as fuck?You can travel anytime anywhere. Nowdays a trip to Europe (TAP, or WOW airs, or some other cheap, is only $600). I have done months of traveling between jobs, and the OP can as well, without having to deal with school issues. Unless the OP was doing a serious internship, (that would boost his resume), taking a semester off to travel will not benefit him as much in the long term. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 08:47 AM |
| 2 | Save money and travel? Or Stay in school broke as fuck?STAY IN SCHOOL. You will have plenty of opportunity to travel in your 20's. I am serious. I have done months in between jobs in Europe. (hostels, and other cheap accommodations, etc). | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 08:44 AM |
| 1 | What particular social and psychological skills do men surpass females in?Read this: http://www.denisdutton.com/baumeister.htm | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 08:39 AM |
| 4 | Why is there a sudden increase in the number of women in asktrp?Your version, Let me give you some conservative values: Religion = Textbook Blue Pill thinking Man the main provider == Alimony Pro Life / Ban Abortion == Child support How is being conservative any better in TRP? It is the same think as being a libertard, just different side of the coin | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 09:51 PM |
| 5 | Why is there a sudden increase in the number of women in asktrp?STFU, I am liberal and I am here, and I am good looking (and yes, jacked) Liberal vs. Conservative has nothing to do with TRP | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 09:39 PM |
| 3 | Is religious conversion the same things as being pulled into someone else's frame?Believing in a religion is being pulled into somebody's else frame, in this case some dude that died thousand's of years ago and his followers: Eg. Christian = Jesus' frame Muslim = Muhamed's frame Buddhist = Buddha's frame Hindu = Bunch of other gods frame (aka Shiva and his pals) etc, etc... once you realize that religions are man made inventions, and ways of humanity describing: 1) reality around you 2) "the right way" to live by accepting a religion you do fall in a group's frame, and reject… | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Do chicks tell their chick best friends about fucking you?^ Gamma male spotted If you are actually good, they will brag to their gf., and you will know when you meet her gfs. They will literally think you are some Uber chad, if you do well in bed (even if you don't look like one outwardly), and they will hit on you a lot. (they can't help it). It is suprising, but for women it is harder to know if a guy is going to be good or not in bed. Even some guys that are in shape can be lacking down there in size, or they suck in bed, etc, etc.... Guys have it e… | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Playing Sports (Alongside Women), Request For How To Handle.You are way overthinking this I play lots of co-ed sports, and I play soccer teams. One of my teams is female dominated (the original capitan was a girl), the other is male dominated (more alpha guys on the team, and girls are followers). Might as well call the team the "Chad-sters". Guess what? The male dominated one is more organized (self organized actually), and the female one less organized. The male one is kicking ass, the female one is loosing most of the games..... BUT, the female one is… | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 01:26 AM |
| 4 | Why does TRP love Brazilian Jiu Jitsu so much?From my observation BJJ is a upper 'blue collar' sport, (meaning folks that do well in life, but have in general blue collar jobs, or entry level white collar jobs). I have yet to see successful people that practice it. (from my three friends that I know that practice it, none are "high" tier males). Also, from my limited observation, two of the friends/co-workers that practice it seem to have emotional issues, and BJJ seems to make them feel alive. I think TRP's demographic is within the crowd … | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 12:50 AM |
| 3 | How to deal with being surrounded by guys who are better lookingon the other hand I do notice what some other men do better, and try to learn from them Eg. worked in tech, and all engineers would dress like shit, while Sales dudes would dress really well. (as it is their job), and they would be very social/have good communication skills, even though some of them were not smart at all. Basically they were the classical "Chads" described here. (the sales girls were more like sorority types). It is hard not to feel a bit more "inferior" socially, but then they … | /r/askTRP | 08/12/17 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Is american university worth it for STEM and economics?YES, and by STEM I mean Computer Science, or any applied sciences... if you are good it is a sure path to 6 figures, while most of your liberal studies friends will be struggling for jobs, and some will be your barista in the future. You can double major, in Econ and CS, but keep CS as your future primary breadwinner field. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/17 06:13 AM |
| 4 | How do you guys deal with the rich/successful man fallacy when it comes to women?Not as successful as you (i.e 200k engineer here), but I have dated the type.... (I live in NYC and there are plenty of girls like that). My advice: Filter harder earlier, don't show your money, and especially date girls that are successful themselves, i.e. they make their own money and can keep up with activities.... Most girls that have moved up in their careers are the "go getters" types, they usually don't wait around for a guy to treat them, but have their own lives, hobbies, etc... and tha… | /r/askTRP | 03/12/17 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Why is this sub generally against those who say looks don't matter?No, but word got around.... if you are in a trip together, and you go together after an after party at the guy's hotel room, it doesn't live up much for imagination. Three hottest girls of the company had been with him, and one of them was openly dating him at some point (she was 25-ish, he was 40), and had one of the other confirmed from couple of different people And I know as one of these girls was my One-itis, the "sweet" beautiful snowflake that brought me here.... | /r/askTRP | 02/12/17 09:44 PM |
| 6 | Why is this sub generally against those who say looks don't matter?It is always poor chumps that think making 75k / year is really good that say this. Wealth absolutely gets you into places where you can meet the top tier women (9+), in social settings. E.g. your average $200 a plate fundraiser. No broke asses there, and hot women that have the means and smarts know and flock to events like these. My last party at the Hamptons was an eye opener. Some of these women make lots of money themselves (ie. 200k +) as they work in finance, yet they couldn't resist the … | /r/askTRP | 02/12/17 08:16 PM |
| 3 | My girlfriend disclosed to me that before I started dating her she didn’t find me attractive. Once I started gaming her she realized that everyone else is missing out."How would you deal with a shit test like this?" -- Say something like: "I didn't like you that much at the beginning either, but I kept going I was kinda horny, and I liked your personality as well...." Flip it around | /r/askTRP | 02/12/17 08:03 PM |
| 1 | What the fuck is wrong with me?naw dude, that's just rtp fiction. It doesn't happen/never seen in real life. One of the times that I basically had a girl fall on my lap (and fuck 30 mins later), was at a dorm in college. Her roomate was friends with my roommate, and she had stalked the shit out of me for weeks before that happen. Random girl that you just met during the day? Never, unless it was at a bar, and she was DTF, and there was alcohol involved, and you happen to be lucky at the right place right time, even that is mo… | /r/askTRP | 01/12/17 01:02 AM |
| 1 | What the fuck is wrong with me?Engineer here, Can't you make friends at work? Some of my best friends are folks that I worked with (like even 10 years ago). We shared things in common, hanged out after work time to time, and over time paths intersected many times that we became friends. My other place of making friends was through playing lots of soccer. Been in some teams for few years, they invite me to things, parties, etc. If you can't make friends at work, then your attitude might be a problem. (you are closing yourself … | /r/askTRP | 01/12/17 12:53 AM |
| 7 | Fiance suddenly starts seeming very BPD like after pregnancy (insults etc)...do I need to eject?Pregnancy fucks up girls hormones 2. She might be depressed..... My suggestion is don't marry yet. Wait until the kid is born, then decide after a year, if things improve (if she is pushing for it now, push it back). Ah, and make sure the kid is yours first. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/17 05:37 AM |
| 7 | How difficult is it to improve your personality after mid 20s?Painful reminder of your old self.... When you feel down, or tired, just do a mental trip to your blue pill times, and the times when you got fucked hard, got disrespect, or used.... or fucked up good things by being an idiot.... once that reminder washes off, you are back into: not going back that, full steam ahead mode... | /r/askTRP | 30/11/17 05:33 AM |
| 2 | Ideas to get out of the house more often and meet women?It is the same reason that PUA types strike out and can't lay on mediterranean places like Spain, Italy, Albania, (France might be an exception). People stay within their own groups, and tend not to be approachable to random strangers... The only way to break through this barrier is through social game. These countries have strong social scene, people basically going out and hanging out at cafes, chatting, etc.... (while in western countries, people usually go alone in coffee shops and do work).… | /r/askTRP | 27/11/17 10:15 PM |
| 8 | what should you do if you get IOIs but she's playing hard to get? I say playing like she's doing it with a smile on her face when she tries to be evasive while I try to escalate asking outYep, totally agree, the rule of "twos" is golden. You can have a girl balk up to a date offer (wrong timing, bad mood, getting over an ex, menstrual cramps....), whatever. But if asked again few weeks later, at the right time she will go out with you and fuck your brains out. (it has happen to me). But when she does it twice, consider it as permanent. She IS NOT INTO YOU. Move on, and don't spend a single second of thought on this girl. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/17 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Should I delete oneitis from facebook?At least Hide her/unfollow her, so you don't see her posts and move on with your life. | /r/askTRP | 26/11/17 12:26 AM |
| 1 | At what age men are regressing physically?32-ish .... You can safely pull 22 all the way to 40 girls.... Widest range. Depending on your genes, hair, sunscreen/taking care of your self it can be anywhere between 28 - 34 Some people peak early (and look like shit later), some people loose their chubby cheeks/baby fat in their late 20s/early 30s, and look more manly and attractive then. I know I am one of them. Same with girls. Some girls look their best in their early 20s, but start looking like shit by mid 20s, while there are some girl… | /r/askTRP | 26/11/17 12:10 AM |
| 2 | At what age men are regressing physically?36 here, my best shape. I was expecting for my strength in the gym, or soccer performance to decline, and it is the opposite. Lifting just as strong at my peak, but lower body fat, and being one of the best soccer players in my team (s). On the other hand: 1. You slow down a bit. It takes a bit longer to recover from nights going out. Reduced drinking capibility. You really feel like trash the next day if you overdo it (that means more than 3 drinks). Hair is thinning out a bit, but still ok. Ri… | /r/askTRP | 25/11/17 11:56 PM |
| 3 | An "interesting woman with a brain."Do you realise that in the TRP there are a lot of guys that haven't gone to college, or have any kind of real career? Of course the education of the woman wont be important, as long as she cooks and cleans, and is hot, or whatever.... The truth is that all high value people want a classy girl that is down to earth at the same time. Cooking: take out, blue apron, whatever else is covered. Cleaning? I have a maid service, twice a month. Laundry, Flycleaners and other wash and fold services (the co… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/11/17 05:27 AM |
| 3 | I’m struggling with spinning platesI used to be like this, until I got true abundance mentality: aka, multiple high quality girls interested on me.... And I am like, how can I choose? Which one... better give them a try, all of them. Before maxing my SMV, dating high quality girls was very rare event, and I'd try to LTR them in a heartbeat (and never end up well). Not so anymore. Just a strong tip though: Don't tell her that you are dating / sleeping with other women, even if asked. Why some women love competition, some women jus… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Girl I'm talking to has a guy friend and is his kid's GodmotherCan't tell. I am a relatively high SMV guy, and when I was younger I had plenty of female orbiters. Often there are girls that I like the personalities, but just not attracted to pull the trigger and turn into something more. Usually they are attracted to me, and it is obvious. Not I have few "female light friends", as I realized women don't make easy going friends as dudes do, so when I notice a girl starts orbiting me, and I am not interested I stop it in the tracks before they develop major c… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 06:07 AM |
| 2 | Recently turned 30: changes in female attention. An I imagining things?The quality of attention I was getting increased with time... one thing I realized, independent of working out, dressing better, maxing out SMV, etc... you have a huge advantage over the older you: experience. You have been there, done that. You don't get dazzled easy anymore, things that will bother you don't phase you anymore, etc... these are things that make you look 'confident' and 'manly' even though you are not really 'trying' to it. It just comes natural. Yesterday I was telling my socce… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 05:53 AM |
| 4 | Recently turned 30: changes in female attention. An I imagining things?My attention peak was around 32-ish, then there is a steady decline (even my lifting is great). At some point you look a bit too old for 21y-24yo. And yes, there are 22 yo, that would date 35+, but they are less. On the other end of the spectrum, you are prime time for all women that are between 25-35 yo. But, as you pass 34, the overall size of your market shrinks. Some late 20/early 30s, get married, you have more 22yo that think that you are a bit too old for them, and there is the effect tha… | /r/askTRP | 22/11/17 05:46 AM |
| 3 | Terrified of womenBill Gates, The Google Guys (both of them), Zuckerberg (very mild), and most startup top engineers... (usually it is a mild form of it, aspergers), perhaps even Elon Musk. So, having mild autism/aspergers will not stop you into becoming a billionaire. If not that, at least a multi-millionare, or even a world leader. (Both Putin, and Angela Merkel are thought to be aspies). Here is a list: https://www.ranker.com/list/famous-people-with-aspergers-syndrome/celebrity-lists | /r/askTRP | 19/11/17 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys think motivation/discipline is a limited resource?That study has been debunked. https://hbr.org/2016/11/have-we-been-thinking-about-willpower-the-wrong-way-for-30-years "But recent studies suggest that we’ve been thinking about willpower all wrong, and that the theory of ego depletion may not be true. Even worse, holding on to the idea that willpower is a limited resource can actually be bad for us, making us more likely to lose control and act against our better judgment." I am the same, the more shit I get done, the more I want to keep it goi… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/17 06:50 AM |
| 16 | What does it look like when you're talking to a chick and the tingles are going off?Good list, I'd add Perk Up. If she is sitting down, and slouching a bit, she perks up when she sees you, and her body goes straight and her chest a bit more prominent (guys do this too). You "bump" on her a lot. (this if you are on a work, or classroom settings when you guys see each other frequently). Women are amazing stalkers. She knows details you have never shared to her. (she has googled the shit out of you). Amps up "girly" behaviors, especially if there is competition near by (other girl… | /r/askTRP | 16/11/17 05:02 AM |
| 7 | What does it look like when you're talking to a chick and the tingles are going off?but, women can feel the tingles and still reject you.... for many many reasons (i.e. peer pressure (girls in groups), cock blocking by her peers, work environment, she actually likes her bf, etc...) | /r/askTRP | 16/11/17 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever had any experiences that went against redpill teachings?Yep. He went in my gym, and paid for female trainers to "help" him out to train, even though he doesn't really need it. They just gave him company/encouragement, but thats it. So, yeah, paying for company. I think people that put him on the pedestal must be young folks that don't know better. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/17 07:08 AM |
| 8 | Are blondes preferred over brunettes because it's sort of a status symbol?Blondes are more attractive in their early 20s, but their looks fade faster. Brunettes in general retain their beauty for much longer. So, marry a brunette, but have a blonde mistress.... | /r/askTRP | 13/11/17 04:08 AM |
| 3 | [pics inside] Increased my SMV - not enough to get girls interested yet?Lovoo Dude, you keep mentioning "Tinder", just the fact that is very very location dependent. In NYC tinder has only ghetto and trashy people. OP needs a combo of both online/app and real life approach. OP has a ripped body, needs to wear tighter/cut/fit clothes, and needs to approach in a friendly way. Girls get nervous around high SMV men. He needs to start developing his social skills, and no Tinder wont help with that. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/17 12:44 AM |
| 14 | Just went and got myself rejected by my oneitisActually, "I will show her/the world" it is a good motivator/trigger to get started, after a year or two the OP will forget about his onetis, and reap the benefits of his improvements. Source me. I started my improvement after a rejection, and it was totally "I will show her" kind of scenario. Two years later, who cares about her, and now working out and self improvement are just a habbit/part of me. Rejections (either romantic, or professional) are powerful motivational triggers for major life … | /r/askTRP | 10/11/17 12:36 AM |
| 2 | Practical tips for improving conscientiousness?Psychology books will tell you that conscientiousness is a stable trait throughout life, and i totally disagree... I have managed to turn around from a semi-hard working/semi slacker (depending on my mood), into a full efficient disciplined machine.... I have seen in my life plenty of "potheads" and people doing nothing with their lives turning things around 180%, also have seen hard working folks turning into slob messes.... While there is a truth that most hard working folks tend to stay like … | /r/askTRP | 09/11/17 05:10 AM |
| 3 | Practical tips for improving conscientiousness?Make good habbits one by one.... How? Pick one thing that you need to change: eg. Keep my place clean.... Start doing that. That's your goal from now on.... do it for a couple of months at a row, and it becomes a habbit... it becomes like an automatic reflex and you don't think much about it Then switch to the next goal: Eg. be on time for things.... that's your number one goal to improve yourself. Challenge yourself not to be late into things, class, appointments, etc.... even for things that a… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/17 05:05 AM |
| 5 | What aspect of TRP do you guys currently think is incorrect or incomplete?Chill. Forgot your meds today? I think the OPs question is valid. I am a long time TRP reader and contributer and have some issues with some of things they get sprouted in here (usually by young 20 somethings). | /r/askTRP | 06/11/17 04:49 AM |
| 2 | How do I know if a girl is into me or not?Once I maxed out my SMV I found out some girls become very very shy, and almost comes off as dissinterest.... Introverted girls are kinda like betta dudes, they more sensitive and tend to get nervous quicker in contact with a guy they find very attractive.... some of it comes as obviously nervous, which is cute, but sometimes it is the shy/withdraw type It is similar like betta dudes shoot themselves in the foot around hot chicks due to nervousness I'd say the "assume she is attracted to you" un… | /r/askTRP | 06/11/17 04:43 AM |
| 0 | Is college life in America actually like the movies?I went in school in a good state school in the South (not from there). Most of the College life is tame, but with moments of sheer insanity. I have been to "Mardi Grass" theme parties, where almost all women would flash their boobs, let you eat them (the boobs) for 'beeds', people gettting drunk, smoking up, etc.... Even the "good" or "religious" girls would often participate into these activities. (usually after lots of alcohol). Not everybody is getting laid left and right, some people get lai… | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 11:18 PM |
| 2 | At what age does money become a major criteria for women40,000 AUD -- Lol, come back when you have at least 4mil.... Almost every engineer in their late 20s I know has few hundred ks, in their banks. It does nothing to turn on women, Now, if you have few millions, that will change the equation. They will overlook your lack of fashion/looks/whatever else for it, but then you are just BB. Until then use that money to improve your self, save some of it, and invest/open a business with the rest. Women are turned on more by a successful person than money … | /r/askTRP | 03/11/17 11:12 PM |
| 9 | Does perfect posture eventually feel normal?Most bad posture is because of "slouching over a computer, or a smartphone, or books". Unfortunately, if you have a white collar job, or go to college you probably are slouching for hours and hours every day. Best way counter to this is to workout your upper back, (deadlifts, rows, pull ups, etc...). I noticed I had perfect posture, yet felt very natural when: I worked out my back intensely for few weeks.... I took a long vacation, traveling in different countries, and away from the computer... … | /r/askTRP | 01/11/17 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Learning how to codeLearn... and do a couple of projects (they can be simple things). You will earn respect if you become a PM at a tech company, and both some experience on how hard it is actually to get something good going | /r/askTRP | 31/10/17 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Speed dating events in NYC? How do you guys feel about these events?Been at a couple. Most women there are low value (think semi-trash bridge and tunnel, single moms, chubby girls etc).... there will be a couple of decent ones, but that's it Give it a try but have very low expectations. At least you will get plenty of experience on replying "what do you do, where do you come from... etc." over and over | /r/askTRP | 31/10/17 10:21 PM |
| 3 | How does one answer the question: "have you ever been in love?"?"Yes, three times" -- (or two), if you are younger. This should be your answer: Demonstrates, you have feelings Love is not that special and happens multiple times during your life, and even if you fall with her, she is just number 4, and replaceable and not some snowflake-unicorn | /r/askTRP | 30/10/17 08:30 PM |
| 5 | Six pack abs ?Good progress, but you don't have enough muscle.... my suggestion: Keep cutting until 150lbs.... you will not have a six pack, but gotten rid of more fat is better Start slow bulking for a good 5-6 months, (i.e. not more than 1lbs a week), until at least 165-170lbs. Start cutting, again slowly (not more than 1lbs a week), until 150-155lbs, you should start seeing a six pack (if you did your bulking right). If you don't, then repeat the process again, until you do. Remember, it takes 2 years for … | /r/askTRP | 22/10/17 06:47 AM |
| 1 | How to get less emotionally invested?ok bro, chill on the roids.... | /r/askTRP | 19/10/17 06:46 PM |
| 15 | Women don't know what they want, but they know what they don't want"She cheated on you with the chad from McDonald's even though You earn 500k a year? She cheated on chad with the skinny fuck even though chad was as ripped as Arnold Schwartzeneger? --- Lol, that's some good science fiction out there. Women that date high value men, want to fuck/cheat with other value men, not some loser and mcdonalds. (who by the way, are all fat, out of shape poor slobs). I have been the "chad/pool boy" guy twice, to older great looking women married to rich dudes. But guess, … | /r/TheRedPill | 16/10/17 06:06 AM |
| 3 | Existential CrisisFind new mission(s). Yes multiple.... When I was younger my mission was to have fun and experience new things (partying, traveling, etc). After that it become to get really good at my job. I did that, and got really good at my job but I neglected my body My next mission to get in top shape, dress well, and look good.... I did achieve that. My other mission is to get really good at soccer, and decent in volleyball. (Did the first, working on the second). My other mission is to start a startup. Do… | /r/askTRP | 15/10/17 07:46 PM |
| 14 | How should you act when you see a chick who ignored your messages?Just wave/acknowledge (like some barely known acquaintance) and ignore for the rest of the night.... Don't talk, don't strike a convo, and assume she doesn't exist or is not there for the rest of the night and talk to other people. The initial manly "wave, or nod" is important. It puts her in "I acknowledge you, but I don't care" tone. She is just a meaningless acquaintance Not doing that and acting like she is not there at all, is pretending. And basically trying too hard. Basically act like yo… | /r/askTRP | 12/10/17 05:34 PM |
| 2 | What age range is TRP dedicated to?I found it on my 30s and I wish I had found it earlier, but: Lots of comments and advice is given by young folks that still don't have real life experience yet, so take it with a grain of salt Advice given by people living in small towns or coming from a blue collar setting might not apply to folks in large cities and white collar environments, and vice versa So take everything here with a pinch of salt and consider the advice given here as just theory that needs to be proven in practice. And go… | /r/askTRP | 12/10/17 02:28 AM |
| 9 | I spent the last 10+ years imitating my friend's approach to girls, and finally realized that being me was the secret sauceI think "game" is overrated, (and I have said it before here), as it is a product sold by all kind of gurus that will gladly take your money and sell you some magical combos you can apply and get any girl. .. You have to remove self sabotaging behaviors (over anxious, talking too much, self deprecating talk, etc), and be social and talk normally, and some friendly touching, but that's it. .. As soon as you start feeling like you are putting a performance in front of a girl, stop and dial it down… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/10/17 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Losing weight has lowered my SMV?No fucking wonder. At 6'3" at 168lb-ish, you are skinny. Basically another tall skinny dude, which makes you about average (physical wise), and non-remarkable. I am 6'1" and I look the best at around 178lbs, (having both muscle and being cut, veiny at the same time) and attract the most attention. When I was at 168lbs I felt skinny as fuck and not remarkable. Sure, my abs were more defined, but I had less "presence", and personally felt physically weak. At my peak bulk I was 193lbs, and while I … | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Losing weight has lowered my SMV?How tall are you? | /r/askTRP | 10/10/17 04:35 PM |
| 9 | Are super alpha/dominant/serious people like Governor Mitt Romney (cuz he just seems like a perfect pack-leader example) actually silly and soft around their spouses, or are they always “on”?This is stupid and immature. He was a Republican Gov. in a blue state for many years, and a run up for pressident. This is like calling the guy getting a silver in the olympics as 'fagot'. Even just getting in the olympics it takes world class achievements and effort and you are better then 99.99% of the people out there. He absolutely is a alpha leader that went pretty far in his life. (btw I am a democrat) | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 04:22 AM |
| 3 | Are super alpha/dominant/serious people like Governor Mitt Romney (cuz he just seems like a perfect pack-leader example) actually silly and soft around their spouses, or are they always “on”?You really believe these stories? It is almost non true. That's just "humbling down" PR speech to make super competitive and / or greedy people look a bit more down to earth. I do work with startups and I know the internals of few of them, and what you hear in the news on "how it got started", it is always some feel good story/mission from the CEO/founders which is almost never the truth. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 04:16 AM |
| 4 | I always see some variant of "unless you have some facial deformity, this element of TRP will hold true." I got fucked in the birth lottery and that's me. Question(s) inside.You really have to excel in life, and have a great personality plus lots of achievements. It is a major setback but not a fatal one. You have to work on the long game though. It will be hard to meet and get a girl to like you within a club setting or a cold approach. Whatever you will get it probably will be from girls that you meet often during day activities (clubs, sport, work, school, whatever) Look at this guy, he got the unlucky draw as well: http://nymag.com/scienceofus/2015/07/terrible-a… | /r/askTRP | 09/10/17 04:05 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with my Mother after swallowing the Pill. Has anyone else had this issue?This is happen to me a while ago (overbearing mother, not that much different to the mom at "everybody loves Ray" show), and I was able to steer this in the right direction over time, but it wont be easy First, you need to be financially independent from your parents. Once you reach that, you can do whatever you want, then your next weapon is: "Withdraw affection.... " -- This is it. Your mom is giving you shit about why don't you have a gf, or x got married, why aren't you, simple say: "don't w… | /r/askTRP | 08/10/17 03:23 AM |
| 0 | I'm invisible. Fuck this.200lbs at 6 feet add 5lbs for every inch after that Where the fuck do you guys get these numbers? Unless the guy is juicing, or has high bodyfat %, he should be sitting at 180lbs, at 6ft. 200lbs and 6' tall, is just too much fat. (the only people that can reach close to that and are still lean are major juicers, and the OP needs to stay away from the needle). The OP has major confidence issues, as he has still have to get adjusted to the new reality. You should accept it, and learn to be self co… | /r/askTRP | 03/10/17 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Is game massively overrated?"from your logic, it doesn't matter what you do then. so you can dress like a slob, be fat and smell, say creepy shit, and she will still like you? i didn't think so" I am not saying that. That's not 'game' per se. Lifting, dressing well, taking care of your self, your career, your manners, your social skills are not 'game'. They are basics. Everyone should be maxing out their SMV, but after done that, and if your SMV is pretty high, trying to 'game' girls doesn't work. Being more natural you wo… | /r/askTRP | 01/10/17 07:42 PM |
| 3 | Is game massively overrated?yes, what I am saying in my post: When I tried to actively "game", it backfired. I had much more success when I was just being "me". That means that either my game sucks, or the "natural me" is more than good enough that trying to actively game actually backfires (think of the restaurant ushers example). Being yourself (the best version of it), is more attractive than trying to be something else. Also, my experience jives more with the advice given on "Models" by Mark Manson. You can say the sam… | /r/askTRP | 30/09/17 11:27 PM |
| 3 | How does a woman go 38 years of her life with only having 1 year as the longest committed relationship she has had?This. She is probably an escort! I dated one (briefly), without knowing she was one. Here are signs: Thin, beautiful, hitting the wall, liked "nice" things, decent job, but her wardrobe/clothing were too expensive for what she made, lots of cash (paid things in cash), etc. She had two friends, one of them looked like a former stripper, with a "hr job" the other one more normal. This started giving her away. They would share each other locations, to know they were "safe", etc, and she would go ou… | /r/askTRP | 25/09/17 08:06 PM |
| 6 | Ego problem: got promoted, and I’m now in charge of a lazy woman. She needs hand holding. Should I bury my ego or fight this?This, start building a case, then fire her ass if she is this useless... Are you actually her manager? Or just a "team lead", (i.e. leading a project, but the people don't necessary report directly to you). Hard question: If she was a guy, at that level, would he be fired if he didn't improve? If so, then you should fire her. Give her a chance, and if she doesn't improve be prepared to let her go. Go to your boss's boss, and ask for outright firing her, or you will refuse to be her manager | /r/askTRP | 24/09/17 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Do you get severe nausea if you immediately lower your daily carbs from 200g to 100g?If your body is reacting to this badly, then don't. What is your TDDE? Keep in mind that Keto is not easy and it doesn't work for every one. You can easily lose weight without having to do keto. 200g of carbs is about 800 calories. Assuming you need at least 120g of protein, thats another 480-500 calories. 50g of fat is about 450cal, so you are at 1750cal. If your TDDE is 2200 calr, then thats a 450 cal deficit, more than enough for a healthy weight loss without having to sacrifice your daily en… | /r/askTRP | 24/09/17 07:30 PM |
| 2 | At what age is it considered socially unacceptable for men to go clubbing in NYC, LA, Chicago, DC and SF?35 NYC, 40 SF, No matter what your SMV is, at some point you will just looking too old in a crowd of 23 - 25 yo. If you bring your company, (girls), than it doesn't matter. Heck, I sent once even my parents in their late 60s to a club, (when we were visiting, Las Vegas), but that's not necessary what you are asking. If you are going by yourself, or just a buddy, it seems that there are natural age limits. And no, mad SMV and game will not make up for it. On the other hand I have a friend that we… | /r/askTRP | 23/09/17 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Cold showers nothing special?Yeah, breaking your leg will teach you to appreciate having fully functional legs that you can walk and run, but it is not necessary a good thing for you ad it ultimately doesn't make your life better.... Same shit with having a cold/flu. You feel like shit for few days, but when it goes away you start feeling "alive" and full of energy. It is a great euphoric feeling for a day, but that's it. I wouldn't recommend people having a flu (days of misery), just to have one day of feeling alive again.… | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Cold showers nothing special?Cold showers are another internet bro-science fad. Again, they are cultures (finish for example) that think that being trained to cold is a good thing, and they even let their babies outside (fully clothed obviously) to get them trained as it is healthy. But, Finish people love hot saunas.... They have a sauna every fucking where. While I think it is fine to do the cold shower thing, just don't do it every day because you heard it in some internet forum. It is stupid. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 07:22 PM |
| 6 | Plated a rich girlYou are her temporary chad and enjoy it. Don't get too attached, as you are both too young and the economic disparities will surface at some point. My advice: Enjoy, it is fine to do a LTR with a rich girl, don't get wrapped too much into the money aspect (i.e. don't feel insecure or try to make up for your lack of money compared to hers), but don't get too attached as it will end. I have dated rich girls... at then end they all want to marry other rich dudes. It is what it is. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/17 07:18 PM |
| 2 | For the love of God can someone please explain to an autistic more about frame?You have to realize that having/holding frame == strong boundaries You can think of them as equally interchangeable. Some people equal having frame and being an asshole, but that's not the case. You can be very polite and have a strong frame. I think it actually makes you a better person overall and people around you benefit more. Frame means doing things that you like to do, and that they are completely reasonable according to customs. Real world Examples: 1 Guy at a coffee place asks me to "wa… | /r/askTRP | 19/09/17 09:01 AM |
| 0 | Sex more trouble than it's worth?you must be young... ghetto girls and trailer trash women have kids outside marriage all the time. Most quality (i.e. smart women), don't | /r/askTRP | 18/09/17 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Sex more trouble than it's worth?Jesus, it is not. It is "Know what are you getting into" before doing it as they are major risks, and don't get into marriage/ltr without having learned the "abundance mentality" first Plenty of people will say "don't get married", but there are plenty other that want to get get married to have a stable home if they want to raise successful kids.... (which is the only real reason to get married). Btw, while I am not a parent, I have tended my nieces time to time, and let me tell you, seeing and … | /r/askTRP | 18/09/17 09:02 PM |
| 9 | How to confront an asshole."texted her from behind cover that I was a player and she needed to get tested for stds" -- Is that true? I mean do you really have that reputation, if not, then you really have to confront this fucker. Forget about the girl, this is a matter for your reputation. I would not tolerate someone like this. (especially the STD rumor thing), as yes, it will scare quality girls away. The mature way to do it: Approach your acquaintance and get this guy's infromation/address. Tell your acquaintance that … | /r/askTRP | 18/09/17 08:40 PM |
| 0 | Anyone still use dating apps?I live in NYC, Tinder is super getto, avoid it. Bumble is a waste of time for a guy, OkCupid is similar as well Hinge is a dying app There is only one app that I have gotten some decent dates from, but it is a bit more longer term oriented Bottom line: if you want to meet quality people start going out and meet/talk people in person | /r/askTRP | 18/09/17 08:28 PM |
| 1 | What to say when she says "I'm beautiful, right?""Yeah, you are cute" - just say this while keep doing what you are doing. I she looks distressed by the answer, means it was a comfort test and not a shit test. Just look her in the eye and say "I think you are really cute, why else would I date you." Give a kiss and move on. To girl, being "called cute" is translated to "you are barely good enough for me". It will make her work harder for you. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/17 09:10 PM |
| 4 | Question for fellow guys.Going to chime in on this, as I am probably a bit older than you (35). What you find attractive in a person shifts with time, and there is a huge difference between just "looks" and overall person. To pure "fucking" 22-26 is the age range I find the most attractive (younger girls look like children too me). But when it comes to actual holding a convo, and having things in common, and being able to relate to each other I like the 28+ crowd much better. (this is even for my male friends as well). … | /r/askTRP | 11/09/17 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Is game basically Acting?Every-time I felt I was gaming and acting for a girl, 9/10 never got her. Every-time I am more natural around a girl, chances that she will develop a crush on me increase exponentially. I have wondered why, and my hypothesis: When gaming hard, it comes like acting aka: trying hard, and it puts the girl in the pedestal, and she looks down on you. If she feels like she is below your SMV by far, it will come as you are trying to score a quick one.... depending on the setting, she will clamp down. I… | /r/askTRP | 09/09/17 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Need some advice regarding staying in engineering"TD;DR I hate engineering and physically can't do it anymore. I want to know what else I could do. While still increasing SMV." You sound like a lazy fuck.... good luck finding an entry level job that doesn't require to be "physical" in some sense. You don't have to worry about SMV, you have to worry about your future ability to put food in your table for yourself first. See if you have undiagnosed ADD. If you really feel you are not cut for engineering, move to something else, but finish colleg… | /r/askTRP | 06/09/17 11:39 PM |
| 4 | Can you reach alpha level while working in IT field?You can. Your profession doesn't dictate your love life. But, you have to moderate your macho-alpha qualities at work. Can't go all bro-ey as you probably work with a lot of introverted folks that will sneer at it. Outside of work, do whatever. Sports, basketball, rock-climbing, partying, whatever you feel like doing.... make sure to do things that are social, as as an engineer your social skills are probably not used that much day to day. They are skills that need nurturuing. But for the sake o… | /r/askTRP | 05/09/17 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Alienated everyone in my lifeI dumped my ex and she aligned all my friends against me. How in the fuck does that even happen? Your friends are yours, if she can do this then they are not your friends. I bet you are the guy that brings his gf. with everything they do socially. I don't think it is a smart thing to do. I have learned that it is better to keep your romantic partners and your friends at a arms length distance. If there are breakups, it doesn't fall out to your social circle. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/17 08:35 PM |
| 5 | Went on some dates...Yeah, I agree. The OP needs to take it easier. I have friends that overly do the negging and cocky funny, to the point that they either come: 1) Intense, where everything she says is taken as a shittest to be squashed, and 2) Trying too hard, and not relaxing enough It is like the male equivalent of the bitch shield, but it is more of an "ego shield". Counterproductive on the long term. | /r/askTRP | 03/09/17 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill ClothingThis is good: https://www.aldoshoes.com/us/en_US/p/50221629-97?gclid=Cj0KCQjwiqTNBRDVARIsAGsd9MqrMrzRAaOONqs6aIRcCCzj3MUPAUfGGG0HMWt5yyC1sM6vof-EpuAaAsCUEALw_wcB&gclsrc=aw.ds&dclid=COnv5_fxhNYCFU4KNwodbDQNXw This is good: https://www.aldoshoes.com/us/en_US/men/footwear/casual-shoes/Caddo-Blue/p/51061671-4 This is bad: https://www.kohls.com/product/prd-1508865/new-balance-519-mens-cross-training-shoes.jsp?ci_mcc=ci&utm_campaign=MENS%20ATHLETIC%20SHOES&utm_medium=CSE&utm_source=google&utm_product=… | /r/askTRP | 01/09/17 09:11 PM |
| 1 | dating a rich girl in the long termNo you fucking idiot... "status" is part of the alpha, not beta of a guy. You are an engineer/accountant/sales dude, you have no status. She will seek people that are both successful (status), and money. Also, when she is in a LTR mode, she will seek the beta as well, and his will not be enough. Hence my advice to the guy is to date and have fun (be her alpha), but be prepared for her to flee eventually as his money/status part is not strong enough. Got it? | /r/askTRP | 30/08/17 08:00 PM |
| 2 | dating a rich girl in the long termI will give real world experience. I have dated rich girls, and my last one-itis was a rich one. I have the attributes that attracts rich girls like flies (both alpha-ish, and classy). I.e. the AF/BF combination. I work in engineering, so I make around 200k, which makes me better for most people, but still, when it comes to the experiences that rich folks get, pales in comparison: One of my gf, had a Porche Cayenne for her 16th birthday, Another one had a fight with her mom as was she was tired … | /r/askTRP | 30/08/17 07:05 PM |
| 3 | dating a rich girl in the long term"A girl with a masters degree will crawl through mud" -- Replace that with "mental issues", and that makes sense. I just never seen in real life where girls that have their shit together do that. They just don't. It seems more like a Red Pill fantasy (ie. male hamstering), where if you are alpha enough they will date any loser. That is not the case. Girls with mental issues, sure.... they will do anything, but because they are simply crazy, and you should just steer away from them anyways. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/17 06:45 PM |
| 0 | What wisdom can you offer on the distinction between confidence and arrogance? Is it true that confidence turns women on but arrogance turns them off? Where exactly is the line between the two?Confidence is good, arrogance can come in two ways: Try hard... (think the guy that parties the harder in a group setting), which ultimately is actually needy behaviour.... The need to show off yourself, and admiration from other people Over your head/delussional... i.e. the guy that says that he is going to be a billionare, going to own jets one day, yet have no success to back it up.... As you get older, both type 1 and type 2 start becoming a turnoff to women. it works when you are in college… | /r/askTRP | 28/08/17 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Got promoted over my "bully" at work. I have now the power to mess with his work anonymously, would you do it?do it if it is better for you, (ie. calling on his crappy work is part of your job, or will make you look better among other managers). Other people probably don't like him as well, so if he is out of the company, the better for everyone. if that is not your job, and he is in a different team/department, then just ignore the dude.... but if he is in your team and causing problems, this is what you should do: Do a good job at your new level, so you get the trust of your new peers. After few month… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/17 09:36 PM |
| 2 | My Prime is Over?Dummiee.... my best dating years was at 33..... I saw a drop off at 35 though, (if you rely on online dating, some girls will filter at full numbers such as 35, or 40). If you start now, in two years when you are rocking a great body, you will be hitting your prime time in top shape and prepared. Be ready to fuck a lot, then find a girl, or two to LTR. My friend would joke me: when I entered a room, the humidity of the room increase? I said why? All those vaginas are obviously wet for you.... He… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/17 09:16 PM |
| 5 | Is there a "trp" but instead of plates and casual relationships, something for more serious long term relationships?My advice: You have to Filter hard within the first two dates..... avoid flakes, crazies, immature girls, etc... they are fine for hooking up, bad for ltr. Time spent with low value girls is time wasted on not improving yourself, career, and finding other girls worth your time. Don't ignore red flags, which means don't get emotionally involved until you know she is safe and avoid of the above problems.. Date girls that bring value besides their looks/sex. She has a career and steady income... i.… | /r/askTRP | 26/08/17 09:08 PM |
| 4 | Condom got stuck in fwb not sure how clean it came out.Offer her to take Plan B. You are fine (STD wise), but for her, some sperm might have sneaked in..... Go buy it for her (or better do it together) and be with her when she takes it. $50 now is much cheaper than 18 years of child support. Also, she probably will feel like shit for few days after it, as plan b messes up with a girl hormone's for a week, then she will be fine. Do it ASAP, as it is important to be taken within 48hr - 72hrs. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/17 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Over 30 and don't want plates anymore.Disagree... Last 4 months got 5 numbers (in person, not apps). I met them in coffee/places, so pretty neutral. Out of the two 8.5+, one didn't respond at all at my follow up text, one gave me a nice "i am busy" defflection. Out of the 7's, two replied, and one even sent me a text first. Apart looks, age was a difference. The closer to 30-31, the more eager are they to roll up the red carpet for a guy that like, while younger hot girls have a line of a dick waiting for them and can just stand bac… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/17 08:49 PM |
| -2 | What does it mean when my gf asked me what I'd do if someone else touched her on public"I guess we would just have to go ahead and have a threesome" How fucking old are you? That sounds like a very immature response. Best response: You are mature, I'd expect you to handle it. I should be involved only as a last resort. You set an expectations when there are real scenarios where a girl would be harassed by guys that take a no. First she has to 100% handle it, and if she did her part and a dude is not taking a no (there are guys there with mental illness), then you have to be involv… | /r/askTRP | 19/08/17 08:39 PM |
| 2 | If you eat really healthy and workout now would your aesthetics look better like facial body structure wise compared too if you treated your body like shit? Fast foward both by 5 years will the facial aesthetics be the same?No. The right haircut, and eye-brow shaping can help, but that's it. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/17 12:11 AM |
| 10 | If you eat really healthy and workout now would your aesthetics look better like facial body structure wise compared too if you treated your body like shit? Fast foward both by 5 years will the facial aesthetics be the same?Yes. Many people age like shit, not because of their genetics, but because they eat shit food, drink too much, and smoke too much, or stay under the sun too much. Also, once you start working out, and have both muscle and low body fat your face will look chiseled, and you will have a larger neck, witch more pronounced definition. Event under a shirt and a suit you will look good. Working out wont change your face symmetry, but it will make whatever you have on your genetics look much better. Thi… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/17 11:49 PM |
| 5 | Most Hot/Pretty girls I meet are too boring and dumb. I get bored within 20 minutes on the first date. Suggestions?Agreed, 7-8.5 it is like the goldilocks zone for women. Anything past that becomes a liability, anything below that is just not exiting looks wise. The two hottest girls I have dated were the most boring as well. I'd say is a combination of being coddled all their lives, having things come easy to them, and girls that work hard to be hot are usually neglecting other areas of their life. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/17 12:25 AM |
| 3 | Guys over age 30: Faking Tinder age to get younger matches, and clarifying in profile text?I live in NYC, and Tinder is mostly fatties and gheto chicks. It is a waste of time. It is like that club that was hot 5 years ago, and now only gheto folks go to it. Surprisingly, I found tinder to have higher quality girls abroad/in Europe. Since it came later there, it hasn't passed its peak yet. | /r/askTRP | 13/08/17 07:34 PM |
| 1 | The Ketogenic Diet Made Me A Happier PersonSomehow Keto come back again and again in this sub. I have tried and didn't have all the magical effects, yes i noticed some changes during the day but it all came with major drawbacks. Since your probably not going to hear about the negatives at ' ketogains ' I am listing some, to give folks some more balanced view. I tried Keto for almost 6 months and here are the things that I didn't like: . 1) Poor athletic performance. If you do any sports that have sprints (football, basketball, soccer), y… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/08/17 06:26 AM |
| 2 | I am exhausted and have literally no time to date. Tips?People that are spinning plates are: 1) usually heavily exaggerating the number of plates they have. 2) have no real career/or ambitious life goals except for a dead end 9-5 job I don't know anybody that has a good job/career going that has the time for more than one girl at time. From all my friend, the ones that are dating a lot around are the ones stuck in mediocre jobs. Anyway, dial back on some of the things that you are doing, but also don't waste time to spin multiple plates. As long as y… | /r/askTRP | 09/08/17 03:41 AM |
| 3 | Started lifting 3 weeks ago, got fatter. Why?You didn't not gain fat, it is just water weight..... It happens to me all the time. If I take a couple of weeks off, and just eat maintenance I drop most of the extra water and look lean and cut. As soon as I start working out, (even with the same food intake), within a week I gain about 3-4lbs of weight. I look bigger and fuller, but I know this is just my body retaining water.... If I stopped, my body within 3-4 days drops this extra water and my weight goes back to normal. I was 174lbs two w… | /r/askTRP | 07/08/17 06:26 PM |
| 7 | Why aren't most "high SMV" men even CLOSE to having the lifestyle that Dan Bilzerian has?Dan Bilzerian went to my gym (NYC). I saw him training, and it was always with a female trainer. Ok, so the guy is buff (probably juices), and doesn't want to train alone, so he pays for these trainers just to keep him company. I overheard one day that how he would always pick/pay the cutest female trainer, and that he just wanted company.... they were happy to take his money. TLDR: Dan Bilzerian pays for these women, as he inherited money and has cash to burn. There is nothing special about him… | /r/askTRP | 07/08/17 05:13 AM |
| 2 | ex smiled/laughed when she saw meShe wants to fuck you again. (I am serious). The suppressed smile/grin is usually an indicator of a covert action/plan/thought. She noticed you got ripped and she want another bite of the apple. | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with aggressive men while at clubs and festivalsOP, the above advice is the best.... I have plenty of assets to lose, (older and own my place, etc.. etc..), but I really know how to fight, and push to shove would get into one if cornered (and have no other recourse). But I know that I can beat the shit/crap of anybody my size or even bigger, as I have been involved in real physical fights before and I know exactly what I am dealing with. I don't intend to use my fighting skills, but the knowledge that I can protect myself gives me great confi… | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 12:15 AM |
| 9 | Dealing with aggressive men while at clubs and festivalsChill out.... the guy is 18. These dudes might be 22+, no matter how hard he lifts, he still has the 18 yo soft look at that age, and that's why he is getting a lot of shit... The OP needs to really learn how to fight.... join any type of physical combat class (Boxing, MMA, whatever) in order to be good at fighting. Not to fight, but to have the knowledge that if he gets into an altercation, he knows how to protect himself.... that is confidence inducing by iteself.... | /r/askTRP | 05/08/17 12:10 AM |
| 3 | Mental Illness and womenYou will have to learn how to manage your illness obvi..., realise when you are in an episode and try to step away from the emotional wirhpool that is causing you to do things that other people will notice. (i.e. have a mental double check on your actions: question yourself as a third party looking at your actions, is this ok, is this rational to do?) On the other step, more exposure with women and situations helps a lot. eg: People with anxiety eventually get dissentitized with hot women after … | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 10:26 PM |
| 1 | How to estimate self SMV?Disagree... Tinder is a sausage fest in some places, and if you are an 8 guy, you will be matched only with faties... I know this, because when I am in different countries I get much higher/better matches. In NYC tinder is gheto.... therefore bad to asses your SMV. Real life is better. When in a coffee place, restaurant, whatever: What kind of girls do you catch checking you out, or they do "straighten up their posture", get more giggly when you enter their area? That's your relative SMV. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/17 09:55 PM |
| 0 | Is anyone actually succesful in following a keto diet?Still not providing an real refute to my statements, but just shutting it down by name calling. I actually tried keto for 6 months and it sucked ass. I play soccer 3x - 4x a week (semi-competitive level), and keto absolutely affected my performance. That and the ketosis breath is not fun. I am much happier with a 35/35/30 (F, C, P) split, similar to Chief_Leji I wonder the people that preach the 'keto magic' do actually play any sports. I tried it and I felt like it is was more bro-science bulls… | /r/askTRP | 02/08/17 11:19 PM |
| -2 | Is anyone actually succesful in following a keto diet?Which part? You are not backing up that statement. If keto had these "magical" powers athletes would be doing it. But they don't. All (non endurance) athletes rely on carbs for their main source of fuel and keto does affect your max VO2 performance | /r/askTRP | 02/08/17 08:19 PM |
| -2 | Is anyone actually succesful in following a keto diet?Yes. Keto is not helpful to bulking or muscle gains. Keto is good for two things: People that have seizures, or diabetic (so legit medical needs). If you are fat and have lots of fat to loose (think of the 260lbs fatso that needs to go down to a normal 180lbs). When trying to go from a 15% body fat to a cut 11% keto doesn't help. No matter whatever you read about "keto adaptation" Your max lifts will suffer. So will your athletic performance (if you do soccer/basketball/whatever else). If you ha… | /r/askTRP | 02/08/17 07:09 PM |
| 3 | Is the perception of Indian guys really that bad among American women?Yes, now go away. Plenty of bridges for you to jump form. Indians that are fully assimilated, look good, dress well, don't have body odor, don't have a pot belly, don't have this problem. Some of them date/marry white chicks, some do stick with indian girls. | /r/askTRP | 30/07/17 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Question about realistic placement within the top 20%"social autist" -- engineer here. Social skills can be learned, and they are actually pretty easy to figure out (with enough experience). The problem is that most engineers don't deliberately try to improve their social skills, but think that being awesome at their job is good enough. It is not. No chick cares about your java skills/product managing, or whatever your job is. They care where you stand in the social ladder, and being good socially (both at work and outside matters). One of things … | /r/askTRP | 29/07/17 11:25 PM |
| 3 | My boss promoted me but keeps undermining me... wtf? What's wrong with him?Three scenarios: How much older is your boss? If he is 5+ yo, and much more experienced, then he might not view you as a threat, but feels like injecting himself when he thinks you need help. Look closely to his feedback/interjecting and see if he has any validity. (he might be right, you are just not seeing other points of view). He might view you as a threat, and this is a way for him to assert his dominance. He promoted you b/c he had no choice (his boss made him too), etc... That's his style… | /r/askTRP | 29/07/17 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Bumble just sent me this email...sigh.It is called having a chip on the shoulder, and some in tech do have it. I am in tech, I have noticed that some of the very vocal feminists get louder and louder as they approach the wall. Even though they are successful they fail to land a man they would be happy with. Usually successful and good looking men steer away from these type of women (even though in public they might 'support' their feminist movement, in private they all get attached/date feminine women). Also that email is just basic… | /r/askTRP | 28/07/17 10:45 PM |
| 6 | TRPers living in EuropeEuropean here, (currently somewhere in the western Balkans / Mediterranean). The women are m The culture here is very LTR oriented. There is a good reason that PUAs just don't do well in Spain, Italy, Greece and most of the Balkans. Sure, there are ONSs, (but very rare), and every country has their share of sluts, branch-swingers, gold diggers, and more. But they tend to be a minority, and when branch swinging happens, is rarer, and less public in general. So, the sluts to normal girls ratio is … | /r/askTRP | 22/07/17 03:08 PM |
| 3 | Valley venture firm compiling blacklist of investors accused of harassing women.I am an entrepreneur and part of the Silicon Valley system. There truly exists some obnoxious behavior form VCs, which are mainly finance people (think wall street rejects), and are not techies themselves. ..... On the other hand a most these female "wanterpenours", are not engineers themselves, but usually another "person with an idea", which are a dime a dozen, and have no value themselves expect their female SMV. Unscroupoulus VCs know this, and they try to get advantage how they can (the old… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/07/17 11:03 AM |
| 2 | Too dominant?I have a friend like this. He is incredible and getting : directing service people, while not being rude. He owns a business and has to boss people around all day and he is successful that. People generally like him / tolerate him enough to work with him. But he completely strikes out in a more yuppie/sophisticated environment, and yuppie girls generally are too afraid of him. (Too masculine). Also this type of personality doesn't help in a social environment where money is not being exchanged a… | /r/askTRP | 13/07/17 10:58 PM |
| 0 | Realizing I can't have it allThere is some really bad advice in here. I know some really successful couples where the wife is the doctor, and they manage their times perfectly. Who they married: one is a business manager at a big firm, the other is a designer st a startup, the other is an engineer and a large tech companies. They complain a bit about the availability of their wifes but overall they are very happy. The engineer and the designer have very flexible time schedules and often work from home (tech companies are ve… | /r/askTRP | 12/07/17 11:49 PM |
| 1 | "you have to be broken somehow"They are all cringeworthy. Unless you are 22 or under, I wouldn't use these lines. | /r/askTRP | 05/07/17 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Can an introvert adopting a fun attitude grant him a better position in opening girls?Yes, I am an semi-introvert myself, and when I am in a extro-verted mode I end up chatting up more to random people, who some are girls, which some of them are cute and end up with their number. It is much much easier to initiate a conversation (it will feel more natural), if you are in a bit of a happy/bubbly/friendly state. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/17 03:28 PM |
| 2 | 5 Simple Guides To Texting WomenAfter banging, yes. Unless she is trash, I have never seen this work before that. As for this for this forum, we are all anonymous, vengefully_yours, could be either a successful guy, or some dude living in a trailer park in Arizona, we don't know. If he is being honest about it, and it works for him, you should ask this question: Would this work in my environment, social class/setting? That's why you have to take any advice here with a pinch of salt. You never know what kind of environment that… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/07/17 04:04 PM |
| 1 | How to manage feelings of intimidation towards alpha women. Smart and Independent women who stage a character and defy TRP truths.This is a great comment. Thank you | /r/askTRP | 30/06/17 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Dreaming of my ex-girlfriend constantly of a year agomy story It sounds like you dated a full blown narcissist, and with putting yourself in a vulnerable position in moving in another country, with no friends around, she fully exploited it. Also, you have been a bit weak on the whole thing, and didn't realize how shitty this person is. It seems almost like you suffer from a "Stockholm" syndrome, where people end up sympathizing with their oppressors/abuser. These dreams are more just flashbacks. Two things: 1) You don't ever contact this bitch aga… | /r/askTRP | 29/06/17 03:50 PM |
| 3 | A question for experienced RedpillersI'd say it takes 2-3 years of constant work for total transformation. Physical first, and the mind will follow. Women are not just going to fall on your lap magically, you still have to work with it, but here the changes I noticed after doing a major improvement in my life (physical, clothing, and behaviour): Mental. Feeling a lot stronger gives you a calm sense of trust on yourself and your capabilities. You don't freak on on small stuff. People treat you nicely. In bars, coffee places, at the … | /r/askTRP | 23/06/17 08:44 PM |
| 67 | The myth of beautiful women being approached and complimented all the time - What's the real truth?I disagree. When beautiful women say "I don't get hit on a lot", it really means "I don't get approached by high SMV guys" a lot. This is the same myth as "rich guys have trouble finding good mates" one. No they don't, especially if they are both rich and good looking and decently smart. I live in NYC and have seen that good looking girls have a lot, I mean a lot of options. Two things happen: She is good looking and knows it, and therefore demands a high SMV (both good looking and high status g… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/17 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Zero sugar will change your body and lifeThats a great link. Thanks for posting it. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/06/17 03:05 PM |
| 1 | I have a problem and I can't figure it outHard to tell by your description. If you want some some feedback on your looks, PM me a picture. I got both of the "girls looking away" and girls staring at me behaviors when I started improving. Some of that is actually girls feeling shy, or self conscious for explicitly checking you out, or perhaps your stare is too intense. | /r/askTRP | 15/06/17 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Cut or bulk?Cuuut first, you have a large gut. If you bulk, a lot of the extra calories will end up in fat instead of muscle and you will look like shit. Also, if you bulk when you are already kinda chubby, your body will create new fat cells, which will not be able to get rid later (they can shrink, but not eliminated). Go down to 175lbs in the next two months, then clean bulk to 188 over a 5-6 months period, then cut again to 175, and repeat a couple of times. It will take at least two years (3 bulk/cut c… | /r/askTRP | 24/05/17 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Is Masculinity Possible While Being Scrawny?At 6' you should be sitting at 172-180lbs, at around 12% body fat. Unless you are on steroids, if you reach over 190lbs you will be a fat chub at over 16% body fat. I reached my max bulk at 193lbs and I felt like a fat fuck and was attracting chubby chicks left and right. Now at 174lbs I feel awesome (at around 11% body fat), both large enough and have abs. My recommendation is to clean bulk up to 185lbs, then slow cut at around 175lbs, and maintain from there. Don't go over 185lbs as your body … | /r/askTRP | 22/05/17 10:21 PM |
| 1 | What's the most effective cure for oneitis?Time + No contact (or complete ignore if you are co-workers, or classmates) + Imagine her fucking some other dude. She choose somebody else, and not you. You are the sore loser. Do you want to be somebody's sloppy seconds? nah.... that should kill any "lingering hope" that you might have ("hope" is part of that onetis feeling is). Getting a bit angry (at yourself for letting yourself being attached to somebody that doesn't like you at all), if fine, then you move to the other stages and over tim… | /r/askTRP | 22/05/17 10:07 PM |
| 0 | dollar shave club or harrys?Problem with safety razors is they cut very easy, especially the neck. No matter how hard I try, I almost always end up nicking my adam's apple (low body fat, currently). So, you have to careful, and it takes longer to shave. Once I am done with my 100 Astra pack, I will go back to normal disposable razors. I think they are better (but more expensive). | /r/askTRP | 19/05/17 05:23 AM |
| 3 | If you're short, you're done.Date asian girls, they tend to be more forgiving on height. (most likeley because their parents tend to be shorter than the average white people). But you really need to address your depression. Right now it sounds like you are into a depressive state, and need to get out of that state first, before being able to attract girls, as right now it is a repellant. also, suicide/end life == i am a bitch, i give up, it is like a the ultimate child tantrum (If I am not going to get the toy I want, I am … | /r/askTRP | 19/05/17 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with woman at workGood advice, but don't overlfirt, and lead women on. I learned first hand that women can get buthurt if you flirted a lot and you don't follow up. They hate rejection to the core at will create a bad workplace mood. Also, my advice: keep it friendly with both female and male co-workers, but don't assume they are your friend at all, and you shouldn't be real friends as you should take care of your career first hand. Once you leave the company few years down the road some will disappear from your … | /r/askTRP | 18/05/17 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Can't stop breaking the neediness rule. Advice?This is great advice. I learned true abundance by going out in a lot of dates, to the point I started getting tired of it, and realising that I can get girls relatively easy. Quality girls (girls you think might be worth a ltr), take a bit longer... but still it is a matter of building a pipeline. Dating aps, social events, sports clubs, social circle, they are all places where you can build a stead pipeline of prospects, and meet girls that you might like. Once you get that, and include some ma… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/17 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Not interested in girls at all? Happens to you?There are two reasons: Psychological. Once you accepted some of the redpill point of views, you might view women as a waste of time. Why bother, even if it is a temporary thing and they will be gone? Basically a form of devaluation (after pedestaling them for so long). Eventually you got a baseline where you appreciate some of the feminine energy in your life (with all the sillyness and women drama), and want to get it on with one. Remember: People go to the movies, even if it will be over in 2h… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/17 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Women who thought they were using you like an orbiter and suddenly start ignoring you when you cut them off? Is it normal?She even goes as far asking ex coworkers (male!) for help via chat when she get's ask a difficult task, AND wastes huge amounts of time on personal crap (like preparing her own soon to come wedding instead of working) because she then says "help!" and expects someone to help her... (and the idiot new guy does exactly that) The main reason that women dominated companies don't go that far.... some are modestly successful for a while until they implode eventually. Too much energy spend into ways to… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/17 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Why do I still find myself getting angry from rejection?It is normal, as rejection is part of the person not being available and part that she is not into you. 35 here, and I still get a bit angry from it, but what I learned I get angry on myself if: I over-vested attention to the girl, without receprication. And when going for the move, I feel like a dumbass for making that happen. -- In this case, I get a bit angry at myself, and move on. The girl makes a publicly humiliating point that she is not interested, and this is in order to maker herself l… | /r/askTRP | 17/05/17 07:05 PM |
| 4 | Took advice of TRP, tried to be a slayer, broke off LTR, now am miserable and suicidal.Looks like you are in some kind of emotional rollercoaster (bipolar?), and women can sense it and it turns them off. TRP is about doing what you want to do. If you wanted to stay with your girl, then you should have. You shouldn't just do something because some 21yo spew on the internet. You should filter out bad advice (and there is plenty here). You could have dipped the toes on the water, to see if you liked (i.e. talk/game women, but still be in with your relationship). But you decided to ju… | /r/askTRP | 16/05/17 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Should I bulk or cut?Because only other guys really care how "big" you are, women don't. This guys are paid to look good, and that's what you get, because that 's whats attractive to women. If Ryan Reynold was 180lbs during his latest superhero role, that means that that's what type of body sells / is found attractive. Accept the fact that "big" guys (aka, permabulkers), are not necessary the most attractive body type to women. Also, it is highly location depended. In jersey, the permabulker look is fine, but in NYC… | /r/askTRP | 16/05/17 09:09 PM |
| 1 | I Hate the USA.in the US big cities are usually some large hedonistic carousels, where the party for above average looking girls doesn't stop until they maybe hit 32-35.... Then reality settles in and desperation mode kicks in. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/17 03:49 AM |
| 3 | Cold approaching women at my neighborhood Trader Joes every week and in my neighborhood in general, am I seriously fucking myself over by doing this?I kinda disagree. Even if you are attractive, if girls see you hitting on every other girl out there, they will label you as thirsty/desperate. Most attractive guys that are successful chat girls, and leave it like that (i.e. not hitting on them, not being too flirty). Once the girl is eating it up, and starts giving IOS, then the guy can escalate. Trying to flirt right away with women always backfires as it puts them in defensive mode. On the local Trader Joes, do whatever, but since I live in … | /r/askTRP | 16/05/17 03:46 AM |
| 1 | Should I bulk or cut?See my other reply below. Plenty of work out routines out there (just don't do 5x5, or starting strength). The usual bro split are better balanced. Since it is summer, I'd highly recommend to cut. You can bulk again during winter if you have your slimmer/leaner self. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/17 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Should I bulk or cut?Here some real wold examples: Michael Fassbender - 172lbs https://media1.popsugar-assets.com/files/2013/10/15/779/n/1922398/9b80978aad3b7e16_GQ_NOVEMBER_COVER-med.preview_tall.jpg http://www.celebitchy.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/fassy2.jpg Tom Hiddleston - 6'2" - 174lbs http://www.heightweights.com/wp-content/uploads/2016/06/body.jpg https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/originals/ca/9c/66/ca9c66eb8066e6693eba1d47a3773234.jpg http://www.psstpassiton.com/wp-content/uploads/2017/01/tom_008-205x… | /r/askTRP | 16/05/17 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Should I bulk or cut?Cuuuut.......... I am 6'0, and 173 - ish right now and my abs are showing (11% body fat). At the top of my bulk I was 192lbs, and I felt like fat fuck. Yeah, I was a bit stronger, but I attracted mostly chubby chicks. When I see pictures of me at 192lbs, I cringe. No wonder fat chicks were all over me. After an almost 20lbs of weight loss (it took about 6-7 months), I feel much much better. Playing sports is better, skinny girls check me out all the time, and the chubby ones have given up. I am … | /r/askTRP | 14/05/17 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Haven't cum since october-no positive changesAre you taking propecia/fin ? If so, thats might be a cause. Check other things that might be doing it. Also, no fap is plain stupid. Two or three times a week is the perfect amount of releases you should have and it is perfectly healthy. Anybody that is not fapping at least once a week has brought into the 'bro-science' of no fap, and is doing himself a major disservice. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/17 08:42 PM |
| 3 | What kind of women do red-pilled men respect? What kind of women do they despise?I am 35, building up my own business, and looking for a LTR, and hard nexting girls with behaviour I don't like as I don't have time to waste on low value women. Also, I have had my fill of women, and don't care about maintaining multiple plates as I don't have time for it. So the women that I date have to have high value and bring something more then sex to the table. Here is the list of things that I respect, (and nexted if a girl didn't have). A girl that takes care of herself; Eats healthy, … | /r/askTRP | 11/05/17 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Invisible To Women - No Idea What Im Doing WrongUsually you get ignored because of "attitude" and being meak or introverted in a group settings and not asserting yourself. and not because of your looks Short answer: You look very boy-ish, and perhaps your attitude is a bit timid/introverted and makes people easy to forget you in the background Long answer, and few things I noticed from your picture: You are actually good looking. If you play it right over time you will be a slayer in few years, but most likeley you will fall in the 'bf' categ… | /r/askTRP | 08/05/17 09:41 PM |
| 13 | Bill Nye - "My Sex Junk" and the End of TimesJesus, chill out. There is the Kinsey scale, and most people fall into some slot in that spectrum. (btw, Kinsey was red pill 50s, that noticed that the straight to gay is not a binary, but more of a spectrum), and maybe that's what the stupid ice-cream movie was trying to do. Anyways, both videos are retarded, and feel free to skip the show. Just remember, for every video like this there are 3-4 of conservative pastors teaching the right way of god and jesus (blue pill indoctrination), or religi… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/17 06:27 AM |
| 14 | Does it bother anyone else to find out that the girl who made you wait 3-5 dates to have sex has had one night stands in the past?All girls have had an ONS at some point in their life.... you should have had them too. If she had a string of them, then it is an issue. Also, if a girl doesn't sleep with you by date 2, then date 3 is just cooking at your place, and netflix and chill.... she will get the message. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/17 05:47 AM |
| 2 | Dealing with smart girls?I actually fully agree with this. Dumb girls: Nothing to loose and nothing to offer except my vagina. Might as well leverage it to the max, and use it for things I will never be able to get my own way. Smart Girls: I am smart and bored, and this job is stressing me out, I want to eat cake and have it too.... might as well sleep with the boss to get ahead, then that cute guy on the engineering department, he would make a stable boyfriend, and jena's friend that wears shirts that are way too tight… | /r/askTRP | 19/04/17 06:30 AM |
| 0 | On night game, is it normal for an attractive girl to start the interaction acting bitchy and rude?Your SMV is a bit on the low side, and you are talking to girls that might not be giving IOIs at all, and coming out strong right away. That will instantly raise their shields. Also where you are makes a huge difference. Is it in a bar in a large city? bitch shield is up. Is she rushing to buy groceries, and she doesn't look like she wants to be bothered, annoying bitch shield up. Is she in a coffee shop reading something casual (that's green light), or actually preparing for her exam the next d… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/17 08:03 AM |
| 1 | How do you forgive yourself for the mistakes?Disagree, I fucked girls after my last oneitis breakup and it didn't help that much.... The problem is I would compare to my ltr, and they will not compare well favorably (yes, they were better looking, but their personalities were shit, or were too stupid, etc... basically your average bar pickup). Anyway, what really helped is dating/seeing other girls that were in the same calibre as my former ltr. Eg. were both cute and intelligent. That's how you forgive yourself. Allow yourself sometimes t… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/17 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Something is wrong with my frameI think you might be in a devaluation phase. During my self improvement journey, after a onieties breakup, after passing the anger phase, I started focusing on myself. Stopped dating for the sake of dating, and just focused on either getting laid with minimal work (rare, but it happens), or date only if the girl looked promising, ltr-wise. Problem with that is that I put the bar too high, and it caused me to devalue most prospects. I had 0 anxiety talking to girls, but will not follow up (e.g. g… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/17 07:37 AM |
| 1 | Should I be indifferent as possible to a girl's beauty?I have lost opportunities by playing it "too cool" and make her unwanted, and also by being "too eager" and make her think I was beneath her. Too little, or too much showing of lust and desire towards a girl hurts. There is a Goldilock zone, where the amount is just right. (just like salt in your food). When lusting a girl, eye her as an wolf eyeing its prey, and not a as a puppy looking up at their owner.. When you are in a position to see the girl often (e.g. she works with you, cashier, teamm… | /r/askTRP | 17/04/17 07:15 AM |
| 1 | Girl took molly at a raveWas it a once thing, or is this a early thing? I personally have done some psychedelics, but only once every 2-3 years. (went to burning man, once, and had good times with shrooms, and such). I don't have a problem with girls that have tried something, once and a while. But, if this was a regular thing, (i.e. few times a year), then it is a turn off. For some reason Molly is something that turns me off, as it is a synthetic drug, and has potential of life long tolerance, (i.e. most people build … | /r/askTRP | 15/04/17 10:27 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with women suddenly "losing it" ?They are a lot of immature responses here. Yes, girls can get nervous around you, especially if they have developed a mini-crush. In your case, she noticed, that you noticed that she might have a crush on you, and got nervous/self conscious about it. Also, your (probably introverted/shy) communication style might even amplify the awkwardness of the situation. You have to be a bit more extroverted in this cases, dial up the comfort part a bit (i.e. a bit more friendly kino), etc, with girls that … | /r/askTRP | 12/04/17 02:44 AM |
| 1 | how impactful can having a masters degree be?If you have a crappy degree (e.g. english, history, anything liberal arts), getting a masters helps a lot. Just make sure the masters you are getting (either MBA or something else), is from a top 20 university in their field, otherwise don't bother. One thing I have seen my friends help: eg. math degree from crappy state school, masters in computer science at Standford/Dartmouth/Carnegie Mellon, etc.. instant boost in both social and professional standing (easier to get interviews from top compa… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/17 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Hitting a wall in developing Frame.You are used to follow, that's why, and not used to leading and truly not give a fuck. I know this as I have a similar problem. Yet at work I am the leader, and people just follow me and it comes natural. But with social interactions, I am not in this case, and i think there are two reasons: 1) Younger sibling (used to be led by much older siblings) 2) Generally shy when I was young in social situations. That has lingered a bit, even know that my SMV is very high. It is almost like an uncanny va… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/17 06:40 AM |
| 5 | Why do I hardly see any slayers over the age of 30 with hot girls in their lives?Living in NYC here, and I see good looking guys in their 30s with good looking women on their side. The thing is that they had enough poon in their life and don't care about going to bars and get shitfaced just to attract some bar slut. Usually they are out dating, in cocktail loungers, dinner/comedy show, and home. I know this by experience, as I would fit the profile. Not dating anybody right now, but when I was dating a hot one, you wouldn't see me in random bars. Also, when you are dating a … | /r/askTRP | 08/04/17 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Hitting a wall in developing Frame.Op, I have the same exact problem as you. Are you an engineer? Engineer here, probably high on the asperger spectrum (not real aspergers, but just high on the spectrum) and I feel it make me come out as a bit 'robotic' in interactions. I can maintain frame, and be alpha and all that, (learned how to never get AMOGED), and I do generate tingles and get girls wanting to know about me. But it is the last part that is killing me, trying to emotionally connect with the hot extraverted ones somehow, a… | /r/askTRP | 08/04/17 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Body fat percentages, political ideology, and mating. Any statistics linking on this? What body fat percentage is the ideal "hot girl" and what percentage should you aim for in yourself?Here is about body fat: If you live in the large cities, work in corporate, and deal with mostly liberals: 12% Is Ideal: If you live in the country, or live in the ghetto, or work hard labour, then being physical larger is a bit more important: Then Aim for 13%-15% There is a reason you see fatter dudes when you go to a 'bro-wish' blue collar bar vs a cocktail bar. Just don't go over 15% body fat as you will attract only other fatties. (been there myself). | /r/askTRP | 01/04/17 05:36 AM |
| 2 | TRP vs left-wing ideologies?Lets make clear, being on the left doesn't mean being communist/hard core socialist/anarchist, so I think you are confused. Somebody that leans to the left (read, not extremist), will do fine with TRP. Also, if you look very closely at many issues, you can see that the right is very individualistic and almost nihilist and some point. Plus religion (which is conservative), is the most Blue Pill indoctrination invented by man. Think of it, next time you assume conservative == RP. Religion is a hug… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/17 05:19 AM |
| 0 | Beautiful girl thats 28Break up with her and pass her to me. Idiot. Once you smash enough girls yourself, you don't care anymore if she has had her share as well. (unless it is very very high). This is simply your insecurity speaking right now. Most girls, assume about 2 guys a year after the age of 17, which means at 28 that's about 22+. | /r/askTRP | 29/03/17 05:38 AM |
| 7 | Those that prefer LTR's - do you have a good checklist for a suitable partner?I used to think that, but now I disagree with this sentiment that TRP has. See my response below: ..... "P.s. Also about the "No Social Media Account" that is revered so much around here. After my experience with the 'no social media' branch switching girl, I was talking to a friend of mine (female) about this, and she was telling me that some of the biggest sluts/branch switchers keep a low social profile for a reason. They don't want to advertise their statuses, so it gives them freedom to fuc… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/17 10:49 PM |
| 4 | Those that prefer LTR's - do you have a good checklist for a suitable partner?OP, your GF sounds exactly like my ex. She was all sweet and smart too boot, but here what happened: When she met me, she was dating somebody else. She fucked me for about 3 months before breaking up with the other dude. I didn't know about this at all at the time. 3 months is not branch switching, but more straight out cheating (her past bf. traveled a lot for work, so she needed some company) When she broke up with me, she had lined up another guy right away (branch swinging). Introverted Girl… | /r/askTRP | 13/03/17 10:43 PM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread March 08Don't engage in "I want her number" mode. Talk to her as a friend, or even as a co-worker at the beginning. Be very neutral (no PUA shit, as it will backfire and make her uncomfortable). I always engage with very light conversation first, (ie. at a coffee place, what are you reading, doing... working on), after a bit back and forth, disengage, and keep doing what you are doing (don't ask number yet). If you are interested and the first convo went well, in 5-10 mins, when you are ready to leave, … | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/17 06:31 AM |
| 1 | askTRP Megathread March 08If you ever get involved in facebook debate (better avoid it), but the best way to handle is: "Interesting, I see your point, but this article is pointing out that those facts are a bit different:" And drop the link of an article that refutes their stupid points (usually the 79% salary gap drivel, or something idiotic like 25% of women are sexually abused), etc... let the article make your point, and don't discuss it anymore, and not with emotions at least. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/17 06:24 AM |
| -1 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread February 27Donald Trump is classist Narcissist. That helps him a lot on many things, but also he shoots his foot so often. Unless you were born with his traits, and his daddy's millions, I doubt emulating him will do well to most TRPs here. If you were born with FU (fuck you) money, the world is a completely different playground, compared to somebody that has to work to put food on the table. Also, I truly believe he only won because Hillary was a terrible candidate (she has her narcissistic traits as well… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/17 05:30 AM |
| 1 | Pet Theories and New/Unfinished Ideas Megathread February 27Same here, but I have to say most young folks, (in their 20s) display a lot of narcissistic traits, and some of it is natural. Delayed adulthood, thinking on making the mark on the world, wanting social gratification, etc.. etc.. eventually reality hits you in the face and most people adjust their expectations over time to a more healthy mindset. This happens naturally in late-20s/mid-30s for most people, but for some (the people with true NPD characters), it never does and it even might get wor… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/17 05:17 AM |
| 9 | How To STOP Food Cravings and Master Your AppetiteThere are many problems with keto. Low carbs might make you moody, depressed, and seriously hard to accomplish intellectual tasks that require logical thinking. Also, a diet that is very low in carbs and high in protein might cause constipation, and also make the sweat, breath and the pee of the person smell bad. When the body has no carbs for energy it will try to use both fats and proteins as energy. Lots of protein asorbed, means there is too much nitrates in the blood that they have to get r… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/17 09:07 AM |
| 1 | Why are European white women much more open to going interracial?Have been in Sweden countless time, I can tell you that they are just as racists as white american girls. If you are meeting Swedish/European girls in NYC, that are willing to date other ethnicities, there are three main reasons: Self selection/they are outliers. I.e. The average immigrating euro is not the average European, but more likely to be open to new experiences. (traditional people will stay put in their countries). They are in a new/different country, and they are already different the… | /r/askTRP | 14/02/17 11:59 PM |
| 2 | Eyes on the Prize"One day it all ends. She leaves you (and maybe takes your kids/home/percentage of your paycheck with her). You're dumbfounded as to why and how it all ended. You dropped your gaze on the prize and it slipped out of your hands. Some time passes and she’s with someone new now. It almost seems like you never existed. Your dream is shattered.".... -- Well, let her fucking go. After a bit you will be fine and will find another one, probably younger and better. Even Elon Musk's wife divorced him. The… | /r/TheRedPill | 08/02/17 06:51 AM |
| 1 | If SMV as it is understood is REALLY how things are, why isn't it so uncommon to see men who LOOK or ARE over 30 dating/married to/LTR with High SMV females?I hate to say it, but all your examples you gave seem like white trailer trash stories. In professional setting, a 45yo dating a mind 20s or later will raise eyebrows, but no biggie, But people will consider 45 yo dating 19 yo, a loser. Fucking, fine, but actual dating (aka, spending time, money and energy) will bring down this person social value by a lot. This is one of the things that you do in discreet, unless you really don't care about your social value, as it will bring it down. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/17 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Opinion on SMV of Having hair vs Losing it and becoming jacked?it may give you man-boobs, and limp dick (seriously). I had major side effects from it, and had to quit it right away. | /r/askTRP | 30/12/16 06:43 AM |
| 4 | Coed GroupsI agree with volleyball is the one sport that attracts the most fit and good looking women. (Tennis is the other one). I play soccer, and can confirm some of these, but unfortunately girls that play soccer are not that good looking, and the guys to girls ratio is 3:1 on a good day. They key idea is that you have to be in a place environment where interacting with women is natural and not forced (i.e. not clubs and bars). If not volleyball, cooking classes, pottery classes, anything that interact… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/16 11:46 PM |
| 18 | For rich bros here, how do you use $$$ to your advantage?Money helps a lot, and not necessary the way you think (by flashing it, with expensive cars, and instagram pictures in exotic locations, etc..). Step one, lift. Get a ripped body, like your life depends on it. If you have money you can afford the best foods, and the best gyms/trainers. Dress really well, without looking like you are trying a hard (no armani, crap). Get a stylist to help you out with your wardrobe. 5k-10k, will get you a nice wardrobe that looks better than most people, without h… | /r/askTRP | 17/12/16 07:16 AM |
| 1 | Plate spinning and STDs.Curious, how did she get it? Tell us more about the girl. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/11/16 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Where do you draw the line between jealous and being a bitch?Wait 5 seconds in amusement, and then I absolutely tell the guy to leave us alone, as we were talking about something. Say have a good night (not in an angry way, but indifferent as you would talk to clerk/cashier) turn the back on the guy and ignore him and start chatting with my girl. I don't have time to wait in "amusement" for this 'dance' to finish as I am more important to whatever convo their are having. 2. Guys always back down, as I am 6' and fit/muscular. That's where TRP has it right.… | /r/askTRP | 21/11/16 05:06 AM |
| 3 | At this point I think my cortisol levels are going to shoot through the roof looking for one, can anyone who knows a lot about fat loss please, for the love of god or whoever you may believe in, recommend me a workout program?I was in the exact position as you two years. Not very fat, but chubby, with man boobs, and lots of fat on the belly and chest areas, and lots of cortisol, by both having a stressful job (programmer) and a shitty bitchy gf. Always feeling cold at my feet (poor fitness), snoring a lot and having lots of sleep problems. Broke up with my GF, and was at my worst at 192lbs (6' tall). Getting rejected by a hottie made me self realize that my body was shit, and I need to fix it. Good news is that it is… | /r/askTRP | 02/11/16 11:00 PM |
| 1 | OvertrainingThat's sounds a bit too much and you are not giving time your body to rest, recoup and grow. When bulking up, I used to go 4 times a week (1hr sessions), and 3 when cutting or maintaining. I don't do any cardio (not necessary), but I play soccer twice a week, so that counts as cardio. Don't train more than one hour at a time, but make sure the intensity during that hour is high. Also, after 4 weeks of continuous training, take a week off to recoup. Trust me, you will actually gain more during th… | /r/askTRP | 12/10/16 04:46 AM |
| 1 | LTR - GF unconsciously showing body language attraction to my friendIf she is doing with one person, might not be a big deal. But if you see this behaviour with more than one person, she is looking to branch swing. One girl that I was dating was exhibiting some of these behaviors, but with more than one person. I could tell, and that was my clue that the relationship was over (and I was over within a couple of months). These are signs of "general availability" that she gives to other people, and it is a clear sign that the relationship is doomed. If it is direct… | /r/askTRP | 23/08/16 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Neck Beard Basics: 4 rules for Low SMV Men"Alas, introverted women are rare and rarely pretty." --- Wait what? The hotest girls I have known they all have been introverted. The thing is that you don't see them often in clubs. Introverted hot girl goes to a club once in a blue moon, (maybe 5-6 times a year), extroverted validation seeking hot brat goes out 2-3 times a week (over 100 times a year). If you hang around bars and clubs, you'd falsely assume that all hot girls are extroverted, but that is not the case. You are seeing the same … | /r/TheRedPill | 20/08/16 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Dear Fat Neck-beardsThe things is that when you turn 30 that look looks stupid. I have seen it many times, when it looks "cool" in your 20s, and you are given a lot of slack for still being young and maturing up. But as soon as you reach your late 20s and early 30s, people's expectations change, and they will not take you seriously if are wearing shit ton of black make up and wear death metal t-shirts. You can't be a leader, if you look like a clown. Unless you are in a rock band, and famous, or you are in a gang/m… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/07/16 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Recent female college grad discusses how many females really feel about modern day hookup culture.It matters to many men once you get older. If you are making 100k+, but the girl that you are dating makes only 30K, that will bring the average down a lot, and your standards of living. No matter how cute/sexy is she, it wont make up for her lack of either intelligence or ability to hack it into the working world. There are plenty of hot/cute girls that work as waitresses, hostesses, etc, but still for many men they are not desirable professions. To successful men that's a girl you have fun wit… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/16 07:07 AM |
| 3 | The upper class in New York makes their women performI am a single dude, and I am spending 5k on my next vacation. It is more like 50k for these folks. They stay at hotels/suites where the entry level rates are 2k a day, and dine and wine at the best places, and do activities that most folks don't do. (helicopter rides from Paris to a wine place 50miles away, type of things). | /r/TheRedPill | 15/05/16 04:03 AM |
| 12 | Forget "IOI's", the only way to know if a girl is attracted to you is to keep escalating.Some girls get really shy/quiet around guys they like a lot. The bigger the crush, the shyer they get. The only way to really know is to engage/talk to her, get her comfortable and keep leading the interaction. Once you get her comfortable she will open up to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/16 09:14 PM |
| 39 | Forget "IOI's", the only way to know if a girl is attracted to you is to keep escalating.She went out with you on a date, what else you need? My rule of thumb: If she is going out/hanging out with me, she wants me. I just have to make her comfortable, have a great time keep escalating physically (gently) until fun sex happens. Two steps forward, one step back, just like salsa. Sure, you are not guaranteed for her not to give you some major last LMR, but during the whole night you have to go with the assumption that she wants you. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/05/16 07:25 PM |
| 3 | Speak Like a Man: Improving Speech Qualityand perhaps higher your volume. I have a co-worker that speaks softly and I have to constantly say "what" to him. In this case his speech rate is fine, just the volume is too low. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/16 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Remember - They are watching youI have, but in 10 years of going to Coffee shops regularly (I mean few times a week), I have picked up 2 girls. Few almost scores here and there, but slept with only 2. Nightclub/bars 8. Sports/social circle, 4. Online dating, 2. Coworkers - 0. So far, the nightclub/bar scene has given me the best results quantity wise, but not necessary quality wise. The girl that I ended up liking the most, I met her while playing soccer. You can't discount day game, but if you want to get laid in a pinch, hit… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/16 03:47 PM |
| 6 | The problem with Tinder/online dating for most men.Tinder (and most online dating tools) disproportionally favorite guys that: 1. Have good face symmetry. 2. Take good pictures and are willing to put up with the effort (pictures, text-gaming, etc) that it takes to get a date. Let me give you two clear examples. Guy one, has a "pretty" face. He is about 5'9" tall, a bit slim, and a bit meek, but is a good picture taker. He puts in his profile as 5'11", and does get relatively well with text gaming/words. He gets a lot of dates, but in real life h… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/02/16 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Being Attractive is Pre-selectionWhen you are 300lbs+ no amount of TRP and/or game will make for the face that you are a fat slob and women are physically repelled by you. Looks matter, and that's reality a lot of people have faced (including me). Same kind of game/attitude will yeild very different results if you are fit or not. I personally experienced it myself the hard way. I was fit/good shape and dressed well. Had some game, had results. Let myself go bit by bit (stopped working out and dressing well), and after 2-3 years… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/02/16 02:26 AM |
| 2 | Field report, speed dating (age 30-42)My personal experience with Speed Dating (I have been in few of them), is that the quality of women there is on the low side. I have been to four events total, and I remember only once seeing an 8, and most girls are in the 5-7 range. They are only worth if you are gunning for a 6, or want to practice your small talking and dating skills. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/16 03:12 AM |
| 6 | Lessons I learnt from my dog about being "unplugged"."So where can we visit the human version of a kennel without going to jail?" Go to a week long cruise in the Caribbean. You will notice this exact behaviour. Yes, most people are fat, old or couples, but out of the 1800 passengers in a cruise ship, there will be at least 100 or so fuckable single people. They will all be at the couple of bars/clubs of the ship getting shit faced and hook up with the best piece of ass they can get. Nobody cares about your background, social standing, what car you… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/16 01:45 AM |
| 2 | I have a massive shoulder imbalance. What do I do?Use dumbbells, and do a couple of extra reps on your weak side for each set. Basically the weak side will be your limiting factor on how fast you can progress. I noticed myself developing an imbalance, (right should and biceps/chest are larger), and it grew worse when I was using a barbell for most compound exercises. The problem is that subconsciously the stronger side was working harder, and the imbalance grew over time. It takes a lot of conscious effort to fix it, but it is doable. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/16 05:20 AM |
| 0 | New York, New YorkSince when $$ == betta? Lets dispense a myth. A lot of people that have money, (especially the hustler types), are actually alpha as they 1). Have business to deal with (too busy and not overly available. 2) Are desirable and know they can find a another girl if the current one doesn't work out (default abundance mentality). Women go to NYC because there is the best place to find people that are both Alphas and have $$. In a smaller town you are limited to people that are in either spectrum, and… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/12/15 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Surprising discussion of shit testing on Advice AnimalsTurn it into a "fist bump". It works remarkably well. You reciprocate but also force other person to submit into your frame (ie. it forces them to adapt your mannerisms). | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/15 10:58 PM |
| 13 | Surprising discussion of shit testing on Advice AnimalsThe guy just saying saying "meh" in a casual/un-impressive way... would have been better. Communicates both: 1. She was nothing impressive, and 2. The guy can get dates like that routinely. He automatically raises both the value above her current date's roommate, and also showing an abundance mentality without trying to show off. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/12/15 10:55 PM |
| 188 | RP Example: Amazon.com makes women and betas cryHaving worked there (at Amazon), the original article is mostly accurate. It is a dog eat dog type of place, But here is the kicker: Few people on top are making most of the money (Bezos and few execs), while the rest are left to fight nail and tooth for some scrap. At some point, you realize that it is idiotic to stay in a place like this and make few men on top rich and get enjoyment/entertainment out the show their subordinates put out. Image few people, looking at dog fights, killing each ot… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/15 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Real parallels between men and women in dating"The percentage of women who enjoy the actual act of sex and sensation of orgasm is a small minority." -- I disagree. It is a trope said by women to appease their lame/average looking husbands on why they don't like having sex with them. Most women actually like sex. But the chance of her liking the sex with a guy is directly correlated to: The guy's symmetry (how good looking he is). The guy's perceived income/status. Ie. women genuinely don't like to have sex with low status fugly guys, same a… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/07/15 03:54 AM |
| 4 | Great looking outfits and style immediately increases SMV. I highly recommend "swagger jacking" a celeb or two you truly admire as a quick hack for an instant point or two in SMV.You are still young, when you reach your 30's you will understand. What you wear has a psychological effect on you as well. You probably could buy a replica watch of whatever uber expensive watches are out there for 1/10th of the price, and that it looks almost (withing 90%) the same. But, they all do feel cheap, and they don't have the same psychological effect on you, as you know it is fake. (and your body language will leak out). When you know you are wearing something that is worth more than… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/15 09:07 PM |
| 8 | Great looking outfits and style immediately increases SMV. I highly recommend "swagger jacking" a celeb or two you truly admire as a quick hack for an instant point or two in SMV.I agree with this. When I had a 'blah' body, I used to be more attractive with blazers/nice clothes. As soon as I did a bulk, and a major cut (got ripped), things reversed. Wearing a tight nike/dri-fit shirt attracts much more (positive) attention. Nice jeans and shoes, slim fitting t-shirt (or a shirt) look very very nice if you work out. About once or twice a week I wear a blazer/nice collared shirt, which mixes it up. And the people that see me daily at work, know that I am sophisticated. The… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/15 08:23 PM |
| 15 | "No Fireworks"You dodged a bullet yo. Next time don't date a girl with kids. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/15 08:58 PM |
| 4 | How many of you suffered from actual depression before swallowing the pill, and how did it affect your progress?The sadness eventually fades away, and you accept things as they are. Also having a better awareness of the women-men relationship dynamics allows you over time to make better decisions on your future relationships (i.e. you know the risks involved), and less prone do dissatisfaction/or disappointment when your expectations are not met. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/15 06:27 PM |
| 1 | The Vicious Cycle of Blue Pill FaggotryThis post is retarded. The immiation of words/manerisms happens on two levels: The person that does it, likes you. It creates affinity between people (this is done subconsciously). And yes, once she stops liking you she will stop doing it. And yes, she will do the same with her next dude. The other person thinks that you are above them, and admires you. (ie. people getting a certain celebreties hairstyles, or manner of speech as their managers, etc). Both, are mostly done subconsciously, and the… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/06/15 05:50 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Lost Frame Once and It's OverYou didn't do anything wrong, she is dating multiple people, and you are one of the dicks she is having. She probably got a better offer somewhere else, and moved on. I was in a very similar situation last month. I didn't do anything wrong, yet the thing started fading. I knew (as a gut feeling) that while she got physical with me fast, she was not open emotionally and probably dating other people. She is the nice/quiet/smart type, but that doesn't make her less promiscuous. These types tend to … | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/15 09:55 PM |
| 1 | The game objectively gets harder as you get older but that doesn't really matter either.I disagree. If you live in a large city, you are more likely to get lots of action after graduating. What you say is probably true if you live is smaller towns/metro areas. Looking at my life history in 4 year increments: 18 - 22 - College, lost my virginity, had some good action 22-26 - Post college, 0 action the first, year, then it picked up well. 26-30 - Moved to a new city. Had the largest dry spell, and poor action. 30 - 34 - Had more action than all my previous years combined. Now I am re… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/06/15 01:39 AM |
| 3 | Asserting dominance in a startupLooks like he thinks he has all the power/direction of the startup, and you are there to follow him, and implement his 'ideas'. My questions to you: Who is doing most of the coding? What does he bring to the table? (is providing money/tangible things)? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/05/15 08:30 PM |
| 46 | Sunday TRP: Insights from having access to her innermost thoughts and secrets1) Assume that is always true. Especially if a girl gives you a count that is 3, 5, or that is divisible by 5. There is actually a psychology behind this. Btw, men lie too, but usually they boost up their numbers. 2) That's probably correct. But it goes both ways. My most favorite girl, was this uber slut I dated back in college (she was 2 years older than me). We talking 50 shades of gray done to me. I would never LTR her though. Any girl (no matter how great it is), will probably not reach her… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/05/15 11:43 PM |
| 3 | Never stay stagnant for too long. (FR)/RANTYep. In any major tech company, wearing suits every day == try hard/incompetent. Once and a while, yes. Have your casual clothes be perfect fit, fresh and new, yes. Be this guy: https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/7c/6d/53/7c6d53810a7bd40bcd87da6465bc1572.jpg And this guy: https://s-media-cache-ak0.pinimg.com/236x/a7/26/41/a726411ffd87c73edf24005637b3fa04.jpg Or any of these guys: http://hollisterstaffing.images.getfused.com//business_casual_men.jpg No need to suit up every time. (unless y… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/15 07:36 AM |
| -3 | AWALT: My 35yo FWB'S Rule of 666I am few months away from it (a six pack). Just started the last cycle of cutting that will get me there (current BF is 14%), and need to be below 12% to start seeing them. Also, 6'1" and make 200k. And yes, I can hit on by women (especially at work) all the time. I still have trouble with 9+, but 8 and below are very easy to get for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/05/15 05:42 AM |
| 9 | Shit testing during ovulationMost women that are presidents/prime minsters are older than 45, and are post menopause. Once women reach that stage they act more like dudes. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/15 06:52 AM |
| 22 | How I landed a job in finance and how it's done wonders for my SMV and - ultimately - life.I had a similiar situation, where I dated an ex-finance girl. I work in tech, and I make over 200k, so I am relatively desirable. She put a great facade for a while, but there was leakage here and there. In a moment of clarify, when we were coming back from an event (she had a couple of drinks), she admitted that the main point she found me attractive was in my job, that is always stable and in demand. (i.e. a good engineer is always employed). Then came the little things: She wished my apartmen… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/15 01:45 AM |
| 7 | How I landed a job in finance and how it's done wonders for my SMV and - ultimately - life.Hardware Keyloggers are not that hard to install. But most people (especially women) are not smart enough to get that done in a way you wont notice. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/05/15 01:26 AM |
| 2 | The first experience of girls competing for attentionYep. It reads a bit too much like fiction. What I have noticed is that often the guy is the actual plate. You are somebody that she fucks temporary, but doesn't want to get involved emotionally as she has bigger fish to fry (looking for the bigger better deal). That's the only time I have seen women tolerating the guy dating/fucking other women for a long time (i.e. the guy is just a sex toy to them). | /r/TheRedPill | 29/04/15 03:28 PM |
| 3 | TRP is working....and my friend is getting pissed."IOI's are starting to lose their shiny newness as they are pretty constant now." -- So true. When I don't get IOIs from a girl, I am like: "Bitch, what's wrong with you?". Joking aside, what I noticed is that my friend's GFs get very lively around me, and I really have to tone down my Alphanes a bit, in order no to alienate my friends. The other way is to bring a girl with you when you hang out with your friends and their gf. I know some people here will tell you to cut your friend out, but I d… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/04/15 12:18 AM |
| 4 | The all purpose redpill attractiveness ThreadI disagree with these two points that are fixed. They are highly modifiable. "Facial Features - Handsome, masculine, symmetrical is better" -- While symmetry is something that you can't change unless you do surgery, by working out, lowering your body fat, and boosting testosterone you end up getting a chiseled/cut face as well, where your bone structure and jaw will show better. "Body structure - Wide shoulders, narrow hips, proportionate limbs are better" -- Again, the right kind of workout wil… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/04/15 01:10 AM |
| 4 | Being an AF while having a betabucks profession.I have this problem as well. I am an architect/engineer working for a major company that is actually cool. I knew my last date was attracted to me, and all over me, but as soon as she started learning on what I do (lead major projects, travel to great locations) and that I own my own place in Manhattan (major mistake in mentioning this), she started to actually hold back a bit, and eventually resisted to go home with me, yet continuously making out, and basically leaving me with blue balls at th… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/04/15 11:32 AM |
| 10 | My take on "looks don't matter" statementsIt is not necessary intentional (ie. consciously thought), but it is more a subconscious thing. Women have trouble telling the truth when it is negative, as they prioritize feelings of facts, this is due to higher levels of empathy and sensitivity over harsh truths. I.e. they are much more likely to tell "white lies" to a friend to make her/him feel good, rather than the honest harsh truth which will help them over time. Hence all the "your short hair looks great!", or "you totally don't look li… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/04/15 12:16 PM |
| 1 | The Alpha Female? Dating a girl who considers herself an "alpha female"One of the defining trait that I noticed with "alpha females", is a high degree of narcissism. To the point that makes a relationship with them very hard. (narcissists can be irrational and over-value their sense of worth/contribution to a relationship in a major way). Some of them might be good at what they do, (work wise), but they are a PITA to date. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/04/15 01:49 AM |
| 17 | [FR] An amusing little glimpse into the sexual marketplace from a woman's view - snap your fingers and they'll comeYour LTR is a bit delusional. There are a lot more pretty girls (HB8+) than rich people (10mil+). Beauty is a commodity, that rich people often get it for free (in lieu of entertainment, and the possibility of a potential commitment), or straight out just buy it. (escorts, or sugar daddy's arrangements). Yes, she probably could sleep with a rich person, but she has a slim chance on actually making him commit to her, unless she is really accomplished herself. (8+ and accomplished/very intelligent… | /r/TheRedPill | 29/03/15 06:46 PM |
| 6 | I let my guard down and got cheated on.Yep. Mentally put her on the "plate" bin, and fuck both of them. WTF OP, you missed a good opportunity. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/03/15 04:29 AM |
| 8 | The ultimate shit test: withholding sexYou become a genetic dead end though. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/03/15 03:05 AM |
| 10 | Analysis of modern DNA once again proves female hypergamyThis was forced polygamy. The women had no choice. A recent example of this is the Inca empire. This is a great passage from the "Red Queen" book that explains what was happening at the time. .... In the ancient empire of the Incas, sex was a heavily regulated industry. The sun-king Atahualpa kept fifteen hundred women in each of many “houses of virgins” throughout his kingdom. They were selected for their beauty and were rarely chosen after the age of eight—to ensure their virginity. But they d… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/03/15 06:10 PM |
| 10 | When you "alpha up", you just can't be an orbiter anymore.I studied computer science in college, but I learned a lot of my stuff by my self. School can go so far in teaching you, you have to take the reins and learn the practical side of engineering by actually building stuff (apps, websites, services). There is a lot or material in the web to get started (javascript, or python are good languages). Take some classed to get the foundations of Computer Science. If it makes you feel better, one of the real good engineers I work with, went to art school. H… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/15 01:00 AM |
| 1 | When you "alpha up", you just can't be an orbiter anymore.I am not Jewish, but they are tasty and the fresh ones tend to be less processed than your average bread at a supermarket. Everything Whole Wheat is my favorite, but I don't have more that one a day. | /r/TheRedPill | 04/03/15 12:46 AM |
| 2 | When you "alpha up", you just can't be an orbiter anymore.Weight lifting is more important than cardio. 3 times a week (serious weight lifting, but only 1hr per session), plus one cardio a week (either playing soccer, or running). Diet is heavy on protein and fats (usually from meat, or olive oil, and less from fried stuff), and low in carbs. Muffins, cookies, desserts are out of the picture. So is rice, and most breads (except bagels). Carbs are good right after a workout, but try to reduce them during the day. You don't have to be huge, or supper cut… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 10:23 PM |
| 4 | When you "alpha up", you just can't be an orbiter anymore.Software engineer. Nothing too sexy, but in very high demand. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 10:02 PM |
| 2 | When you "alpha up", you just can't be an orbiter anymore.Nope. Women value money and success. Having taking a chance, is cool and exiting, but also loosing at it and having nothing to show for, is not. So, it becomes a neutral thing. The risk taking attitude is exiting, as it is potential that you might make it off one day, and be successful/rich/whatever and be both good genes and provider at the same time (this is the woman's equivalent of a jackpot, or their unicorn). But, I head a bit of a defeatist attitude and a low confidence after it, so that … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 09:53 PM |
| 14 | When you "alpha up", you just can't be an orbiter anymore.Flirting, smiling at you while talking, touching you, finding reasons to talk to you, etc.. Some girls are naturally like that, but if she is being only with you like this, then she likes you. I am a software engineer. The problem with engineers is that even some make really good money (often top tier engineers make more than lawyers), we are considered a relatively low or neutral status type of profession. Add to that, most engineers don't dress well, tend not to be in shape, or don't have grea… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 07:36 PM |
| 6 | When you "alpha up", you just can't be an orbiter anymore.8.5 is my natural limit, mainly because I don't have male model looks (a bit more rugged, and not super symmetrical face), I don't have a six pack (it is more like a 2pack), I am not a millionaire, or famous, or I am not a doctor (whatever is thought to be highly prestigious), and I don't have traditional WASPy look, or last name. I think to get into the 9+ category you either have to have male model looks, or normal looks but are rich/famous/sought after profession. etc. By healthy ratio of fem… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Understand your womenYou basically would be dating down though. Ie. if you are an 8, you can pull that only for 7s and below. An 8 and above would have other options (the higher the girl on the SMV chart, the more the options increase, exponentially, not in a linear way). And, most well adjusted women will want something else rather than just sex and occasional dating on the longer term. It is fine if you don't give it to her, and that plate will eventually go away, but keep in mind that the higher her value (in com… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/15 06:46 PM |
| -1 | Woman's PleasureIt is clear that you haven't tried to hire top notch engineers. They are in such high demand that companies have large recruiting departments, trying to source and just get them into the door for interviewing, And good engineers always have multiple offers when they are looking for a job. In this case, it is the engineers that are the hot chicks. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/03/15 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Stop blaming gravityWomen are designed to look for a mix of both good genes, and provider on their partners. This is hard wired. Males are hard wired to be both groomed and providers/protective instinct. (barred some abnormalities like psychopathy). Your parents did, you grand parents, did, your grand grand parents did, etc... You are the result of genes being passed down the line for Millenia, and a lot of both males and females behaviors are hard wired. Environment factors matter as well, (they can modify primary… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/15 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Workplace sexuality - playing with fireTo be honest, I used to think the same, "don't shit where you eat" but as I am getting older and more mature, I have changed my mind. I have to say something that I have seen many hook ups, dating, break ups in many companies I have worked (8 so far).. Almost all execs, or founders (that were single), got involved with people at their companies. I have yet to seen a major tech/startup where somebody didn't fuck somebody below them, and I never seen any major drama out of it. The "don't shit wher… | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/15 12:58 AM |
| -1 | Should some men just give up and go MGTOW?I think MGTOW is the male equivalent of being a "cat lady". It is fine going monk mode for few months to get your shit together, but more than that it will backfire and go against you on the long term. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/02/15 05:41 PM |
| 14 | Disarming Power PlaysTwo rules to remember: Don't get phased, or act buthurt. Powerplays are meant to elicit emotional response in you and how the group sees you. Acknowledging and then completely ignoring the offender at the same time is the best response, and honestly a mindfuck. This is the best place where being "stoic" works great as shows your strength that you don't get phases. Don't get too smart with the response, as it means that you really care about what they just said. Some examples: Attack: That's the … | /r/TheRedPill | 18/02/15 12:37 PM |
| 5 | Research Strongly Indicates That Cuckolding Is RareThey are relying on genetic data, and not on what the women are saying. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/15 04:18 AM |
| 15 | Research Strongly Indicates That Cuckolding Is RareOh, come on. You sound like a feminist saying two every 100 men are a rapist, hence all men are evil and cannot be trusted. OP thanks for the links. I'd rather discuss facts based in science rather than the bro-anectodes we get here. What the OP and the studies are saying: even women may branch swing a lot, eventually they settle with one guy and have his children. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/15 04:17 AM |
| 11 | Askreddit thread gives us an unfiltered glance into the mind of an "average" woman.This just looks like a very sociopathic individual, the gender doesn't matter. You shouldn't generalize this to a whole gender. Also, frankly, cherry picking comments like this are not very helpful at all in this sub as this is an obvious outlier. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/01/15 07:17 PM |
| 6 | Dating someone far out of your social classI hate to say this, but you are just a temporary relationship. The main reason is that girls of this class, almost never marry young. They always marry 28+, and usually to other successful people. While she is not herself successful (it is all dadies' cash), her connections will enable her to land a good job, and meet other successful people. Even if you are able to maintain the relationship for the long term, in 5 years, when things get routine or boring, there will be somebody, good looking an… | /r/TheRedPill | 27/01/15 08:56 PM |
| 20 | Good news everyone, I am NOT the Father.She can't just claim the guy is his father without his consent. Otherwise you would have delusional women putting the name of the father famous people, etc. From NY's laws: When a child is born to a married woman, the law assumes that her husband is the child's father. However, when a couple is not married, the biological father is not considered the legal father until paternity is legally established. Establishing paternity gives certain legal rights to the child. It also gives certain legal ri… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/15 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Filtering out the 80% of men: Woman from Stanford to create "Elite Tinder App"I for one welcome this app to filter out the "idiot" girls that tinder is polluted from. But, on the other hand I am afraid this app will attract the wrong type of woman, the one that value empty credentials (i.e. where you went to school), over real life achievements, and overall compatibility. But whatever. I signed up for it. Since I am on that 20%, I think it will be a good playground to spin up some well educated plates. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/01/15 11:31 PM |
| 26 | She wants marriage.No, it is "potential" earnings. If you have been making 120k in average for your last three years, that's what your potential earning is. You loose your job, your are fucked. You become slave of the alimony and child support payments. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/01/15 10:26 PM |
| 3 | The Science of Alphas and BetasThis is pretty awesome and thanks for the summary. This sub needs more like this (science based findings). | /r/TheRedPill | 12/01/15 12:58 AM |
| 8 | Want an excellent example of holding frame? Watch the show House of Cards. Frank Underwood is a master.Remember, it is fiction and not reality and highly exaggerated. Probably reality is a very toned down version of it, but the stuff that he pulls off would be hard/impossible in real life. No President would be such an idiot to get replaced like that. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/15 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Had some trouble digesting a TRP concept. Now that I swallowed the pill I'm struggling on how to put it in action.Get your resume ready and move in a new place. Sometimes a fresh start (somewhere else) is better. Just make sure to apply any lessons learned on the new job so you don't do that mistake again. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/15 03:51 PM |
| 8 | Do average men in big cities have a harder time getting dates online?I agree, it is actually harder in Larger cities as there is more noise. There is the "paradox of choice", where people that have too many options can actually be unhappy. Living in NYC, what I have found that is super easy to get a 7 and below. But, if you want to date an 8 and above you are competing in the big leagues. You are competing with people that are in the top of their game, either be a profession (doctors, lawyers), money (finance, inherited), or looks (models, actors). You have to be… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 09:20 PM |
| 11 | Prostitute GameWhy can't you? Seriously? Even if it illegal, it is easy. It is like saying, man smoking pot will totally save my migrane. If only it was legal. Hint hint: pot is really easy to find. So are hookers, often just a click and a phone call away. I don't say you should do it, but the veiled (i.e. not explicit) threat to it will just be enough. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Unusual Situation with Chick: Chime in.Radio silence only if the OP doesn't want to have an LTR with her. Yes, that will work, she will be back to him, and fuck him good, but meanwhile she will start moving on both emotionally, and eventually physically to somebody that will commit. Unless she is an idiot, and keep hopping for more, a smart girl will start planing for her exit with the OP. If OP wants the LTR upgrade with her, then he should give it to her with whatever conditions the OP wants out of her. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Unusual Situation with Chick: Chime in.You have to realize that the perfect girl doesn't exist. All women have some kind of baggage. If OP asked her and she lied about a very important part of her past, then that is a red flag. But if they never talked about these stuff before, then that's ok. | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Unusual Situation with Chick: Chime in.Yep, you either give her a LTR, or she will eventually move on. Tell her this: What do you want from me? She will say, "I want to be exclusive, be gf/bf yada, yada", You already held frame and made her work for it, don't want to make it harder (i.e. don't pull the string to the point it breaks). You tell her, sure, but here are my conditions: Have to be honest with be, both in the future and about your past (ask any questions you have about her past here). You have to be fiercely loyal to me. If… | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 07:35 PM |
| 4 | Why Beta-Males ALWAYS LOSE - Woman Double Standard in a nutshellIt takes time. Months and months of practicing, hitting the gym, getting better at work, money, and more confident in general. For many people (especially former geeks like me), the work/money is already in place, just the confidence hasn't caught up with it yet. At the beginning it will feel like an act (you are acting more confident than you are used to), but after a while it will become you. If the last time a girl saw you as a "beta", she will treat you the same again, even though you change… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/14 11:08 PM |
| 3 | Dead end career? Staring programmingProgrammer here, Unless you are really smart, and have clear logical thinking (i.e. your SAT math score was above 650/800), then I would advice to steer clear of it. You have to be passionate and really good at it, but if you become a top engineer, (it takes at least 5-10 years of study and practice), you can easily make up to 200K. (mine is 170k cash + 35k stocks). I get 2-3 solicitation emails from other companies, a DAY, so in this environment it is easy to find a job, if you are good at it. … | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/14 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Balancing Alpha/BetaYeah, she asked you to do something masculine (carry some groceries), and in return she will do something feminine (cook for you). You fucked up that one. If she has two bags, offer to carry one. It is actually the alpha thing to do. Offer protection/help, for her offering nurturing. Anywhere a girl (that you are dating) asks for masculine things, you don't lose points by helping her out (e.g. use your drill to fix hang up a mirror on the wall). She will find you hot with that tool. I have seen … | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/14 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Low Income Alpha?No. It is a status indicator. Remember status = attractive to women. In their early 20s, women are inexperienced and don't know yet the value of status (and money), and eventually their preferences shifts with time. If the guy is a good looking dude, but works as a bouncer, a girl in her late 20s will ignore the shit out of you. Even if she fucked you, she will be to ashamed to been seen with you during daylight. (she will look like a slut to her friends). You are a decent looking guy, good job,… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/14 02:22 AM |
| 1 | Low Income Alpha?On my first job out of school I was making about 48k, and it didn't stop me from dating, and at some point having a gf. Even I dated (or slept) with my own salsa teacher. In your early 20s, income matters a lot less actually. As long as you have good clothes, good body, and look good. Women at that age are just out of school and want to have some fun, and are not really mature enough to understand or appreciate money. This changes with experience, and by their late 20s, they become more aware of… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/14 12:21 AM |
| 8 | Career Sabotage by ‘Uncomfortable’ WomenTwo points. If these things are happening to you so many times, you really have to get some introspection and see why it is happening and try to avoid it the next time. Be valuable enough, that you are hard to replace. Once you are in that position, you will find out that it is the girl that raises these issues that gets fired, and not you. Trust me, business is business, and a company will follow money. If you are a top notch engineer, sales person/rainmaker, banker, or whatever, you will get a… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/12/14 08:13 AM |
| 70 | How to know you are dating a slut. Source: I married one.18. She has major emotional stability issues (i.e. Bipolar, BPD, etc). When going through either manic phase (or sometimes even depression), some girls will want to fuck, and if you are not around, anybody will do. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/14 05:57 PM |
| 1 | How women get their statusYou are not the only one. I am in the same boat if a girl is not intelligent, no matter how good looking is she, I will not invest any time on her. Yeah, a quick hookup, but nothing more. I feel the demographics in this sub are very varied. From doctors or engineers, to people that just do pizza delivery. Their preferences will vary accordingly, so make sure to take a lot of the advice dished here with a grain of salt. | /r/TheRedPill | 06/12/14 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Voice coaching?Yep. I am actually taking session on accent reduction (here in NYC). I have been in this country for 15 years, but I still have a slight accent and I dread the "where are you from" question, as it is often used a disqualifier (unfortunately, I am from a relatively poor country in Europe, so it is not a sexy country). Part of it, it is learning intonation, and projection (which I lack). It has helped a lot. I am meeting with the coach/speech pathologist once a week, and I have to do some practice… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/14 07:17 PM |
| 2 | New York Time's piece on declining divorce ratesQuestion: How did you find she cheated on you? Did she tell you, or found it other ways? | /r/TheRedPill | 03/12/14 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Of naturals and high-value betasIf you measure intelligence by just raw IQ scores (intelligence is more than that, it includes EQ, and SQ, but they are not really measurable), then if you are above 135 in IQ, you are in the top 1% bracket. "Top 1 percent (99th percentile; 1 out of 100; approximately IQ 135)" Since I am in that bracket (140 IQ), I think it is easily believable that the author of the post is there as well). Also, his writing is pretty good. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/14 11:35 PM |
| 3 | How I Know RP WorksI have been in this position in the past, and all the time it has been because I was dating down, and usually girls with low self esteem. (they don't think they can do better, as you are probably dating down and she is dating up.) If you go 1-2 points lower than what you can get, it is easy to pull plates like this. But, if you try to punch above your weight, (date your level, or even higher), it becomes harder. Why? Because the girl knows she can get somebody else like you that is willing to co… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/12/14 10:06 PM |
| 0 | Testing my shit test skills on a woman i used to orbit. And behaving as an alpha for once.Yeah, remember the saying, for a girl always multiply the number by 3. Well, for a guy, divide it by 3. The OP has slept exactly 5/3 = 1 (integer division), woman since he took the pill two weeks ago. Maybe. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/11/14 06:30 AM |
| 3 | Monday Field reports - been a while, what do you got?I am getting rid of my Oneitis. That's it. Checking her out working out, without the flattering clothes and makeup she usually wear (we workout at the same gym), is slowing making me thinking her as "meh". She is coming off the pedestal fast. Also, after hearing of her cheating past, I am finally moving on and I view her just as another girl that is not worth it. Getting feelings for her, is another case of temporary insanity on my life, that unfortunately lasted few months too long. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/14 04:13 AM |
| 1 | The Different Types of Manipulator: from read it out of a book, to untamed psychopath, to actualised master.A King is the opposite of a MGTOW. He is the type that gets down and dirty, builds alliances, fights wars, and pillages and plunders other Kingdoms. Historically there have been two types of kings: a) People that won their crown by wars, killings, building alliances and more. True alphas. b) People that just inherited the throne. They could have been either true alphas (and increased the Kingdom's power), or pussies that just squandered the wealth, or sometimes batshit crazy ones. In anyway, the… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/14 04:47 PM |
| 8 | How TRP helped me get involved, expand my social circle, strengthen friendships, and boost my self-esteem to unknown heights.Have to say, your gf/wife has been great to support you so far. Not all women are cold hearted bitches, but yes, you have to pull your weight in a relationship and not rely too much on your partner. Anyways, as the chinese saying: The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The next best time, is today. Glad you are turning that shit around. Hit the gym, and get a rocking body, and be the rock for the family. At the beginning it will feel like you are faking it, but eventually it will become… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/14 01:29 AM |
| 1 | My aunt told me a story about her 10 year high school anniversary.That doesn't really happen actually. That guy is probably banging a hot escort, yes, but not a young vixen. 500k a year is nothing in nyc, and 4mil, maybe you can afford a two bedroom, with a balcony, but nothing too glam. Also, the usual fat balding businessman, is dating 22yo failed actresses/ballerinas, or perhaps girls that need a sugar daddy for college, basically escorts. Nothing wrong with it, but you can afford a $400/HR one as well. Now, if the guy is smart, witty/funny, has done intere… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/14 06:55 AM |
| 9 | What Beta tendencies, if any, do you still struggle with?been That's pretty cute actually. As long as you are not being weak/pussy, thats fine. Remember, you sucking your wife's tits, is just reliving your childhood, Freudian complexes, and that's fine. All real straight men (alpha, beta, or whatever), love boobs. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/14 05:19 AM |
| 12 | What Beta tendencies, if any, do you still struggle with?I had that one for a coworker. Pretty bad actually, as she was giving some hints, yet rejecting me at the same time. Do you know how I got over it? I learned she used to date another ex-coworker (around the same age), and cheated on him with the VP of the company (15 years older than him, sleazy type). The cheated on ex-bf quit his job, and there was some drama. When I heard this story, my jaw was in the floor. That little "angelic" nice girl that I was crushing so bad, was just a little stealth… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/14 04:30 AM |
| 3 | Who the fuck posted this on couchsurfing?is. And of course there are the bond traders or indie rock stars your own age that hit the jackpot early to compete with as well. Being in your early 20's in NYC without a trust fund means If you want to date 8+, then you are going to have major challenges. It doesn't matter if you are smart/funny, you still don't have the resources that somebody on their late 20s early 30s does. But, just getting laid with a 5-7 range, is super easy in NYC. Have fun with that, meanwhile build your career, body,… | /r/TheRedPill | 10/11/14 09:18 PM |
| 6 | Never work with children or animals? Never work with women.Software Engineer Here, (which is not the same as IT). I pull 170k + 20-30k bonus (in stock). So, almost 190k - 200k a year. I know people that make even more (I am not super happy with my salary, but it is decent enough for now). But, I am a top dog at what I do. I rarely meet people that are my match, or better than me. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/14 11:45 PM |
| 12 | Do girls seem really awkward around you once you achieve RP mentality?That's very true. I think "retarded" is too much of a strong word, but in my experience they turn more like "little school girls". Giggly, laughing at your stupid stuff you say, or whatever you say it is cute. It happens even to 40+ yo women. It is almost impossible to have a intellectual conversation at that point. You need to turn into banter. Just a bit her and a bit there, and they will be giggling their ass off. To be fair, guys get nervous/retarded as well in front of very beautiful women.… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/11/14 02:29 AM |
| 3 | FR Request: What Have You Done To Improve Your Life and SMV lately?Working on a startup on the side (apart from my job). Working out. Improving on reducing my accent. Bought an apartment. Improving on my self esteem (I got out of a BPD relationship, which didn't help it). Unfortunately, both 1 and 2 are hampering my social life. Ie. I have 0 time for activities (salsa, events, etc) where I can meet new people. So, I am unintentionally, almost in 'monk' mode without really wanting to be there, I just don't have time. Once I have settling some of the items above,… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/14 06:42 AM |
| 2 | To what extent is a high income important to the ways of TRP?It is actually pretty important in large cities (I.e. NYC or SF, or LA). I make 170k in NYC (engineer), and I feel relatively 'poor', when you have banker pulling 500k+ and/or millions. You are automatically placed in the B league in the dating market. It is a mindset, but the preconception as a engineers is a boring profession, and basically mediocre income. Makes the 8+ very hard to reach.. There is nothing really sexy about finance (you stay in front of a terminal, or doing spreadsheets and w… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/11/14 06:19 AM |
| 5 | Having a strong frame, genuine confidence and options, via : attacking your weaknesses.One of the things that will do wonders for your development is honestly realizing your own FAULT whenever a situation doesn't work out the way you want. Whether it's on your job, in relationships... whatever situation. Know that whenever something goes wrong... ESPECIALLY in relationships... very rarely does 100% of the blame fall on ONE person. The blame may be 50/50, 60/40, or 70/30, but one way or another, you DO share in the responsibility when a relationship doesn't work out. Realize this a… | /r/TheRedPill | 04/11/14 07:19 PM |
| 8 | Understanding How a Dark Triad Psychopath OperatesI highly recommend watching the new movie "Nightcrawler". It does a really great portraying of a total psychopath, that from a low level thief ends up being something more. It is something that you don't want to be, or aspire to, and unless you were born with those traits, you can't anyways. But, knowing the traits is good in order to be able to spot people in your life that are psychopaths, and are doing to either dupe you, backstab you, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/14 07:15 PM |
| 5 | Relationships never worth fighting forYou almost describe somebody with an with avoidant attachment style. Deep deep down, there is actually insecurity and sensitivity to vulnerability. It is hard to see how a quality girl with IQ > 100 will date somebody for a while (more than a few months), and not even know what the guy does. Unless she sees you just a penis to fuck, and that's it. Being independent, and having your own life doesn't mean to be "I have to act like I don't care" all the time. (Almost narcissistic avoidance). The fu… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/14 02:44 AM |
| 1 | 8 Things I learned from Living with a Beta Roommate | Michael Knox @ youngmanredpillAs a programmer myself, I have tried weed time to time. Almost all my friends have (in the West coast is actually hard to find an engineer that hasn't experienced with some kind of drug at some point). But this is a "once in a blue moon" recreational use. I have fellow engineers that do use it habitually, and they performance gets worse with time. Weed just dullens you over time. Most drugs are fine for experimentation/once a blue moon usage. (minus meth, heroin, and few other toxic stuff). But … | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/14 11:08 PM |
| 1 | SuicideHey, I have a 26 yo friend that is still virgin yo. (he was depressed during school/college). Not much experience at all. He is getting it together and going to shitload of dates and having a lot of fun. Actually I think he goes out more than I do. His scoring average is low as he is still building up experience, but when you try enough time you hit home run time to time. Things change as you get older. You might seem invisible/worthless now, but over time your value will build up. Focus your en… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/14 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Why women won't admit they like muscle?Yes, there is like too much muscle. Muscles in men are like boobs in women. At some point they can be too big. ie. most guys would be happy with a girl that has B or C (my ideal) cup, and D is a bit on the large side, but still ok. DD or E are just too large for me. Same with guys. If you are cut, and decent shape, it is a huge plus. But if you look like a walking refrigerator, starts becoming a negative. You start looking like a guido from Jersey, which overall is a turn off on most college edu… | /r/TheRedPill | 22/10/14 02:49 AM |
| 6 | "Smart women don't like ..."Good engineers make six figures out of college now days. After some more years of experience (ate least 5+ years) they make 150k+. The kicker is that they have very low student debt/loans (hey don't have to go to mba/law school/residency). If you major in Computer Science, and are good, you will have no trouble at all finding a job. The problem with that line of field is that you stay in front of computer all day, and your social skills start diminishing with time. Hence, most engineers have no … | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/14 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Understanding The Dark Triad - Q&A (Part 1)If you feel bad about it, then you don't have a dark triad. Being high on the Aspie (Aspeger's) spectrum correlates with a lack of empathy. A lot of engineers have it, (too logical, say things as they are and hurt people in the process), but they don't necessary want to hurt people maliciously. Eg. Friend 1: Lets hang out at the bar tonight! Aspie Reply: I don't feel like hanging out with you in a bar tonight. I prefer to watch a movie. <-- The truth, but not socially appropriate. Normal Reply: … | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/14 04:20 AM |
| 5 | Understanding The Dark Triad - Q&A (Part 1)Remember guys, these traits are not on/off boolean switches, but more of slider/spectrum. Almost everyone is somewhere in that spectrum (from 0 to 10). i.e. you can bit a bit narcissist (self centered), which can be healthy, or a full blown one, where it becomes maladaptive. Most teens (and 3-5 yo), are narcissist by nature. They feel invincible, can do anything, self deluded, etc. Eventually reality hits them in the face and with time they mature up into people with more realistic self esteem (… | /r/TheRedPill | 12/09/14 04:10 AM |
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