A lot of feminazis are under the assumption that the absolute worst and most permanently scarring things that can happen to a woman is for her to be raped. When someone says something to disagree with this idea, a common argument is that they have never been raped and can never understand what it's like, or how emotionally scarring it is because they've never experienced it.

Now what really irks me is that most of the people who use that argument haven't been raped either (as far as I can tell). They say that no one can know or understand how horrible rape is when they themselves have never been raped. Sometimes they even go into detail about the effects and just how the person will feel and be affected by it afterwards, and how the person saying that rape may not be the absolute worst thing a woman can experience (not even saying rape isn't bad, just that it's possible that it isn't the #1 problem in the world) can't say that because they've never experienced being raped, when they themselves have never experienced rape.

Do women (and white-knights) automatically know what it's like to be raped just because they're a feminist? Or has rape against women just become so common that it's hardwired into a woman's brain and the entire gender is born with an instinctual knowledge of what it's like to be raped?

EDIT: Reading over it again I realize that the last paragraph may make it look like I'm trying to downplay rape and say that it's not an issue. I agree that rape can be very traumatic and upend someone's life. The last paragraph was written ironically/satirically. I've seen people telling other people they can't comment on rape because they don't know what it's like to be raped when they themselves don't know what it's like to be raped. They assume that just because they are a feminist and "rape is a problem for mainly (or exclusively) women" that they will have a better understanding of the subject than someone who isn't a feminist even though they have never been raped themselves.