Had to deal with this disgusting woman in a topic about circumcision. My blood is boiling.

2021-08-19T04:59:30+00:00

the empathy gap includes babies apparently

Yahwehs_bitch · 2021-08-19T04:19:20+00:00

What.

Edit: I love how a one word comment can get upvotes

gdgriz · 2021-08-19T05:06:43+00:00

Nope. Nope, nope, no. This is not a thing. No.

StBennyTheTaxEvader · 2021-08-19T05:14:47+00:00

“Mutilate newborns because some men are evil”

Avidion18 · 2021-08-19T04:53:04+00:00

"rapped"

funkynotorious · 2021-08-19T05:40:36+00:00

How can someone people even think like this. I know people lack any kind of empathy for men. But this much.

JFedererJ · 2021-08-19T09:28:28+00:00

Why the fuck do yanks do this?

I understand circumcision can be necessary if someone has Phimosis but geez chopping off the foreskin of every boy?

Like... why?

Vanriel · 2021-08-19T05:45:19+00:00

I doubt I will ever understand people who think that mutilation of a child is the correct and proper thing to do.

morfeuzz · 2021-08-19T05:42:17+00:00

Just wanted to thank u for educating women on this grave inhumanity that no one talks about ... kudos .

We all need to start educating and socializing these details.

Itrusttheinternett · 2021-08-19T08:01:52+00:00

This woman is incredibly thick. The problem with thick people is that they go along with anything. They don't have a brain of thier own so if you present them with an alternative way of doing things they can't handle it and find any excuse to go along with the cultural norm. Unfortunatley, a lot of the world is like this. This woman clearly has no empathy. I don't think she would be a good person in real life, I expect most people would avoid her.

Keep-_-Out · 2021-08-19T09:32:43+00:00

Women having more empathy than men is a lie.

Btw you don’t need to cry for stranger babies. Save your energy on something more important than that, because it’s her future relationship (with her child) to ruin, not yours.

thunderstorm-nigg · 2021-08-19T11:11:52+00:00

Why women gets a say in men's problem amd their body ?

sparkevans · 2021-08-19T05:50:38+00:00

It blows my mind that this practice is considered acceptable anywhere in the world

manicraccoon · 2021-08-19T06:09:11+00:00

Go back to the toxic cesspool you came out from. No one needs your misandrist word vomit.

Note: That's for the woman in the screenshot. Not op. Just making it clear.

plaything19 · 2021-08-19T06:01:46+00:00

If it’s acceptable to circumcise penises it should be acceptable to remove the clitoris. There’s equality. I’m sorry you have to deal with this ❤️

mikesteane · 2021-08-19T06:23:51+00:00

I suspect that circumcision is likely to increase the number of rapes.

Snoo36988 · 2021-08-19T10:22:38+00:00

Just ask her, “Well how would you like if we exposed your glans clitoris to your jeans, it becomes painful and desensitized, and you can’t get off as easily?”

CanniBal1320 · 2021-08-19T11:34:32+00:00

Just ask her what are her views on vaginas being sewn shut to ensure the girl remains virgin till marriage. Circumcision and this are both genital mutilation.

dragonjock27 · 2021-08-19T13:26:46+00:00

If it makes you feel any better, that person you’re talking to is absolutely miserable and hates their life

General-Ad9818 · 2021-08-19T14:02:17+00:00

What she said made no sense. Like butchering baby boys genitals because they could “possibly” be a rapist? I understand circumcision can be necessary for health reasons such as if someone has Phimosis, but chopping the foreskin of every baby boy though? This lady seems like a narcissist.

If it’s not okay to circumcise the clitoris, it’s also not okay to circumcise the penis

freedomowns · 2021-08-19T07:28:23+00:00

Why does the head need protection anyway?

Smash a hammer into her head so she’ll understand.

lycanclaw14 · 2021-08-19T09:12:00+00:00

Genital mutilation is wrong, unnatural and disgusting. I don't know why people have trouble comprehending this.

Dackel42 · 2021-08-19T08:01:20+00:00

Wait i dont get it, where is the difference between getting raped by a guy with a circumcised penis or not? Im so fcking confused

Simpforyou29 · 2021-08-19T07:41:56+00:00

I still don't get circumcision. That's a god made piece of skin that is there for a reason

MuttonDressedAsGoose · 2021-08-19T08:56:38+00:00

You are dealing with her. You're giving her information. She probably just doesn't know better.

And I have met plenty of fathers who's only justification is they want their sons to look like them.

kieran69reed69 · 2021-08-19T10:12:55+00:00

Yet there the first to cry that fgm is unfair, mgm is a thing too but just gets swept under the carpet

akstary · 2021-08-19T12:32:01+00:00

So disgusting. WTF is wrong with people. Unfortunately, I have met men and women that feel this way.

geistworks · 2021-08-19T13:17:52+00:00

Cutting stuff off a newborn seems pretty cruel and painful, but, to be honest, as a circumcised man, its not like I remember it or feel any pain from it.

thotswillthot · 2021-08-19T08:29:04+00:00

Bruh stop expecting women to use logic they like plausible deniability

Snoo36988 · 2021-08-19T10:21:22+00:00

Ah yes, because all men rape, and you have to know how to remove the penis in self-defense.

no_user_ID_found · 2021-08-19T06:58:10+00:00

There are some countries in Africa where… 🤭🤭

1TARDIS2RuleThemAll · 2021-08-19T13:04:03+00:00

I’m circumcised, if I have a son, he will be circumcised.

What a weird hill for “men’s rights” activists to die on.

EmotionalFail927 · 2021-08-19T11:42:14+00:00

can confirm no such side effects lmao, don't even remember getting circumcised so no pain whereas if i were an adult, it would be a "memorable" experience

VANcf13 · 2021-08-19T12:06:32+00:00

I will never und why people want to do this to their child. My partner is American and I'm German were living in Germany and it's just not a thing here to cut the baby boys.

I'm currently pregnant and my man brought up the idea of getting our son circumcised. I usually take pride in being willing to compromise and debate about things with my partner, but I did state right away that I have a strong opinion on this topic and that I am not willing to make this (permanent!) Decision for our child.

He never really thought about circumcision in general since it was just how it was for him and his social circle. I explained that I find it kind of disgusting to subject our child to a surgery, just so his genitals would fit our own aesthetic standards. Put that way he had to agree.

If he wants to do it later, i would support his choice, I doubt he would want it, but I feel like it's a decision he should make himself. Not cutting it off a baby isn't permanent and can be changed if he prefers it "bald", cutting it off is.

OriginalFinnah · 2021-08-19T10:21:21+00:00

quit trying to push anti-circumcision s*** on people. There are actual benefits that are known for doing it. It's people's choice and they are correct people don't want a slug dick a lot of women and men think it looks gross as well and often is gross I know many people who don't clean well and have smegma. Y'all act like it's never an issue but with everyone I know that's uncircumcised it's an issue.

CuddlyArachnid · 2021-08-19T12:16:24+00:00

“Had to deal with” … “blood is boiling.” These keyboard wars aren’t doing your mental health any favors or changing anyone’s mind.

Huge_Examination1577 · 2021-08-19T08:27:07+00:00

this made me feel bad.

not_gareth · 2021-08-19T13:19:43+00:00

What a loser she is. Disgusting human being.

elebrin · 2021-08-19T13:46:46+00:00

For what it's worth I am not in favor of circumcision. I am myself circumcised but I am in favor of ending the practice unless medically necessary.

That said, I am about to defend the practice.

Circumcision USED to be something that men did to boys primarily as an initiation ritual - a thing that makes a boy a member of a specific society. I personally place a lot of importance on ritual significance, but even if I didn't, the people who perform circumcision for this reason certainly do. Used in this way it is perhaps barbaric but it's understandable - the boy is making a sacrifice to be a member of his tribe. Initiation rituals are important, they carry a lot of emotional significance. And this is one of them. Note that I am not arguing in favor of the practice, I am saying that circumcision was historically important for this reason.

The puritans (a group I will place men like Kellogg and Graham in) had a similar reasoning. They advocated for circumcision as a means to control mastrubation along the reasoning of "And if thy right hand offend thee, cut it off, and cast it from thee: for it is profitable for thee that one of thy members should perish, and not that thy whole body should be cast into hell." (KJV Matthew 5:30). Again, there was an element of sacrifice here: sacrifice the parts of you that cause you to offend God. It's about reaching an ideal state of purity so one can enter the Kingdom of Heaven. If you believe in this reasoning, it's a valid ceremonial reason to perform a circumcision.

I, personally, believe that there are other ways to believe that do not require circumcision. There are other initiation rituals that can be used, and other means to obtain that ritualistic purity needed.

In both cases, though, you will note a few things: it is specifically men prescribing the circumcision, it is men performing the circumcision, and the result is the boy gaining something very substantial, such as access to Heaven or membership in the tribe that you were born into.

Compare that to the circumcision prescribed by these women: Firstly, that itself is notable. The people prescribing the ritual have not had the ritual performed on them, and in fact have gone to great lengths to ensure that such a similar ritual is illegal and strictly taboo. They aren't offering any substantial reward, either: not membership in a society, not greater access to heaven, not even really greater access to women. No, it's simply a means of exerting control and removing pleasure in the name of debunked, pseudoscientific claims.

Again, I am not really in favor of ritualistic circumcision because we can have better ways of achieving the same things, but in that case it at least serves a legitimate purpose (if you believe ritual holds value, which again many people do).

JayMeadows · 2021-08-19T14:23:08+00:00

Jesus Christ, leave the penis alone

jwrizzle82 · 2021-08-19T14:41:45+00:00

Though I think this woman is a piece of shit, I really don't understand why this sub is so obsessed with being anti-circumcision.

I'm circumsized and I'm extremely grateful. Aesthetically and hygienically, I'm thankful for it. And I've never had a dryness or a crust forming around my glans... I'm not sure what kind of issues you guys are having but it certainly sounds like it wasn't done properly if that kind of shit is happening.

I've heard people on here complain about pain and tightness and all kinds of stuff I never once have had any problem with. There's plenty of slack in the skin for me and no pain whatsoever. I just don't have a turtle neck which I'm happy about.

iforgotmynamedammit · 2021-08-19T06:01:50+00:00

I'd understand circumcising your child for hygienic/religious reasons since both ways have their own advantages and such but aesthetic reasons?

Rockbottom503 · 2021-08-19T13:57:08+00:00

To be fair, situations like this are precisely where we need to just stay calm and talk. She clearly had no clue what she was going on about and seemed relatively happy to ask questions and be educated on this. You did a good thing today, you probably made not just that one woman but all the several others who may have come across it think twice about circumcising their own future children. There is no evil in being ignorant, there is evil in being educated and proceeding regardless.

Title	Had to deal with this disgusting woman in a topic about circumcision. My blood is boiling.
Author	Bone_Her_Sauce
Upvotes	452
Comments	227
Date	August 19, 2021 4:17 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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