They don't understand no

TieDieEye · 2021-09-12T15:58:52+00:00

Imagine asking someone you're not even dating to cook for you just because they're a girl. Guys like this are extra crusty.

Technusgirl · 2021-09-12T16:15:23+00:00

Wow, that's incredibly insulting that he asked you to cook for him, even if he was trying to be playful, like where tf does he get off? I would have been so disgusted with that comment.

LittleSnackPack58 · 2021-09-12T16:40:39+00:00

"No thanks. I dont hang out with community dick"

europoor24 · 2021-09-12T15:55:43+00:00

tHE AUDACITY bahahaha

Maleddie · 2021-09-12T16:30:50+00:00

Men seem to think women constantly have guys falling at their feet, sucking up to them, buying them shit, and being really gentlemenly/chivalrous (connected to the "living life on easy mode" lie) - and that women are bored of it and hate it. They therefore believe women will be impressed and intrigued by a man doing the opposite, not realising that actually men are just consistently rude and entitled and this behaviour falls into the same mould.

Actually, if a man were to be gentlemanly and chivalrous, most women would be incredibly easily impressed because the bar is so so low.

catlady4u · 2021-09-12T17:12:12+00:00

Has he been reported for sexual harassment?

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2021-09-12T17:20:46+00:00

Tell him you’re not his mommy.

LeafFamiliar · 2021-09-12T15:52:08+00:00

They do understand no perfectly well. They just don’t care about your boundaries.

Colour_riot · 2021-09-12T17:22:15+00:00

make him breakfast? oh the bloody audacity.

told him I don't "hang out" and I don't cook for any man

I'm guessing that even here you spared his feelings by pretending you don't do that for any man, when the real point is that he, personally, is one extremely repulsive individual

Seriously 5 years of this, how do you take it?

modernmedusaa · 2021-09-12T17:25:50+00:00

Five years? That’s obsession

Lol I knew a guy like this but for him it was 8 years trying on & off , he was a borderline rapist underneath the mask. Luckily he’s given up now. I also highly suspect he’s red pilled due to things he said.

I can’t think of any logical reason you would stay sexually harassing someone who doesn’t want you for that long besides being unhinged and entitled

Gives me Joe from You on Netflix vibes

These are the types of self victimising bitter guys who think you’re going to hit a wall, slip up or give them a chance one day and magically realise what a catch he is & regret rejecting him. Their brains cannot process rejection bc they’re arrogant. Even if you’re out of their league & have zero attraction or don’t show any interest.

It’s a revenge fantasy they cooked in their head to shield their ego from blatant rejection. They’re often used to manipulating pick mes empathy and shitting on boundaries. They are taken aback when you don’t buy the same tricks.

They also don’t understand the idea of mutual attraction….just preying & trying to conquer you.

Continue to grey rock him. Have you considered reporting him since you’re forced to work with this creep?

Honestly this type gives me the creeps capable of committing revenge - nothing puts them off even embaressment.

How can you get rejected 5 years straight and still continue? Narcassist . Delusion.

Luckily I didn’t work with my creep so it was easier to avoid him. He’s blocked on everything. But if he passes by my area he still tries to talk cos he’s fucking delusional. And I think a part of him knows women run away from him bc he’s a disturbed creep.

A good way to get off the hook with this type…since they don’t like the word no.

Is go completely cold. Short in conversation. Sigh when they’re talking. Seem really dry and bored.

You may even want to mention you have a new boyfriend that is a professional wrestler around him. So he thinks there’s a threat of him being punched if he doesn’t give up.

The creep I dealt with above backed off when I had a taller boyfriend on the scene. Because there was a physical threat of another bigger male.

I know ppl feel funny about that- but it does work.

JadeBaby2211 · 2021-09-12T16:46:56+00:00

Id tell him that if I'm going to be a personal chef I charge $500 every 20 minutes, with a $1000 deposit.

CoconutJasmineBombe · 2021-09-12T17:35:00+00:00

and make him breakfast?!?

Was reading your post and literally said that out loud. I can’t with these imbeciles.

MsXxSelfDestructxX · 2021-09-12T17:37:35+00:00

he was inviting himself AND expected you to cook for him? wtfff send him back to his mother

Aksentia_Ivanovitcha · 2021-09-12T17:43:13+00:00

In what world can you ever come to someone and offer they make you a meal like theyre just dying to be of service to you in every way - and someone would accept it like, excitedly and not laugh in your face?

Even if like the most wonderful person ever that i may limerent over for years would come up to me and say "make me breakfast as a date" i would laugh and refuse.

Only person who can offer this passtime and i would grudgingly accept is close family members. And not all of them.

Actually i would not only laugh in their face. I would be very offended because it has some mysogenist-objectifying vibes. Like, that offer clearly comes from a worldview that women's purpose and joy in life is to give pleasure and menial services. Basically treating you like a servant or a robot.

abby_ch238 · 2021-09-12T17:37:50+00:00

Is it possible for you to just not communicate with him at all unless work related? Like when he makes comments like that just don’t even acknowledge his presence. Scrotes love getting negative attention too so any retort to him harassing you gets him off. Especially since you mentioned you’ve reported him for sexual harassment and the company has done nothing. Also if possible look into leaving because a company like that isn’t good for your mental health. But I understand that it really sucks when we are the ones being harassed yet we have to be the one leaving because no one cares about our safety

Title	They don't understand no
Author	SkynyrdGyrl81
Upvotes	133
Comments	33
Date	September 12, 2021 3:46 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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and make him breakfast?!?