Empowering Question to Women Engaging in Hookup Culture (watch till the end)

Lost_Kale90 · 2021-09-12T01:57:22+00:00

This makes me think about how my self-worth has been broken down over time. And definitely that of women as a whole. We are worth so much more. Thank you for sharing!

purasangria · 2021-09-12T04:05:55+00:00

Wow. It's so sad how we've all allowed ourselves to be treated by men. No way did I or do I deserve that, nor does any woman.

chainsawbobcat · 2021-09-12T11:41:56+00:00

I have a childhood picture on a shelf at the bottom of my stairs I greet her every morning and try to do my best by her each day!

lansburysoda · 2021-09-12T05:07:27+00:00

Hookup culture is mostly just women hoping for relationships while men “play the field” and manipulate us until 10+ years pass and they eventually decide they’ve exhausted their options and they’re losing their looks so it’s time to propose to the next woman who comes along/whomever they happen to be with when this realization hits

They are everything they accuse us of being

pickadaisy · 2021-09-12T14:34:26+00:00

Women are so damn beautiful. She looks like a fairy.

bioqueen53 · 2021-09-13T00:36:43+00:00

I was a firecracker as a teen. Never kissed a boy. Never had a bf. I was unapologetically myself.

At 17 I was r*ped by someone I trusted. It absolutely fucking broke me. It's been 12 years. It's taken so long to heal.

I had trouble saying no because I felt like no meant nothing. I self harmed. I struggled with my identity. I spent years doing research, trying to understand how someone could do that to me.

For a brief while, I kept a blog. It got entangled with the manosphere. I remember a man telling me that I seemed like such a snob, that I deserved to be r*ped to be put in my place.

Men know what they are doing.

queeninprogress · 2021-09-12T11:09:15+00:00

This is so powerful!

gigi_chi · 2021-09-12T12:51:32+00:00

Wow this is deep

East-Willingness513 · 2021-09-12T07:58:44+00:00

I think about this with my own child. Would I want anyone to treat my child the way I’ve been treated by men? NO. I need to set a good example by cutting out anyone who does not truly value and appreciate me so they will do the same. Monkey see, monkey do.

luvmyvulvaxoxo · 2021-09-12T18:09:22+00:00

I don’t think it’s a coincidence that most of our music, movies, tv, etc. has been written by men. And they have a huge influence on what shapes our culture.

jugularlemonade · 2021-09-12T16:18:24+00:00

This is a fantastic strategy to analyze how you think of yourself. I’m so glad you posted this.

shedipity · 2021-09-12T05:46:18+00:00

this made me rethink a lotttt. definitely going to be using this in many aspects of my life. i wish i could talk to my younger self and apologise for all the stuff i put her through when she grows up, but i just have to remember that i GROW from it and have learned MANY lessons from it.

kinkardine · 2021-09-12T05:03:28+00:00

Wow and I always thought I am not tall enough, thin enough, pretty enough, white enough to deserve a little respect, if someone cannot provide commitment to her( according to my insecure self she has all those qualities), and yet is treated that way. I remember guys used to pass around contact information of easy girls to their friends in my previous country.

Title	Empowering Question to Women Engaging in Hookup Culture (watch till the end)
Author	Feminineprincess
Upvotes	198
Comments	19
Date	September 12, 2021 1:41 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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