I've written many posts on this subreddit and some of the comments I've gotten lets me know that there are some men who want women to accept betas and treat them like Alphas. And there are others who are Alphas (or aspiring Alphas) and want to learn the game.
Some of you think that women are damaged goods beyond repair and the reason for that is because you're operating from a Beta Bucks standpoint or, as Rom Wills calls it, non-select standpoint.
Men who learn game and understand that women want to fuck one type of man, while settling with a different type of man, you will actually find joy in being with women when you're the guy they're fucking.
For men who practice BDSM, they learned how to dominate women, but at the same type, let the woman know that they care about her in some kind of way. I was listening to a BDSM podcast on Audible and the podcast speaker mentioned something that they do called "after care" after they were done "playing". What I mean is after he has whipped her, spanked her, or whatever they were doing, the Dom would make sure that his sub was good mentally and even gives her a massage, aspirin, probably give her some rubbing alcohol or bandages if blood was drawn, etc. When the sub understands that her Dom is dominant, yet caring, she will trust him even more to take things even further. The Dom must get his sub's consent if he is to do anything to her (I understand Doms and subs are not gender-specific, but I'm aiming this post at men who want to know the Male Dom/Female sub dynamic). The Dom must make sure that he respect his sub's wishes when she wants him to stop, slow down, or is okay to keep going.
For men who learn game from players, macks, and pimps, they learned that it's about the man, not the woman. Yes, these men understand female nature, but they learn it to gain an advantage, not see the disadvantages of being with women. You see, these men were "Red Pilled" before it was even a thing. They understand female nature and they understand that women must deal with you from a place of respect. If a woman or a big group of women are disrespectful towards them, they will not consider her an option. If they're with her, they will "charge her to the game" (dump her, stop dealing with her, etc).
Some of you may notice that my posts don't sound "Red Pill" but that's because I learn game from other avenues. As a matter of fact, the first place I learned game was from a book called The Art Of Mackin' by Tariq Nasheed. Some of you may know him for his socio-political works and documentaries, but he wrote relationship books. That book came out before the Red Pill was even a thing back in the late 90s/early 2000s. I also consumed content on pimps and pick up artists. It's not limited to that either. I learned game from NoFap or Semen retention. I heard about the Red Pill later on (probably about 4-5 years ago) from Donovan Sharp and he talked about the book The Rational Male.
You see, Red Pill is not the only thing out there that helps you understand female nature. As a matter of fact, there are men who learn the Red Pill and get better with women without going into Red Pill Rage because they had their hearts broken years ago. They learn the Alpha Fuck/Beta Bucks dynamic and learn towards the Alpha fucks side of the game more to enjoy all the sexual benefits from women, while keeping their "bucks" in their wallets. Other men want to remain Betas and get angry because women want to settle with them after the Alphas have had their fun with her.
You want to be the guy that women think of when they're married with children and remembering the hot steamy sex the both of you had. You want to be the guy who women are with when they text or call their boyfriend saying that they're not gonna make it to see them. You want to be the guy who moves towards the strong game so they can stop being weak men.
What are your thoughts?
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For the bad lifestyle I can recommend you to read The Slight Edge. The book will give you insights about how small actions taken everyday towards your goal, will get you there. Things that are easy to do but also easy not to do.
This principle might be simple but to really understand the importance of it, I highly recommend you check out the first pages of the book. “The Slight Edge” by Jeff Olson
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