If you notice yourself wishing you could give a man “the benefit of the doubt”, it’s your sign to DROP him. You’re TOO invested & that just won’t do.

Only in a RARE circumstance would you need to have him earn the benefit of the doubt — even though that, in itself, is too generous.

Otherwise, you need to drop him, block and delete. As a HVW, you cannot afford to be invested in a man, period; especially in the beginning of dating.

So get your shit together and next him. Because, at the end of the day, your wishful thinking will only do more harm.