Whenever I get mixed feelings about a man's actions...

katiekat0214 · 2021-10-06T04:46:38+00:00

You validate yourself and get a laugh! Win win!

sewingmachinesavior · 2021-10-06T11:55:23+00:00

Whenever I feel confused about a man’s actions or intentions, I quit seeing him. Men who want you NEVER leave you confused or questioning. It took time to get there. But it’s so freeing!

datthingy · 2021-10-06T05:07:41+00:00

Same! I do this a lot , whether it’s a woman’s actions or a mans. I know y’all would not let me live in the comments if I accepted some disrespect so I keep that in mind. ☺️

Suspicious_Bad_5178 · 2021-10-06T11:42:31+00:00

Yess! Sometimes we know exactly what to do and what we got ourselves into, but the tough love and validation from FDS can give us so much strengh

Ana_jp · 2021-10-06T16:50:29+00:00

I imagine introducing them to my salty best friends. If I get the “wtf were you thinking” look from them in my minds eye I know it’s time to scram.

nanofarm · 2021-10-06T16:20:56+00:00

WWFDSD

Specific-Composer300 · 2021-10-06T08:51:15+00:00

😂😂 Good tactic

NiceForWhat22 · 2021-10-06T11:49:16+00:00

Ha! I noticed I do that too! It's like looking at yourself through the FDS-lens and quickly realizing how off the situation is.

Ok-Yogurtcloset3467 · 2021-10-06T13:32:44+00:00

Same. I laugh to myself and reassure myself I can do an say whatever I want to this man. I don't owe him anything. Its a comforting thought

idiosyncraticg1 · 2021-10-06T19:30:56+00:00

I do this too!

scorchedsouI · 2021-10-07T06:14:09+00:00

Mixed feelings aren't mixed at all, they're a very clear message from your intuition that something isn't right.

fogplum · 2021-10-08T03:16:31+00:00

I also like to imagine what my mom would say (who isn't exactly FDS-aligned because she's traditional, but she knows men ain't shit and women have to keep standards high and boundaries like steel.

rlcute · 2021-10-13T11:07:54+00:00

This is me right now lol. I was considering writing a post but I already know what the answers would be.

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