Ladies... I'm not sure when I had the idea to do this, but I'm loving the effect it has on men and wanted to share it with you! Hope it's not a repost, also I'm not a native...

So, my strategy. It's simple. Just pretend you can't cook at all. Except noodles or something very easy. 3 dishes or so, that's all. Pretend you can't bake either. Say you'll let everything burn. Tell them about it. Let them know.

Some men will sort out themselves immediately "what, you suck at cooking?? Try harder" which is perfect. Away they go! Others offer to give advice and that's where it gets interesting... how do they give advice? Are they rude, are they annoyed, do they make fun of you? Sort them out.

Will they offer to cook for you and take this opportunity to get to your place for the first "date" aka try to just get into your kitchen so they get a chance to get you into bed?

Will they offer advice, kindly, and will you like the way they talk to you while giving the advice? Will they handle your apparent weakness with care and empathy and respect? How is their reaction when you decline advice given to you? Like when they say to put X into Y and you tell them you didn't like the outcome, will they react in a way which makes you feel secure and respected? Will they try harder to give advice that suits your taste better?

Their reaction says so much about their personally and how they handle your weaknesses, especially something that is seen as something a woman has to be able to do, like cooking.

I found that the men who passed this test are insanely more pleasant to be around than any other men I was in contact with before applying this.

Let me now what you think!