Are women only attracted to guys they have casual sex with?

wtknight · 2021-10-25T02:36:11+00:00

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Orange_Paisley · 2021-10-25T02:01:49+00:00

For like the millionth time, a woman does not have to be primally attracted to a man to have casual sex with him. He could just be a guy she is comfortable with and he is there.

ohdiddly · 2021-10-25T02:03:42+00:00

I don’t make men wait for sex lol

I would never date someone that I’m not sexually attracted to and I would never get into a relationship with someone who I haven’t had sex with… so the entire premise of this post doesn’t make much sense to me

Willow-girl · 2021-10-25T02:24:44+00:00

I never made a man wait ... and I've got the N-count to prove it, lol.

2021-10-25T02:32:03+00:00

Why would women only ever be attracted to men they have casual sex with?

Like. Okay. The men that women have casual sex with are usually sexually attractive to them. (That’s why they’re having sex, duh). But how do you conclude that women only are attracted to men they have casual sex with.

Imagine a Stacy, why would she marry someone she’s not attracted to? Women don’t actively or consciously think, “Ah yes. This man, let me dangle sex in front of him and trap him.” Very few women think like this. In fact, most women want commitment from men they’re attracted to, and often, most women are with men they’re attracted to.

And, in terms of “giving sex,” that depends on you. Women usually wait until they’re comfortable with a guy to sleep with him. Some guys are better at getting women more comfortable with them, so women sleep with them earlier. They don’t consciously rank you or think in this very mechanistic way.

In terms of waiting, I think most women who want to wait have either gotten burned before and want to be more careful with who they’re vulnerable with or they just don’t get sexually attracted to people that easily. I don’t know why some of you think a woman had sex on the first date in the past she must have sex on the first date with you. Women are allowed to change their sexual boundaries. You don’t have to accept them and you can find someone else. But sexual boundaries aren’t a question of fairness.

Edit: I’ve never had sex. I simply haven’t found someone I feel comfortable having sex with yet.

fakingandnotmakingit · 2021-10-25T02:32:33+00:00

I never have relationships with people I don't find attractive at all.

So no.

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2021-10-25T02:35:06+00:00

do you fantasize about them while you're with the guy you made wait?

vibe check

You're being weird as fuck

SaBahRub · 2021-10-25T01:50:42+00:00

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WillfulGrapefruit · 2021-10-25T02:33:47+00:00

Nope.

mackenzie013_02 · 2021-10-25T02:34:00+00:00

What does casual sex have to do with love? How do you get from having casual sex at some point and love for your partner?

No, I didn’t love men I had casual sex with (that’s the whole point?). I never loved my FWB (which wasn’t really “casual” per se). I loved all my boyfriends tho.

Also, you don’t “give” sex, you have sex!

ChibsFilipTelfordd · 2021-10-25T02:34:16+00:00

Honestly, I wouldn't want to date any girl who had ever had casual sex because it's proof against the fact the she actually loves me and that she'd always be willing to go back to the guy she had sex with if he ever gave her the chance

But... Uh... Why can't you also be the guy that has casual sex with her?

Hell, relationships OFTEN start with a hookup. You fuck, love it, become fwbs, catch feels, etc.

Title	Are women only attracted to guys they have casual sex with?
Author	beeguy727
Upvotes	1
Comments	22
Date	October 25, 2021 1:43 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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