Play hard to get, be hard to want

katiekat0214 · 2021-10-24T13:45:20+00:00

Nah, bro, just nah. Do less, talk less, be forgotten about quicker. Be dismissed and forgotten quicker. You're not "mysterious", you're just a douche if you do that. Bye! I can and will do better than... that.

ironglaciers · 2021-10-24T13:47:52+00:00

If a guy acts super aloof with me I don't necessarily want to chase him. He's either not interested, or being an asshole. What really turns me on is effort in a man I'm interested in. Effort is everything. It doesn't mean he needs to be around me 24/7. It means that he makes our interactions count as much as he can, even if he's a fellow introvert like me.

miwamus · 2021-10-24T13:52:08+00:00

There is nothing less attractive than an uninterested man.

In case an idiot (of, most likely, a man) is reading this: yes, she has to be interested too, for the statement to be true. Can't go around being interested in women that aren't interested in you and think that's attractive.

Edit: thanks to the person pointing out the misspelling.

intergalacticanon44 · 2021-10-24T14:00:03+00:00

Why do they want to be chased so badly omg

XNjunEar · 2021-10-24T13:57:29+00:00

Yes please do that so we can get rid of you immediately.

shedipity · 2021-10-24T14:40:24+00:00

Huge turn off lmao

Vivierex · 2021-10-24T14:41:45+00:00

Seems like majority of guys think this way. If someone just stops responding or takes week all of a sudden to respond something short I'm done. It's not attractive at all, doesn't make a guy mysterious it makes them look like ahole I don't want to have any contact with. If this is their strategy then good luck in crying more how they never had a girlfriend.

lolmemberberries · 2021-10-24T14:49:55+00:00

Nope. At best, I'll assume you're boring. At worst, I'll think you're socially inept. Either way, I won't stay interested.

xfelugirlx · 2021-10-24T14:57:42+00:00

Do less and you get less, that’s it.

coolestgirlyoueverme · 2021-10-24T15:48:48+00:00

Lol, do less to be different, what an idiot, when being low effort is the norm, you won't stand out brah, you'll blend right in 🤣

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