I will try to summarize the whole situation, but my soon to be X cheated on me back in June and July, and has since developed a new life, with several new “loves.” However, we have two children which I have taken care of 99% of the time during the last two months. She has seen our children at max, 5 days total and uses the excuse she doesn’t want to be around me, but I’ve told her many times, she can simply take the boys somewhere or I would leave altogether while they had time together. None of it seems to make any sense to me and I’ve tried to rationalize it, but fail to do so. She is also claiming she wants 50/50 parenting, but that seems to go against everything she has been doing.

I guess I’m just wanting to vent because like others on here, she is making the divorce process difficult. I’m unable to speak to her over the phone without her “freaking out”, hanging up, and sending any follow up calls to voicemail. I’m ready for a conclusion, but she seems fine keeping our lives in purgatory while she is out living it up with friends and new men.