Philanthropist husband leaves his wife, disabled child, and two other children following an affair spurred by ostensible charity-work

misandryismadeup · 2021-12-18T20:00:22+00:00

“Addict mother runs off with married millionaire” these titles always say the woman is running off meanwhile she’s still in her kids lives while the man abandoned his kids.

JadeBaby2211 · 2021-12-18T20:54:25+00:00

So my dad will regularly give other small children the childhood that I never had. I think its because NVM hate themselves so much deep down, that they also reject their children, and have these rose colored glasses for other kids. That and NVM run in the opposite direction when children become anything less than healthy, happy and eager for the dad's approval. Because the kids are an extension of the man, when he sees his kids not doing well it reminds him of his own mortality/vulnerability/emotions and so he tries to reject suffering in his reality, than face his own suffering.

In essence, men like that are scared of their own proverbial emotional shadow. Cowards.

Platipus6 · 2021-12-18T21:14:46+00:00

A lot of men are disgusted if their own offspring are "defective". But other women's 'failure' children are a damsel in distress and another man's problem. So he can swoop in and be superior to both of them with no feelings of shame. He can convince himself he's such a good guy.

Geocities_SEO_Expert · 2021-12-18T22:44:50+00:00

There's a saying that angers a whole lot of people:

"Charity begins at home."

QueenAlice3 · 2021-12-19T01:27:59+00:00

Two words- Performative kindness. When people want the world to see them as “good people” but they’re not.

DivineGoddess1111111 · 2021-12-19T03:09:57+00:00

The icing on the cake of this story is that the cheating husband is now in prison for manslaughter. Scrotes gonna scrote. Sad someone else had to die for scrote to get karma. link

purasangria · 2021-12-19T00:10:13+00:00

It really just comes down to "muh penis" and his desire to have someone else touch it.

StarbornDancing · 2021-12-19T04:21:02+00:00

Charity doesn't have to come from a place of kindness. A lot of wealthy people use charity as a form of reputational rehabilitation. It gives them status and wealthy men often like to get into a dick measuring competition regarding how much they do or give to charity. For these men it's just another way to stroke their ego.

It's the same old "but he didn't seem like a bad person" thing. He's nice to "the people that matter" but is horrible or abusive in private.

I wouldn't be surprised if this is because of his need for control. He throws away his old wife with the disabled child for someone with two/three weaknesses that he can easily manipulate. One she's never going to have the same status as him in the circles her travels so he has all the power, two she's an ex-addict and he'll use that against her, three she clearly loves her daughter a lot and will do a lot to make sure she has a good life which means she's less likely to leave when he escalates the abuse.

This might get some heat but as a side note - be very wary of men who have children with disabilities. + Shitty men will see it as the ultimate in baby trapping a woman. If it's difficult to be a single mom, depending on the disability and financial background it can be almost impossible to be a single mom with a disabled child. + The child is often used as a narrative prop while the man mostly avoids the child. For example a man like this will prey on women by saying that even though he's well off it's so hard to be the father of a child with a disability and how he's emotionally traumatised blah blah. If they want to cheat and if they can they'll blame the disability on their wife and talk about how they want a "normal" child. Meanwhile he'll never take care of the child or help out. Same deal as part of his public narrative - wealthy but what a shame about his kid and what a great dad that he is a parent to a kid with a disability (when in actuality that's the bare minimum).

MsWriteNow07 · 2021-12-20T00:19:35+00:00

The truth is this: men think they deserve praise for breathing. If they could get the same praise for actually raising their own children and doing what they’re supposed to do that they do for a “rescuing” someone like an addict, they would. And men don’t like to feel like they have a responsibility. With their own children, there’s always work to be done and they’re not getting the praise they feel they deserve for it, plus it’s just their job. They aren’t doing extra and they aren’t entitled to anything for doing it, so they resent it. It’s so much easier to go for a woman from broken circumstances and spoil her children who will idolize him because to them he’s doing extra. To them he’s going to play stepdad and Savior and superhero. That’s why men do that.

Emergency-Feed8216 · 2021-12-20T07:24:43+00:00

To quote a scrote who would know all about scrotery, "Everything is permitted the hero." --Jean-Paul Sartre.

That's why the worst pedos are so often found in helping/salvational roles in society.

Title	Philanthropist husband leaves his wife, disabled child, and two other children following an affair spurred by ostensible charity-work
Author	alpinepunch2021
Upvotes	248
Comments	26
Date	December 18, 2021 7:47 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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