Men say only women and children are loved unconditionally, men are loved only as long they provide something. Women say everyone is loved conditionally. Men say their 'conditions' are much less strict and more sensible (one might say they're actually the bare mininum, bar has never been lower): don't be obese, be pleasant, be faithful, love sex, love him, while women demand unreasonable amount of 'conditions' for they partner to stay loved. Women say men don't care about women actual personalities, achievements and only care about looks and sex, while women are interested in men as a persons and are interested in being friends with them, not just fuck them. Men say women care about mens personalities and achievements only as long as it benefits them and if men show too much of vulnerable or unconfident side of his personality to his partner she quickly gets rid of him. Women say men see women as sex objects or bangmaids or therapists, not as actual multidimensional human beings. Men say women see men as status objects or providers or comfort objects, not as actual multidimensional human beings.

Don't reply with 'nobody ever loved for who they truly are', the question is "In your opinion, what gender is MORE likely to love their partner for who they truly are? Who is MORE likely to actually love their partner and not overly idealized image of them in their head or the things that they provide (sex/comfort)?