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Kinda feel done with porn honestly. Been watching it for a good few years now and it's just kinda blase, I've seen it all before. I'm also kinda done watching attractive people have sex so intently, I feel like it's kinda when billionaires go on their space flights or whatever. Whoop-de-fucking-doo.

Thing is I still want to explore my sexuality on my own. Porn was the only way I could experience sex. At least I thought it was, it was the most immediate at least with it only being a button click away. But as I deemphasise it in my life I kind of feel like I'm out of options on ways to experience and explore sex, kinks, and other shit like that

So what are some ways that a guy can play with his sexuality in a productive and expressive way?

Some things I've been thinking about are perhaps posting nudes onto appropiate places like the gonewild subs, or as a more advanced move making an OnlyFans which has the added bonus of making some cash (Although I don't think I would make that much lol).

Another possibility is toys. Pocket pussies and sleeves or whatever, any recomendations appreicated. I've also been thinking of buying a vibrator, specifically a Hitachi wand. I know it's something typically used by women, and that's honestly why I want it, using it would feel kinda subversive. Also I could just use it for it's intended purpose, as a back massager

Sort of made this post because I'm seeing a lot of sex positivity for women and GNC people, just not a lot for men. There must be hundreds of articles telling women how to 'reclaim their sexuality' and empower themselves, not sure I've ever seen any for men. I still believe that stuff people say is kinda true, if a woman has a vibrator she's empowered but if a man has a fleshlight he's pathetic. I kinda feel like male sexuality is demonised (at least deviant forms of it are, forms which do not fit the standard). This isn't to say 'Oh women have it soooo easy', just a disparity I noticied and want to fix

And because I feel like it always gets said, yes I'm aware porn isn't an accurate depiction of sex