Its 2022. Women being "dishonest about what they're attracted to" is outtdated and pointless to moan about

Plopolok · 2022-01-28T10:23:34+00:00

In this post: When is explicit(verbal) consent ever given by women you have basically a lot of women saying "it's very common, I like it a lot" and a lot of men saying "it's the surest way to kill the potential relationship".

There was also a post some time ago about preselection, where a man asked if being seen with another girl was beneficial for dating, and it was the same: most women saying "no, I lose attraction if a guy is already taken" and most men saying "of course, it's the surest way to boost your chances".

So, even in 2022, there's a lot of discrepancy between what women say and what men experience.

caption291 · 2022-01-28T10:48:36+00:00

Men are being lied to by women:

Women most affected.

ohheyhi99 · 2022-01-28T08:53:58+00:00

“Firstly, 2022. Women, especially sub 25 years of age, make it VERY clear left right and centre that they want tall hot guys. There is also way more cultural awareness and memes about simping being a bad thing. The girls you're after are letting you know every day what they want.”

Then why am I still hearing things like “the bar is on the floor” and “the female gaze doesn’t objectify” on TikTok? Outdated beliefs about women haven’t died out with all sub-25 women. Lots of women believe these things, so why wouldn’t some men end up believing that those women were at least describing themselves accurately?

louplop · 2022-01-28T08:43:26+00:00

Firstly, 2022. Women, especially sub 25 years of age, make it VERY clear left right and centre that they want tall hot guys.

Good now we'll be able to talk about men beauty standard, women shallowness. Short/ugly men acceptance.

Everything my generation of men went through !

Secondly, WHY get so hung up and angry about the fact that women havent always been so transparent?

Really ? Because when you grow up and get rejected if people aren't honnest you might think something is wrong with who you are or your personnality while you're just not attractive enough. If you're short for example if it's the only reason you get rejected you must know it because it would lead to acceptance and not other extrem.

I feel its common sense, and the frustration is pointless

This is misandry. Men can feel whatever they want and any feelings is valid. You are no one to pretend otherwise and I ask you to keep your judgment about what people feels to you. Now... If you want to help some men to accept their feelings, you're welcome

Dan240z · 2022-01-28T09:25:54+00:00

Your right it's a reason men have to be more proactive and mobile you might have to find a suitable woman overseas technology advancement has made it possible to do remote work day trading stocks and crypto for a living and take advantage of the geographical arbitrage in other nations.

TryLambda · 2022-01-28T10:12:37+00:00

It’s better to be mgtow, so you no longer have to worry about feminist lies

Pola_Lita · 2022-01-28T09:19:24+00:00

Secondly, WHY get so hung up and angry about the fact that women havent always been so transparent?

The average woman's situation has changed. She has more options than marriage and children and sexual service. She is more sophisticated and self-directed. The result is a reprioritization of what she needs in a partner as well as redefining what constitutes male attractiveness.

It's understandable that this sort of change would be frustrating for some men, particularly those who work more on denying it by trying to assign blame, (women are shallow!) or character faults, (they were just lying before!) or insisting that the issue is only in women's heads, (stop simping! women already think they're worth way more than they are!) than trying to figure out a way to meet the changes.

Men, women and civilization have changed in this aspect and it's as pointless to moan about it as it is to insist that it's something it isn't. Change with it or don't, but trying to convince yourself it's somebody's fault or failure is only going to make it harder to cope. It's just progress.

abaxeron · 2022-01-28T11:30:58+00:00

OR is the "lie" more encompassing than that?

This.

The girls you're after are letting you know every day what they want.

I'm "after" no girls; my problem is that AFTER nice guys get rejected by girls and drink themselves to death, and those girls get used, damaged, and traumatized by bad boys, they either come to me demanding I absorb consequences of their choices, or they come to the government demanding I absorb the consequences of their choices.

At the same time, I am supposed to shut up and never mention that those same women honestly boil in their own delusion that they are independent.

cautionTomorrow555 · 2022-01-28T09:25:54+00:00

Secondly, WHY get so hung up and angry about the fact that women havent always been so transparent?

Why are you mad I am only now telling you the truth after it is too late to do anything about it and it is disastrous? You can't blame people for being lied to for most of their life and then being angry when you suddenly decide to tell the truth that is some boy who cried wolf moral story.

Like, dude, NOW you know the truth...so get over it....and even if women do still say "I want a nice guy who does this and that and values this and..."...youve gotta use common sense and realize they mean have a good personality AND be hot, right?

Now you are shifting tactics to what does it matter if I keep lying and victim blaming them mixed in with a bit of shaming.

All this just because women won't stop being hypergamous with outlandish impossible standards you would rather keep trying things like this. I can't believe you are somehow policing men being angry you don't get to decide my feelings and how I feel about things especially if those feelings are justified.

Im_The_Daiquiri_Man · 2022-01-28T10:27:26+00:00

Why do women incessantly complain about getting pumped and dumped and strung along by “Caleb” to the point they are trying to get him fired?

It’s 2022. Girls should know the attractive Chad’s they choose will fuck all their friends, so they should shut up about it when the inevitable happens.

C4yourshelf · 2022-01-28T09:55:10+00:00

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Da_Famous_Anus · 2022-01-28T09:58:27+00:00

I honestly don't want tits and ass. Girls don't even get what guys want apparently. Tits and ass with get you superficial attention from some guys I'm sure but lots of guys prefer smaller chested women. Not every guy wants a girl who has ass implants.

Funny, intelligent, good mother, are important things, don't leave out cooperative and unselfish. This is what men do want.

This doesn't mean that men want an ugly obese girl. Most guys want a healthy, reasonably attractive girl.

The problem today is that every girl wants a 10/10 guy, they think they deserve a 10/10 guy when they don't and then outside of that, they don't even have the capacity to see the virtue of other guys who are also doing impressive things with their lives who might be 7/10 but still really great very successful guys.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2022-01-28T10:50:36+00:00

I disagree. Female beauty has been objectively seen as the main decider of a woman's sexual attractiveness. Men agree on what a sexually attractive woman looks like although many have different tastes. It is obvious and apparent. There is an entire multibillion dollar industry helping women look more physically attractive than their genetics have allowed them to naturally.

At the same time, men will claim "women only want tall muscular Momoa looking hung like horses guys". Then you point out that women will sleep with the likes of Mick Jagger, Tony Soprano, Ed Sheehan, who look nothing like this. And then men's hamster wheel start spinning trying to explain how these men are rich, famous, high status and how for them looks don't matter.

So which one is it then? Do looks matter or do they not? How many exceptions are you willing to make to your rule? Because if you make exceptions for rich guys, famous guys, athletes, musicians, actors, TikTok stars, etc etc, then you have to really question the validity of your claim that only hot looking men are of interest to women.

We do not make similar exceptions for women. No one ever says "she got this guy because she is rich or because she's famous or because she's the singer of a band although she is pretty unattractive". There are no such exceptions for women, but there are plenty such exceptions for men, which questions the entire b****k pill premise.

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Title	Its 2022. Women being "dishonest about what they're attracted to" is outtdated and pointless to moan about
Author	Artistic_Guest4386
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Comments	53
Date	January 28, 2022 8:29 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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