Do you know the difference between loving someone and being in love?

Loving someone is like loving a dog or a child. Being in love is like being completely enamored/enveloped by someone. You're in love. This implies you're lower on the hierarchy of love.

Masculine loves the feminine. Feminine loves children. Children love puppies.

I use masculine and feminine terms because men can be feminine and sometimes women can be masculine. But humans work at their best when they work with their original form (in our case, being male).

From a personal perspective, I kept trying to understand why women only wanted me when I wasn't interested or invested. I understood HOW women reacted to me because of this, but "philosophical" I didn't understand why. Only recently did it "click" that the best moments I've ever had with women were the ones when I didn't want anything from them and instead gave them a good time. Women are the ones who need to be adored from a place of not wanting anything from them. It doesn't mean you shouldn't pursue or get numbers, and it doesn't mean being a pushover either. This entire explanation is relating to energy. That's why women crave for attention exponentially more than men. Women are earth, and men are the seeds/energy that makes plants grow.

Energy is like a multi-level fountain. If you become the source of that energy by being the provider (not to be confused with a beta provider), then people will naturally gravitate towards you for a drink. One of my closest buddies is a badass even though he's in his late 60's. Somehow, even at his age, he managed to pull a 37 year old and sent me pictures for proof. Even though he's a dick sometimes, he's always selfless and taking care of the people around him.

I know this post isn't the pinnacle of RP evolution, but at 30 years old I wish someone had told me that my life isn't about me. It's about others. And this makes pulling women easier and brings more satisfaction in life.

Have a good rest of your week devils.