I literally don't see how a rational, grown adult human being could say to someone else that it's not their job to fix both men's and women's issues and that men should go and fix men's issues if that's what they want to do.

It's incredibly frustrating because these are the same people that literally DEMAND that I, as a man, fight for women's issues (and often discount men's under the guise that some "trickle-down equality" will occur).

Usually these people will say something like misogyny is so bad that they couldn't possibly spend any time or energy advocating for any male issue because that's taking resources away from women. They then go on to say how advocacy isn't a zero-sum game.

I'm just over it all. How transparently misandristic do you have to be to literally just say "you're on your own men, sorry, that ain't my job" especially when you RECOGNIZE the immense amount of harm that befalls men due to current social structures. It blows my mind. It's so obviously a cop out of being a responsible human being that cares for everyone.

Believe it or not, I care about women's issues and I fight for them alongside male ones. You know why? Because it's possible to care about more than one set of issues at once and advocate for both. Not only that but I literally view it my responsibility as a person to make things better for all of humanity, not just the people who look like me. God, I wonder what it's like living a life where you can say that crap and be celebrated for it. It must be nice to see yourself as a wholly moral and upright human being while being bigoted and hateful.