What do you guys think

shit-zen-giggles · 2022-03-28T18:16:12+00:00

I think it's sexist BS. Typical propaganda.

Aedrian87 · 2022-03-28T19:27:14+00:00

Just more blanket statements treating men and women as institutions, and not as individuals. Collective guilt is a hell of a drug.

Sexism has made it "acceptable" to say stuff like this, but reverse the roles and you get labeled as an incel, misogynistic POS.

Neither gender is an institution, and how normalized that way of thinking is sucks. This is why we NEED the men's rights movement.

Clockw0rk · 2022-03-28T20:28:09+00:00

Fucking bullshit.

Look at the wealth of poetry, music, books and film that men have made pouring their souls out in public about how much they loved their women.

Then look at the paltry amount that women have produced by comparison.

Men lay down their very lives to cherish their loved ones. And women initiate the majority of divorces.

This social media horseshit is just another shallow bitch waxing poetic about how she’s never been in a real relationship by blaming men.

McFeely_Smackup · 2022-03-28T21:41:44+00:00

I'm not going to get too worked up over objective nonsense spouted by anonymous people on the internet.

NoLettuce7713 · 2022-03-28T21:17:06+00:00

As loath as I am to entertain a brainfart from some random person in the Internet peanut gallery:

There's a reason relationship break-ups are an event that is strongly connected with male suicide. Many men over-invest themselves emotionally in one romantic relationship (sometimes with the full support or pressure of their partner), so they have nothing left if that relationship ends.

It is not a virtue to "give everything" to one single other human being.

ignatztempotypo · 2022-03-28T18:47:36+00:00

Men give their future, women give their present.

BeepBeepYeah7789 · 2022-03-28T23:54:00+00:00

Woman has relationship(s) with man/men who do as little as they can to get by in life.

Translation: All men do as little as they can to get by.

Whatever the opposite of the apex fallacy is, this is it.

pbraz34 · 2022-03-28T23:25:20+00:00

I struggle with the subreddit sometimes I really do. Some of it seems a bit over the top, some of it seems whiny... but then there's shit like this. What kills is that even though I am a gay man (and someone said on here recently that gay men are celebrated (trust me brother, whoever you are, we are not) I was raised not to show weakness, crying was frowned upon I can't tell you how any times I was told as a boy to be a man, etc.)) And then you grow up and you're vilified for behaving the way you were taught to. I just recently got told off by a woman because I held the door open for her. I had to go in first because she was pissed at my gesture. Sorry lady, I was taught that I had to do that! And I wasn't doing it to be condescending. I just automatically did it because that's how my works because it was ingrained in me. I stay here because I truly believe that most of us are good decent men, but in this day and age, men are seen as the enemy of women. We are not. We were taught much of these things by our own mothers! I do feel that there is a space for this subreddit. Stop villifying men and dear God stop leading little boys down a path that's going to lead to them being villified as well.

a-man-from-earth · 2022-03-29T05:30:39+00:00

In my experience, it's more often the opposite.

But it's hard to generalize billions of people.

ijustdontcare74 · 2022-03-29T14:34:16+00:00

Bullshit...utter bullshit. Every woman has her back up guys, her beta orbiters, her yes men...all ready to step up when she wants to cheat or monkey branch.

These ho's ain't loyal...as the song goes.

AbysmalDescent · 2022-03-29T15:38:27+00:00

This may be an indication that many women are only really capable of loving a man when they put those men on pedestals, and express that love in a way that is obsessive or submissive. These are behaviors that would normally be viewed very negatively in men, because they are expected to lead and be success objects, but commonly accepted in women.

This could also be an indication that a lot of women don't really put a lot of importance in their own hobbies, interests or goals, and instead prefer to coast off of the passions or successes of the men they date.

I definitely don't think women give everything, nor do I think men only give just a little of their lives. Both give just as much, but a man's participation is diminished and a woman's participation over-stated. This is a common product of systematic misandry and preferential view of women.

Then you also get into the aspect of love itself, because it does seem like men and women differently. Men seem to love in a way that is far less conditional, and arguably in a way that is far less constricting or controlling. So maybe the expectations are different. Women give everything because they expect everything, men give a part of their lives because they only expect a part of another person's life.

No_Fap_is_My_Life · 2022-03-28T20:18:14+00:00

I am a man, and I am confident enough and strong minded enough that I won't settle for slutty douchebag, I find it hard to love a woman, till date, I have liked just 1 (still do, she's very intelligent and I am scared af to have the courage to ask her lol)

But I ain't desperate, so I will give all I got (mentally, not financially) to love her... But she should be deserving

This woman in the SS is saying men give little of their lives but women give all ? Well I am ready to even sacrifice my life (by dying) for my wife and kids if the time demands it, but the conditions are she shouldn't be a Feminist whory slut and instead should actually care for me and make me feel happy :)

I am 17 still, so a long way to go for that

If in case I don't find a suitable woman, I am sad to say but I will move on with MGTOW :(

TheStumblingWolf · 2022-03-28T18:56:55+00:00

These things have everything to do with who you are as a person and nothing to do with what's between your legs. In other words: it's dumb.

TitanicPat · 2022-03-28T20:21:36+00:00

Serious question. Why does a feminist have to worry about being correct, or accurate etc?

Ren_Yi · 2022-03-29T16:47:01+00:00

It's an Oscar Wilde quote and its BS! It shows us more about his issues and his relationships than about men in general and our relationships.

Jbr74 · 2022-03-30T20:02:06+00:00

Literally the exact opposite.

Source: Every relationship I have even been in and/or witnessed.

Title	What do you guys think
Author	blueskrrr
Upvotes	24
Comments	32
Date	March 28, 2022 5:46 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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