"Did I hurt your feelings? Aw poor fragile male baby!"

auMatech · 2022-04-29T15:41:10+00:00

Feminists: "men need to learn to express their feelings*"

Men expressing their feelings: "fragile male"

** The star is that they want men to only express their emotions in acceptable™ ways.

Lionheart27778 · 2022-04-29T15:53:31+00:00

Don't say anything - toxic masculinity.

Say something - fragile masculinity.

Its almost like these "modern" terms have been orchestrated intentionally to be a catch 22.

So that no matter what we, as men, say...they always have a buzz word to fall back on and hide behind when they start losing an argument.

Though tbf, if someone starts saying those types of condescending things......it's becouse they are attempting to distract from the fact that they lost the argument/don't have an answer/don't have anything relevant to add.

Stankathon · 2022-04-29T15:41:36+00:00

It's not just feelings, either.

It's any time the flow of resources/care/protection/nurturing flows more into a man than out of him.

It's very much a one way street, in their minds, and they will fight to keep it that way.

ignatztempotypo · 2022-04-29T15:34:12+00:00

Personally, my fuse is burned up.

bludragon355 · 2022-04-29T22:39:53+00:00

Too busy punching to realize they're punching down.

TheChipster91 · 2022-04-29T18:16:30+00:00

Last time a feminist got in my face, spewing her garbage, I said, "If you really want me to treat you equally to a man, I'm gonna fight you like a man, if you get in my space again."

She just looked at me, thinking. I said "Try me". She thought I was bluffing. Even my wife told her "He's not kidding. Get out of his face."

My wife and I were just at a park, while they were having a demonstration. They were aggressively approaching people and yelling at them, not just us. Even the cops told them, if they start a fight, THEY will be going to jail and to stop harassing people.

They were like rabid dogs...only not as cute.

Wax_Man_ · 2022-04-29T20:13:39+00:00

I was in AITA sub yesterday and was called every name in the book from INCEL to racist to mysoginist to immature... You name it.

For saying people can get awkward and not know what to say around attractive people.

We've all experienced it. We get sweaty, stumble our words. It doesn't even have to be someone attractive. It could be someone in power, a celebrity, who know, but it's natural to clam up and not know what to say.

But that was racist. Yup. Racist.

I'm an INCEL. Only incels get nervous around people. Get some help, grow up, go to counselling, you're a pos.

I couldn't believe all the people levitating above us on their perfect high horses of controlling their emotions.

I just acknowledged how i understand it can happen. And wow the insults and rage.

It reminds me that men aren't supposed to feel emotion. Stfu and do what we say. We don't care about you we care about what you do for us.

otterdog891 · 2022-04-29T16:47:55+00:00

Feminists say they want a man who shows emotion, but they reject men who cry.

NextStopMyAss · 2022-04-29T23:39:31+00:00

As they try to reason KAM is fine, they try to argue that this is OK because they're fighting toxic masculinity. Let's look at how far the goalposts have moved:

Man being angry = toxic masculinity

Man being stoic = toxic masculinity

Man being sad = toxic masculinity

Man being vocal = toxic masculinity

So, what's not toxic masculinity? "Yes ma'am." That's the only answer to them.

The answer is to never let it affect you. Remember, no matter what you do, they will hate you. You will always be a proto-rapist and incel in their eyes. I learned this many years ago and I hope the younger generation of men do too.

SnooKiwis5976 · 2022-04-30T11:31:37+00:00

remember when heard abused johny she called him a baby

says a lot about these type of women

Green-Apple-KingKong · 2022-04-30T00:49:18+00:00

I cannot imagine having this conversation with anyone.

2022-04-30T06:36:54+00:00

Feminist are pretty much middle school kids who never grew up. This is why debating with them on ANY subject is impossible. The only thing you can take away from it is once they start name calling shouting and/or getting aggressive you know you’ve won the debate. Accountability, responsibility and logic aren’t in the feminist arsenal.

WeirdInternational46 · 2022-04-29T22:52:42+00:00

Gentlemen, all we are to them is a "scrote." That's what they reduce us to.

Eedoryeong · 2022-04-30T03:57:21+00:00

This is not intended as a threat, but it is a valid observation on our society's cavalier and gender selective attitudes on mental and emotional health:

If Marc Lepine, a paranoid schizophrenic, had been empowered to express his feelings, i.e. with a doctor, Montrealers could have avoided him having created the biggest social scar on the Canadian psyche by shooting those 15 women in Montreal, 1989. He is no island - in either gender e.g. Laurie Dann, a confirmed paychopath.

An uncomfortable truth no one in certain organizations seems to want to admit is that Marc Lepines and Laurie Danns exist in our society in various states of assembly. If we are going to disassemble such monsters, it starts by making treatable spaces for such unhealth to be expressed.

We would all do well to foster more awareness of how many undiagnosed individuals both male and female are out there feeling that they are either just fine and everyone else is the problem, or conversely that they have no safe options but to keep it all bottled up.

That is what I would like male tears celebrants to ponder over their coffee.

(I often wonder what percentage of these gender war problems would evaporate amid a major improvement in mental health treatment. But I digress.)

alexaxl · 2022-04-30T03:14:35+00:00

They don’t, anymore. Not in public.

Males used physical power, females use mental manipulation to throw you off.

So they’ve had millennia knowing how to get under your skin.

Don’t get mad, turn the tables.

Female egos are so delicate they keep finding flaws everytime they look in the mirror - pick any thing to roast.

darwinevo · 2022-04-30T03:34:27+00:00

Take care of that mascara, karen

Greg_W_Allan · 2022-04-30T05:41:25+00:00

This sort of crap is why I've always got involved with community type orgs for my politics rather than stuff around on social media/internet.

No matter how much they would like to do it the radical feminists I've encountered simply can't engage in this sort of putrid behaviour in a board/committee meeting.

weirdornxtlvl · 2022-04-30T07:34:10+00:00

God forbid a guy is mad over a false accusation and losing everything. BooHoo don't call me fat though or I'll break down, cry and start hyperventilating!!! YOU FRAGILE MAN!! Ok...

2022-04-30T01:22:53+00:00

Next time, just ask her her weight

SighingDM · 2022-04-30T04:16:16+00:00

I'm incredibly deep into the RP rabbit hole and am currently in a state where I can't trust ANY woman. I've told myself recently to never give your emotions to a woman; one bad day or heated argument and they'll attack you relentlessly. They don't need the extra ammunition.

I really don't want to think like this, so, I'll continue to be respectful regardless of who it is. There's a balance somewhere; I just need to find it.

pubgmisc · 2022-04-30T04:54:40+00:00

Its the female language of emotion, they think you prioritise it the same as them. Here is a link for you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9CGduTEpTgw&t=2573s&ab\_channel=FreshandFit

theatrewhore · 2022-04-30T12:37:39+00:00

You think they actually fear your anger? Why?

DirtyPartyMan · 2022-04-29T18:06:55+00:00

Anger? Perhaps frustration. But Anger blinds men to the path they walk. Only with a mind risen above the cloud of anger can we move quickly, decisively and with purpose.

Let the angry wallow in anger while we achieve our goals.

buried_alive0 · 2022-04-29T23:31:13+00:00

Feminists have preyed on the societal expectation that men always be in control of their emotions since time immemorial, and it has been categorically successful in shutting men up.

Yeah, they won an internet argument, but chances are this guys is now turned off from feminism. Enough of this shit happens and he'll want nothing to do with women too. This is how anti-feminists are created.

Couple of weeks ago I saw a news about a want getting mugged or attacked in a public place, with men around. None of them helped her. This made me hopefull. Women are not entitled to our help nor to us risking our well being for them.

Pepperclue_55 · 2022-04-29T23:34:03+00:00

Its a very sad fact that we tend to hate those who hurt us, and want them you suffer as we have suffered. For many feminists, men have been their source of torment. You also see it in men who have suffered at the hands of women. I think its super sad, and they obviously need to heal from their trauma. Take it for what you will, but people like that need help!

Hold_on_Gian · 2022-04-29T17:39:35+00:00

In my case it’s because I know it riles you up. If you showed even a modicum of emotional maturity in these posts/comments I would stop pushing that button. But, as you pointed out, you keep falling for it, so I keep pushing.

Also, is it possible that you’re being ridiculed not for your feelings but for throwing a temper tantrum over your stupid opinions being torn to shreds? Common mistake.

isamario_ · 2022-04-30T19:29:20+00:00

I am a feminists through and through. I am a woman. I am for women's rights. I am also for men's rights. Actually, I'm for rights for just about anyone. I actually believe men and women rights go hand in hand with each other.

Feminists that put down the feelings of men are not feminists. They're misandrists.

I fully recognize that men are constantly shamed for showing any sort of emotions. So guess what men do... they bottle up their emotions, right? Just swallow that shit deep down inside, never show pain, never cry, never acknowledge it.

But the frustration is still there. So what happens when someone can't express themselves? All that pressure explodes, and it usually takes the form of anger rather than sadness, because men "need to be strong".

So that just adds fuel to the "men are angry beasts that abuse women" garbage that misandrists love to spew.

Anyways. What I'm trying to say is that anyone fighting for female rights should be fighting for male rights, too, and vice versa. Men have emotions, and shouldn't be bullied for them just as much as a girl shouldnt.

"Did I hurt your feelings? Aw poor fragile male baby!"

Men are allowed to be mad about inequality too.

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Title	"Did I hurt your feelings? Aw poor fragile male baby!"
Author	DIES-_-IRAE
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Date	April 29, 2022 3:16 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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