What is being some thing a WOMAN can be learning the red pill and what is being some thing a MAN can be learning from the blue pill??

so usually you are thinking 'women are being blue pill and men are being red pill'..but what if you was flipping it and ask 'what could a woman be learning from red and what could a man be learning from blue??'

then what would the lessons be being im wondering??

i know its being a weird question..just wondering bc may be it would be interesting..