Who to follow on YouTube about dating and girls? THere is too much anti-female a lot.

Outrageous_House2317 · 2022-07-06T04:49:11+00:00

Don’t blindly follow YouTubers, 1 day they’re a feminist the next day they’re a red piller. A lot of them are hella fake, some of those dudes will claim to be MGTOW but will have a whole wife and kids at home. Most of em just want money and clout.

You gotta do some self reflection and ask yourself what you want out of a relationship. If you think that it’s going to magically make you some successful millionaire, then your crazy. Having a girlfriend can be a great experience but if you didn’t have drive and ambition before a relationship, you’re probably not gonna have any while you’re in it.

You should probably focus on interacting with people in your environment. I know it’s easier said then done but see if you can improve your social interactions. Try to learn more about your local environment and the social scenes around you.

Kaleidoscopefatigue · 2022-07-06T05:34:29+00:00

I think what's missing is real people as mentors... a lot of stuff online is monetized information.

Good luck banging.

debatelord_1 · 2022-07-06T10:33:55+00:00

I don't think you can learn to get laid by watching videos

SweelFor- · 2022-07-06T11:02:53+00:00

Ignore everything else. Psychology in Seattle

edit: I just realised you're asking for an RP channel? This is a subreddit against RP. If you want advice about dating and relationships then don't watch RP, period.

saito200 · 2022-07-06T16:04:53+00:00

Don't watch any bullshit in YouTube

Also, your wording worries me a bit. "Need women to be successful"? "Never banged any girl"? Your thinking seems somewhat misdirected.

xvszero · 2022-07-06T19:36:31+00:00

No one. But if you absolutely have to follow a "dating coach" try this guy, he's not a misogynist or womanizer like most of them are: https://www.doctornerdlove.com/

I realize that you need women if you want to be successful.

To be successful at what exactly?

peeingclitoris · 2022-07-06T14:42:47+00:00

I have never seen anyone following those dating advice vids of either gender actually have a long term successful relationship. Social skills need to be practiced in social settings with an open mind. You wouldn't trust a book about boxing to teach you how to become a great boxer because the results of your boxing would be completely different from how it was laid out in the book. More yet, there is no way to tell whether or not the author is actually skilled at romance just from reading. At least sports books are usually written by accomplished athletes and coaches. There is no medal awarded for "best at sex" or "nicest first date" no matter what people would have you believe.

Dah5ch00lbus · 2022-07-06T18:05:42+00:00

First of all look at attachment theory and understand that. Work on general people skills. Be transparent with your intentions. Be active in your life aka find a hobby that makes you sweat and you enjoy. Find a hobby you can do with girls or a girl that likes one of your existing hobbys. Imo stay off tinder or other apps its rejection fuel. Nothing wrong with going up to a girl and saying hi i think you are beautiful and would like to get to know you. If she rejects you be polite and leave. You say that 10 times your most likely going to get a date. Good luck banging.

Grantoid · 2022-07-06T19:44:19+00:00

Work on being a healthy, well rounded, happy person. That's it. That's the secret. Like a lot here have said, real dating advice is really no different from life advice. Think of others as people with their own talents, dreams, history, and worth. Understand that you can learn and grow from everyone, and everyone has things to offer and experiences that you don't, and likewise.

tpobs · 2022-07-06T22:13:08+00:00

Close off youtube, and talk to women in real life.

sharedordaz · 2022-07-07T00:59:39+00:00

Having a girlfriend is just having friends. After you have enough trust with a girl, you can have a relationship. Is not more complicated.

Venustarr_777 · 2022-07-06T14:52:04+00:00

If you see women (not girls, I suppose we're all adults here), as something to "bang", please stay away. No woman wants to deal with this mentality.

____JR____ · 2022-07-06T08:36:12+00:00

I definitely suggest you Reconnected - Social Mentors.

Tostitos153 · 2022-07-07T06:24:24+00:00

How old are you? What do you do for a living? What are your hobbies? Do you work? These are just for context.

Late-Application1716 · 2022-07-06T06:23:45+00:00

Follow female YouTubers on that

RedPillDetox · 2022-07-06T08:25:09+00:00

Tricky question because there's pratically no coach that is flawless in their advice, but i'd say:

Alex.Datepsych
Steve Mayeda
Pinnacle of Men has a couple of good videos (but only a couple)
David Tian
King Pill University KPU

In addition, here are some other decent sources: older Mark Manson content (particularly his www.postmasculine.com site, now discontinued, but can still be accessed through wayback machine. The best posts are the one in 2011 - 2014ish), Howie Reith, Doctor Nerdlove, The Mating Grounds podcast (this one is kinda soft red pill, not the best of sources, but still decent enough if you ignore the bad).

HOWEVER, DISCLAIMER: I stopped consuming dating advice long ago and most of these sources are just a few that i took note over the years as sources that seem good, so if they turn out shitty (as in, borderline TRP), my bad lol

leetcoder217 · 2022-07-06T15:35:17+00:00

Lmaoo no one mentioned ross Jeffries.

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unlivedbread · 2022-07-06T15:40:54+00:00

David tian

carritotaquito · 2022-07-06T15:59:08+00:00

I’d say Courtney Ryan is one of the most benign YouTubers in regards to relationship advice.

Basically, all I espouse is what she says. She’s basically a neuro-typical version of me in terms of advice.

Keyho1397 · 2022-07-06T16:39:23+00:00

Not necessarily a channel that pumps out the content you seem to want on the regular, but definitely check out this video.

https://youtu.be/be_Ms3nVG10

meghan518 · 2022-07-06T17:58:16+00:00

Maybe instead of youtube ask the people in your life with healthy relationships for their advice, and get multiple perspectives.

Ok_Fisherman7280 · 2022-07-07T00:03:37+00:00

If I had to recommend one, I’d say Apollonia Ponti. She not only helps you to understand women but with a heavier focus to help and encourage men with confidence, self-esteem, etc..

vcreativ · 2022-07-07T16:02:00+00:00

I am new to game.

That's a good time to stop, then. :)

I've been quite negative on dating advice online before, so I went out and had a look if I'm actually correct lol.

There are ton of non-useful people out there for sure, but they're pretty easy to spot.

I find Courtney Ryan to be pleasantly balanced. So, I'm not entirely correct, there are some people out there giving actually good advice.

But if you're ready for what she has to say when you're unironically talking about "banging girls", this I do not know.

zapadz · 2022-07-09T00:02:06+00:00

David Tian

Shawn T. Smith

Robert Glover

SiTdOwNmEtAlMaN · 2022-07-10T07:06:34+00:00

Anti female stuff is a no. But to focus on yourself and your goals? That's a yes my dude. It actually works both ways. You can make focusing on you a way to both attract females or stay away from them. Many like a guy who is doing his own thing because it means he's not losing his shit all the time chasing them.

I agree though with some others here about YouTubers. Be selective. Many just want money and get wishy washy VERY easily while remaining super popular. Just look at Joe Rogan or Elon Musk! You know how many contradictions those guys do/say on a weekly basis??? Its goddam insane. Its likely a good idea to listen to multiple YouTubers at least somewhat different from each other. Get a good mix. Don't go fan crazy for anyone in particular. Listen to bits of one and pieces of another. Demo whatever.

Title	Who to follow on YouTube about dating and girls? THere is too much anti-female a lot.
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Date	July 6, 2022 4:16 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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